Hello I need advice/help...Thanks?

I had aperiod in January the begining I think not sure my bf swears I did but I usually get my period the end of the month. I started spotting last weekend then it stopped. I took a test last night and it was positive. Im still feeling really crampy in my uterus. I'm sure i need to see my MD i have. I havent even told the father Im not sure how to tell him, I know he doesnt want any kids. I know both our resposibilites....My breast are tender, urinating more, more hungy....Im just worried because I had a misscarriage a year ago and me and him arent even together.......What to do? If you have negative answers keep them to yourself im am 27 years old im not a child jus need some advice. TxHello I need advice/help...Thanks?
Sounds like you're having some positive symptoms of pregnancy, and the positive test confrims it.





Seeing your doctor is important; they can do a blood test to confirm the pregnancy 100%.





As far as the miscarriage, many women miscarry, and that doesn't mean that you will again. It may or may not put you at risk of a high-risk pregnancy; that's something that you need to discuss with your doctor as your medical history would be an important factor in this.





As far as what to do; this is a choice only you can make. Are you capable / willing to be a single mom? Is the ex someone that you would want in your life *at all*, even as a parent to your child? Remember he will have legal access, whether you want him to or not. Is ther hope for some kind of reconcilliation or are you capable at least at being collaborative in raising a child separately?





Unfortunately, I wish someone else could answer for you what's best. With the stage your pregnancy is at, you have time at least to consider options, but I would recommend first confirming and talking with your doctor.





Most cities have groups that help women is such situations, even for moral support or education on what resources are out there. Look in your yellow pages or community outreach center.





Good luck.Hello I need advice/help...Thanks?
the question you need to answer yourself is... Do you want the pregnancy?...... and the responsibility with it.... If you decide to stick with it..... good choice!


But if you want to keep it only for the reason of being with that guy better think again.... Your an adult the only problem you have is you fear what is ahead..... ( more responsibility)


friends are good support but family are the ones who will stick to you whatever happens!!
I would go to the doctor to get it confirmed. It sounds like pregnancy to me. And on a pregnancy test its kind of impossible to get a false positive. And then you need to sit the guy down (is it your boyfriend?) and just tell him. I know that is easier said then done, but it needs to be, and maybe find out why he never wanted kids, and maybe talking about it will ease his mind.
What i think you should do is go and see your MD before you tell the guy. That way if you are not then you wont have to tell him that you were when you weren't.
I was always crampy for all of my pregnancies. You do need to make an appointment to see your doctor.
ok well you need to see your md as soon as possible to make sure you are pregnant and that all is fine. It is just procedure. Then regardless of if you are with your BF or not, you need to tell him. He has a right to know. If he does not want kids then he should be more careful and if he cannot be careful then he should not be having sex.





I was 24 when i had my first and I was not at all ready...but when you give birth instinct kick in and you become a mother...and that is all you care about. Trust me...you will be fine hun...