I need some advice/help..?

i really don't know what to do or how to feel anymore..i'm really upset right now and would love if someone could just give me some advice...ok well..i've been screwed over by two guys this summer..the first one said he didn't really want a relationship right now and he has issues he needs to get over..yeah ok whatever.i'm kind of over that..well the second guy was everything i look for in a guy.so he was perfect well so he seemed..but yeah one of my friends saw him with another girl while we were ';talking'; yeah ok whatever..so ii messaged him a few times and he never wrote back so i figured maybe he was done with me. so i told him that if he didnt wanna talk to me anymore that it was fine and he was like ';ok well your still a really good person to talk to';..ugh i hate this..i knew something like this was gonna happen..this is beginning to be a routine thing with me..what am i suppose to do/how am i suppose to feel, ugh i'm just really upset right now ://I need some advice/help..?
get over it. there's a lot of guys out there...I need some advice/help..?
It seems that they are just playing games. if a real guy likes a girl he will want to spend time with her, be true with her, cherish her. Most boys (any guy under 25) just want to be big players %26amp; such. If he was with another girl then he is not serious about you. i don't care what he says. he can like you %26amp; all but if he was serious about you, it would be only you. My advice to you is, if it is not a serious relationship then just move on. Let him see what he is missing.
let these two guys go..they're not worth the time of day. they obviously dont care to be with you after reading what you wrote happened with them. wait for someone who will treat you with their upmost respect nd keep you happy. dont go for someone you have to keep going after. if a guy likes you he will come after you.
how about if you try to be less emotional when you come to meet a guy that you like... not every guy girls wanted will be granted but, sometimes they will just come back to you and be surprised he has deep feelings for you..





anyway, those 2 guys are not worth..
That guy doesnt deserve u you will find someone who will really like you dont get worked up about it life is too short and you will get a nice guy trust me
RESPECT YOUR SELF AND DON' PUT OUT WITH EVERY GUY THAT ASK U OUT ON A DATE, AND DON'T BE SO EAGER TO FALL FOR A GUY JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK HE HAS ALL THE RIGHT INGREDIENTS THAT U MAY WANT
OMG DRAMA!! DROP IT!!! U WERENT EVEN GOING OUT!!!!!!!LEAVE HIM ALONE SERIOUSLY!!
just kill em n get over it...
Ok...





So my first piece of advice is not to contact any of these boys at all. If they call you or contact you for whatever reason just 'be cool'...believe me its the best revenge i know.





The thing is I am sure neither of these boys are evil but if you make yourself readily available then sometimes they tend to see what else is out there to see if there is a fall back.





So my immediate advice.





Rent out bridget jones...have a glass of wine...sing into it. Dance around your living room. Get a hair cut (nothing drastic)..dress up to the nines and grab your best GIRLFRIEND and have a really nice dinner and basically treat yourself the way you want to be treated. And over this dinner I set you a challenge. Do not talk about boys.





Guys don't spend their boys nights talking about girls as they have other interests like sport or whatever or even enjoying silence. So have a dinner and be happy. Who are either of these boys to decide your happiness??...really...there was a time in your life you didn't even know they existed and you were happy.





And to top off my point remember. You will find someone to love you BUT. Make sure they chase you and that you remind yourself that you are wonderful, there is no bigger turn off than someone who is insecure.





Ok well i have blathered on but ...good luck.