I was talking to a girl online. We were talking about anime shows that we like. I told her that I liked Jigoku Shoujo. (a.k.a. Hell Girl)
I told her that when I was in school, there were some kids I would have liked to see go to hell. For some reason, she started getting angry. then she said that she hated me. What did I do wrong? I have been talking to her everyday for a month. I thought we had become good friends. Why would she get angry that I wanted revenge on some punks that used to bully me?I need advice. help me please?
You could try asking her to forgive you if you offended her and ask her to talk with you about this. Tell her you would not offend her on purpose and to please talk with you about things. If she will not even talk with you about this you have not lost anything. Would you like to live with someone for life like this? Someone that won't talk with you about offenses? You have not lost anything. Bait your hook and throw your line out again. Hope for a better catch. And be careful what you say until you know them very well. Talk lightly.I need advice. help me please?
Let's think about this a minute. You're profile on here has just one sentence, ';I love Jesus';. Now assuming that isn't a deliberate deception, then I'd be willing to bet that in a month of talking with this girl, you mentioned your faith in Jesus at least once.
Then, you said to this girl, seriously I assume, that you hated someone enough to wish them dead AND being tortured for eternity in hell...for teasing/bullying you when you were a child. How could this girl label you anything but a liar...either you forgive like Jesus commanded or you hold a grudge (perhaps for years?)...either you love others or you hate them.
I know I would have a major problem with a man that said he loved Jesus and then expressed that level of hatred for another human being. The problem would be compounded by the obvious evidence that this man was still being so strongly influenced by childhood experiences that the majority of people suffer through and then get past as an adult.
Well you don't want to talk about anyone else. Keep the conversation on you guys. Say to her while looking her in the eyes ';I'm sorry, that I hurt your feelings or offended you. Can we still be friends?';. besides talking about kids going to hell will just piss her off like hell. So talk nicely and about positive things between you two.
well maybe its that she think your crazy men you should realize that you sounded like you were gonna go in a killing spree on your school.think this for a moment you think that you said something good.oh and i almost forget don't tell girls you like anime that's not the way to get a girl .and you need some psychiatric help.and don't be so satanic girls don't like that
maybz shes like religous or sumfin and wen u said u wished that sum1 wud go 2 hell she took it serious :S
lol
or maybe she thought u wernt like that :S
I dunno but gud luck wif it :P
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She probably had someone close to her die. At this point she may be confused about heaven and hell, life and death. Maybe it hit her hard.
Shes probably religious, and u offended her.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
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