I need some advice/help...?

Ok it's a long story...but here I go....





Ok me and this guy went out for about 2 years and 10 months... Then we both started looking around for some reason... So we decided to take a break and see oother people ... We both got another person... And the whole time... Wanted him, I was sooooooo jealus. But it's a month later and wweere back together...and I couldn't be happier!!! But for some reason I can't get him being with her out of my head ... And it's making me sad and depressed... And like I'm trying to getnitnout of my head but I can't...I just need some advice please... I'm goin crazy!!!!








So please help!!!


~sammi jo. %26lt;33I need some advice/help...?
I follow one rule when it comes to dating: never date the same person twice. No matter how strong your feelings are for the other person, you will always have these thoughts running through your head when you are with him the second time. It's not just you; I've been there as well and so have many other people. It's never worked out for me, and I'm not saying it can't work out for you, but it's a lot of trouble and I personally don't want to deal with that.





Some people have said that if two people are meant to be together, they will get over these struggles and be completely happy together. I personally don't believe in fate and two people being meant to be together. We all have free will and will do what we please.





If you think you can make it work with this guy, and you've talked with him about these feelings (he might be struggling with them as well) go for it. But if the feelings you're struggling with are too much for you to handle, I would advise you to get out of the relationship sooner rather than later. You could avoid a lot of heartbreak this way.