Disabled teen needs relationship advice! Help?!?

Hi, I am a 15 year old girl with spinal muscular atrophy type 2. (a form of muscular dystrophy) i use an electric wheelchair and i'm dependent on aides for support.


k, now for the story. I REALLY have this super crush on this guy at my school (he's 15 too). We're totally friends, i go to all his shows, and we talk online ALOT. i've even told him i like him. Also, whenever I see him he smiles and waves. how can i tell if he likes me back? do you think he does, even with my disability? what should i do? should i ask him out? should i wait for him to ask me out? how would i go on a date if i need an attendent? what if i scare him away? ARGH!Disabled teen needs relationship advice! Help?!?
if he really likes u he wont care that u have a disability. what i would do personally is talk to him like u do online and slowly start bringing up the topic about relashionships and things liek that. also to get to know eachother better play cute games liek 21 questions which is u take turns asking eachother questions and truth or dare. You will never really know if he likes u until he says so. and its up to u if u want to ask him out whatever u feel is right. dont worry be yourself thats all u can do! good luck i hope you get him!:)Disabled teen needs relationship advice! Help?!?
hunni , its real not about the appearance . its whats inside , if hes kind , good looking , nice personality , then yeah deffinatley go for him he seems nice. you shouldent scare him away if he does like you! if he did like you he wouldent mind if you was in a wheel chair or not! ( my sister is disabled i completely understand. ) just go for it hun im sure you will be good together! x
15 is much too young to think of a relationship. I suggest you wait until you get to college. Right now you should be studying and getting A's and next year starting on courses for college so that you can support yourself later on in life and get the things you want on your own. Sure it's nice to have friends, to say hello or have a birthday party and invite friends, but anything more at this point is too young for people your age. When you get into like your senior year in college you'll be around a lot of people who would be willing to take you out or places where you don't need an attendant, all you'd need is your friend.





Asking a guy out these days means you'd give out, and I don't think you're in any position to do that. So don't be so bold to give him clues as to what you might do when you shouldn't. You can ask him to stop by though for holidays or just to listen to music or to play some sit down game or something. The key word there is ';stop by';.
i think what you need to do is ask if he likes you. i'd hate for you to get your feelings hurt from him being nice to you because he feels sorry for you. i know thats happened to me a few times. i myself have lupus and a lot of the times people seem to like me out of sympathy. thats the worst. like me for me, not because you feel sorry for me and think i need another friend ya know? just ask him to be straight up with you. just never bendover backwords and change yourself for someone to like you. wait for someone who will respect and like you for who you are. and if you scare him away then he wasn't strong enough for you anyway lol. :)


best wishes.
I am also 15. I have spina bifida so it is hard for me to get a boyfriend. I'm probably not the best person to give dating advice since I have never had a boyfriend but I think you should just talk to him alone and ask him if he likes you like you like him and if he says yes then don't worry about him getting scared away, obviously if he likes you he has already looked past your disability and he probably wouldn't care if you had an attendant. But if he says he just wants to be friends then just try to have a regular friendship with him and maybe you will find someone else. Also when you are on a date (if he says yes) you could probably ask your attendant to be with you but at a little bit of a distance so it will feel like you two are alone on the date. (for example if you guys go to mc donalds have the attendant sit at a diffrent table so you two can be alone)