I NEED some ADVICE!! HELP! ))))=?

Okay so my mom just came out of the hospital cuz she just had a baby 3 days ago and shes realy tired and sick.


My sister and i dont get along at all! well shes always fighting with me and shes 11 she is mean and always lies...not even 10mins when my mom came back home and she started fighting cuz I held the baby and she goes NO FAIR and I'm older than her she is so annoying and she always always gets me in trouble...my mom started crying and she doesnt talk to meee and i didnt do nothing at all! I MEAN NOTHING!She told me she doesnt want see either of our faces in her room...and I'm really mad and upset cuz my sister is sosoooooooooooo bratty beyond bratty!I NEED some ADVICE!! HELP! ))))=?
O my gosh!! That's so sad and upsetting! My sister is like that. I just don't talk to her and she only talks to me when she's in a bad mood. Don't respond to anything anyoying!I NEED some ADVICE!! HELP! ))))=?
I know how you feel! Me and my little sister used to be the same, and since I'm the oldest I'd get into trouble for it. Your mum's probably really tired and emotional. Just try and get onto your sister's good side- for example if she says something that infuriates you just ignore it and don't retaliate because that will fuel the fighting. Give your sister something to do- print some colouring pages off the internet for her or something I dunno. And make sure you give your mum all the help she needs.
I have a sister like that only she is older than me. I have had to learn to ignore her or else go insane. My mom and I and my sister and I still have a very faulty relationship to this day and we haven't lived together for 20 years. Just remember that you won't always have to live there. Childhood is not a permanent condition. Try going to your mom. Make no excuses or accusations, just tell her that you love her very much and that you will be trying harder to get along with your sister.
I feel so sorry for yOur mom! SHE JUST GAVE BIRTH FOR GOODNESS SAKE AND HER EMOTIONS ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE. SHE HAS THIS NEW PERSON TO TAKE CARE OF AND YOU TWO ARE FIGHTING! Think of mom and do some things for her to make her life easier, set the table for dinner, wash the laundry and put it away, run the vacuum, if you can cook, make something simple so mom doesn't have to. Let Mom rest! Maybe with Christmas coming up you could get her a basket of things like bubble bath, body lotion, body spray, an inflatable pillow for the bathtub, and let her rest and enjoy herself. Oh yeah, by the way, before long neither one of you will want to help with the new baby, so enjoy him/her while you can, Family is everything, it's time to grow up and become helpers for mom and show her that she did a good job raising you.
Attention seekers have various ways to claim that. Sibling rivalry is one of those that one can see in any family. When two children family has become a three children family. Your sister is fighting for her position that is to be first in everything. Why don't you give in to her every wish, she wil get fed up with this new trend and come out of her stance to fight for everything. You would not ever wish your sister to vanish suddenly by magic would you? You will then yearn for this sort of sisterly quarrels. Where is CEO of your family, your father? Has he left two of you to make up your own minds.
talk to your mom let her know how u feel, dont just keep everything to yourself. talk to her when ur sister is not around
Shame on you and your sister !!!!


Hello!!!!!!


Your mother just had a baby, which is a very physical and emotional thing to go through.........


Both of you seem to have jealousy issues.


At your age you should be more supportive of her and your new family member..............
Well dont talk to her ( your sister ) for a couple of hours maybe even a day see how she reacts to the situation. When she tries to talk or to fight just ignore or walk away
i have a sister who is 4 yrs. younger than me. My advise is to stay clear of her. Busy yourself with helping your mother (because she will need it). It will annoy your sister because you are ignoring her and staying out of trouble. And everything you do to help your mom will help you gain your mother's trust , love and attention.
Don't take it personally. Having a baby is extremely consuming. Your mother is probably just overwhelmed and needs some time to deal with herself and the new baby. For your mom's sake, just keep your distance from, or make peace with your sister. Good luck, and congrats on being a new big sister!
WELL, DONT TALK TO YOUR SISTER.


IGNORE HER FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN,


EVEN A COUPLE OF DAYS (IF YOU CAN)


JUST PRETEND SHE DOESNT EXIST.


SHE WILL FEEL LONELY, AND SHE WILL WANT TO TALK TO YOU AGAIN.


I KNOW ITS HARD SOMETIMES, BUT NO MATTER HOW ANGRY YOU ARE DONT SAY ANYTHING, TRY TO BE QUIET AND DONT LET YOUR ANGER OUT, YOU WILL REGRET IT, THE NEXT DAY YOU WILL BE GLAD THAT YOU DIDNT ARGUE AND THAT NO ONE IS MAD AT YOU.


AS FOR YOUR MOM, APOLOGIZE AND THATS IT.


SHES GOING THROUGH A HARD TIME, THATS IT.
your sister love u but she don't want to show u that and she sometimes jealous from u because u r the older but after that baby come to the house now she will be jealous from the baby so watch her closely she may try to be good give her the time u r the older sister and u understand the situation of ur mum more than her be good to her and don't get ur mum be upset from u
give your mom a break. uhm the thing with your sister is waayy too annoying. uhm what you do is.. let her hold the baby for a while, sort of like take turns. maybe because she wanted to be a ';grown-up';, sort of like being independent, or she just wants to be trusted. uhm.. since she loves the baby, why not try asking her to get the milk for the baby, clothes, diaper, something like that.. :)
well do not botha yo mom just black mail her or work things out
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Your little sister (11 years old) feels left out because she is the little one. She is try to feel powerful when she is unable to take control of the event. Your mom feels really bad because she is sick from having a baby and worry about you two fighting. The next time, your little sister wants to hold the baby or get you in trouble for her mistake of letting the dog urine on the floor of the house. Try this. Say to your little sister, ';Why don't you hold the baby?'; Leave her alone with the baby and mom. Your little sister will think, ';Wow! I am so grow up that my older sister trust me with the baby!'; When your little sister is holding the baby, do some chores around the house to help mom like washing the dishes, taking out the trash, doing your homework, and any thing else you can think of to help your mom feel better. Sooner or later, you might hear our little sister crying and winning to put down the baby because her arm is getting tired or/and the baby has to go to the bathrom RIGHT NOW! Now, your little sister now thinks that she does not want to have anymore of tthis. You come in, take the baby from your sister as she leaves the room, and feed and change the baby. I know this is so gross, makes you so tired, bored, and besides it is your mom's job RIGHT? Well it is your mom job but if you can take care of ther baby, your little sister, your mom, and the house along with your homework. Your mom and little sister will be happy about the situation. They might not notice or say Thank You but it is better to do the chores, no one said Thank You to you and have everyone happy then not do the chores, have everyone bad at each other for not taking care of themself, and not being able to do the chores because you are trying to stop a fight which could of be preventable by just doing the chores. When you are done taking care of the baby and the baby is in his/her bed sleeping. Then ask your mom, ';Do you need anything? Water? A blanket? Your mom will see that you are taking charge of a bad situation and making it a good situation. When the baby and mom are taking care of, then help your little sister by playing games with her, getting her a glss of water, helping her with her homework. When your little sister is o.k. Do all the chores, homework, and anything else you can think of to help the family. If you have any other family or friends, teachers, and anyone you can talk to, PLEASE SAY, '; I am the oldest daughter in my family. My mom just had a baby. My mom is sick, tired, just had a baby, and she is worry about the family, the house, her job, and her kids education. My little sister feels bad and scary that she is unable to take care of the situation. Because I am the oldest of my family, I am force to do all my mom's work at home. If it is a closest family member like a sister, brother, aunt, and uncle, they might be able to come over to our house and doing the work your Mom is to do. Get them to help you and your little sister to do the chores to keep the house clean. It is o.k. to ask for help but if you tell a techer, a priest, or a police officer, they might have to remove you and your little sister from your family until they find there was not a big problem they could not be solve by even the oldest sister in the house doing all the chores. This might cause alot more stress and problems in the long run. Get your little sister to do positive things with her time like washing the dishes and doing her homework instead of letting her run wild like not doing homework and go to bed so she can wake up and not be tired. Your little sister is stress and scary by the situation. Get her to make herself that is grow up and in control of the situation by having her do the right things (Chore) with the right person (You) instead of doing bad things (Skip School.) with the wrong people (Stealers.) Sooner or later( In one year), your mom will not be sick anymore, tired, depress, the baby will be growing up to be big and strong and you can go back to being a kid (having friends over for pizza.) but please keep helping your mother by having your little sister and you by doing chores and homework. You can and will fix the problems ahead. It will not be easy trying to fix all these bid adult problems but you must and you will. In your teen years are wierld, You have just left being a kid who is depend on her mom to take care of you to a adult who will help this World for the better. In your teen years, you learn from what you learn as a child and as a teenage and learn how to apply these experiences to help you grow up and prosper. By what you said in your message, a kid could not or would not write a message for I am over my head and I need help instead of just acting like there is nothing wrong when your world is fall down around you. I left you with a few more words of wisdom. ';No matter how far the road of life takes you, you shall hit small and big events in your life like you getting a boyfriend and/or solving these problem in front of you, just keep working as long and as hard as possible because everything will turn out right in the end.'; If you have any questions, please write another question in, ';Home %26gt; Family %26amp; Relationships %26gt; Family';. Good Night and Good Luck. And God bless America my home sweet home.
Talk to your sister for your moms sake... she just had a baby... make your mom a breakfast in bed