Right now, I'm in an advanced high school (it's like a private school but it's public, hard to explain) where they put you in either AP or honors classes regardless of your grades and I'm drowning in all the work. I stay up until midnight every day trying to get all the homework done and i rarely get full credit on it. My test scores are average (B's and C's) as are my grades and I'm fine with that but I feel like I'm being stretched beyond my limits. I'm stressed and every day I want to break down and start crying. I try to tell myself that staying at the school will be worth it in the end but I don't think this education is worth losing my mind over. I don't know what to do. I need advice. Please help.Problems with high school? need advice/help.?
I know a niece that had the same problem, and she talked to her counselor/ adviser and went back to regular school. as they said, If you are working too hard and not enjoying the experience by all means go back. she is now in honors and advanced classes at the regular high school and very happy not feeling overwhelmed. You should talk to your counselor and let them know you are not having a good experience at that school. There is nothing to gain by hating your life and being over stressed . There is nothing wrong with asking for some help , or whatever it is you need to do. It's not good to be miserable, and silent.Problems with high school? need advice/help.?
talk to a counselor first them get your parents to talk to counselor with you, that way you can discuss every aspect of your grades and the reason you want to go to a public school where you will have time for yourself and school, where you won't have to take all AP and honors classes, only the ones that you want. If you change you will have more time to hangout with friends, high school is your only time off you are supposed to enjoy it and have fun.
Have a serious talk with your parents. Explain to them how stressed you feel. Talk to your advisor at school and explain it. See if they have any solutions other than changing schools.
It sounds like after this, college will be a breeze.
My dd went to a ';giftie'; high school (juniors and seniors only), and got a really good scholarship to a top private college, which she said was a breeze after being challenged so much in high school.
Stick with it if you can.
If you did change schools, would you be able to get AP or honors courses in any subjects at all, while taking regular courses in other subjects?
drop the classes you dont need to take, or you absolutely dont like because it doesnt matter to your graduation, it doesnt look extremely good to colleges, etc
seriously go with my advice, talk to someone u feel close to that can actually help, tell them that u r stressed with skool work, and its hard. then maybe tell them that you want to move skools, and see wut they say, trust me itll help, dont keep stressed it's not good, u need some advice and help... do nt sit there thinking about it, just do it...
hope that helps.... try to persuade ur parents if so so u can move skools, elementary skool,,,, is better..... hope that hlpss
Well it looks like you got yourself a problem.. Listen,, It probably will pay off later, but you have to worry about now too. You cannot be stressed over something everyday when you can get a great career in reglar high school. if you got into A.P you will do great in regular school. You can look into the future, But is it worth so much pain now?
You have a choice to make: do you stick this out and stay at this advanced school, or do you go back to your regular school? Now is the time to talk with Mom and Dad and your counselor and consider your options. If you are feeling like you cannot continue where you are, consider changing back to your regular school at the semester change. Between now and the end of the semester, work hard to maintain your grades so that you will have a good, clean record when you transfer.
If you can get into the same or similar classes at your other school, would you consider taking them? Which ones would you consider dropping for ';regular'; or Honors classes?
You do have to have some free time and time for doing things you enjoy beyond just studying. Is that something that you can see for yourself where you are now? Is it possible with the load of courses you are taking? Do you have time for things like elective courses and extra-curricular activities? Colleges look for well-rounded students, not just the ones who spent their high school years with their noses buried in books. Further. even employers are going to look at your outside interests. If you are so bookish that you can't interact with people, you are going to have difficulty finding a job where you may have to deal with people every day. There's nothing wrong with being super-bright and intelligent as long as you have a life beyond your books.
Good luck to you. You have some decisions to make.
If you're not finishing the homework, then it would be better to move to different classes if they're available, or change back to a normal school. It's not doing you any good to tough it out if you're not keeping up.
Our son was in the advanced math class in high school, but having trouble keeping up. He moved down to the normal track, and became the top of the class. It was a heart-rending decision, but it turned out to be one of the best things he ever did.
THIS IS ONE REASON WHY HIGH SCHOOL (AND MIDDLE SCHOOL) SUCK. ELEMENTARY SCHOOL IS WAY BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-D
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Fashion or P.R Internship advice... HELP!?
Hey Everyone, I hope someone can help..
I'm currently studying at Manchester College in England,doing a Higher National Diploma in Fashion and Clothing, Im 18 years old and would really like to do an internship either in Paris or USA in Summer 2010, I have no idea how to get involved and what experience I may or may not need.
I have looked at loads of websites but most of them want you to pay and I cant afford to do that right now plus I figured they are probably just scams..
Help if u can :)Thankyou! Hanna xFashion or P.R Internship advice... HELP!?
jobs abroad are surely an exciting thought, but you have to be really vigilant of the law-related implications, if you don't do your research right, there can be undesirable results! The website in the box below has loads of tips and tricks on jobs abroad, my pal unearthed it, now he is a barman in Tasmania!
I'm currently studying at Manchester College in England,doing a Higher National Diploma in Fashion and Clothing, Im 18 years old and would really like to do an internship either in Paris or USA in Summer 2010, I have no idea how to get involved and what experience I may or may not need.
I have looked at loads of websites but most of them want you to pay and I cant afford to do that right now plus I figured they are probably just scams..
Help if u can :)Thankyou! Hanna xFashion or P.R Internship advice... HELP!?
jobs abroad are surely an exciting thought, but you have to be really vigilant of the law-related implications, if you don't do your research right, there can be undesirable results! The website in the box below has loads of tips and tricks on jobs abroad, my pal unearthed it, now he is a barman in Tasmania!
I need Song(cheer&Dance) Advice. Help Please!?
Okay so i don't know if you people know what song is but its just like a dance team that performs with cheer. they're just like cheerleader but they don't do stunts or gymnastics and stuff. So tryouts are about in a month and i really need help; any advice because i REALLY wanna make the squad and i have no idea how its going to be. They're having a workshop in a couple of weeks but its kinda expensive and my mom wont pay for it so im kinda behind. So PLEASE any cheer and dance advice that you have for tryouts would be nice Thanks(:
Btw im gonna be a sophomore so its a bit harder.I need Song(cheer%26amp;Dance) Advice. Help Please!?
my cousin is captain of dance team and she said to get in you have to do:
splits
double pirouttes
toe touches
and a buncha other stiff
take a couple of dance classes :)
Btw im gonna be a sophomore so its a bit harder.I need Song(cheer%26amp;Dance) Advice. Help Please!?
my cousin is captain of dance team and she said to get in you have to do:
splits
double pirouttes
toe touches
and a buncha other stiff
take a couple of dance classes :)
Mac eyeliners on ebay? need advice help pleasee!!?
i bought 2 eyeliners on ebay (stupid i know). no where in listing says they are fake, so i get them in 2 days and they totally suck. they dont even show up in waterline at all. i email seller and ask if they are real and tell her they suck, she replies ';she never tried them. i email again with ';are the authentic?'; she replies with ';im sorry i think they are not';.. so i want to know should i give positive, neutral, or negative feedback.. what would you give?Mac eyeliners on ebay? need advice help pleasee!!?
Neutral. She didn't lie about the product when you emailed her (which is positive) but she didn't indicate in the listing that the product was a fake (which is negative). Therefore she deserves neutral feedback.Mac eyeliners on ebay? need advice help pleasee!!?
Rose.....
negative
Negative, because she sold something without knowing what it was.
Negative, who sells fake products to ppl? Thats scamming.
Ask about shipping them back for a refund. If she doesn't agree, then she's probably not really ';sorry'; and deserves a negative.
Neutral. She didn't lie about the product when you emailed her (which is positive) but she didn't indicate in the listing that the product was a fake (which is negative). Therefore she deserves neutral feedback.Mac eyeliners on ebay? need advice help pleasee!!?
Rose.....
negative
Negative, because she sold something without knowing what it was.
Negative, who sells fake products to ppl? Thats scamming.
Ask about shipping them back for a refund. If she doesn't agree, then she's probably not really ';sorry'; and deserves a negative.
BOY TROUBLE! Girl and Boy Advice. help?!?
okay so i meet this guy about 2 months ago at a party. we hit it off at first and we were great. Hes 19 and im 16. we hungout at his friends house about 3 or more times. The more i get to know him the more protected he is. He was searching in my phone contacts about all these guys that were just my friends. and i had numbers written on my hand from school and he kept questioning me about it and called it! He can be super sweet at times but then just be selfish, and only want one thing. but then i started to get to know his Best Friend and hes sooo much cuter and sweeter.. and me and his BF get along alot better and can talk about stuff for hours. And im starting to like him. and i wouldn't mind going out with him... sooo i dont know what to do. and im scared if i tell his BF that i like him and not '; the guy im trying to hook up with'; then s*** will hit the fan and the other guy wont like me and im trying to dropp this guy and talk to his BF and i dnt know hows that going to go down and if his Best friend is gonna like me...
PLEASE RESPOND IF READ!
-Thanks
:)BOY TROUBLE! Girl and Boy Advice. help?!?
I don't suggest you hooking up with either one of them...
PLEASE RESPOND IF READ!
-Thanks
:)BOY TROUBLE! Girl and Boy Advice. help?!?
I don't suggest you hooking up with either one of them...
What should i do? More advice...help!?
Ok , so i already posted this question but i need a little more advice Thanks ; )
I went out with this guy for like 2.5 years maybe a little more like last month me and him broke up. Like it was over something stupid like an argument but whatever. So since we broke up he decided to go and get another girlfriend.[whore]. But anyway his locker and my locker are pretty close to each other and every time me and him are by our lockers and he is like with his GF he like shoves her in my face like starts kissing her or whatever. But yet he tells me like ';oh i want to get back together with you and stuff'; but he acts like a total A**hole when hes with his girlfriend. Like before we started dating we were like really good friends. So its like he knows what pisses me off and stuff. Like I still care about him a lot. But I don't know what to do. This is like seriously killing me ; im like crying all the time and i don't want to do anything. Like im usually always like hanging out with people and having a good time. But now im like a mess; i don't do anything and i don't know what to do with myself. =/
Oh yeah, and I'm in high school and I'm 16.
Ok I KNOW I SAY ';LIKE'; A LOT IN THE QUESTION, GET OVER IT!!!!What should i do? More advice...help!?
talk to him about it
if he still wants to get back together y is he still with her??
and u guys have been dating for a long time and hes already dating someone else??
talk to him about it What should i do? More advice...help!?
I'd get over him. If he's kissing his new girl in front of you, he really doesn't care about you anymore..makeup ideas
I went out with this guy for like 2.5 years maybe a little more like last month me and him broke up. Like it was over something stupid like an argument but whatever. So since we broke up he decided to go and get another girlfriend.[whore]. But anyway his locker and my locker are pretty close to each other and every time me and him are by our lockers and he is like with his GF he like shoves her in my face like starts kissing her or whatever. But yet he tells me like ';oh i want to get back together with you and stuff'; but he acts like a total A**hole when hes with his girlfriend. Like before we started dating we were like really good friends. So its like he knows what pisses me off and stuff. Like I still care about him a lot. But I don't know what to do. This is like seriously killing me ; im like crying all the time and i don't want to do anything. Like im usually always like hanging out with people and having a good time. But now im like a mess; i don't do anything and i don't know what to do with myself. =/
Oh yeah, and I'm in high school and I'm 16.
Ok I KNOW I SAY ';LIKE'; A LOT IN THE QUESTION, GET OVER IT!!!!What should i do? More advice...help!?
talk to him about it
if he still wants to get back together y is he still with her??
and u guys have been dating for a long time and hes already dating someone else??
talk to him about it What should i do? More advice...help!?
I'd get over him. If he's kissing his new girl in front of you, he really doesn't care about you anymore..
I need some advice...help?
I have been single for awhile and I liked it but, then this boy came along and know he wants to go out with me. I like another guy but, that won't happen. I like him but, not enough to go out with me and I told him when he asked me out that we could be friends an he said okay. The problem is that he has been crushing on girls and when they got out with him. They break up with him not to long in the relationship and it leaves me clueless about if he is a bad boyfriend. He is very shy and kind. He hardly starts a convo ever. I usually have to and there is nothing to talk about when all he does is hunt. He is so country.I need some advice...help?
Well he probaly ahs nothing to really talk aboutI need some advice...help?
Like... Do you like him?!
is he ok?!
if he is ..go out with him .. and just if u wanna stick him u can do it..
Well he probaly ahs nothing to really talk aboutI need some advice...help?
Like... Do you like him?!
is he ok?!
if he is ..go out with him .. and just if u wanna stick him u can do it..
I need guy advice help me I'm sad?
OK I'm a sophomore in high school. I've liked the same guy for 3 years. He even liked me for awhile. So I've liked him since I was in 7th grade. Now here comes the crazy part I've never even talked to him. He's a senior now and he has a longtime girlfriend for almost a year, he also got a tattoo of her name on him (HOW DUMB!) what if they don't even stay together. Now that you see my situation, plus I'm extra shy. I really want to talk to him before he graduates, he still looks at me. I feel really bad because he does have a girl, but I liked him first. He liked me to now I just hope its not to late. I know I've already asked this, but I really like him. I just want a chance with him before he graduates and leaves. I know it seems really low because he has a girlfriend, but I can't change the way I feel about him. I really can't. I feel like crying, just knowing he has a girlfriend that's not me.I need guy advice help me I'm sad?
You r lovestruck!!love isnt life its just a part of it!!if he loves his girlfriend then i dont think u must disturb .If he doesnt love his gf then u can be with him!! Just tell him that u like him and leave the decision to him!!
if he refuses ,move on .U deserve someone better!!
You r lovestruck!!love isnt life its just a part of it!!if he loves his girlfriend then i dont think u must disturb .If he doesnt love his gf then u can be with him!! Just tell him that u like him and leave the decision to him!!
if he refuses ,move on .U deserve someone better!!
Guy trouble, any advice/help welcome?
So i was kinda seeing this guy, we had met up a few times and he's introduced me to all his friends and they've told me about how much he likes me and never stops talking about me.
anyway i saw him thursday and everthing was perfect.
i text him friday and he didnt reply.
i text him saturday to ask if he'd be out in town that night and he didnt reply...i went out anyway and saw him and his friends...his friends were all lovely and really chatty and continued telling me how much he likes me. but he was really off. he said about a grand total of 10 words to me all night. before he went he kissed me and said 'see you soon'.
and i havent heard from him since.
so i dont know where i stand...but i dont feel we're at the stage where i can really ask him what he wants from 'us' etc...
I spoke to his friends and they said hes just shy or playing hard to get...but i really dont think thats his style! im so confused!
do i just wait?!
HELP!
Thanks in advance! :)
xGuy trouble, any advice/help welcome?
It sounds like he is shy or didn't have that great of a time with you. Don't text him or call him and wait to see if he comes to you. You are being a little overbearing.Guy trouble, any advice/help welcome?
he sounds like a head messer to me .. dont chase the guy let him chase you
anyway i saw him thursday and everthing was perfect.
i text him friday and he didnt reply.
i text him saturday to ask if he'd be out in town that night and he didnt reply...i went out anyway and saw him and his friends...his friends were all lovely and really chatty and continued telling me how much he likes me. but he was really off. he said about a grand total of 10 words to me all night. before he went he kissed me and said 'see you soon'.
and i havent heard from him since.
so i dont know where i stand...but i dont feel we're at the stage where i can really ask him what he wants from 'us' etc...
I spoke to his friends and they said hes just shy or playing hard to get...but i really dont think thats his style! im so confused!
do i just wait?!
HELP!
Thanks in advance! :)
xGuy trouble, any advice/help welcome?
It sounds like he is shy or didn't have that great of a time with you. Don't text him or call him and wait to see if he comes to you. You are being a little overbearing.Guy trouble, any advice/help welcome?
he sounds like a head messer to me .. dont chase the guy let him chase you
Need a locksmith advice...HELP!! My sister had her home broken into and they stole a set of her keys, so?
a locksmith came out and replaced the locks on one door, but didn't have a lock to fit the front door, so he said he would put superglue in the outside of the lock so the burglar couldn't use the stolen key to get in. Now my sister finds that she can't open the (deadbolt) lock from either side and can't get the door open. She doesn't remember the company that did the work. I thought we could just unscrew the screws on the inside to take the lock off, but there are NO screws on the inside (key) lock. We tried prying off the circular ';frame'; of the lock, no dice. And it doesn't seem to screw off either. Any ideas on how to get it off so I can put a new lock on??Need a locksmith advice...HELP!! My sister had her home broken into and they stole a set of her keys, so?
It sounds like you are going to need a super duty drill and a drill bit that works on metal so you can drill out the super glue. Are there no screws on the handles on the inside of the door, there should be and there should be 2 screws on the lock part also. One screw will be under the latch that you turn to open the door. If that doesn't help then you might need to take the door off it's hinges and hope you can get it out of the frame without breaking the frame at all or you will need to replace the frame and the door.Need a locksmith advice...HELP!! My sister had her home broken into and they stole a set of her keys, so?
don't take it off its hinges off, if it is an all in 1 unit unscrew the backing plate on the handle and the screws should behind that and from there it pretty much explains its self,just make sure u have 1 to replace it with before u take it off, it would b easier if u could replace it with a similar lock.
take face off-you say there are no screws inside-then tap the deadbolt inwards see if that releases it
Go to Home Depot, they can tell you how to take the doorknog off.
there are usually two very small plates covering the screws that you cant see. those plates usually just pop off using a small screwdriver. then you will be able to get the screws off.
those screws are always on THE INSIDE OF THE DOOR, or else anyone could just take them off. RIGHT?
take a hard look for those two small covers.
good luck to ya
It sounds like you are going to need a super duty drill and a drill bit that works on metal so you can drill out the super glue. Are there no screws on the handles on the inside of the door, there should be and there should be 2 screws on the lock part also. One screw will be under the latch that you turn to open the door. If that doesn't help then you might need to take the door off it's hinges and hope you can get it out of the frame without breaking the frame at all or you will need to replace the frame and the door.Need a locksmith advice...HELP!! My sister had her home broken into and they stole a set of her keys, so?
don't take it off its hinges off, if it is an all in 1 unit unscrew the backing plate on the handle and the screws should behind that and from there it pretty much explains its self,just make sure u have 1 to replace it with before u take it off, it would b easier if u could replace it with a similar lock.
take face off-you say there are no screws inside-then tap the deadbolt inwards see if that releases it
Go to Home Depot, they can tell you how to take the doorknog off.
there are usually two very small plates covering the screws that you cant see. those plates usually just pop off using a small screwdriver. then you will be able to get the screws off.
those screws are always on THE INSIDE OF THE DOOR, or else anyone could just take them off. RIGHT?
take a hard look for those two small covers.
good luck to ya
Plant growing tips/advice... HELP?
Ok, well I personally have a black thumb of death when I try to grow plants, but I really want to grow flowers with the students in my class..(I work in an after school program)..we are planting seeds, but do any of you have advice on how to not kill them..I bought organic dirt and everything lol..Please..do not tell me to water them..I know that much hahaPlant growing tips/advice... HELP?
the first thing to do is change your belief that you have a black thumb of death!!!
plants can hear our thoughts.
you have to be their friend and treat them well.
i'm being totally serious, read about the research done by Clee Backster in the late 60's, amazing work.Plant growing tips/advice... HELP?
Make sure you buy indoor plants. Most seeds probably don't specify indoor or out, but you could try flowers that are meant for shaded areas since they won't get much real sunlight. If you want to grow any kind of plants you could always try to change your lighting. To plant outdoor plants inside you will need to use fluorescent bulbs (which were actually designed for indoor gardening). The bulbs should be generally close to the plants and the general rule of thumb is about 20watts per square foot of plants. You can also try using some miracle grow or a generic brand. You can use the standard powder that you mix with water if you choose. But they also came out with new mini stakes for indoor plants. You just put one in each pot and they will fertilize it over time. These can be picked up at pretty much any hardware store, maybe even a walmart or target. Be sure not to over-water. If the dirt gets swampy your roots will drown and the plant will die. Make sure the soil is moist but that the plants are not swimming in water. Proper drainage is key. Good luck to you. Let me know if you have any other questions.
Moss Ross is a succulent so it is very forgiving about being watered. It stores water within its leaves and will survive drought conditions.
I have to say that I have not had good luck with Moss Rose seeds and getting them to sprout. I've bought established Moss Rose plants at the nursery and had wonderful luck with them. Clay pots are a good idea with the Moss Rose because the clay pot will not hold moisture like a plastic pot will.
You might try the old Sweet Potato growing experiment, too. No flowers but the kids get to see a root system develop and leaves developing. THis website explains how. http://kidsactivities.suite101.com/artic鈥?/a> I remember doing this as a kid and it was amazing to me.
Well, just a word of advice...have plenty of back-up pots of plants at home just in case some of the plants don't work out. That way, you can transplant if necessary. Depending on the age of the kids, they could get pretty disappointed if their plant doesn't come up.
Otherwise, I'm the same as you. I've never had much luck with plants.
Well it really depends on the flower. Can you please give us the name?
Generally the back of the package of seeds will give you basic guidelines as well.
--------------
For moss roses
1. plant only one plant per pot (for that size pot)
2. Water sparingly, if at all and allow the soil to dry out between watering.
3. Pinch off spent blooms to encourage flowering
4. Fertilize with a bloom type fertilizer once or twice during the summer ( Look for a fertilizer made for flowers)
Keep in mind these flowers might die by the end of falls since they are just annuals.
the first thing to do is change your belief that you have a black thumb of death!!!
plants can hear our thoughts.
you have to be their friend and treat them well.
i'm being totally serious, read about the research done by Clee Backster in the late 60's, amazing work.Plant growing tips/advice... HELP?
Make sure you buy indoor plants. Most seeds probably don't specify indoor or out, but you could try flowers that are meant for shaded areas since they won't get much real sunlight. If you want to grow any kind of plants you could always try to change your lighting. To plant outdoor plants inside you will need to use fluorescent bulbs (which were actually designed for indoor gardening). The bulbs should be generally close to the plants and the general rule of thumb is about 20watts per square foot of plants. You can also try using some miracle grow or a generic brand. You can use the standard powder that you mix with water if you choose. But they also came out with new mini stakes for indoor plants. You just put one in each pot and they will fertilize it over time. These can be picked up at pretty much any hardware store, maybe even a walmart or target. Be sure not to over-water. If the dirt gets swampy your roots will drown and the plant will die. Make sure the soil is moist but that the plants are not swimming in water. Proper drainage is key. Good luck to you. Let me know if you have any other questions.
Moss Ross is a succulent so it is very forgiving about being watered. It stores water within its leaves and will survive drought conditions.
I have to say that I have not had good luck with Moss Rose seeds and getting them to sprout. I've bought established Moss Rose plants at the nursery and had wonderful luck with them. Clay pots are a good idea with the Moss Rose because the clay pot will not hold moisture like a plastic pot will.
You might try the old Sweet Potato growing experiment, too. No flowers but the kids get to see a root system develop and leaves developing. THis website explains how. http://kidsactivities.suite101.com/artic鈥?/a> I remember doing this as a kid and it was amazing to me.
Well, just a word of advice...have plenty of back-up pots of plants at home just in case some of the plants don't work out. That way, you can transplant if necessary. Depending on the age of the kids, they could get pretty disappointed if their plant doesn't come up.
Otherwise, I'm the same as you. I've never had much luck with plants.
Well it really depends on the flower. Can you please give us the name?
Generally the back of the package of seeds will give you basic guidelines as well.
--------------
For moss roses
1. plant only one plant per pot (for that size pot)
2. Water sparingly, if at all and allow the soil to dry out between watering.
3. Pinch off spent blooms to encourage flowering
4. Fertilize with a bloom type fertilizer once or twice during the summer ( Look for a fertilizer made for flowers)
Keep in mind these flowers might die by the end of falls since they are just annuals.
I need mommies advice help!!!!?
okay i just posted a question about pack and play sheets and this one woman said something about she hoped i was getting a crib also. Me and my husband move every 6 weeks! his job requires us to move alot. I could stay home but then the price that he pays for a hotel room for 6 weeks plus rent and all the other expenses of the house would mean we are spending more money than he is making so i always go with him and the pack and play is great for me so we dont have to take the bed apart and put it back together. Its just going to tear up easily. So am i bad mommy for getting a pack and play :(I need mommies advice help!!!!?
no your not. i have a pack and play that i used a lot with both of my kids. i would use those at hotels over the dirty hotel cribs. i know hotel cribs dont get cleaned because i was a manager at one for years.
i also purchased pack and play fitted sheets so if one of them spit up or peed in it i could easily wash it.
i have a graco pack and play with lot of attachments like a sun shade, bassinet, changing table, and it has wheels so it can easily be moved. i love it.I need mommies advice help!!!!?
You are in no way a bad mother for having a pack 'n play and no crib. Babies don't need 99% of the stuff we insist on buying them, including a crib. They just need mom, milk, dry diapers and warm clothes and a safe place to sleep which a pack 'n play provides.
i would never call you a bsd mommy im sure you will do great buy i warn you this could be challenging....children are very resiliant however there may be a point where all the moving may effect his/her attitude...so much moving can make them confused and insecure.i think for the first few months the baby wont mind as long as you are there but you may think about getting a place that is ';home'; i wish you the best of luck and congrats
I honestly don't think when they are a newborn, it really matters where they sleep, so long as they are safe and their needs are tended to.
So for the first few months, I don't think that is a major problem.
I do suspect that eventually you will want to find another solution. And some babies outgrow that bassinet pretty quickly.
our son slept in his for the first 4 months. once they start rolling over tho, I would suggest a crib. also, the bottom part of a pack and play is very hard and you can feel the metal through it. not good for your little ones back. good luck!
NO...
I can't imagine what your hubby's job is, but I would just be glad he wanted us w/him...You're not the first couple who's raised a child under
these circumstances (just think how great your child will handle change!),
so just do what you feel is best...
My sister never got a crib, nephew is just fine and if you move constantly then a pack and play is perfect as long as it is good quality. It all goes by what your lifestyle. DON'T LET ANYONE MAKE YOU THINK YOU ARE A BAD MOM. Bad moms are the ones that just don't care about the child at all and only care for them selves. My son has a crib and it works for me but like I said my sister does the pack and play due to limited space and easy to remove if company come over.
Absolutely Not!!! There are so many parents that still co-sleep even though the warnings of death by suffocation due to sleeping WITH their babies is still a real problem.
I live in a ';house'; and I have a crib BUT before the crib was purchased and/or put up I had a pack n play. Our daughter was into her second month when I was able to put the crib up and a few weeks later there was a recall on the crib. We were directed to find a safe alternative sleeping arrangement for our bay and that is her pack n play.
Just because you don't do what others might do doesn't make you a bad parent/mother. Now, by the time your baby reaches school age you will hopefully have a stable environment for him/her. Still, that will not make you a bad mother if you do not conform to others ways.
I can't help you on the pack %26amp; play, but if you ever want a more stable environment, move to the gulf coast Texas area. My bf is a boilermaker or pipefitter depending on the job, and he will have to work out of town occasionally, but nowhere near as every 6 weeks. His jobs tend to be local and last usually 3-6 months!
We live in a town about 30 miles east of Houston.
By the way, I think the lack of crib is fine. I know plenty of people with babies who rarely or never even use their cribs bc their mommies can't stand to be away from them!makeup ideas
no your not. i have a pack and play that i used a lot with both of my kids. i would use those at hotels over the dirty hotel cribs. i know hotel cribs dont get cleaned because i was a manager at one for years.
i also purchased pack and play fitted sheets so if one of them spit up or peed in it i could easily wash it.
i have a graco pack and play with lot of attachments like a sun shade, bassinet, changing table, and it has wheels so it can easily be moved. i love it.I need mommies advice help!!!!?
You are in no way a bad mother for having a pack 'n play and no crib. Babies don't need 99% of the stuff we insist on buying them, including a crib. They just need mom, milk, dry diapers and warm clothes and a safe place to sleep which a pack 'n play provides.
i would never call you a bsd mommy im sure you will do great buy i warn you this could be challenging....children are very resiliant however there may be a point where all the moving may effect his/her attitude...so much moving can make them confused and insecure.i think for the first few months the baby wont mind as long as you are there but you may think about getting a place that is ';home'; i wish you the best of luck and congrats
I honestly don't think when they are a newborn, it really matters where they sleep, so long as they are safe and their needs are tended to.
So for the first few months, I don't think that is a major problem.
I do suspect that eventually you will want to find another solution. And some babies outgrow that bassinet pretty quickly.
our son slept in his for the first 4 months. once they start rolling over tho, I would suggest a crib. also, the bottom part of a pack and play is very hard and you can feel the metal through it. not good for your little ones back. good luck!
NO...
I can't imagine what your hubby's job is, but I would just be glad he wanted us w/him...You're not the first couple who's raised a child under
these circumstances (just think how great your child will handle change!),
so just do what you feel is best...
My sister never got a crib, nephew is just fine and if you move constantly then a pack and play is perfect as long as it is good quality. It all goes by what your lifestyle. DON'T LET ANYONE MAKE YOU THINK YOU ARE A BAD MOM. Bad moms are the ones that just don't care about the child at all and only care for them selves. My son has a crib and it works for me but like I said my sister does the pack and play due to limited space and easy to remove if company come over.
Absolutely Not!!! There are so many parents that still co-sleep even though the warnings of death by suffocation due to sleeping WITH their babies is still a real problem.
I live in a ';house'; and I have a crib BUT before the crib was purchased and/or put up I had a pack n play. Our daughter was into her second month when I was able to put the crib up and a few weeks later there was a recall on the crib. We were directed to find a safe alternative sleeping arrangement for our bay and that is her pack n play.
Just because you don't do what others might do doesn't make you a bad parent/mother. Now, by the time your baby reaches school age you will hopefully have a stable environment for him/her. Still, that will not make you a bad mother if you do not conform to others ways.
I can't help you on the pack %26amp; play, but if you ever want a more stable environment, move to the gulf coast Texas area. My bf is a boilermaker or pipefitter depending on the job, and he will have to work out of town occasionally, but nowhere near as every 6 weeks. His jobs tend to be local and last usually 3-6 months!
We live in a town about 30 miles east of Houston.
By the way, I think the lack of crib is fine. I know plenty of people with babies who rarely or never even use their cribs bc their mommies can't stand to be away from them!
I need boy advice, help!?
I really love him.
I broke up with him 3 times!
We're currently not together.
I feel like I don't want him when I have him.
And when I don't have him, I want him!
What is wrong with me?!I need boy advice, help!?
I think you need to evaluate what it is that you like as well as dislike about him, then determine which is more important to you. Once you decide your true feelings about him, then you have to either accept the bad with the good, or give up on the good because the bad is just too much.
The fact that you have broken up with him 3 times already doesnt bode well for this being a long term relationship. Only you can make this decision.I need boy advice, help!?
ok if you really love this guy than you do need to think about if you still want to be with him if you broke up with him 3 times already than who knows if he would want to get back with you he probably loves you to and you broke up with him. so what i suggest you do is get a pen and paper type it on microsoft word. and write down everything you like/love about him, and than write another list that says what you dont like and instead of keeping on breaking up with him talk to him about what you dont like because something has to happen if people dont want to be together anymore, and maybe that will make your life a little bit easier because you said your self your in love with him and if you are let him know instead of breaking his heart. And if you dont want him when you have him thats how every girl especially myself is because i just dont feel like being with that person or i feel like they dont want to be with me and it all turns out that i do want them at the end.
that is a tough one. if you broke up with him 3 times im guessing that you have been togather for a long time. usually in a relationship when people are togather for a long time it becomes like a Habit. he becomes you're everyday routine. when you're not with him you want him because you're routine has changed and you don't know were to start or what to do. my advice is be done with him for good if he is that bad, it is going to be hard. or really try to work it out. have a sit down with him and talk. talk about what needs to be done and what you want as well as what he wants. good luck on you're decision.
It was I dragonslayer45 who slayed the Barbon in the lands of Neverthere and have many a time courted fair maidens on my war elephant Hegore
Twas I who saved the kings of wrath and have pleased your sister and mother in the lands of rah
Twas not three nights ago when I courted your eleven girlfriend in the lands of Murmidonia!
mabye, when your together your happy but twhen you break up you need someone to be with. to support you, mabye you remember he used to and want to go to him for a way to deal with it. It may be difficult but you need to move on, your friends should help. Try seeing meeting people :)
even though they say third times the charm,,its not true the same thing happened to me maybe in your situation it just isn't meant to be there are a lot of fish in the water so be ready to dive in:) remember its just a boy,,go with your heart.
Well if he's a good bf then the problem is you and if you keep this up you will lose him. Trust me he is going to be like ***** it if you keep playing games...but if there were good reasons for you to break up with him then maybe he's not the one.
we always want what we can't have. it doesn't seem like you really care for him if you always want out of the relationship when you are together. it's best to just try and forget about him-think of his feelings- the poor guy's probably in pieces over this..
i have the same problem you fight alot?
what you have to do is find out what you always argue or fight about and then stop doin it i just did that with my X were not together but our relationship is much betr now and soon im sure well be together again
I think it might have a chance. its going to take a lot of communication, probation, and a whole lot of time. but if he is abusive, the right thing to do would be to cut off all contact from him so that you may have a chance to get over him.
nothing girl, you just need to experience some other guys. When you find a better one(since you broke up with him three time he can't be great), you will forget all about him. BTW, Benjamen is a TOTAL moron jerk off.
applause for Benjamin!
Hey, you don't love him.
And you deff don't love him if you don't even want him when you have him.
Selfish idiot!
He might change when he's close to you and acts weird and it pisses you off. but when you are separate he acts like himself and you like that part of him??
you are a selfish twisted *****. that's what's wrong with you. why are there so many girls like that?
sorry but you sound very confussed about wat you want and wat you dont want!!! sorry but sort your life out and until then you should just leave him alone.
Figure out what you want and stick with it.. give it a little time when your with him. you cant keep playing with his emotions...
Your probably like 14, that's what's wrong with you. Grow up first, then date. This isn't neverland and your not tinkerbell.
Nothing is wrong, you just need to get your priorities straight. Good luck. :-)
nuffin wrong...yous normal like...
Your a bzzzz
Your not in love whateverrr don't use him like that
Your prob jusss jealous?
ur just another girl tht is confused
You're selfish
get over it.
People always want what they can't have...
your bloody slack that's whats wrong with you
let him go. that is very unhealthy.
it happens to alot of people.
dont worry about it
you are just not over him....
time will heal
Great question I have the exact problem ugh... I wish I had a answer for you hun I really wish I did??? :(
My advice...want him when you have him, if not you're wasting your time, but more importantly his.
it doesn't seem like you want him that bad then. move on.
yes listen to him!
Wel for one your a stupid girl and second I have a big weiner
I broke up with him 3 times!
We're currently not together.
I feel like I don't want him when I have him.
And when I don't have him, I want him!
What is wrong with me?!I need boy advice, help!?
I think you need to evaluate what it is that you like as well as dislike about him, then determine which is more important to you. Once you decide your true feelings about him, then you have to either accept the bad with the good, or give up on the good because the bad is just too much.
The fact that you have broken up with him 3 times already doesnt bode well for this being a long term relationship. Only you can make this decision.I need boy advice, help!?
ok if you really love this guy than you do need to think about if you still want to be with him if you broke up with him 3 times already than who knows if he would want to get back with you he probably loves you to and you broke up with him. so what i suggest you do is get a pen and paper type it on microsoft word. and write down everything you like/love about him, and than write another list that says what you dont like and instead of keeping on breaking up with him talk to him about what you dont like because something has to happen if people dont want to be together anymore, and maybe that will make your life a little bit easier because you said your self your in love with him and if you are let him know instead of breaking his heart. And if you dont want him when you have him thats how every girl especially myself is because i just dont feel like being with that person or i feel like they dont want to be with me and it all turns out that i do want them at the end.
that is a tough one. if you broke up with him 3 times im guessing that you have been togather for a long time. usually in a relationship when people are togather for a long time it becomes like a Habit. he becomes you're everyday routine. when you're not with him you want him because you're routine has changed and you don't know were to start or what to do. my advice is be done with him for good if he is that bad, it is going to be hard. or really try to work it out. have a sit down with him and talk. talk about what needs to be done and what you want as well as what he wants. good luck on you're decision.
It was I dragonslayer45 who slayed the Barbon in the lands of Neverthere and have many a time courted fair maidens on my war elephant Hegore
Twas I who saved the kings of wrath and have pleased your sister and mother in the lands of rah
Twas not three nights ago when I courted your eleven girlfriend in the lands of Murmidonia!
mabye, when your together your happy but twhen you break up you need someone to be with. to support you, mabye you remember he used to and want to go to him for a way to deal with it. It may be difficult but you need to move on, your friends should help. Try seeing meeting people :)
even though they say third times the charm,,its not true the same thing happened to me maybe in your situation it just isn't meant to be there are a lot of fish in the water so be ready to dive in:) remember its just a boy,,go with your heart.
Well if he's a good bf then the problem is you and if you keep this up you will lose him. Trust me he is going to be like ***** it if you keep playing games...but if there were good reasons for you to break up with him then maybe he's not the one.
we always want what we can't have. it doesn't seem like you really care for him if you always want out of the relationship when you are together. it's best to just try and forget about him-think of his feelings- the poor guy's probably in pieces over this..
i have the same problem you fight alot?
what you have to do is find out what you always argue or fight about and then stop doin it i just did that with my X were not together but our relationship is much betr now and soon im sure well be together again
I think it might have a chance. its going to take a lot of communication, probation, and a whole lot of time. but if he is abusive, the right thing to do would be to cut off all contact from him so that you may have a chance to get over him.
nothing girl, you just need to experience some other guys. When you find a better one(since you broke up with him three time he can't be great), you will forget all about him. BTW, Benjamen is a TOTAL moron jerk off.
applause for Benjamin!
Hey, you don't love him.
And you deff don't love him if you don't even want him when you have him.
Selfish idiot!
He might change when he's close to you and acts weird and it pisses you off. but when you are separate he acts like himself and you like that part of him??
you are a selfish twisted *****. that's what's wrong with you. why are there so many girls like that?
sorry but you sound very confussed about wat you want and wat you dont want!!! sorry but sort your life out and until then you should just leave him alone.
Figure out what you want and stick with it.. give it a little time when your with him. you cant keep playing with his emotions...
Your probably like 14, that's what's wrong with you. Grow up first, then date. This isn't neverland and your not tinkerbell.
Nothing is wrong, you just need to get your priorities straight. Good luck. :-)
nuffin wrong...yous normal like...
Your a bzzzz
Your not in love whateverrr don't use him like that
Your prob jusss jealous?
ur just another girl tht is confused
You're selfish
get over it.
People always want what they can't have...
your bloody slack that's whats wrong with you
let him go. that is very unhealthy.
it happens to alot of people.
dont worry about it
you are just not over him....
time will heal
Great question I have the exact problem ugh... I wish I had a answer for you hun I really wish I did??? :(
My advice...want him when you have him, if not you're wasting your time, but more importantly his.
it doesn't seem like you want him that bad then. move on.
yes listen to him!
Wel for one your a stupid girl and second I have a big weiner
Really need some advice & help, could I be pregnant?
Alright, so...I was supposed to get my period like 3 weeks ago, %26amp; it didn't come, I only had some spotting/very light bleeding about a week before my period was due. I didn't get it. I was on the pill but my doctor advised me not to take the pill until I do get my period. I took a test when my period was about a week late, %26amp; it came out negative. Now, I'm expecting my period in about a week, but lately I've been just getting this like, ovulation discharge. At least that's what it looks like. I used to always get this thick, whitish discharge during my ovulation time. It was completely normal, but now I've been getting that for like the passed 2 weeks, definitely not normal for me. %26amp; also, one day I had this REALLY weird discharge. It was thick, clear %26amp; gummy. I've never had that before, what was it? Sorry if tmi. My boyfriend %26amp; I always have unprotected sex, which is now even more dangerous since I'm no longer on the pill, I know. I'm a smart girl %26amp; understand all the risks of pregnancy when having sex, protected or not, so please do not lecture me on any of this. I'm just wondering, could I be pregnant? Like, could that discharge be a sign of pregnancy, I've heard that some women have pregnancy discharge that is a lot like ovulation discharge. Thanks for your help in advance!Really need some advice %26amp; help, could I be pregnant?
Yes, theres a good chance. You are so late, and plus that kind of discharge can be a definite sign. I suggest testing again. You seem aware that the pill is NOT 100% effective, so if you turn up not pregnant, I suggest using condoms as back up.
Yes, theres a good chance. You are so late, and plus that kind of discharge can be a definite sign. I suggest testing again. You seem aware that the pill is NOT 100% effective, so if you turn up not pregnant, I suggest using condoms as back up.
I need some advice..help?
I met this girl on vacation.. and we had an awsome time together. I went to visit her and we again had an awsome time. But we are both pretty shy especially her.. it was our 4th time being together.. and I kinda regret not being more touchy feely close to her...I got home thursday and we havent talked since then.. she sent me a txt yesterday saying she will call me today..she still has'nt called ..so im a bit anxious ..she works like everyday..soo im guessing she's a bit busy...
should i call her or just wait for her to call me..
its been 3days since we talked..I need some advice..help?
ok if yu like hur move forward!
call hur !!!
if shes shy shes waiting for yu to call hur so take a step forward yu never kno wht will happen =00
should i call her or just wait for her to call me..
its been 3days since we talked..I need some advice..help?
ok if yu like hur move forward!
call hur !!!
if shes shy shes waiting for yu to call hur so take a step forward yu never kno wht will happen =00
I Realy Need Advice??!??help?
okay so ive been good friends with this guy 4 like 4 years and we were txting last week and he sent me these immature flirty messages like using the symbols he made a sign for sex if you get what i mean!and i text him back ill pretend i didnt know what that was grow up joking like and he txt me back im proud of my manly nature and i was lik wth? any ways we got into a fight over the whole situation and we didnt talk 4 a few days which is unusual 4 us and then i started txtin him again and he thinks i have a grudge against him cos i didnt mention it after that?idk is he just a horny teenager or does he actually like me coz like he never realy flirts with me face to face just on the phone or through texting what should i do and does hw like me for real???
please no mean commentsXxXI Realy Need Advice??!??help?
Yeah i know exactly what you mean haha. Does he talk to you at school? Or is it that he doesn't talk to you like he does in text?
Either way, he could be a shy guy and think its awkward talking like that in person. Over text, you can't be sure as there is really no emotion on there so its a hard call too tell if he likes you or not.
The sex thing - if you don't feel like comfortable with that then just tell him or joke about and be like er do be serious ;) because otherwise they take it the wrong way.
Leave it for a while. I mean, you can ask him if you really wanted to whats going on. But from experience, I give some space and come back like a week or 2 later and start over fresh.
hope i helped :)I Realy Need Advice??!??help?
Well I would leave it alone. If a man likes you he will make sure you know it and not let something like this petty fight get in the way. He may def be sexually interested in you but if you want more than I would let the whole thing go and if he doesn't come after you, let him go too. Believe me it's for the best
You don't understand guys at all. Even if this guy has been your best bud for the last four years or twenty years, he would still jump in bed with you in a heartbeat. Yes, he likes you. Guys don't normally like girls as best friends, they like them as in they LIKE THEM, they are just too shy to make a move.
Flirting is safer (and easier) through text. Maybe this is a good opportunity to develop healthy relationships face-to-face and give the text messaging a rest for a bit. Human interaction is natural instinct and necessary.
thats a toughy!! i really dont know what to to ya but if a guy is into you he better be more obvious then that. then again does he usually flirt with girls, he lands up with. look at his past behavior with some of his ex's to find out hte anwser becaus they're too many possibilities. good luck:)
He likes you, that's whats going on with him.
its hard to tell
he just wants to get into ur panties miss lameO
idk eithr i think you just have to come out with the question n see what he says
its really hard to tell but my experiance sayss that on text meesige to discribing any feelings are easy than face to face and yes ofcourse some time humen got exited and he wants any one to be exited with him so he tried in text messege ofte n on wronge numbers!! i think u got what i saiid i m also a boy and what i have described is true!!
best of luck and its better that u tell him clearly that wht u feel about him!! ok !!
please no mean commentsXxXI Realy Need Advice??!??help?
Yeah i know exactly what you mean haha. Does he talk to you at school? Or is it that he doesn't talk to you like he does in text?
Either way, he could be a shy guy and think its awkward talking like that in person. Over text, you can't be sure as there is really no emotion on there so its a hard call too tell if he likes you or not.
The sex thing - if you don't feel like comfortable with that then just tell him or joke about and be like er do be serious ;) because otherwise they take it the wrong way.
Leave it for a while. I mean, you can ask him if you really wanted to whats going on. But from experience, I give some space and come back like a week or 2 later and start over fresh.
hope i helped :)I Realy Need Advice??!??help?
Well I would leave it alone. If a man likes you he will make sure you know it and not let something like this petty fight get in the way. He may def be sexually interested in you but if you want more than I would let the whole thing go and if he doesn't come after you, let him go too. Believe me it's for the best
You don't understand guys at all. Even if this guy has been your best bud for the last four years or twenty years, he would still jump in bed with you in a heartbeat. Yes, he likes you. Guys don't normally like girls as best friends, they like them as in they LIKE THEM, they are just too shy to make a move.
Flirting is safer (and easier) through text. Maybe this is a good opportunity to develop healthy relationships face-to-face and give the text messaging a rest for a bit. Human interaction is natural instinct and necessary.
thats a toughy!! i really dont know what to to ya but if a guy is into you he better be more obvious then that. then again does he usually flirt with girls, he lands up with. look at his past behavior with some of his ex's to find out hte anwser becaus they're too many possibilities. good luck:)
He likes you, that's whats going on with him.
its hard to tell
he just wants to get into ur panties miss lameO
idk eithr i think you just have to come out with the question n see what he says
its really hard to tell but my experiance sayss that on text meesige to discribing any feelings are easy than face to face and yes ofcourse some time humen got exited and he wants any one to be exited with him so he tried in text messege ofte n on wronge numbers!! i think u got what i saiid i m also a boy and what i have described is true!!
best of luck and its better that u tell him clearly that wht u feel about him!! ok !!
I am in my 6th week of pregnancy? i need ur advice,pls help?
those who r pregnanct or were pregnant can pls advice me.i am taking ';one a day woman'; vitamins suppliment.is that fine or i should i take proper prenatal vitamins.how much folic acid is required every day 400 mcg or 800 mcg? my one a day woman has all ingredients like prenatal but i dont know if i can continue with that,my doctor is out of city so i am asking u.pls help.also tell me what r the specific routine care i should take,like while walking,sitting at home,etc.i had a little blodd spotting but my doctor had told me,its fine only i f i see more spotting then she had told meto call.my hcg numbers are 10000 in my 6th week start.I am in my 6th week of pregnancy? i need ur advice,pls help?
Talk to your doctor but I would take the prenatal vitamins because they do have other things in them besides the regular one a day vitamins. The new thing now is to take DHA which helps the babies development and that isn't in the one a day pills. If you don't have a perscription for these from your doctor you can always try the over the counter prenatal vitamins until you can see your dr. As far as the bleeding I guess it is sometimes common in a lot of women. I bled into the second trimester and I had a healthy baby.I am in my 6th week of pregnancy? i need ur advice,pls help?
Even though your doctor is out of town, you can ask to see another doctor-which I would do rather than post the question on here....Ive had a child but would rather seek 100 per cent advice...good luck....
that really sounds like somehting you need to ask the doc...but I guess they should be fine...why are you not taking regular prenatal vitamins?
one a day women's is fine to take.(my ob/gyn said so) i took it for both my pregnancies. (i have a 3 year old and a 4 month old). take the vitamins and eat healthy and you'll be just fine. congrats!!
Stop taking the one-a-day vitamins...when I was pregnant, the prenatal vitamins made me sick, so my doctor told me to take 2 flintstone vitamins a day. The recommended amount of folic acid for a pregnant woman is 600mcg per day...2 flintstone vitamins have just over 600mcg of folic acid.
Well, I don't know why your doctor did not prescribe pre natal vitamins for you yet. ( They usually give you the prescription when you find out that you're preagnant. I took regular prenatal vitamins in both preg.
If you are worried about folic acids eat a healthy diet that includes foods that contain folate, the natural form of the vitamin. Such foods include fortified breakfast cereals, dried beans, black beans, lentils, leafy green vegetables, orange juice (from concentrate it's best , liver, carrots, egg yolk. maybe it's not too yummi but will helps prevent birth defects of the brain and spinal cord.
Walk and swim will help you a lot. And you're not going to gain too much weight.
any viatamins are fine as long as there complete
take 800 mcg thats what my dr told me, i never spotted but its fine unless you bleed alot! and u will know, but im sure ur fine :) drink 8oz milk aday, and 6-8- glasses of water, 17 weeks with 2nd goodluck :)
take the pre natal vitamins 800mcg is in them i am also 6 weeks my first doctors apt is tomorrow but when i made the apt i asked about the prenatal vitamin and they told me to take an over the counter one and we will talk about it when i go in.
congratulations on your pregnancy, i agree about the vitamins, i couldnt take the pre natal vitamins either, they also made me sick , and i took regular vitamins...BUT please talk to your doctor OR another doctor at the office, eat right, rest when need to , your body will tell you when to rest, if you listen to it...dont over do it....you have another person growing inside you, enjoy this time...
i am ttc was perg in june but mc my advice would be to take only ones for pregnant women ,i heard you can take too many vitamins,pregnacare is a good one which will give you all the vitamins you need,only 4oog of folic acid is recommended daily.you should get little exersize but rest when you feel tired keep your feet up above your waist if you can,
Talk to your doctor but I would take the prenatal vitamins because they do have other things in them besides the regular one a day vitamins. The new thing now is to take DHA which helps the babies development and that isn't in the one a day pills. If you don't have a perscription for these from your doctor you can always try the over the counter prenatal vitamins until you can see your dr. As far as the bleeding I guess it is sometimes common in a lot of women. I bled into the second trimester and I had a healthy baby.I am in my 6th week of pregnancy? i need ur advice,pls help?
Even though your doctor is out of town, you can ask to see another doctor-which I would do rather than post the question on here....Ive had a child but would rather seek 100 per cent advice...good luck....
that really sounds like somehting you need to ask the doc...but I guess they should be fine...why are you not taking regular prenatal vitamins?
one a day women's is fine to take.(my ob/gyn said so) i took it for both my pregnancies. (i have a 3 year old and a 4 month old). take the vitamins and eat healthy and you'll be just fine. congrats!!
Stop taking the one-a-day vitamins...when I was pregnant, the prenatal vitamins made me sick, so my doctor told me to take 2 flintstone vitamins a day. The recommended amount of folic acid for a pregnant woman is 600mcg per day...2 flintstone vitamins have just over 600mcg of folic acid.
Well, I don't know why your doctor did not prescribe pre natal vitamins for you yet. ( They usually give you the prescription when you find out that you're preagnant. I took regular prenatal vitamins in both preg.
If you are worried about folic acids eat a healthy diet that includes foods that contain folate, the natural form of the vitamin. Such foods include fortified breakfast cereals, dried beans, black beans, lentils, leafy green vegetables, orange juice (from concentrate it's best , liver, carrots, egg yolk. maybe it's not too yummi but will helps prevent birth defects of the brain and spinal cord.
Walk and swim will help you a lot. And you're not going to gain too much weight.
any viatamins are fine as long as there complete
take 800 mcg thats what my dr told me, i never spotted but its fine unless you bleed alot! and u will know, but im sure ur fine :) drink 8oz milk aday, and 6-8- glasses of water, 17 weeks with 2nd goodluck :)
take the pre natal vitamins 800mcg is in them i am also 6 weeks my first doctors apt is tomorrow but when i made the apt i asked about the prenatal vitamin and they told me to take an over the counter one and we will talk about it when i go in.
congratulations on your pregnancy, i agree about the vitamins, i couldnt take the pre natal vitamins either, they also made me sick , and i took regular vitamins...BUT please talk to your doctor OR another doctor at the office, eat right, rest when need to , your body will tell you when to rest, if you listen to it...dont over do it....you have another person growing inside you, enjoy this time...
i am ttc was perg in june but mc my advice would be to take only ones for pregnant women ,i heard you can take too many vitamins,pregnacare is a good one which will give you all the vitamins you need,only 4oog of folic acid is recommended daily.you should get little exersize but rest when you feel tired keep your feet up above your waist if you can,
I need some major guy advice! Help?
Sorry it's longish :(
I had homecoming last weekend and i went with a really good guy friend, lets call him...Brad. Brad and i are in the same grade, and like i said we are just really good friends. I had a great time at the dance and he had a good time too. But here's where things get complicated. I have a crush on his older brother...lets call him..Bret. I developed this crush after my guy friend asked me to homecoming, and I decided to like push my feelings for Bret down, since I was going to homecoming with Brad. It's a week after homecoming, and all week I've been basically flirting with Bret...but not being too obvious. I'm really close with this family, especially their mom, I love her to death. Anyways. So I like Bret...a lot...and I don't know what to do. Bret and i are pretty close because we are into a lot of the same things. Whenever he smiles at me, or talks to me, I melt. I can't help how i feel about Bret, I just feel that way. I don't know if I should go after him or not. and I'm confused about something...yesterday Bret blew in my ear when i was giving him a hug while I was wishing him good luck at something...does this mean anything? Help! I'm so confused
Thanks!I need some major guy advice! Help?
dont do it leave the whole situation alone it will only lead to drama and heartbreakI need some major guy advice! Help?
I kind of think he was flirting...there is no specific meaning for that that i know of....do what your heart tells you to do...It's not up to anyone accept you =) good luck!!
Go for Bret! After all, it's not like you're in a relationship with Brad or anything. Just be sure to treat Brad just as kindly as you would Bret through all of this.
i think u should go for it .... life is too short to live with regrets
he definitely likes u
well it seems like you like him but i would let him go cause you seem really close like family sorry if you take it the wrong way.
well first off, if you really want to go Bret stop leading Brad on and stuff. you should still be nice to Brad and be his friend and stuff but if he asks you out say no, and you don't have to tell him the reason why. it's just think of how brad will feel if he really likes you and he thinks you like him and he finds out you reject him for his older brother.and before you even try to go after Bret you must be 100% sure that he likes you because if he doesn't... that would be very bad. But i hope you end up with a happy ending!!!
It sounds like you already know which brother you want. If you really like 'Bret', then just make sure that 'Brad' knows you two are just friends. You don't want to lead 'Brad' on. Follow your heart, you can't help how you feel so don't be ashamed of it.
i agree with her ^^lips
I had homecoming last weekend and i went with a really good guy friend, lets call him...Brad. Brad and i are in the same grade, and like i said we are just really good friends. I had a great time at the dance and he had a good time too. But here's where things get complicated. I have a crush on his older brother...lets call him..Bret. I developed this crush after my guy friend asked me to homecoming, and I decided to like push my feelings for Bret down, since I was going to homecoming with Brad. It's a week after homecoming, and all week I've been basically flirting with Bret...but not being too obvious. I'm really close with this family, especially their mom, I love her to death. Anyways. So I like Bret...a lot...and I don't know what to do. Bret and i are pretty close because we are into a lot of the same things. Whenever he smiles at me, or talks to me, I melt. I can't help how i feel about Bret, I just feel that way. I don't know if I should go after him or not. and I'm confused about something...yesterday Bret blew in my ear when i was giving him a hug while I was wishing him good luck at something...does this mean anything? Help! I'm so confused
Thanks!I need some major guy advice! Help?
dont do it leave the whole situation alone it will only lead to drama and heartbreakI need some major guy advice! Help?
I kind of think he was flirting...there is no specific meaning for that that i know of....do what your heart tells you to do...It's not up to anyone accept you =) good luck!!
Go for Bret! After all, it's not like you're in a relationship with Brad or anything. Just be sure to treat Brad just as kindly as you would Bret through all of this.
i think u should go for it .... life is too short to live with regrets
he definitely likes u
well it seems like you like him but i would let him go cause you seem really close like family sorry if you take it the wrong way.
well first off, if you really want to go Bret stop leading Brad on and stuff. you should still be nice to Brad and be his friend and stuff but if he asks you out say no, and you don't have to tell him the reason why. it's just think of how brad will feel if he really likes you and he thinks you like him and he finds out you reject him for his older brother.and before you even try to go after Bret you must be 100% sure that he likes you because if he doesn't... that would be very bad. But i hope you end up with a happy ending!!!
It sounds like you already know which brother you want. If you really like 'Bret', then just make sure that 'Brad' knows you two are just friends. You don't want to lead 'Brad' on. Follow your heart, you can't help how you feel so don't be ashamed of it.
i agree with her ^^
Hey, I really need some advice! HELP ME!?
Okay, so there's this girl at my school.
She's in the 6th grade, and I'm in the 8th.
She started talking to me about 2 months ago.
And she had added me on myspace.
Then one night, she asked if I could call her.
And at that time, I was over at my best friend's house.
So I called her, and she was talking to me for a while.
Then she was like, ';Have you ever heard about the rainbow team?';
And I was like ';Yea...';
I didn't really hear about that specific one, but I knew that rainbows stand for gay.
And so then she was like ';You have?';
And I was like ';Yea...';
And she was like ';Well...do you see where I'm going with this?';
And then she told me she was gay.
And I don't have any problems with gays, I support them.
(I'm not gay though.)
And then she told me to swear not to tell.
And then she told me friend, 'cause my friend has a gay sister.
But then she started talking to me more on myspace.
And then she said 'she liked me.'
I didn't know how to react.
So I just ignored her.
Then she said sorry and filled up 5 pages of my inbox, not exaggerating.
Then she told me that she loved me...
I stopped talking to her after that.
My friend then messaged her, 'cause I told my friend all about the messages, and told her to fcuk off.
Then today at school, she had one of her friends bring me something.
It was a bracelet...
With my initial on it.
She then messaged me on myspace today and said ';So...what did you do with it?';
GAWSH!
Can someone just help me?!
Easy 10 points.
And sorry that it's super long.
If you read this all, I'll love you!
But help me, please!
Thanks in advance.Hey, I really need some advice! HELP ME!?
well, first of all. why didn't you just tell her straight off the bat that you aren't gay and don't have feelings for her before just ignoring her. If she understands that, then she'll probably either leave you alone completely or still be your friend or at worst still like you and stuff but unless she's loony you're good.
hope this helped! good luck!Hey, I really need some advice! HELP ME!?
well i think there's two possiblilties. \
One is that she is very confussed girl and you be there to help her just by being a good friend and listening to her.
The other is that she's a ***** and she's just playing stuid games with you. I guess you'll have to make the judgement call, but if i were you i'd think about how you'd feel if it turned out she was confussed and messed up and needed a friend and you werent there for her. Would you feel really bad?
I dunno, i hope you make the right choice, You seem like a nice kid. Good luck!
wow thats intense. lol i would just nicely explain to her that you dont really think of her in that way, but you appreciate her trusting you and you will keep her secret, and then you wont have to deal with her.
yea, you love me, lol
i think you should just come clean, telling her that sorry, you just don't feel the same way about her. say (if you were good friends before) that you still want to be friends though.
She's in the 6th grade, and I'm in the 8th.
She started talking to me about 2 months ago.
And she had added me on myspace.
Then one night, she asked if I could call her.
And at that time, I was over at my best friend's house.
So I called her, and she was talking to me for a while.
Then she was like, ';Have you ever heard about the rainbow team?';
And I was like ';Yea...';
I didn't really hear about that specific one, but I knew that rainbows stand for gay.
And so then she was like ';You have?';
And I was like ';Yea...';
And she was like ';Well...do you see where I'm going with this?';
And then she told me she was gay.
And I don't have any problems with gays, I support them.
(I'm not gay though.)
And then she told me to swear not to tell.
And then she told me friend, 'cause my friend has a gay sister.
But then she started talking to me more on myspace.
And then she said 'she liked me.'
I didn't know how to react.
So I just ignored her.
Then she said sorry and filled up 5 pages of my inbox, not exaggerating.
Then she told me that she loved me...
I stopped talking to her after that.
My friend then messaged her, 'cause I told my friend all about the messages, and told her to fcuk off.
Then today at school, she had one of her friends bring me something.
It was a bracelet...
With my initial on it.
She then messaged me on myspace today and said ';So...what did you do with it?';
GAWSH!
Can someone just help me?!
Easy 10 points.
And sorry that it's super long.
If you read this all, I'll love you!
But help me, please!
Thanks in advance.Hey, I really need some advice! HELP ME!?
well, first of all. why didn't you just tell her straight off the bat that you aren't gay and don't have feelings for her before just ignoring her. If she understands that, then she'll probably either leave you alone completely or still be your friend or at worst still like you and stuff but unless she's loony you're good.
hope this helped! good luck!Hey, I really need some advice! HELP ME!?
well i think there's two possiblilties. \
One is that she is very confussed girl and you be there to help her just by being a good friend and listening to her.
The other is that she's a ***** and she's just playing stuid games with you. I guess you'll have to make the judgement call, but if i were you i'd think about how you'd feel if it turned out she was confussed and messed up and needed a friend and you werent there for her. Would you feel really bad?
I dunno, i hope you make the right choice, You seem like a nice kid. Good luck!
wow thats intense. lol i would just nicely explain to her that you dont really think of her in that way, but you appreciate her trusting you and you will keep her secret, and then you wont have to deal with her.
yea, you love me, lol
i think you should just come clean, telling her that sorry, you just don't feel the same way about her. say (if you were good friends before) that you still want to be friends though.
Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
today is my ex boyfriends birthday
i sent him a text saying happy birthday
but im at work and all i can do is be sad
everytime i see the date it reminds me its his birthday
and that i am not a part of it.
i am okay with not being with him, but for some reason, today is really hard. i want to give him a big b-day hug and make sure he has the greatest day ever.
but he has someone else to do that for him now.
and that is okay.
either way. im really sad. i cant focus. and it just brings tears to me eyes. thanks for any words of wisdom. Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
Honey, it happens to the best of us. Keep holding your head up high and try to move on with your life. The more that you try to act like it doesn't bother you, the less satisfaction he gets out of it. Also, do something that you really like and enjoy to get this off of your mind. You sound like you deserve somebody better, and there's somebody out there for everyone... All you need to do is keep looking. =] And another thing that might help is have a night in with your closest girl friends and have a good cry and let it all out, and then move on. Everyone needs to vent about stuff. =]
Good luck, and I hope I was a help. =]Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
it is because you are human. you have memory and you have feelings. you should let them all be but the important thing that makes you unique in a kind is the ability to think and decide on doing the best thing for you, no matter what the result is. Have fun and enjoy this sadness because you are going to become happy soon.
I knwo what you mean I'm really sorry you juts have to stay strong and give it more time and get out a little maybe youneed a rebound or just get out with your friends and I mean that in the nicest way possible or course
His birthday has nothin to do with it U are just using that as an excuse to cover up fact that U still have strong feelings 4 him!!
Don't be sad, don't be sad, be glad you have someone, nah mean?
I am really sry... Hopefully tomorrow will be better. If you truley love them, you will want them to be happy.. it sucks..it does... trust me ...
sounds to me like your depressed because you have'nt gotten over your ex yet.
Hi Fran,
Just give it some time. You'll be OK.
Take care,
- Charlie
I'm sorry. Its gotta be hard I know but you need to uplift your self from this and keep keeping on. You can always though think about the good times you had i mean doesn't that make you smile now? It would to me. just remember this all happened for a very good reason and yeah you dont see it now but hun i promise you, you will. Keep the head up high and keep smiling. its nice though that you wished him a b-day and it probably even stings more that hes sharing this special day of his with another female but hey its happens. it sucks but it happens. You'll find your prince and all of this right now will fade away. good Luck:)
You are learning why it is SOOOOOO important to move into relationships slowly and not Bond, especially physically with someone until you are ready.
It is hard to give up someone you have bonded with but you and millions of others have done it and lived.
Please be careful in the future and go slow while getting to know the next guy and you should do better. I know you are not even thinking of the next guy yet and are much more focused on the girl that is there instead of you but, put it behind you and if you really loved him, you would want him to be happy and he has moved on with his life so try to say a prayer for his happiness and you will feel better right after you do.
Just try it.
You are so cool!
i sent him a text saying happy birthday
but im at work and all i can do is be sad
everytime i see the date it reminds me its his birthday
and that i am not a part of it.
i am okay with not being with him, but for some reason, today is really hard. i want to give him a big b-day hug and make sure he has the greatest day ever.
but he has someone else to do that for him now.
and that is okay.
either way. im really sad. i cant focus. and it just brings tears to me eyes. thanks for any words of wisdom. Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
Honey, it happens to the best of us. Keep holding your head up high and try to move on with your life. The more that you try to act like it doesn't bother you, the less satisfaction he gets out of it. Also, do something that you really like and enjoy to get this off of your mind. You sound like you deserve somebody better, and there's somebody out there for everyone... All you need to do is keep looking. =] And another thing that might help is have a night in with your closest girl friends and have a good cry and let it all out, and then move on. Everyone needs to vent about stuff. =]
Good luck, and I hope I was a help. =]Im very sad today.. any advice.. help?
it is because you are human. you have memory and you have feelings. you should let them all be but the important thing that makes you unique in a kind is the ability to think and decide on doing the best thing for you, no matter what the result is. Have fun and enjoy this sadness because you are going to become happy soon.
I knwo what you mean I'm really sorry you juts have to stay strong and give it more time and get out a little maybe youneed a rebound or just get out with your friends and I mean that in the nicest way possible or course
His birthday has nothin to do with it U are just using that as an excuse to cover up fact that U still have strong feelings 4 him!!
Don't be sad, don't be sad, be glad you have someone, nah mean?
I am really sry... Hopefully tomorrow will be better. If you truley love them, you will want them to be happy.. it sucks..it does... trust me ...
sounds to me like your depressed because you have'nt gotten over your ex yet.
Hi Fran,
Just give it some time. You'll be OK.
Take care,
- Charlie
I'm sorry. Its gotta be hard I know but you need to uplift your self from this and keep keeping on. You can always though think about the good times you had i mean doesn't that make you smile now? It would to me. just remember this all happened for a very good reason and yeah you dont see it now but hun i promise you, you will. Keep the head up high and keep smiling. its nice though that you wished him a b-day and it probably even stings more that hes sharing this special day of his with another female but hey its happens. it sucks but it happens. You'll find your prince and all of this right now will fade away. good Luck:)
You are learning why it is SOOOOOO important to move into relationships slowly and not Bond, especially physically with someone until you are ready.
It is hard to give up someone you have bonded with but you and millions of others have done it and lived.
Please be careful in the future and go slow while getting to know the next guy and you should do better. I know you are not even thinking of the next guy yet and are much more focused on the girl that is there instead of you but, put it behind you and if you really loved him, you would want him to be happy and he has moved on with his life so try to say a prayer for his happiness and you will feel better right after you do.
Just try it.
You are so cool!
Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?
What would you do if you had a man in your life that would do anything in his power to please you in every way possible. And I do mean anything. I mean this man loves me to death and unconditionally. But there's a problem he never has any money because he drinks and party alot. He's an alcoholic and when he's not drinking he the greatest person you would want to know. My issue is that he make a good living he makes triple what i make. Off my salary i can only provide for myself on his salary he can provide for a family of 4 without any help. Now here's another thing he's always asking for money from me and for the first time in a long time told him no because i feel that he looks at me as the go to person when he run out of money now he pays back but im tired of him ******* over his money when he could me saving it. I felt bad when i told him know because over all he's a good person but has bad habits. So my question is would i be selfish to just let him go without helping him manage his money and helping him with his drinking problem (even though I have tried to help him on several occasion but it didn't work). Or should i stick around because he's over all a good person(but im tried of be the one to loan him money when all he do is blow his). Also we are not teenagers here he's in his late 30's. I basically given up.Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?
Babe, it's never worth it if there's alcohol involved. When someone has a problem with it, it never is good. He can make all the money in the world and say he loves you, but if he does not love himself, it is not going to work no matter how hard U try. HE has to try, and correct it. You can't consistantly make excuses up for him esp. in a relationship. If will always be a terrible factor in your relationship until he gets help himself and stays in a good state of mind.
Realize this now before you invest more of your life into someone that doesn't love themselves.Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?
take him to aa eeting help him don't leave him if you love him you might regret it one day help him if hr llove you he'll change
I NEED HELP PLEASE
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Life is too short to be putting up with stuff like that sweetie!
First of all, call me old school, but I don't feel like men should EVER ask a woman to borrow money.
I sense that you've got a good heart, but you just happen to attract the wrong people!
He probably is a nice guy, but if he didn't accept your help to stop his drinking than you can't REALLY say that he'll do ANYTHING for you...now can you?
Let him worry about providing for himself and you worry about providing for yourself! If he wants to treat you to something fine, but this coming to you to borrow money has GOT to stop!
With touchy subjects like this, you may have to let go of his friendship for a while to get the message across to him!
Good luck honey!
what you should do about his alcohol prob is take hom to those classes for alcohalic people but dont tell him were you guys are going or try a bet with him like if can go two weeks without drinking or partying and by the end of the bet he'll probably be over his addiction and you should talk to him and his parents about saving his money like tell him that if he saves alot of his money he could start bying alot of things (e.x like a car,tv,dvd,) and when you guys go out make sure he brings money and you do too but you only pay for yourself.
Babe, it's never worth it if there's alcohol involved. When someone has a problem with it, it never is good. He can make all the money in the world and say he loves you, but if he does not love himself, it is not going to work no matter how hard U try. HE has to try, and correct it. You can't consistantly make excuses up for him esp. in a relationship. If will always be a terrible factor in your relationship until he gets help himself and stays in a good state of mind.
Realize this now before you invest more of your life into someone that doesn't love themselves.Heeeeeeeeeeeelp Pls Im Screaming for advice Help?
take him to aa eeting help him don't leave him if you love him you might regret it one day help him if hr llove you he'll change
I NEED HELP PLEASE
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Life is too short to be putting up with stuff like that sweetie!
First of all, call me old school, but I don't feel like men should EVER ask a woman to borrow money.
I sense that you've got a good heart, but you just happen to attract the wrong people!
He probably is a nice guy, but if he didn't accept your help to stop his drinking than you can't REALLY say that he'll do ANYTHING for you...now can you?
Let him worry about providing for himself and you worry about providing for yourself! If he wants to treat you to something fine, but this coming to you to borrow money has GOT to stop!
With touchy subjects like this, you may have to let go of his friendship for a while to get the message across to him!
Good luck honey!
what you should do about his alcohol prob is take hom to those classes for alcohalic people but dont tell him were you guys are going or try a bet with him like if can go two weeks without drinking or partying and by the end of the bet he'll probably be over his addiction and you should talk to him and his parents about saving his money like tell him that if he saves alot of his money he could start bying alot of things (e.x like a car,tv,dvd,) and when you guys go out make sure he brings money and you do too but you only pay for yourself.
Help i need advice about this problem i got?
Next month i'll be starting school as a new student here in CA. I'm 19 years old. I also just bought a Lamborghini Gallardo which i will be taking to school, and if your wondering what i do for a living i Rap add me in Myspace.
Do you guys think i'll get known pretty damn quick in school?
And do you think i'll be getting lots of very freaky girls?
(I don't want a gf)Help i need advice about this problem i got?
Firstly the boys would go like WOW!!! n their eyes will quickly turn red. Jealous of ur success n owning an expensive car. Saying to themselves we have a GOLDMINE in our school. You will be robbed or kidnapped in less than a week knowing that u are damn wealthy. Or very likely your car will get stolen.
You will attract all kind fo girls. U name it: The Geek, Freaky, Popular, Suicidal girls n etc... Forget about the girls in school. When u drive that kind of car on the road, its already a head turner n if u are cool the girls will chase after u. I believed u just an attention seeker..
Here is my 2 cents worth. If u are rich or famous dun show it. Its wise to be humble n down to earth. If u really have to flaunt it n damn famous be prepared to spent ten of thousands for ur own personal bodyguards. If u r so damn rich why dun go for homeschooling. All celebrities n rich children did that.
If u came to my school, before the first week is over, I will get myself n 3 of my friends wearing a ski mask n get whatever cash on you. Then take your car for a ride before selling it in the black market. Haha!!!
Mr. Fatboy Slim
http://mrfatboyslim.blogspot.com/Help i need advice about this problem i got?
im 17. i wouldnt want a lot of freaky girls. im a girl. girls dnt want to b used. it hurts bad. u will b known by the stuff u have. u want to b known by who u r. if u dnt wanna girl dnt hook up with them. thats leading them on. and it hurts bad.. u just need to tell the girl wat u want b4 u do anything. if u start hurtin a lot of girls or using them to hook up with then ull end up not having any1 bc rumors spread and girls tlk.
yeah u will probly be thought a spoilt brat until u get people to know u. drivin a car like that smells like spoilt brat really heavy.
now if u really ain't a spoilt brat people will learn that soon and all will go fine.
and yeah chicks will beg u and all. there's always those golddiggers runnin around. get rid of em however u can. i try to do it nicely the first time, but i can get nasty if i have to.
I think your Lambo will go missing in less than a week.
Yes, as the guy that got his Lambo jacked in less than a week.
Freaky girls,,, you can find that in any alley way in CA.
If you pay enough $ maybe a hot one will talk to you.
All jokes aside ............People will think your a punk poser.
Do you guys think i'll get known pretty damn quick in school?
And do you think i'll be getting lots of very freaky girls?
(I don't want a gf)Help i need advice about this problem i got?
Firstly the boys would go like WOW!!! n their eyes will quickly turn red. Jealous of ur success n owning an expensive car. Saying to themselves we have a GOLDMINE in our school. You will be robbed or kidnapped in less than a week knowing that u are damn wealthy. Or very likely your car will get stolen.
You will attract all kind fo girls. U name it: The Geek, Freaky, Popular, Suicidal girls n etc... Forget about the girls in school. When u drive that kind of car on the road, its already a head turner n if u are cool the girls will chase after u. I believed u just an attention seeker..
Here is my 2 cents worth. If u are rich or famous dun show it. Its wise to be humble n down to earth. If u really have to flaunt it n damn famous be prepared to spent ten of thousands for ur own personal bodyguards. If u r so damn rich why dun go for homeschooling. All celebrities n rich children did that.
If u came to my school, before the first week is over, I will get myself n 3 of my friends wearing a ski mask n get whatever cash on you. Then take your car for a ride before selling it in the black market. Haha!!!
Mr. Fatboy Slim
http://mrfatboyslim.blogspot.com/Help i need advice about this problem i got?
im 17. i wouldnt want a lot of freaky girls. im a girl. girls dnt want to b used. it hurts bad. u will b known by the stuff u have. u want to b known by who u r. if u dnt wanna girl dnt hook up with them. thats leading them on. and it hurts bad.. u just need to tell the girl wat u want b4 u do anything. if u start hurtin a lot of girls or using them to hook up with then ull end up not having any1 bc rumors spread and girls tlk.
yeah u will probly be thought a spoilt brat until u get people to know u. drivin a car like that smells like spoilt brat really heavy.
now if u really ain't a spoilt brat people will learn that soon and all will go fine.
and yeah chicks will beg u and all. there's always those golddiggers runnin around. get rid of em however u can. i try to do it nicely the first time, but i can get nasty if i have to.
I think your Lambo will go missing in less than a week.
Yes, as the guy that got his Lambo jacked in less than a week.
Freaky girls,,, you can find that in any alley way in CA.
If you pay enough $ maybe a hot one will talk to you.
All jokes aside ............People will think your a punk poser.
Not Certain about Lexapro, need advice/help.?
Ive been taking Lexapro for a little over 6 months now for depression and anxiety. I was on a 10mg dose for about the first 3 months then bumped up to a 20mg dose which is what I am currently taking. It has helped but at a very very slow pace. I still have episodes of anxiety and depression, and occasional relapses, each seems less severe then the previous but they still suck. Should I still be experiencing the symptoms or having the relapses? This is all very new to me and Lexapro is the only medication I have tried, would it possibly be beneficial to try another med such as Paxil, Zoloft, etc.? My mom suffers from depression and anxiety, she has been on Paxil for the last 6-7 years and it has worked fantastic for her, she doesnt experience anything ive mentioned above after taking it. I just desperatley want to get my normal life back, any advice, help, or similar experiences would be greatly appriciated.Not Certain about Lexapro, need advice/help.?
you should be talking to the psychiatrist...lexapro is generally an antidepressant, if you are experiencing anxiety ask about Kolonapin in addition to the Lexapro. Wellbutrin also compliments lexapro as an antidepressant. But anyone prone depression may experience lulls through a time period. Seasonal changes are especially difficult for people with any mood disorder. The winter months can do some damage even being on the right meds and dosages for you.
Just bcuz it worked for your mom doesn't mean it will work for you. I prefer the old standbys that they prefer NOT to prescribe anymore , Elivil (sp?) is fabulous for an antidepression med and there r handfuls of anti anxiety meds out there as well. Effexor works fantastic for anxiety but you tend to put on water weight over time. I didn't want to leave my house for any reason but knew I needed to. I was placed on Effexor along with 2 antidepressants and something to help me sleep. When the effexor kicked in, i felt like myself again. It was great!! I stayed on that for about 1 1/2 years and was tired of gaining wait and weaned myself off...horible going off meds (withdrawals). But I take wellbutrin and Lexapro as well as klonapin(sp?) and with the situation I am in with my children, I also have an outlet that I enjoy. if I didn't have the outlet the meds wouldn't help too much.Not Certain about Lexapro, need advice/help.?
try
www.truehope.com
i've heard that lexapro really helps as well as paxil....you can talk to your dr about letting you try a new med.....consider paxil
you should be talking to the psychiatrist...lexapro is generally an antidepressant, if you are experiencing anxiety ask about Kolonapin in addition to the Lexapro. Wellbutrin also compliments lexapro as an antidepressant. But anyone prone depression may experience lulls through a time period. Seasonal changes are especially difficult for people with any mood disorder. The winter months can do some damage even being on the right meds and dosages for you.
Just bcuz it worked for your mom doesn't mean it will work for you. I prefer the old standbys that they prefer NOT to prescribe anymore , Elivil (sp?) is fabulous for an antidepression med and there r handfuls of anti anxiety meds out there as well. Effexor works fantastic for anxiety but you tend to put on water weight over time. I didn't want to leave my house for any reason but knew I needed to. I was placed on Effexor along with 2 antidepressants and something to help me sleep. When the effexor kicked in, i felt like myself again. It was great!! I stayed on that for about 1 1/2 years and was tired of gaining wait and weaned myself off...horible going off meds (withdrawals). But I take wellbutrin and Lexapro as well as klonapin(sp?) and with the situation I am in with my children, I also have an outlet that I enjoy. if I didn't have the outlet the meds wouldn't help too much.Not Certain about Lexapro, need advice/help.?
try
www.truehope.com
i've heard that lexapro really helps as well as paxil....you can talk to your dr about letting you try a new med.....consider paxil
I am thinging about geting a pet.but i dont know what to get!please write some advice quick! need help?
please help me decide what pet i should get.i need helpI am thinging about geting a pet.but i dont know what to get!please write some advice quick! need help?
A rat. Not hard to take care of. Feed it. Give it water. Clean it's cage. But get two, they get lonely.
Interested in adopting? Check out: http://www.freewebs.com/pet--adoptions/I am thinging about geting a pet.but i dont know what to get!please write some advice quick! need help?
I think you should get a pet that you decide you could take care of and could make time to feed it and spend time with it.If you want a loyal loving companion a fish or snail aren't good choices.if you just want a pet to get right away just get a simple animal ranging from a dog to a hamster. If you want a excotic pet or a fish hey it is up to you. But if you can try looking a your local animal shelter and adopt a animal instead of getting a high priced perfectly unabused animal compared to a animal that has gotten a second chance.But if you want my answer I would get a labbrador they are neasy to care for and to train let alone a loyal waterloving copainon that can fetch ,swim and even be trained to simply sit why you give it a bath.But don't get a animal because someone told you to get one. you choose a pet that suits you.
it really depends on what your lifestyle is like. the fact that you need advice quick shows that you just want a pet and arent thinking of its needs. if loads of prople say to get a snake will you go out and get one without research or preperation? i would suggest a ferret as long as you do alot of thinking and research...or a goldfish
What I would suggest is writing down a list of the things that you want in a pet (because it's hard to give you a suggestion with no information). If you live in a small apartment, for example, you're not going to want to get a dog that requires a lot of energy and room to run. Think about what you can provide to a pet in terms of living space, your budget for vet care, how dependent you'd like them to be (a cat is more independent than a dog), etc. Don't just go out and pick an animal because it's cute - that is how animals end up in shelters. Think about all the things that bringing home a pet mean - financially, emotionally, etc. This will help you make the best choice for you and your future pet.
A shelter is always the best place to start your search, too - there are plenty of animals that need loving homes. Try www.petfinder.com for a list of shelters and pets near you.lips
A rat. Not hard to take care of. Feed it. Give it water. Clean it's cage. But get two, they get lonely.
Interested in adopting? Check out: http://www.freewebs.com/pet--adoptions/I am thinging about geting a pet.but i dont know what to get!please write some advice quick! need help?
I think you should get a pet that you decide you could take care of and could make time to feed it and spend time with it.If you want a loyal loving companion a fish or snail aren't good choices.if you just want a pet to get right away just get a simple animal ranging from a dog to a hamster. If you want a excotic pet or a fish hey it is up to you. But if you can try looking a your local animal shelter and adopt a animal instead of getting a high priced perfectly unabused animal compared to a animal that has gotten a second chance.But if you want my answer I would get a labbrador they are neasy to care for and to train let alone a loyal waterloving copainon that can fetch ,swim and even be trained to simply sit why you give it a bath.But don't get a animal because someone told you to get one. you choose a pet that suits you.
it really depends on what your lifestyle is like. the fact that you need advice quick shows that you just want a pet and arent thinking of its needs. if loads of prople say to get a snake will you go out and get one without research or preperation? i would suggest a ferret as long as you do alot of thinking and research...or a goldfish
What I would suggest is writing down a list of the things that you want in a pet (because it's hard to give you a suggestion with no information). If you live in a small apartment, for example, you're not going to want to get a dog that requires a lot of energy and room to run. Think about what you can provide to a pet in terms of living space, your budget for vet care, how dependent you'd like them to be (a cat is more independent than a dog), etc. Don't just go out and pick an animal because it's cute - that is how animals end up in shelters. Think about all the things that bringing home a pet mean - financially, emotionally, etc. This will help you make the best choice for you and your future pet.
A shelter is always the best place to start your search, too - there are plenty of animals that need loving homes. Try www.petfinder.com for a list of shelters and pets near you.
Transgender: FTM... I need resources, advice, HELP!!!?
I am a male born in a females body. I have known my entire life but never been able to do anything about it. I dont know where to turn... how to even begin the process of my transformation but i know that if i dont do something soon i will go crazy. I am interested in finding out information on EVERYTHING i would need to know about making the change. I have started to do some research on different occassions but always stop due to thinking ill never be brave enough to go through with it. I know that it will be hard... i know i will be ridiculed... but i also know that if i dont do something, i do not want to live the life i have been given. Please... someone help me. someone please just give me a place to startTransgender: FTM... I need resources, advice, HELP!!!?
I commend you on your decision to do research on your true self. It's so hard to admit it. Good for you!
I know a lot of programs about MTF trans people. Here are some that you may want to watch:
Transamerican Love Story (this is like the Bachelor but the star is a MTF trans): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/tran鈥?/a>
Beautiful Daughters (Four transgender women intertwined with the casting, rehearsal and opening of Eve Ensler's ';The Vagina Monologues';): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/beau鈥?/a>
The Believers (What happens when a group of trans-people want to reclaim their spirituality and start an all-trans gospel choir?): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/the_鈥?/a>
No Dumb Questions (Documentary with 3 young children, and their struggle to understand their uncle's transition to becoming their aunt): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/no_d鈥?/a>
I hope those help you. They are all documentaries so they are semi-true life.
Transgender: FTM... I need resources, advice, HELP!!!?
I know it can be overwhelming now, but the good news is LOTS of guys have been in your shoes, and have not only been able to survive it, but thrive!
http://www.ftmaustralia.org/galleries/me鈥?/a>
Resources will depend on where you live but i've included some of the classic online resources in the sources section. My advice, just take it one step at a time. At any given moment check in with yourself about what you are comfortable taking on. Before long, you'll find yourself where you want to be!
first of all try to find what sex you really want to be ,the other day I watch on tv two person in the same position like you they become men and later they were uncomfortable with their body ,one of them did have money for the surgery and he put all his history in the internet and the people help him to do it ,if you have comcast you can see it
Hey dude, im an FTM too and have only just started my transisition, if you want advice or anyone to talk to message me :)
as for sources heres a few websites (ill update this message with more info later as i just realised im late for work lol!! but heres a few for now)
http://www.lauras-playground.com/ftm_art鈥?/a>
http://www.ftmguide.org/grs.html
http://www.dmoz.org/Society/Transgendere鈥?/a>
Forget the resources Hon. I knew I was a transexual from a very early age. I kept it secret for 17 years before finally letting the world know. I researched the various sites around for at least 5 of those.
If you really want to know about it, You need to speak to your doctor. They will put you in touch with a therapist who specialises in these conditions and THEY will be the best resource you can have, because no two peoples process is ever the same, and they're specially trained to help us deal with it, and explain what happens.
And whether or not you decide to go through with the transition, they'll be able to confirm your feelings and teach you ways to come to terms with it, and what you want it to mean in your life ;)
Good luck sweety
While the internet has no shortage of FTM information, you should also consider attending a transgender support group. Most any area with a decent sized population has one and going to one will give you the opportunity to meet others like yourself and learn from them. It's tough to live a gender variant life, but that shouldn't stop you if that's who you really are.
What city are you in. Because there are tons of resources.
Myself I am MTF but I know several FTM people. The first thing it that it is far easier for a man in a woman's body to successfully transition than the other way around. Because being a short guy is no big deal.
All the FTMs I know have been successful as men and once they have had the mastectomy and take the hormones they do quite well.
The biggest deal is that you will have to inject yourself with testosterone every 2-3 weeks for as long as you want to exhibit male characteristics.
As well, many of the trans men get a hysterectomy. However, the surgery for creating a penis seldom gives satisfactory results and few trans men get it.
Here in LA there are tons of resources and there are in most big cities. You just need to go on line and look for them.
drcroake,
The best place to start would be researching any type of transgendered network or possible organization within your city (if you live in a rural community, search in the nearest city). There are usually several in major cities, you are not alone! They have great support systems and information regarding health questions, social questions, etc. They may also have information on various doctors in the city who are known to be transgender-friendly. They will set you up with information on hormones, proper dosage, and insurance that can possibly be set up for you if you choose to pursue surgery as an option.
Yes it will be hard, you will face people thinking that what you are doing is wrong, but there are many more people out there who are accepting and will truly love you for who you are. My best friend has been on T for about a year now. We respect his decision and life has pretty much been the same (except, she just happens to now be a he)
Good luck!
- Nikki
I commend you on your decision to do research on your true self. It's so hard to admit it. Good for you!
I know a lot of programs about MTF trans people. Here are some that you may want to watch:
Transamerican Love Story (this is like the Bachelor but the star is a MTF trans): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/tran鈥?/a>
Beautiful Daughters (Four transgender women intertwined with the casting, rehearsal and opening of Eve Ensler's ';The Vagina Monologues';): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/beau鈥?/a>
The Believers (What happens when a group of trans-people want to reclaim their spirituality and start an all-trans gospel choir?): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/the_鈥?/a>
No Dumb Questions (Documentary with 3 young children, and their struggle to understand their uncle's transition to becoming their aunt): http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/no_d鈥?/a>
I hope those help you. They are all documentaries so they are semi-true life.
Transgender: FTM... I need resources, advice, HELP!!!?
I know it can be overwhelming now, but the good news is LOTS of guys have been in your shoes, and have not only been able to survive it, but thrive!
http://www.ftmaustralia.org/galleries/me鈥?/a>
Resources will depend on where you live but i've included some of the classic online resources in the sources section. My advice, just take it one step at a time. At any given moment check in with yourself about what you are comfortable taking on. Before long, you'll find yourself where you want to be!
first of all try to find what sex you really want to be ,the other day I watch on tv two person in the same position like you they become men and later they were uncomfortable with their body ,one of them did have money for the surgery and he put all his history in the internet and the people help him to do it ,if you have comcast you can see it
Hey dude, im an FTM too and have only just started my transisition, if you want advice or anyone to talk to message me :)
as for sources heres a few websites (ill update this message with more info later as i just realised im late for work lol!! but heres a few for now)
http://www.lauras-playground.com/ftm_art鈥?/a>
http://www.ftmguide.org/grs.html
http://www.dmoz.org/Society/Transgendere鈥?/a>
Forget the resources Hon. I knew I was a transexual from a very early age. I kept it secret for 17 years before finally letting the world know. I researched the various sites around for at least 5 of those.
If you really want to know about it, You need to speak to your doctor. They will put you in touch with a therapist who specialises in these conditions and THEY will be the best resource you can have, because no two peoples process is ever the same, and they're specially trained to help us deal with it, and explain what happens.
And whether or not you decide to go through with the transition, they'll be able to confirm your feelings and teach you ways to come to terms with it, and what you want it to mean in your life ;)
Good luck sweety
While the internet has no shortage of FTM information, you should also consider attending a transgender support group. Most any area with a decent sized population has one and going to one will give you the opportunity to meet others like yourself and learn from them. It's tough to live a gender variant life, but that shouldn't stop you if that's who you really are.
What city are you in. Because there are tons of resources.
Myself I am MTF but I know several FTM people. The first thing it that it is far easier for a man in a woman's body to successfully transition than the other way around. Because being a short guy is no big deal.
All the FTMs I know have been successful as men and once they have had the mastectomy and take the hormones they do quite well.
The biggest deal is that you will have to inject yourself with testosterone every 2-3 weeks for as long as you want to exhibit male characteristics.
As well, many of the trans men get a hysterectomy. However, the surgery for creating a penis seldom gives satisfactory results and few trans men get it.
Here in LA there are tons of resources and there are in most big cities. You just need to go on line and look for them.
drcroake,
The best place to start would be researching any type of transgendered network or possible organization within your city (if you live in a rural community, search in the nearest city). There are usually several in major cities, you are not alone! They have great support systems and information regarding health questions, social questions, etc. They may also have information on various doctors in the city who are known to be transgender-friendly. They will set you up with information on hormones, proper dosage, and insurance that can possibly be set up for you if you choose to pursue surgery as an option.
Yes it will be hard, you will face people thinking that what you are doing is wrong, but there are many more people out there who are accepting and will truly love you for who you are. My best friend has been on T for about a year now. We respect his decision and life has pretty much been the same (except, she just happens to now be a he)
Good luck!
- Nikki
I need some friggin girl advice!! HELP?
so i theres this girl and we've been talking for the past like 2 months and i just cant bring myself to tell her i like her. we talk pretty much everyday,on the phone and whatnot, but i just cant tell her i like her. idk what the frig i'm afraid of tho. i've shown her that i have an interest in her and i think that she kinda likes me but shes so unpredictable. like ill see her in the halls and she'll pretty much ignore me but then somedays she'll be talking to me every time she sees me. i just don't wanna wait too long and then it becoming just a really good friendship. how can i just get over this fear and just tell her without it blowing up in my face? and what exactly should i say?I need some friggin girl advice!! HELP?
JUST DO IT.
The next time you see her, talk to her about things and then out of nowhere just be like ';Can I tell you something?'; and hoprefully she'll say YES. and just tell her, and be straight up with her :)
GOODLUCK!I need some friggin girl advice!! HELP?
Dude.
You're afraid she'll reject you.
Right now she's not rejected you but not accepted you either: a comfortable, safe, neutral situation...except you ain't got the girl!
The very worst that can possibly happen is...you won't get the girl. In other words, you'll be no worse off than you are now if she rejects you!
OTOH, if she doesn't...
Bring her a rose. Just hand it to her. Don't say anything.
Let her ask you whats up.
Tell her, ';You know.';
THEN tell her you like her, that you just wanted her to know that she's special to you.
hmmmmm girls will some times do that to you and im not sure why maybe to pull you closer to them or what but ide say you should just ask her out or its thats too hard or whatever just hang out with her more and one day (hopefully) you'll like her so much you will tell her how you feel regardless of what she might say. Cause hey maybe shell be like cool we should go out or whatever......any ways good luck man
Tell her you like her.
If she blows up in your face, take is as a blessing.
God knows you don't want to date a psyco.
i liek you, if you don't like me its fine, we can be friends
you have to have the confidence to be rejected or to have her as your new girlfriend. whichever way confidence is key. you gotta be like, yeah im cool and i know it. if you cant accept yourself, she wont accept you. if you talk on the phone everyday, youre in as her friend. as for ignoring you, take a look around to see whos there. maybe she just doesnt see you? she talks to you the other times. and having a good relationship requires a good friendship. if youve been close for the past 2 months and you think youre ready to take the step, do it. take the risk! whatever the result, know that you had the guts to do it and be proud of yourself : D good luck!! %26lt;3
make sure you develop a strong friendship first so you will have something to fall back on if the gf and bf thing doesnt work out
girls are unpredictable they may be embaressed or scared
and sometimes they may feel totally comfortable
tell her that you like her and see how it goes
tell her that you dont want to make anything awkard
Go for it. I found out a guy I had a crush on had a crush on me 2, but it was way to late by then. Don't let the opportunity pass you by. It's way better to go for it and fail than wonder for the rest of your life. Missed chances are horrible things that follow you forever. I've told a crush or 2 how I felt in a letter. Waiting 4 them to answer is really scary, but when they call and return your feelings it's all worth it and you wonder why u waited.
text her or send her a myspace message explaining everything. its much easier and it still means a lot cuz she'll no that u had to have guts to do it. i did that and it worked!
send me both your emails and I'll ask her for you and let you know what she says....
thats really sweet.............. just be like hey i really like you and well i'm not sure how you feel but i was wondering if you would go to the movies with me friday ( Or whereever you want to go) and see what happens
the next time you talk to her, ask her to do something with you. just say, ';hey, lets hang out this weekend.'; if she says okay, then just go and have fun with her. VERY IMPORTANT - dont freeze up or act scared. thats one of the biggest turn offs for girls. just be fun and be yourself around her. good luck.
well the it seems that your crush has an crush on you to
let me tell you you should take her some place where there isn't much destruction and talk to her and if you want to ask her but start off like this or kinda (do you think I'm cute).
Just ask her out to go do something and let it go from there.
She already knows. She likes you too but she probably doesn't have a lot of experience and is nervous and scared. So ask her out and that's all you can do.
JUST DO IT.
The next time you see her, talk to her about things and then out of nowhere just be like ';Can I tell you something?'; and hoprefully she'll say YES. and just tell her, and be straight up with her :)
GOODLUCK!I need some friggin girl advice!! HELP?
Dude.
You're afraid she'll reject you.
Right now she's not rejected you but not accepted you either: a comfortable, safe, neutral situation...except you ain't got the girl!
The very worst that can possibly happen is...you won't get the girl. In other words, you'll be no worse off than you are now if she rejects you!
OTOH, if she doesn't...
Bring her a rose. Just hand it to her. Don't say anything.
Let her ask you whats up.
Tell her, ';You know.';
THEN tell her you like her, that you just wanted her to know that she's special to you.
hmmmmm girls will some times do that to you and im not sure why maybe to pull you closer to them or what but ide say you should just ask her out or its thats too hard or whatever just hang out with her more and one day (hopefully) you'll like her so much you will tell her how you feel regardless of what she might say. Cause hey maybe shell be like cool we should go out or whatever......any ways good luck man
Tell her you like her.
If she blows up in your face, take is as a blessing.
God knows you don't want to date a psyco.
i liek you, if you don't like me its fine, we can be friends
you have to have the confidence to be rejected or to have her as your new girlfriend. whichever way confidence is key. you gotta be like, yeah im cool and i know it. if you cant accept yourself, she wont accept you. if you talk on the phone everyday, youre in as her friend. as for ignoring you, take a look around to see whos there. maybe she just doesnt see you? she talks to you the other times. and having a good relationship requires a good friendship. if youve been close for the past 2 months and you think youre ready to take the step, do it. take the risk! whatever the result, know that you had the guts to do it and be proud of yourself : D good luck!! %26lt;3
make sure you develop a strong friendship first so you will have something to fall back on if the gf and bf thing doesnt work out
girls are unpredictable they may be embaressed or scared
and sometimes they may feel totally comfortable
tell her that you like her and see how it goes
tell her that you dont want to make anything awkard
Go for it. I found out a guy I had a crush on had a crush on me 2, but it was way to late by then. Don't let the opportunity pass you by. It's way better to go for it and fail than wonder for the rest of your life. Missed chances are horrible things that follow you forever. I've told a crush or 2 how I felt in a letter. Waiting 4 them to answer is really scary, but when they call and return your feelings it's all worth it and you wonder why u waited.
text her or send her a myspace message explaining everything. its much easier and it still means a lot cuz she'll no that u had to have guts to do it. i did that and it worked!
send me both your emails and I'll ask her for you and let you know what she says....
thats really sweet.............. just be like hey i really like you and well i'm not sure how you feel but i was wondering if you would go to the movies with me friday ( Or whereever you want to go) and see what happens
the next time you talk to her, ask her to do something with you. just say, ';hey, lets hang out this weekend.'; if she says okay, then just go and have fun with her. VERY IMPORTANT - dont freeze up or act scared. thats one of the biggest turn offs for girls. just be fun and be yourself around her. good luck.
well the it seems that your crush has an crush on you to
let me tell you you should take her some place where there isn't much destruction and talk to her and if you want to ask her but start off like this or kinda (do you think I'm cute).
Just ask her out to go do something and let it go from there.
She already knows. She likes you too but she probably doesn't have a lot of experience and is nervous and scared. So ask her out and that's all you can do.
I need job advice- help please!?
I'm 22 and graduated from college in May. I have a history degree and a 9-12 social studies licensure. Before graduation I began looking for teaching jobs. I didn't get one by time school started in August. After graduation, I went back to my summer job that I'd had throughout college- working at a bank as a teller. Once school started and I realized that I probably wouldn't get a full-time teaching job very easily, I went part-time at the bank and began tutoring at Sylvan Learning Center and substituting at a local community college.
This is my problem...I barely get any hours at Sylvan any more and I've only actually subbed a handful of classes. I'm not making very much money because those two jobs are so inconsistent and my job at the bank is only part time. I feel like I need to continue tutoring and subbing to add experience to my resume. But, it doesn't really feel like it's worth the frustration. Does anybody have any advice for me? Is there anything else I could do to better my situation?
Also, I am planning on taking Praxis II in March to add middle school social studies to my teaching licensure, so that I can have more opportunities to find a job.I need job advice- help please!?
Oh I am in the same boat as you. I have a elementary degree and have a full time job since i graduated four years ago. Even with all my subbing experience the best I have done is a full time Title I aide. Many states have teacher suprluses right now, and that coupled with cutbacks in funding make it hard to find jobs.
Getting your middle school lisence is a good idea as it will expand your marketability. If there are any other subjects you are interested in, consider going back to get certified in those. Math and Science teachers are usually still in high demand, even if states that have surpluses. Special education is also a good field. Many colleges have accelerated programs that you can get licenced in a year or so, so shop around and see what you can find
If you are able and willing to move, many states have teacher shortages, and you may be able to find something there - like the Carolinas, Florida, and Georgia.
Also consider working as an aide, if you can find a position as one with full time or lots of hours. The pay is usually not great, but it is great on a resume.
Good luck to you!I need job advice- help please!?
Sub for jr. high and high school.
If you can handle it be a Spec. Ed aide they make ~$17-20 per hr. they get some benefits too.
If you move???
Try Private tutoring for rich kids
This is my problem...I barely get any hours at Sylvan any more and I've only actually subbed a handful of classes. I'm not making very much money because those two jobs are so inconsistent and my job at the bank is only part time. I feel like I need to continue tutoring and subbing to add experience to my resume. But, it doesn't really feel like it's worth the frustration. Does anybody have any advice for me? Is there anything else I could do to better my situation?
Also, I am planning on taking Praxis II in March to add middle school social studies to my teaching licensure, so that I can have more opportunities to find a job.I need job advice- help please!?
Oh I am in the same boat as you. I have a elementary degree and have a full time job since i graduated four years ago. Even with all my subbing experience the best I have done is a full time Title I aide. Many states have teacher suprluses right now, and that coupled with cutbacks in funding make it hard to find jobs.
Getting your middle school lisence is a good idea as it will expand your marketability. If there are any other subjects you are interested in, consider going back to get certified in those. Math and Science teachers are usually still in high demand, even if states that have surpluses. Special education is also a good field. Many colleges have accelerated programs that you can get licenced in a year or so, so shop around and see what you can find
If you are able and willing to move, many states have teacher shortages, and you may be able to find something there - like the Carolinas, Florida, and Georgia.
Also consider working as an aide, if you can find a position as one with full time or lots of hours. The pay is usually not great, but it is great on a resume.
Good luck to you!I need job advice- help please!?
Sub for jr. high and high school.
If you can handle it be a Spec. Ed aide they make ~$17-20 per hr. they get some benefits too.
If you move???
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I need friend advice/help?
last year me and my friend ';l'; had this friend ';m'; we would all always comment about how many guys would come up to her. m was kinda annoying about it cause she would flirt with them and stuff and act like she didnt know it. she moved and this year a few guys are coming up to me so my friends l and n are treating me like her. my one friend l hates the girl and shes becoming closer to n and i dont want to lose her as a friend but i feel bad so i feel like if i say something shell think she was just joking and think im being like m, which is somethink m would have done. i dont really know what to do cause its not like i can be part of making fun of myself the way they do it so i cant even get in the joke. what should i doo?I need friend advice/help?
well if your friends are not speaking toyou as much just because guys are coming up 2 you not them, then they obviously have some jealousy issues to handle.
well if your friends are not speaking toyou as much just because guys are coming up 2 you not them, then they obviously have some jealousy issues to handle.
In need of advice...help(:?
heey im a 14 year old girl
okay so i like two guys at my school.
Guy 1 just got dumped by his long time girlfriend. I thought he seemed kinda into me, but yesterday he told me he's still in love with his gf. But he still flirts with me. I really like him!
Guy 2, well I don't really know. I've only seen him around school a few times and hes pretty cute. I've never talked to him but i still get butterflies when i see him. I'm too scared he'll be freaked out if I just randomly start talking to him, especially with his friends around.
Plus all my friends say both these guys are super weird(they don't know I like them).
I'm pretty much screwed, can anyone tell me what to do?In need of advice...help(:?
If you're going to date either of them, I say Guy 2.
And if they're your true friends, they won't tear you down for dating someone you like. Tell them ';that's why Im dating them and you're not. It's a good thing we don't like the same guy because that would lead to too much trouble. You don't want me dating your boyfriend, do you?';In need of advice...help(:?
it shouldn't matter what your Friends think its not their Business go out with whoever you want.
okay so i like two guys at my school.
Guy 1 just got dumped by his long time girlfriend. I thought he seemed kinda into me, but yesterday he told me he's still in love with his gf. But he still flirts with me. I really like him!
Guy 2, well I don't really know. I've only seen him around school a few times and hes pretty cute. I've never talked to him but i still get butterflies when i see him. I'm too scared he'll be freaked out if I just randomly start talking to him, especially with his friends around.
Plus all my friends say both these guys are super weird(they don't know I like them).
I'm pretty much screwed, can anyone tell me what to do?In need of advice...help(:?
If you're going to date either of them, I say Guy 2.
And if they're your true friends, they won't tear you down for dating someone you like. Tell them ';that's why Im dating them and you're not. It's a good thing we don't like the same guy because that would lead to too much trouble. You don't want me dating your boyfriend, do you?';In need of advice...help(:?
it shouldn't matter what your Friends think its not their Business go out with whoever you want.
Looking for relationship advice help me out?
dam this is my soul mate basically but i cant have her... here is the story i meet this kutie on a website called tagged and umm we started to talk and get to know each other on yahoo cause her man checks her **** and we everthing incommon fav foods movies **** like that that and we i have only seen her twice in 2 months and we chat in yahoo alot i saw her on wenesday and we went to see movie its was koo and then we had the passionate kiss when we said good bye and i know this girl is my soul mate and she going out with this guy for 3 years and doesnt treat her rite she says there no trust affection honesty and im like what the **** how come she doesnt leave this foe and be with a real man what should i do to get her and be my one and onlyLooking for relationship advice help me out?
you can tell her all you want to convince her to be with you, but it's her decision. sadly, many people make bad decisions in life and become involved in an unhealthy relationship. you can't force her to be in a relationship with you and make her dump him. just keep talking to her and see if anything more happens. but never make the girl drop him for you, it sounds selfish and demanding on your half. be supportive of her but also let her know how you feel about this guy. you could open her eyes or she could have her mind dead set on him. but if she's going out with him for 3 years and kissed you while dating him, could mean that she likes you a lot or it could mean if she's ever with you in the future, she could do the same with another guy while dating you.Looking for relationship advice help me out?
okay if i were her then i would be scared he would do something if she left him. and if he found out about you two who knows what would happen. she is probably only looking out for the both of you.
If she kisses you %26amp;%26amp; stuff while she has a boyfriendd/husband or whatever, she cheats. If she does leave him for you, she'll do the exact same thing to you.
Awww (:
You should go talk to her.
Tell her to leave her abusive boyfriend.
She would be happier with you instead!
Good Luck and Best Wishes :D
well tell her to leave him and be wit u...
but be rest assured she will leave you eventually for some1 elselips
you can tell her all you want to convince her to be with you, but it's her decision. sadly, many people make bad decisions in life and become involved in an unhealthy relationship. you can't force her to be in a relationship with you and make her dump him. just keep talking to her and see if anything more happens. but never make the girl drop him for you, it sounds selfish and demanding on your half. be supportive of her but also let her know how you feel about this guy. you could open her eyes or she could have her mind dead set on him. but if she's going out with him for 3 years and kissed you while dating him, could mean that she likes you a lot or it could mean if she's ever with you in the future, she could do the same with another guy while dating you.Looking for relationship advice help me out?
okay if i were her then i would be scared he would do something if she left him. and if he found out about you two who knows what would happen. she is probably only looking out for the both of you.
If she kisses you %26amp;%26amp; stuff while she has a boyfriendd/husband or whatever, she cheats. If she does leave him for you, she'll do the exact same thing to you.
Awww (:
You should go talk to her.
Tell her to leave her abusive boyfriend.
She would be happier with you instead!
Good Luck and Best Wishes :D
well tell her to leave him and be wit u...
but be rest assured she will leave you eventually for some1 else
I need serious advice. help!?
Okso I like this guy called jarryd. When I was away from school, someone wrote in my book, I love jarryd. I keep saying I didn't do it, I hadn't told anyone I liked him. So he gets the idea I like him. My friend asked him yesterday : if Chloe asked u out would u say yes? And he said maybe. Today me and this girl were fighting and kept calling me mrs (his last name) and jarryd heard and walked over and just said LEAVE ME OUT OF THIS! Sooooo Im guessing he srsly doesent like me. What should I do?I need serious advice. help!?
you should talk to him and tell him you don't like him, look nervous, twitchy, don't make eye-contact, and look to the left as often as you can.(don't ask, it has to do with your right half of your brain.) so... tell him that you don't like him, but he's a really nice person, and he looks good, to make him think that you DO like him. worked with me! ^_^ got tricked twice... i live in the Netherlands, and girls here have WAY too many tricks...I need serious advice. help!?
go up to him and apologize. be sincere and explain that you really didnt write that and that your really sorry about any trouble that youve caused him lately. then go to the girl you fought with and ask her if she could please stop it, that you know she's just teasing you but that you dont want to cause trouble for anyone else..
good luck! (:
you should talk to him and tell him you don't like him, look nervous, twitchy, don't make eye-contact, and look to the left as often as you can.(don't ask, it has to do with your right half of your brain.) so... tell him that you don't like him, but he's a really nice person, and he looks good, to make him think that you DO like him. worked with me! ^_^ got tricked twice... i live in the Netherlands, and girls here have WAY too many tricks...I need serious advice. help!?
go up to him and apologize. be sincere and explain that you really didnt write that and that your really sorry about any trouble that youve caused him lately. then go to the girl you fought with and ask her if she could please stop it, that you know she's just teasing you but that you dont want to cause trouble for anyone else..
good luck! (:
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I am 15 , and my mom asked me what I want to do as a career when I go up and I told her honestly I would like to be a vet tech. part time and also cut and style hair part time. She freaked she told me I could aim higher then that and I'd make no money and if I styled hair it wouldn't be a real job and blah blah blah even though I am only a sophomore I am pretty sure I won't change my mind about my careers I love animals I always have and I love doing hair I always cut and style my own its like my passion. Its just really hurts not to be supported now she bitches at me everyday for it.
I have no idea what too do
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ahh dude sorry! to get along with her tell he MOM guess what! You are so right! I'm gonna become a Dr!!! Yeah sure! I want too become a Therapist Will you be my first patient for practice!
I have no idea what too do
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ahh dude sorry! to get along with her tell he MOM guess what! You are so right! I'm gonna become a Dr!!! Yeah sure! I want too become a Therapist Will you be my first patient for practice!
Need some serious advice, HELP!!?
I've been casually dating one of my guy friends, we're NOT bf/gf. We see each other about once a week and chat and email everyday. We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet. He makes comments like ';you're sweet';, ';wish you were here';, ';miss you so much';....
would it be too forward of me to sign my next email:
XOXO Sara
I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.Need some serious advice, HELP!!?
it doesn't seem too bad if you signed it like that. maybe if you want to wait a little longer and see how things are, and if things progress and you feel more comfortable saying that then sure, so ahead. in my opinion, if i was dating a girl and that girl sent that to me, i would like that haha :DNeed some serious advice, HELP!!?
xoxoxo isn't too bad, you shouldn't scare him off just by doing that, he's a guy after all, he probably won't even notice! you may be making a big deal, he's had the guts to say stuff like ';wish you were here'; and ';you're sweet';, so maybe he's hinting at something! He may just be waiting for you to sound as keen! You're friends anyway, a few xoxoxo's on a page shouldn't effect that even if he doesn't want to be your boyfriend!
Hope this helps, if so, make me the best answer!!! :D
Good luck x x x
xoxo isnt too forward just a general closing.
maybe he feels like he doenst wanna push u cause if u dont really like him n are using him for convenience or whatever then ull back away. remember guys arent as confident as they want u to think.
message him out the blue n say hey was just thinkin of u hope ur having a good day or something along thos elines but make sur eu say i was thinkin of u. start to be a lil more flirtatious n maybe hell catch on soon. or one night if u feel brave text him n say u kinda like him but u dont knwo how he feels about u. the worst that can happen is he doesnt like u. if thats teh case then who cares cause there are millions of people in the world !
i don't think it would be too forward for you to sign your next email like that. if you like him go for it. if he is shy and hasn't taken the next step, but it's obvious that he likes you then you should do something, like signing your emails like that. good luck!
sounds like he really loves yoyu. and it suonds like that situation in the book new moon. lol if you read the twilight series you'll know what i'm talking about. so yeah, if you like him then go for it cuz it suonds like he's making an effort to be with you.
good luck
if you guys have been casually dating and have started saying cute things to each other, its ok to sign that way. its not like you are confessing your undying love for him. its cute to sign that way. it shouldn't scare him off
I don't think it will be too much. I think is kind of means about the same thing as he's saying with the cute comments. It sounds perfect-not too much, but just enough. Hope I helped! =]
if hes saying that stuff to you... then you can say that stuff to him :)
I think that it's a good way of letting him know that you like him. Go for it.
I dont think that would be a big deal!! go ahead and xoxo this message!
no that would be sweet and he would prolly like it!
best of luck! on dating him..lol
No, i think you should put it.
maybe just try a 1 X...keep him wanting more :D
go ahead. Sounds sexy...
';We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet.'; And you also say, ';I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.';?! Girl, you are very scared of a relationship or a very shy girl and afraid to admit it in life. You say he's shy (but he's kissed you) and you have not shown him any affection yet!? Grow up or move back in with your mommy. Kissing you on the cheek and making comments like he does shows his maturity and affection towards you. If you don't know how to kiss him back, hold him close, caress him, or show your physical abilities towards him you're soon your going to go through a lot of men before you finally change and show your similar feelings towards one another. Once again, in response to your statements ';We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet.'; And you also say, ';I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.';?! Girl, you are very scared of a relationship or a very shy girl and afraid to admit it in life. You say he's shy (but he's kissed you) and you have not shown him any affection yet!? You are the nervous, scared, shy one in this relationship. He's much more mature than you at this time. Good luck.
would it be too forward of me to sign my next email:
XOXO Sara
I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.Need some serious advice, HELP!!?
it doesn't seem too bad if you signed it like that. maybe if you want to wait a little longer and see how things are, and if things progress and you feel more comfortable saying that then sure, so ahead. in my opinion, if i was dating a girl and that girl sent that to me, i would like that haha :DNeed some serious advice, HELP!!?
xoxoxo isn't too bad, you shouldn't scare him off just by doing that, he's a guy after all, he probably won't even notice! you may be making a big deal, he's had the guts to say stuff like ';wish you were here'; and ';you're sweet';, so maybe he's hinting at something! He may just be waiting for you to sound as keen! You're friends anyway, a few xoxoxo's on a page shouldn't effect that even if he doesn't want to be your boyfriend!
Hope this helps, if so, make me the best answer!!! :D
Good luck x x x
xoxo isnt too forward just a general closing.
maybe he feels like he doenst wanna push u cause if u dont really like him n are using him for convenience or whatever then ull back away. remember guys arent as confident as they want u to think.
message him out the blue n say hey was just thinkin of u hope ur having a good day or something along thos elines but make sur eu say i was thinkin of u. start to be a lil more flirtatious n maybe hell catch on soon. or one night if u feel brave text him n say u kinda like him but u dont knwo how he feels about u. the worst that can happen is he doesnt like u. if thats teh case then who cares cause there are millions of people in the world !
i don't think it would be too forward for you to sign your next email like that. if you like him go for it. if he is shy and hasn't taken the next step, but it's obvious that he likes you then you should do something, like signing your emails like that. good luck!
sounds like he really loves yoyu. and it suonds like that situation in the book new moon. lol if you read the twilight series you'll know what i'm talking about. so yeah, if you like him then go for it cuz it suonds like he's making an effort to be with you.
good luck
if you guys have been casually dating and have started saying cute things to each other, its ok to sign that way. its not like you are confessing your undying love for him. its cute to sign that way. it shouldn't scare him off
I don't think it will be too much. I think is kind of means about the same thing as he's saying with the cute comments. It sounds perfect-not too much, but just enough. Hope I helped! =]
if hes saying that stuff to you... then you can say that stuff to him :)
I think that it's a good way of letting him know that you like him. Go for it.
I dont think that would be a big deal!! go ahead and xoxo this message!
no that would be sweet and he would prolly like it!
best of luck! on dating him..lol
No, i think you should put it.
maybe just try a 1 X...keep him wanting more :D
go ahead. Sounds sexy...
';We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet.'; And you also say, ';I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.';?! Girl, you are very scared of a relationship or a very shy girl and afraid to admit it in life. You say he's shy (but he's kissed you) and you have not shown him any affection yet!? Grow up or move back in with your mommy. Kissing you on the cheek and making comments like he does shows his maturity and affection towards you. If you don't know how to kiss him back, hold him close, caress him, or show your physical abilities towards him you're soon your going to go through a lot of men before you finally change and show your similar feelings towards one another. Once again, in response to your statements ';We've held hands, cuddled, he's kissed me on the cheek, but I haven't kissed him yet.'; And you also say, ';I just don't want to scare him off cause he's kind of shy, I just want to be kind of flirty.';?! Girl, you are very scared of a relationship or a very shy girl and afraid to admit it in life. You say he's shy (but he's kissed you) and you have not shown him any affection yet!? You are the nervous, scared, shy one in this relationship. He's much more mature than you at this time. Good luck.
EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
Please read story answer if u understand only excuse me for any errors.Why do u think things changed for better for us.When we were in online relationship its different from face to face in person relationship.I was in both with same person,a man ive known decades through family.We are friends past 7years.When we had online relationship there were problems like he would get upset argue call names wouldnt realise if neither was happy sad angry.But after we give it another try in person relationship everything changed no more name calling when upset angry we take time out then talk.Online he would get away with name calling get upset angry shut off.After face to face in person relationship more in love got married after it.
Why do u think this change for us from online to face to face in person relationship.Partners 30s im 20s explain why do u think change for us for better serious answers explain ty.EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
This is a little confusing, but I THINK I have an idea of what u are asking.
It is always easier to be mean to someone over the phone or online. When u are face 2 face it's not as easy to be mean. That is the only thing I can think of. I guess maybe after seeing you face 2 face he just fell deeper in love and decided to change his mean ways before he lost you. I guess that could be an explaination for the change in his behavior. It is also very confusing to communicate online because you can't see the person and you really do not know their demeanor when they are typing. You can misconstrue something harmless as something mean. My husband and I get into arguments alot because we misunderstood something written in an email or on messenger. It his easy tot ake things out of context...except of course, the name calling. That was wrong. Maybe he just realized that he better change before he lost u %26amp; it had nothing to do w/being online or being face 2 face.EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
when your on the net it's very easy to say things and be ways you wouldn't be in person. the computer is not a living breathing thing standing in front of you.. He might have changed because he's gotten to know you in person. but the name calling perplexes me. why would you continue to see someone who has called you names on the net or in person? i hope he has applogised to you for that.
On-line allows us to put on a different face as we do not see that person and to an extent we lose our inhibitions as we are able to hide behind the computer screens. To a degree on-line relationship can be superficial but when you meet the person face to face I believe you tend to be little more honest.
I am surprised that disrespectful online behavior and respectful face-to-face behavior come from the same person.
Maybe he has matured since the online days.
I really don't know.
I'm not sure , but apparently something clicked for ya'll , in my opionion your lucky you found each other in the first place , online dating is usually pretty risky . But sometimes taking a risk can change your whole perpective on life itself . i hope this a least somewhat answers your question .
Good Luck !!!!! And Congrats on your marriage .
Sarah L.
Why do u think this change for us from online to face to face in person relationship.Partners 30s im 20s explain why do u think change for us for better serious answers explain ty.EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
This is a little confusing, but I THINK I have an idea of what u are asking.
It is always easier to be mean to someone over the phone or online. When u are face 2 face it's not as easy to be mean. That is the only thing I can think of. I guess maybe after seeing you face 2 face he just fell deeper in love and decided to change his mean ways before he lost you. I guess that could be an explaination for the change in his behavior. It is also very confusing to communicate online because you can't see the person and you really do not know their demeanor when they are typing. You can misconstrue something harmless as something mean. My husband and I get into arguments alot because we misunderstood something written in an email or on messenger. It his easy tot ake things out of context...except of course, the name calling. That was wrong. Maybe he just realized that he better change before he lost u %26amp; it had nothing to do w/being online or being face 2 face.EVERYONE PLEASE READ advice help reasons answers greatly appreciated?
when your on the net it's very easy to say things and be ways you wouldn't be in person. the computer is not a living breathing thing standing in front of you.. He might have changed because he's gotten to know you in person. but the name calling perplexes me. why would you continue to see someone who has called you names on the net or in person? i hope he has applogised to you for that.
On-line allows us to put on a different face as we do not see that person and to an extent we lose our inhibitions as we are able to hide behind the computer screens. To a degree on-line relationship can be superficial but when you meet the person face to face I believe you tend to be little more honest.
I am surprised that disrespectful online behavior and respectful face-to-face behavior come from the same person.
Maybe he has matured since the online days.
I really don't know.
I'm not sure , but apparently something clicked for ya'll , in my opionion your lucky you found each other in the first place , online dating is usually pretty risky . But sometimes taking a risk can change your whole perpective on life itself . i hope this a least somewhat answers your question .
Good Luck !!!!! And Congrats on your marriage .
Sarah L.
I really need advice help!!!!!!!!!?
ok so i like this guy and have for quite a while now. We've never talked to each other before and so i want to but his friends make everything awkward for me =/ I mean he talks to them all the time but like his friends are always looking at me weird haha like not in a bad way but just idk how to explain.. i think he likes me too it's just a gut feeling but idk how to go up to him when he's always with his friends and plus no hw is given so i can't even ask about that =[I really need advice help!!!!!!!!!?
if he wants you badly enough he comes to talk to you.I really need advice help!!!!!!!!!?
try getting his email somehow....... i find it a lot easier to type something then say it out loud.
could you maybe answer mine? thanks http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap6iD4ie6Twdr0lQsvDzeiTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090215112713AAlTrVV
The guy is suppose to ask the girl out. If he really wants to be with you.
1st have confidence in yourself and just go up to him,
don't worry bout wat his friends think...they really dont matter.
ask him if he has somthing lik n email .
then u guys could talk alone
if he wants you badly enough he comes to talk to you.I really need advice help!!!!!!!!!?
try getting his email somehow....... i find it a lot easier to type something then say it out loud.
could you maybe answer mine? thanks http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap6iD4ie6Twdr0lQsvDzeiTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090215112713AAlTrVV
The guy is suppose to ask the girl out. If he really wants to be with you.
1st have confidence in yourself and just go up to him,
don't worry bout wat his friends think...they really dont matter.
ask him if he has somthing lik n email .
then u guys could talk alone
Need some love advice! help me..?
so thers this girl in my school who i really like and shes got a boyfriend..yes...thats right..anyway no i really like this girl but all i want to know is if she likes me back. she dosent really do much around her boyfriend they do talk but iv never seen them kiss or even hug they dont even sit next to each other its not like their shy to do stuff like that infront of people cauz i know they guy and his always like that with every girl. NOW the girls always nice to me we rarely speek to each other but when we do speek she always giggles or smiles or both and she looks at me straight in the eye when we speek and she always sits really close to me and when we touch other (arm, hand, leg, foot,) she dosent move it away. i knwo the reason she wouldent ask me out or anything because im more on the quiet sied and all i want to know is if she likes me.Need some love advice! help me..?
I'm thinking that she doesn't ask you out because she has a boyfriend. Now if you want to be bold, you can tell her that you like her but will respect the fact that she is with someone else. That way, if she leaves him, she will know to consider you.Need some love advice! help me..?
I think your blowing her gestures out of proportion. I do that sometimes, and the results are not pretty. I would say she probably wants to be friends or get to know you better, but right now i don't think she likes you ENOUGH to leave her bf. Just get to know her better, and enjoy her company. And don't pressure her.
Get to know her better hang out with her more but dont make a move til she breaks up with her current bf
she has a boyfriend
what do you want her to do? cheat on him?lips
I'm thinking that she doesn't ask you out because she has a boyfriend. Now if you want to be bold, you can tell her that you like her but will respect the fact that she is with someone else. That way, if she leaves him, she will know to consider you.Need some love advice! help me..?
I think your blowing her gestures out of proportion. I do that sometimes, and the results are not pretty. I would say she probably wants to be friends or get to know you better, but right now i don't think she likes you ENOUGH to leave her bf. Just get to know her better, and enjoy her company. And don't pressure her.
Get to know her better hang out with her more but dont make a move til she breaks up with her current bf
she has a boyfriend
what do you want her to do? cheat on him?
Weight gain in anorexia recovery - advice, help, experiences....?
i was diagnosed with anorexia a few weeks ago, with a BMI of 14.5 i was told i would be hospitalised if i didn't start gaining weight. i was given a meal plan by my psychologist, which probably totaled around 1800 to 2000 calories a day (i had perviously been eating around 500 a day, at my worst point around 200).
for the first week i stuck to the plan completely (basically had to force all the food down my throat but i won't go into how hard it was). i'm weighed by my psychologist once a week and i found it really hard to see the weight increase. so for the past two weeks i've not been completely sticking to my meal plan. i'm definitely eating way more than before - probably an average of 1300 - 1400 calories a day. despite this, i've gained 2 kg in 3 weeks. i know i should be happy i'm getting healthier and stuff, but i'm finding it VERY hard to deal with, especially because i didn't think it would be possible to gain so much weight on the amount i've been eating. surely 1400 calories a day isn't enough to be gaining so fast? obviously it is, but i'm so confused. is this normal? will i continue to gain weight this fast? any advice or experience on this would be very much appreciated...Weight gain in anorexia recovery - advice, help, experiences....?
I think it is normal, think of a really obese person, if they dieted they would loose more weight than a smaller person on the same diet, you're just the oppisite!
Try and think of the end result, being a healthy weight and just generally healthy, have a photo of someone curvier that you want to look like, just to keep you motivated!Weight gain in anorexia recovery - advice, help, experiences....?
Feeling better about your body will come with working through the issues that contributed to you developing anorexia in the first place. Hopefully, your psychologist has experience working with eating disorders.
Know that you're not alone. You can get through this and get to a healthy weight (one you'll be happy with).
Try changing your way of thinking little by little. Don't be so hard on yourself!
I also have an eating disorder (I'm anorexic and in recovery), and I started recovery with a similar BMI to yours. The first week of recovery, I did gain a little and I was eating only 1200 calories per day. This is normal for a person with an eating disorder because severe calorie restriction causes the metabolism to slow down. The good news is that when your body gets readjusted to a higher caloric intake, your metabolism will also increase, so you won't coninue to gain weight on small amounts of food. Try to stick to the meal plan that your psychologst recommended (I didn't stick to mine, and I ended up in the hospital for three weeks and gained a lot of weight in those three weeks) and remember that your psychologist really only wants what she/he thinks is best for you. Also, remember that some of the weight you've gained is probably water weight. People with eating disorders are more likely to be dehydrated than others, because ordinary people get some water from their food. Therefore, when you start to eat more, your body may retain a little water, causing your weight to increase. Some of your weight gain may have also been due to a slow digestive system. Eating disorders cause your digestive system to slow waaaay down, so some of the food you eat may still be in your stomach when you weigh yourself, which would result in a higher weight, even though you might not necessarily have gained any fat or muscle. As your weight increases, it will become increasingly difficult to gain or even maintain your weight (a higher weight needs more calories to maintain it), and your metabolism will also speed up. A lot of the weight you gain will be muscle weight, and since muscle burns even more calories, that will also make it a little more difficult for you to gain weight quickly.
I hope this helped, and good luck in recovery
Stick to the eating planned as assigned by your psychologist. 1800-2000 is how much calories your body needs. You will gain weight for a while which is healthy. Do not worry because your weight gain will stop at a certain point and you will maintain your weight. A normal BMI ranges from 18-24 and by sticking to your assigned meal calories, you should end up that range. Remember that having a BMI under 18 is just as unhealthy as being overweight. Good luck in your recovery.
your body has it's own weight thermostat (the hypothalamus) which controls how hungry you feel in order to maintain what your body see's as your 'ideal' weight. so because you weren't eating much you're body has probably gone into a starvation mode so is trying to get every last bit of nutrition from what you do eat, which is why you're gaining weight more quickly. however, this should only happen until you reach a healthy weight, then your body won't need to do this anymore and your weight should level off to what it should be.
so there is nothing to worry about, it is just your body's way of trying to protect you from starvation, and should stop once you're a healthy weight, so won't lead to you becoming overweight.
I'm not too educated on this subject really, but my best guess would be that because your body was so used to the way you used to eat, it's reacting by gaining more weight than usual because you've changed your diet, so most likely if you stick to it, it will slow down once you get to the right weight for you, but please stick to your plan. Anorexia is serious, and if your doctor and psychiatrist say you need to gain weight then you do, even if you don't want to. It's not like they'd just make you fat to be spiteful, they obviously know what they're doing, so you should trust them.
for the first week i stuck to the plan completely (basically had to force all the food down my throat but i won't go into how hard it was). i'm weighed by my psychologist once a week and i found it really hard to see the weight increase. so for the past two weeks i've not been completely sticking to my meal plan. i'm definitely eating way more than before - probably an average of 1300 - 1400 calories a day. despite this, i've gained 2 kg in 3 weeks. i know i should be happy i'm getting healthier and stuff, but i'm finding it VERY hard to deal with, especially because i didn't think it would be possible to gain so much weight on the amount i've been eating. surely 1400 calories a day isn't enough to be gaining so fast? obviously it is, but i'm so confused. is this normal? will i continue to gain weight this fast? any advice or experience on this would be very much appreciated...Weight gain in anorexia recovery - advice, help, experiences....?
I think it is normal, think of a really obese person, if they dieted they would loose more weight than a smaller person on the same diet, you're just the oppisite!
Try and think of the end result, being a healthy weight and just generally healthy, have a photo of someone curvier that you want to look like, just to keep you motivated!Weight gain in anorexia recovery - advice, help, experiences....?
Feeling better about your body will come with working through the issues that contributed to you developing anorexia in the first place. Hopefully, your psychologist has experience working with eating disorders.
Know that you're not alone. You can get through this and get to a healthy weight (one you'll be happy with).
Try changing your way of thinking little by little. Don't be so hard on yourself!
I also have an eating disorder (I'm anorexic and in recovery), and I started recovery with a similar BMI to yours. The first week of recovery, I did gain a little and I was eating only 1200 calories per day. This is normal for a person with an eating disorder because severe calorie restriction causes the metabolism to slow down. The good news is that when your body gets readjusted to a higher caloric intake, your metabolism will also increase, so you won't coninue to gain weight on small amounts of food. Try to stick to the meal plan that your psychologst recommended (I didn't stick to mine, and I ended up in the hospital for three weeks and gained a lot of weight in those three weeks) and remember that your psychologist really only wants what she/he thinks is best for you. Also, remember that some of the weight you've gained is probably water weight. People with eating disorders are more likely to be dehydrated than others, because ordinary people get some water from their food. Therefore, when you start to eat more, your body may retain a little water, causing your weight to increase. Some of your weight gain may have also been due to a slow digestive system. Eating disorders cause your digestive system to slow waaaay down, so some of the food you eat may still be in your stomach when you weigh yourself, which would result in a higher weight, even though you might not necessarily have gained any fat or muscle. As your weight increases, it will become increasingly difficult to gain or even maintain your weight (a higher weight needs more calories to maintain it), and your metabolism will also speed up. A lot of the weight you gain will be muscle weight, and since muscle burns even more calories, that will also make it a little more difficult for you to gain weight quickly.
I hope this helped, and good luck in recovery
Stick to the eating planned as assigned by your psychologist. 1800-2000 is how much calories your body needs. You will gain weight for a while which is healthy. Do not worry because your weight gain will stop at a certain point and you will maintain your weight. A normal BMI ranges from 18-24 and by sticking to your assigned meal calories, you should end up that range. Remember that having a BMI under 18 is just as unhealthy as being overweight. Good luck in your recovery.
your body has it's own weight thermostat (the hypothalamus) which controls how hungry you feel in order to maintain what your body see's as your 'ideal' weight. so because you weren't eating much you're body has probably gone into a starvation mode so is trying to get every last bit of nutrition from what you do eat, which is why you're gaining weight more quickly. however, this should only happen until you reach a healthy weight, then your body won't need to do this anymore and your weight should level off to what it should be.
so there is nothing to worry about, it is just your body's way of trying to protect you from starvation, and should stop once you're a healthy weight, so won't lead to you becoming overweight.
I'm not too educated on this subject really, but my best guess would be that because your body was so used to the way you used to eat, it's reacting by gaining more weight than usual because you've changed your diet, so most likely if you stick to it, it will slow down once you get to the right weight for you, but please stick to your plan. Anorexia is serious, and if your doctor and psychiatrist say you need to gain weight then you do, even if you don't want to. It's not like they'd just make you fat to be spiteful, they obviously know what they're doing, so you should trust them.
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