Saturday, December 19, 2009

I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?

Well I have been seeing this girl (Jenna) but nothing serous. I like her. And i asked her friends what she thought of me. Well one of her friends told her about it. She kinda cornered me in a text message about it so I told her the truth even that i like her. But she responded sorry I am not looking for a boyfriend right now. But she said she would be happy we could be just friends. I kept pushing the matter during the conversation (most likely a bad idea) she stuck to the just friends things. But I really do like her and want her to be my girl friend so what should i do. I know I am hopeless but there has to be something.





Which Should I Chose





A. Give Up! (There are more fish in the sea) the problem is that i don't want fish


B. Just Be Friends (Maybe I will get a 2nd chance)


C. Talk to her and maybe I can convince her to give me a shot.(I just don't know what to say)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
both a%26amp;b looking for other fish in the sea might make her jealous and wake her feelings about you. But dont persists itll just make her be annoyed by you and you'll appear really desperate.I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
You don't want to push someone into being with you then you'll be wondering does she rally like me. Then again you will also probably drive her away and she won't want anything to do with you and you will not be friends. I say drop it for now you also don't want to seem desperate. If you can't just be friends with her you might have to move on obviously she only sees you as a friend and nothing more.
I would say B just play it cool for right now be her friend. Mostly likely she'll start drawing closer to you and it's always better to be friends with someone before you just jump into a relationship that way you know somethings about them my boyfriend was my friend for about a month before he asked me out and we've been together 2 years now.


Good Luck :-)
I'm dealing with this sorta thing right now. I really don't want a boyfriend right now and the guy just doesn't get it. If this girl says she really just wants to be friends, listen to her. She will really hate you if you keep being persistant and then you might lose a friend. At least stay by her side and be friends and maybe she'll change her mind, but that's just a maybe.
It's not a good thing to push a girl especially when she's being polite about it. Stick with being friends, maybe her feelings will change over time, but you can't force her to like you. You just simply have to move on like everyone else does. You will find another girl to fancy soon, it's just the way things work. Be friends with her before you ruin that.
You should definitely just be friends for the time being. If you keep pushing her to be your girlfriend, you'll be getting further and further away from that actually happening. You'd be surprised how easily she might fall in love with you if you become a sweet guy friend that she can turn to for anything. Good luck!
b keeps talking to her be frds. and she might start to like you and relize its time for a relationship. if it takes to long look for other girls but keep the frdship going cuz u might breakup and she might think well now i can have him...
definantly B because in the end if its meant to be it WILL work out
Neither. The same thing happend to me over the past month. I really liked this girl and she really liked me. And then she pulled the friends card. I was extremely disappointed. Give it sometime, you'll get over find someone who is even better and forget about this girl. So, the one who I liked, now we are really good friends and we go to each other for advice and it's really cool. And trust me it's awesome to have her as a friend and then be able to a have a girlfriend at the same time. It'll work out just give it some time.

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