I need some advice help?

ok so me and my boyfriend have been having ups and downs for the past couple of days and haven't been talking as much as we normally do he wasn't acting himself and when i confronted him about this he told me he wasn't feeling himself and then started to act abit like himself again i don't know why but i got the feeling that there's someone else and last night i told him how i feel and asked if there was someone else and he got really upset and asked me how i could even think that and then he said he needs to think about this and said bye and hung up now am i in the wrong for bringing the whole subject up what should i do?I need some advice help?
Apologise to him and say that you're sorry for not trusting him.Try to talk to him more and find out what troubles do he have (school,work,or etc) But remain keeping your eyes open and see if there really is anyone else in between the 2 of you.I need some advice help?
Trust your instincts, i think that he may be cheating on you or has feelings for someone else but is too scared to tell you. The way he reacted to your question is suspicious too, he could have just said no, without getting in a mood.





Just give him some time alone then contact him for a chat, you need to know the truth about why he is behaving like this once and for all, i hope you can sort this out, good luck!
Usually, if someone gets that upset over being asked a question, it means they are hiding something. I'd go ahead and get rid of him and move on. Sounds like he doesn't want to tell you either way and that would be enough for me to believe that I deserve better than him.
as him whats going on in his mind good luck
men are strange. just gotta be patient and try and talk to him. say your sorry.
well, actually by asking that you would seem as if you dont trust him and he had the right to be angry with you but if he truly loves you ten he'll forgive you. but there is something definently strange, if its not another woman ask him straight on whats the problem about and that you wont take no for an answer. tell him that whatever is bothering him, both of you can deal with it, he isnt alone.
I would just leave him be. When he does call, let him know that you are insecure in your relationship. That when things don't go the way you ';think'; they should you have a tendency to jump to conclusions.





A real relationship has many - many - many ups and downs, it's the adversity that builds a relationship just as much (if not more) than the good ';easy'; times. Communication is the key, instead of asking if there is someone else, ask is there a problem and if he says no - drop it for a few days then ask again and explain WHY you ask - specifically what behavior that is prompting your concern, talk together you will grow closer.
That instinct is more than understandable because on Venus one of the important rules is to never abandon a friend when she is upset about something. Because a woman cares for her mate, she wants to come into his cave and offer her help. Her instinct is to support him in the way that she would want to be supported. This is a case where good intentions can lead to bad results. It is important for women to understand not to try and get a man to talk before he is ready. This instinct to follow a man into his cave is the source of much unnecessary conflict.


or maybe simply that he is just not that into you


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