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Friday, April 30, 2010
Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
I`ve been with my girlfriend over 2 years now, where both only 17 and only ever been with each other, we fell in love and everything was great, then after a couple of petty arguments she told me she no longer ';fancied me'; and that she liked another lad. She still claimed to love me so i`ve been with her ever since but its disturbing me of how she just came out and said it in the way she did, i need to know whether to just end it now or continue going out with her, hoping that she actually finds me attractive again...since she told me she didnt fancy me anymore, she says she does now and its proper confusing :s any advice/ solutions to all of this.Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
shes playin you, just leave herAny relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
shes playin you, just leave herAny relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
I need female advice. Help?
Ok, theres this girl, I'll call her Jane. (Were in High School)
Well, Jane and I have been up and down the last couple of months. Its started with her saying she liked me, I told her I liked her too, but were weren't/aren't going out. Then a few weeks later I invited her to a pool ';get-together';. She cancled on me, the the next day she started ignoring me. (Its summer so we don't see each other)
She woundn't reply to text's or answer phone calls. I wasn't bugging her at all. Just every now and then I would text/call her, just to see what was up.
So, about 2 months later, she texted me one day and said ';Hey';. The we carried on a conversation like nothing had happend.
Jane said ';Man, I havn't talked to you in a long time';.
I said ';Yeah, I noticed. Why was that';?
Jane said ';I didn't want it to be wired, since I cancled on the pool thing';.
I said ';I don't think it would've been';.
Then we got on a different conversation, and I later asked her if she was sure the reason she quit talking to me was because of the pool thing. And she said yes.
Later, we were talking about when we said we liked each other. And she said she didn't know for sure if she still liked me. She said it was just somthing that time would have to tell. I still like her, and she know that. (I told her I did)
School starts next week, and I'm at a loss. I don't know if I should act like friends or more then friends. That, and I'm kinda confused. So any advice, comments, help, would be greatly appreciated.I need female advice. Help?
Well, nothings been finalized. Just be a good friend. Don't push things. Time will tell as she clearly states.. so why not let time work and see what happens next? Good luck!I need female advice. Help?
Just act like a flirty friend. If she ends up not liking you, then you can just blow it off like, ';I was just messing around. Hahaha.';
If she says that she likes you back, then flirt, but play a little hard to get. If you get too clingy, she'll push you around and use you for whatever she wants.
don't act like more than friends unless you're sure that she wants that.
it might creep her out.
act like nothings wrong, but only friends.
to be 100% honest with you, it doesn't seem like she likes you like that anymore.
I'm only saying that because i'm a girl and i act that way when i move on.
so like she said, time will tell. see what happens. and good luck!
Definitely just act normal because if you act like ';more than friends'; she might think you are clingy. Also it wasn't the pool thing. She was probably just didn't know what to say or needed to think things through first. Just let her come to you because she already knows how you feel.
Forget her! Find a girl who isn't going to be a flake and treat you like that. There are plenty of girls, who will be sweet and such. Your to good for her, promise.
Don't wait for her.
Sincerely,
Heather :D
since she knows you like her act like it. just dont go over board. and when you think she is definately liking you then ask her out. if it doesnt work out with Jane there are plenty of pretty... nice girls out there.
be Friends if she wants more, she will make it happen. U will notice.
The best thing I could say is talk as friends but tell her if she wants to be more than friends it's up to her and just tell her that you still like her (that's if you do).
Hope things work out.
Good luck x
Just act relaxed around her, deffinantly make the effort to go talk to her, act friendly and chilled out and even give her a casual hug when u see her..but dont take it much further than that till u get some vibes..=)
tlk to her as friends. dnt tlk as more than friend. she said she confused and if u tlk more than friends to her then u might scare her away and she not b interested at all.
You need to think if you guys we're together if she would make a good beau. If you think she will be more than friends. If you don't just act like nothing happened and still be friends
Sounds like a school game she playing you might want to explore your options.
act like just friends. wait to see her reaction... you don't wanna freak her out.
Well I think it is great that you were honest with her. That is good and now she knows. But I think you should play a little hard to get at this point. This way she will come to her senses and realize that she will miss you. Sure you can say hi adn give a smile in the hallway but try no tot txt or call her. Wait for her to come to you. And if she calls or texts then wait a couple times. I think that is what she was doing. It totally wasnt the pool thing. She was waiting for YOU to be nervous about HER. Hope I helped! And Good Luck!
now wen u get back to school act like friends (normal)
and talk to her now and then.
then after awhile wen things r good between u and her ask her to
hang out again.
if she cancels then that bascially means that she just wants to be friends.
Well, from what I have read, you stated that she doesn't know weather or not she likes you. The best thing to do is be her friend move up with her from there, get to know her weakness and greatness. You will also have a better chance of getting closer to her through friends, then hitting straight to the love stuff. Show her that you will be there for her know matter what even if she decides that she doesn't like you, but wants to come to you to ask you help about another guy. Be there; that will get you the farthest. :) I hoped I helped. If you ever need anything else, feel free to email me at miss_advice22@yahoo.com.
She is most likely feeling someone else and is confused as to whether or not she still likes you. You should give her time to decide after asking her if there is another guy that has caught her eye. If there is, then all you can really do is try your best to be there for her to prove to her that she should pick you and after she does, then continue being there for her so that you can prove that you WANT to be there for her.
Well, Jane and I have been up and down the last couple of months. Its started with her saying she liked me, I told her I liked her too, but were weren't/aren't going out. Then a few weeks later I invited her to a pool ';get-together';. She cancled on me, the the next day she started ignoring me. (Its summer so we don't see each other)
She woundn't reply to text's or answer phone calls. I wasn't bugging her at all. Just every now and then I would text/call her, just to see what was up.
So, about 2 months later, she texted me one day and said ';Hey';. The we carried on a conversation like nothing had happend.
Jane said ';Man, I havn't talked to you in a long time';.
I said ';Yeah, I noticed. Why was that';?
Jane said ';I didn't want it to be wired, since I cancled on the pool thing';.
I said ';I don't think it would've been';.
Then we got on a different conversation, and I later asked her if she was sure the reason she quit talking to me was because of the pool thing. And she said yes.
Later, we were talking about when we said we liked each other. And she said she didn't know for sure if she still liked me. She said it was just somthing that time would have to tell. I still like her, and she know that. (I told her I did)
School starts next week, and I'm at a loss. I don't know if I should act like friends or more then friends. That, and I'm kinda confused. So any advice, comments, help, would be greatly appreciated.I need female advice. Help?
Well, nothings been finalized. Just be a good friend. Don't push things. Time will tell as she clearly states.. so why not let time work and see what happens next? Good luck!I need female advice. Help?
Just act like a flirty friend. If she ends up not liking you, then you can just blow it off like, ';I was just messing around. Hahaha.';
If she says that she likes you back, then flirt, but play a little hard to get. If you get too clingy, she'll push you around and use you for whatever she wants.
don't act like more than friends unless you're sure that she wants that.
it might creep her out.
act like nothings wrong, but only friends.
to be 100% honest with you, it doesn't seem like she likes you like that anymore.
I'm only saying that because i'm a girl and i act that way when i move on.
so like she said, time will tell. see what happens. and good luck!
Definitely just act normal because if you act like ';more than friends'; she might think you are clingy. Also it wasn't the pool thing. She was probably just didn't know what to say or needed to think things through first. Just let her come to you because she already knows how you feel.
Forget her! Find a girl who isn't going to be a flake and treat you like that. There are plenty of girls, who will be sweet and such. Your to good for her, promise.
Don't wait for her.
Sincerely,
Heather :D
since she knows you like her act like it. just dont go over board. and when you think she is definately liking you then ask her out. if it doesnt work out with Jane there are plenty of pretty... nice girls out there.
be Friends if she wants more, she will make it happen. U will notice.
The best thing I could say is talk as friends but tell her if she wants to be more than friends it's up to her and just tell her that you still like her (that's if you do).
Hope things work out.
Good luck x
Just act relaxed around her, deffinantly make the effort to go talk to her, act friendly and chilled out and even give her a casual hug when u see her..but dont take it much further than that till u get some vibes..=)
tlk to her as friends. dnt tlk as more than friend. she said she confused and if u tlk more than friends to her then u might scare her away and she not b interested at all.
You need to think if you guys we're together if she would make a good beau. If you think she will be more than friends. If you don't just act like nothing happened and still be friends
Sounds like a school game she playing you might want to explore your options.
act like just friends. wait to see her reaction... you don't wanna freak her out.
Well I think it is great that you were honest with her. That is good and now she knows. But I think you should play a little hard to get at this point. This way she will come to her senses and realize that she will miss you. Sure you can say hi adn give a smile in the hallway but try no tot txt or call her. Wait for her to come to you. And if she calls or texts then wait a couple times. I think that is what she was doing. It totally wasnt the pool thing. She was waiting for YOU to be nervous about HER. Hope I helped! And Good Luck!
now wen u get back to school act like friends (normal)
and talk to her now and then.
then after awhile wen things r good between u and her ask her to
hang out again.
if she cancels then that bascially means that she just wants to be friends.
Well, from what I have read, you stated that she doesn't know weather or not she likes you. The best thing to do is be her friend move up with her from there, get to know her weakness and greatness. You will also have a better chance of getting closer to her through friends, then hitting straight to the love stuff. Show her that you will be there for her know matter what even if she decides that she doesn't like you, but wants to come to you to ask you help about another guy. Be there; that will get you the farthest. :) I hoped I helped. If you ever need anything else, feel free to email me at miss_advice22@yahoo.com.
She is most likely feeling someone else and is confused as to whether or not she still likes you. You should give her time to decide after asking her if there is another guy that has caught her eye. If there is, then all you can really do is try your best to be there for her to prove to her that she should pick you and after she does, then continue being there for her so that you can prove that you WANT to be there for her.
I need some advice.. help!?
Ok so I am interested in this guy in one of my classes. I've spoken to him a few times, but nothing really beisdes school work. I can't really tell if he is interested or not (college class so we have to pay attentino to professor or speak about assignment), what should i do?
I'm a bit on the shy side, and I've thought about asking him about homework when we walk out to our cars cause we usually walk near each other, but I have friends in that class I sit next too so I don't know if that would be weird...
I need some advice.. help!?
';Just do it.'; It wouldn't be weird.I need some advice.. help!?
just ask, its not a big deal for men if a girl asks.make up
I'm a bit on the shy side, and I've thought about asking him about homework when we walk out to our cars cause we usually walk near each other, but I have friends in that class I sit next too so I don't know if that would be weird...
I need some advice.. help!?
';Just do it.'; It wouldn't be weird.I need some advice.. help!?
just ask, its not a big deal for men if a girl asks.
Really need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
Hi girls..
Okay, So my MIL has been diagnosed with swine flu, and Ive been around her all week. I'm starting to feel how she did a few days ago, really shitty and a bit chesty. Ive called my doctor who is going to give me a call back..Do you think i will get proscribed with Rolenza, seeing as ive been around the virus and starting to feel ill.
Have you taken or been prescribed relenza whilst pregnant?
I'm pretty scared now xReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
I agree with Simply Me. I also heard that is what pregnant women should take. Call your doctor to double check and see what he has to say about u having it. Good luck! My mom is a teacher and has a student with swine flu so I am totally avoiding her! lolReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
Hun, i recently read this article that says that if a pregnant woman suspects that she may be caring the swine flu virus, the best thing she can do is start taking Termaflu..(i know i'm saying the name wrong but it's very similar...look it up). And this medication is safe for pregnant women to take, and it is sold over the counter. If i were you, i'd buy it immediately and start taking it...
Consult a doctor immediately
Okay, So my MIL has been diagnosed with swine flu, and Ive been around her all week. I'm starting to feel how she did a few days ago, really shitty and a bit chesty. Ive called my doctor who is going to give me a call back..Do you think i will get proscribed with Rolenza, seeing as ive been around the virus and starting to feel ill.
Have you taken or been prescribed relenza whilst pregnant?
I'm pretty scared now xReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
I agree with Simply Me. I also heard that is what pregnant women should take. Call your doctor to double check and see what he has to say about u having it. Good luck! My mom is a teacher and has a student with swine flu so I am totally avoiding her! lolReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
Hun, i recently read this article that says that if a pregnant woman suspects that she may be caring the swine flu virus, the best thing she can do is start taking Termaflu..(i know i'm saying the name wrong but it's very similar...look it up). And this medication is safe for pregnant women to take, and it is sold over the counter. If i were you, i'd buy it immediately and start taking it...
Consult a doctor immediately
I love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
She always calls and she started to ask for money and he felt bad and almost gave in to her help I鈥檓 new at this. I hate her with a passion for all the wrong she did to him and I鈥檓 not good with expressing myself when it comes to this subject with himI love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
Don't forget who you are.....and who she is....she's his ex....what ever happened in THEIR past is long gone, so don't dwell on something that used to be, it's over.....he has to toughen up and tell her NO and to tell her to stop bumming money and get her own, she should be in the past now, just see it like this...he's yours not hers, but do tell him that this money lending has to stop...he is not supposed to be supporting her any more, let her do it herself...be firm with him, you have to speak up, just tell him how you feel and to stop getting involved with her, she's an ex for a reason....your the lucky one, you still got himI love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
see.....it all works out good in the end....now relax and enjoy your valentines day with YOUR husband.....be happy x
you have to nip this in the bud, if he has almost folded over this ,it means he has buttons she can still press tell him to cut her off !or its over trust me ,if he doesnt you have a lot of hassle ahead.... good luck
When I married my Ex he had been married 2 times before. His second Ex left him 11 months into the marriage without an explanation or reason (to him anyway) and moved from WV to FL. In our 4th year together I found phone bills and pictures of her and a little boy. I asked him if he had talked to her and he said ';No'; not in years. I was holding in my hand the phone bill, of hers mind you with our home number as well as his work number on it, and the pictures. I was dismayed, to say the least, hurt and angry that he lied to me when I thought our relationship was better than that. I just laid everything out on the table, packed a bag and the girls and I left, for 2 weeks the only person that knew where we were was my Grandparents and I'd told them just so no one would worry. When we talked (him %26amp; I) I found out that she had adopted the child right after she moved to FL and she wanted to move back to WV but needed money and he offered to pay all her bills for her but he would not give her any cash. He said through the phone calls and mail was the only contact he had with her and if it weren't for the child he wouldn't even have done that much. I took into consideration the type of person he was and could almost imagine what was said, but it still didn't ease my mind on the fact he lied to me about it when I had asked him outright. He thought I received a call from her that day I asked and claimed that was why he never admitted to any of the others. I try to tell everyone that just because you get away with something today doesn't mean you are off scott-free for life, it will come back to haunt you when you least expect it to. She did call a few years later, wanting more money and this time he told me when she called and why and he told her he was finished helping her.
OJ took care of his exwife, maybe you could call him and ask for a copy of the book they didnt print.
Do they have children? He could pay child support. If they do not have children he has no business talking to her in the first place and you should in fact change your phone number to prevent the calls. If she comes over get a restraining order. It's your husband who is responsible for this intrusion and he should be the one to resolve the issue and tell her to but out she had her chance and blew it.
If they do not have minor children he shouldnt be talkin to her at all! If you want to be heard YOU Have to express yourself.
Just remind him that it's you that will always be there for him and that she is playing him for a sucker. She wasn't happy before and he surely can't make her happy now.
only if they have children does he need to give any money at all to her... your husband needs to make it perfectly clear to her that she is no longer welcome in his life and to stop calling him, she is not his responsibility any more, she is prolly jealous and knows it would cause problems for you if she carries on with this behaviour...
No matter what, take the high-road when talking about her or interacting with her. If you don't, it only makes you look like you can't handle her. Whether or not you can is beside the point.
Then, you need to grab your hubby and firmly tell him to deal with this woman. Tell him that you love and support him in anything he does, but that you don't want her intruding on your life together. Make him realize that HE is the only one who can resolve this issue with her. If he is ordered to pay her alimony, then he has to. If he was feeling sorry for her and she needs the money, then do it right and make a promissory note that is dated and notarized.
The ex probably has some issues that are making it hard for her to let go. Try to understand, but don't enable. When you pick a fight with her directly, or with your hubby indirectly, that will not solve anything. Maybe you get to vent a little, but you need a resolution. Your hubby has to close that door with her before he can open one with you.
Good luck!
Tell him that if he keeps feeling for her, that he needs to go back to her.
Don't forget who you are.....and who she is....she's his ex....what ever happened in THEIR past is long gone, so don't dwell on something that used to be, it's over.....he has to toughen up and tell her NO and to tell her to stop bumming money and get her own, she should be in the past now, just see it like this...he's yours not hers, but do tell him that this money lending has to stop...he is not supposed to be supporting her any more, let her do it herself...be firm with him, you have to speak up, just tell him how you feel and to stop getting involved with her, she's an ex for a reason....your the lucky one, you still got himI love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
see.....it all works out good in the end....now relax and enjoy your valentines day with YOUR husband.....be happy x
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you have to nip this in the bud, if he has almost folded over this ,it means he has buttons she can still press tell him to cut her off !or its over trust me ,if he doesnt you have a lot of hassle ahead.... good luck
When I married my Ex he had been married 2 times before. His second Ex left him 11 months into the marriage without an explanation or reason (to him anyway) and moved from WV to FL. In our 4th year together I found phone bills and pictures of her and a little boy. I asked him if he had talked to her and he said ';No'; not in years. I was holding in my hand the phone bill, of hers mind you with our home number as well as his work number on it, and the pictures. I was dismayed, to say the least, hurt and angry that he lied to me when I thought our relationship was better than that. I just laid everything out on the table, packed a bag and the girls and I left, for 2 weeks the only person that knew where we were was my Grandparents and I'd told them just so no one would worry. When we talked (him %26amp; I) I found out that she had adopted the child right after she moved to FL and she wanted to move back to WV but needed money and he offered to pay all her bills for her but he would not give her any cash. He said through the phone calls and mail was the only contact he had with her and if it weren't for the child he wouldn't even have done that much. I took into consideration the type of person he was and could almost imagine what was said, but it still didn't ease my mind on the fact he lied to me about it when I had asked him outright. He thought I received a call from her that day I asked and claimed that was why he never admitted to any of the others. I try to tell everyone that just because you get away with something today doesn't mean you are off scott-free for life, it will come back to haunt you when you least expect it to. She did call a few years later, wanting more money and this time he told me when she called and why and he told her he was finished helping her.
OJ took care of his exwife, maybe you could call him and ask for a copy of the book they didnt print.
Do they have children? He could pay child support. If they do not have children he has no business talking to her in the first place and you should in fact change your phone number to prevent the calls. If she comes over get a restraining order. It's your husband who is responsible for this intrusion and he should be the one to resolve the issue and tell her to but out she had her chance and blew it.
If they do not have minor children he shouldnt be talkin to her at all! If you want to be heard YOU Have to express yourself.
Just remind him that it's you that will always be there for him and that she is playing him for a sucker. She wasn't happy before and he surely can't make her happy now.
only if they have children does he need to give any money at all to her... your husband needs to make it perfectly clear to her that she is no longer welcome in his life and to stop calling him, she is not his responsibility any more, she is prolly jealous and knows it would cause problems for you if she carries on with this behaviour...
No matter what, take the high-road when talking about her or interacting with her. If you don't, it only makes you look like you can't handle her. Whether or not you can is beside the point.
Then, you need to grab your hubby and firmly tell him to deal with this woman. Tell him that you love and support him in anything he does, but that you don't want her intruding on your life together. Make him realize that HE is the only one who can resolve this issue with her. If he is ordered to pay her alimony, then he has to. If he was feeling sorry for her and she needs the money, then do it right and make a promissory note that is dated and notarized.
The ex probably has some issues that are making it hard for her to let go. Try to understand, but don't enable. When you pick a fight with her directly, or with your hubby indirectly, that will not solve anything. Maybe you get to vent a little, but you need a resolution. Your hubby has to close that door with her before he can open one with you.
Good luck!
Tell him that if he keeps feeling for her, that he needs to go back to her.
Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
I`ve been with my girlfriend over 2 years now, where both only 17 and only ever been with each other, we fell in love and everything was great, then after a couple of petty arguments she told me she no longer ';fancied me'; and that she liked another lad. She still claimed to love me so i`ve been with her ever since but its disturbing me of how she just came out and said it in the way she did, i need to know whether to just end it now or continue going out with her, hoping that she actually finds me attractive again...since she told me she didnt fancy me anymore, she says she does now and its proper confusing :s any advice/ solutions to all of this.Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
shes playin you, just leave her
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
shes playin you, just leave her
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
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