Sunday, December 27, 2009

GIRLS! I NEED advice?! HELP ME! GUYS too?!?

I hung out with this guy labor day,and he's been texting me every night since (HE ALWAYS TEXTS FIRST). He lives 2hrs away.We admitted we like each other. He officially asked me out last week.


He gets off work at 11 pm and we text till like 1:30. He tells me how his mom’s in his business too much, so he kinda does what he wants...But Tuesday night…He texted me once,then an hour later, wrote: “Sounds fun, Aw. My moms telling me its time to go to bed.” Which was like a slap in the face blow off--THIS IS THE GUY IS A NIGHT PERSON...AND IN A MONTH OF TEXTING...HAS NEVER SAID “MOM TOLD HIM”. AND WEDNESDAYS AT HIS SCHOOL ARE LATE START.WTF? So...last night…when he texted me at 11…I never replied. It was the also the shortest text he’s ever sent me: “Hi.”


This is driving me crazy! My mom’s like “that’s it…keep ignoring him! You’ve made it too easy for him.” But idk if I really trust her advice or if she tries to give me bad advice on purpose or what. I just feel like I want my control back. I just don’t get how it went from him really seeming to like me last week, and having tons to talk about, to this week him thinking he’s got me wrapped. I want to be hard to get, but not too much. I want to be back in the driver’s seat. But I’m afraid if I keep ignoring his texts he will just stop. How do I keep him from losing interest? I’VE NEVER HAD A BF. HELP! We’re 18 year old seniors in hs.


Saturday...I asked him to call me on sunday. He didnt (and he had nothing to do all day). So sunday night when he texted me...I ignored it...Monday afternoon...guess who called me?GIRLS! I NEED advice?! HELP ME! GUYS too?!?
Grow up both of you! Man!





Sound like a bunch of 8th graders.GIRLS! I NEED advice?! HELP ME! GUYS too?!?
mothers NEVER stop being mothers, its a fact and just accept it. Mothers will NEVER do things just to be mean, and always have your very best interest at heart (go ahead and ask your mom. go ahead... I'll wait).





If he has so little respect for his mother, that should tell you something...something very important... and that is that he likely won't have any respect for you.





And if he gives up on you so easily, he likely isn't really interested in you as a person, but rather looks at you as a conquest (I don't think that's what you want to be).





Additionally hanging out once does NOT make you b/f %26amp; g/f other that perhaps you are a girl, he is a boy and you are friends. This guy seems like one to throw back. keep ignoring his texts and phone calls.
WTF is this?


I agree, grow up.

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