I need some advice/ help with sex domination......seriously?

I'll give the basics.


New guy, only slept with him twice or so. He is SUCH a hottie!!


He told me to ';figure out'; what he likes. Well he likes a little pain.


So here's the questions: What should I do to inflict ';a little pain'; without going overboard, since I don't know his likes/ dislikes THAT well?


What can I ';introduce'; to our bed to kind of ';feel out'; his thresholds?


He asked me to choke him a little next time, and he said after he goes to the gym and his muscles are screaming with pain and exertion, he likes to have sex because it hurts a little. This is how I found out.


The reason why I worry about going TOO much, is that he does NOT like to be spanked at all, and that was the first thing that came to mind.





So what can I do to slowly start to experiment with his pleasure/ pain likes and dislikes??





I AM serious here, too.I need some advice/ help with sex domination......seriously?
scratch his back ...thats a good easy and sufficient yet not ';danger'; of overdoing it wayI need some advice/ help with sex domination......seriously?
try biting him