so i theres this girl and we've been talking for the past like 2 months and i just cant bring myself to tell her i like her. we talk pretty much everyday,on the phone and whatnot, but i just cant tell her i like her. idk what the frig i'm afraid of tho. i've shown her that i have an interest in her and i think that she kinda likes me but shes so unpredictable. like ill see her in the halls and she'll pretty much ignore me but then somedays she'll be talking to me every time she sees me. i just don't wanna wait too long and then it becoming just a really good friendship. how can i just get over this fear and just tell her without it blowing up in my face? and what exactly should i say?I need some friggin girl advice!! HELP?
JUST DO IT.
The next time you see her, talk to her about things and then out of nowhere just be like ';Can I tell you something?'; and hoprefully she'll say YES. and just tell her, and be straight up with her :)
GOODLUCK!I need some friggin girl advice!! HELP?
Dude.
You're afraid she'll reject you.
Right now she's not rejected you but not accepted you either: a comfortable, safe, neutral situation...except you ain't got the girl!
The very worst that can possibly happen is...you won't get the girl. In other words, you'll be no worse off than you are now if she rejects you!
OTOH, if she doesn't...
Bring her a rose. Just hand it to her. Don't say anything.
Let her ask you whats up.
Tell her, ';You know.';
THEN tell her you like her, that you just wanted her to know that she's special to you.
hmmmmm girls will some times do that to you and im not sure why maybe to pull you closer to them or what but ide say you should just ask her out or its thats too hard or whatever just hang out with her more and one day (hopefully) you'll like her so much you will tell her how you feel regardless of what she might say. Cause hey maybe shell be like cool we should go out or whatever......any ways good luck man
Tell her you like her.
If she blows up in your face, take is as a blessing.
God knows you don't want to date a psyco.
i liek you, if you don't like me its fine, we can be friends
you have to have the confidence to be rejected or to have her as your new girlfriend. whichever way confidence is key. you gotta be like, yeah im cool and i know it. if you cant accept yourself, she wont accept you. if you talk on the phone everyday, youre in as her friend. as for ignoring you, take a look around to see whos there. maybe she just doesnt see you? she talks to you the other times. and having a good relationship requires a good friendship. if youve been close for the past 2 months and you think youre ready to take the step, do it. take the risk! whatever the result, know that you had the guts to do it and be proud of yourself : D good luck!! %26lt;3
make sure you develop a strong friendship first so you will have something to fall back on if the gf and bf thing doesnt work out
girls are unpredictable they may be embaressed or scared
and sometimes they may feel totally comfortable
tell her that you like her and see how it goes
tell her that you dont want to make anything awkard
Go for it. I found out a guy I had a crush on had a crush on me 2, but it was way to late by then. Don't let the opportunity pass you by. It's way better to go for it and fail than wonder for the rest of your life. Missed chances are horrible things that follow you forever. I've told a crush or 2 how I felt in a letter. Waiting 4 them to answer is really scary, but when they call and return your feelings it's all worth it and you wonder why u waited.
text her or send her a myspace message explaining everything. its much easier and it still means a lot cuz she'll no that u had to have guts to do it. i did that and it worked!
send me both your emails and I'll ask her for you and let you know what she says....
thats really sweet.............. just be like hey i really like you and well i'm not sure how you feel but i was wondering if you would go to the movies with me friday ( Or whereever you want to go) and see what happens
the next time you talk to her, ask her to do something with you. just say, ';hey, lets hang out this weekend.'; if she says okay, then just go and have fun with her. VERY IMPORTANT - dont freeze up or act scared. thats one of the biggest turn offs for girls. just be fun and be yourself around her. good luck.
well the it seems that your crush has an crush on you to
let me tell you you should take her some place where there isn't much destruction and talk to her and if you want to ask her but start off like this or kinda (do you think I'm cute).
Just ask her out to go do something and let it go from there.
She already knows. She likes you too but she probably doesn't have a lot of experience and is nervous and scared. So ask her out and that's all you can do.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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