I need some serious advice. Help anyone?

I need some advice on problem I've had with one of my best friends. In a nut shell, I dated an ex-girlfriend for about eight or nine months. Well after a week of breaking up with her, one of my bestfriends and roommate went and tried to hook up with her (didn't go so well because they were both so drunk apparently). When he heard I knew something, he lied to me about it and said he would never do it. Then of course, my ex's best friend tells me and then they both admit to it. He's not completely guilty, though. He treated his girlfriend at the time like garbage and cheated on her with my ex, so they broke up. They only dated for a month. Well me and her get a long and three months down the road, we hook up and he catches us. I come out truthfully and tell him and he took it just as badly. Now I've gotten a lot of mixed views and advice from my friends about this. I know I was wrong and from the outside, it looks like I was only trying to exact my revenge, but at the same time, I don't feel an ounce of guilt because again, he didn't treat her so well and cheated on her. Am I just completely wrong or do I have a right not to feel guilty? And should I bother trusting him again or maybe get some distance? I could really use some help with this.I need some serious advice. Help anyone?
my advice is


move on


hes not your real friend if he lied to you about it


even though it look like you were getting revenge you werent


so who cares what your so called friends say they dont know whats really going on


i think you need new friendsI need some serious advice. Help anyone?
im not a guy, but im going to go out on a limb when i say this: two wrongs don't make a right. i think you should feel a little guilty, but, then again, i'm not you. I think you and this friend just need to chill and stay away from each others' exes. just take some time to breathe.


(the girl who answered before me has a point, too)
first of all u all need to go and get tested for everything u all r playing with your lives u sleep with her then he hook up with then u go back u need to move on from both of them and find u some new friends that dont cross the line by messing with your girlfriend when u r together or broke up u just dont do things like that if u r a true friend ok take care
No why would any of this be ur fault shes urs not his





mine?


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It might be hard, but you need to find some better friends.
Y'all shouldn't be hooking up in the first place!
thats not a friend thats an asshole.....well if u loke this girl keep on dating if u dont then move on
dnt trust him, and dont wurry about what ne1 else has to say, just do ur thang cos u aint doing nething, he missed out cos he treated the girls like ****
give it time.
I so mad u came on here and got the same answer i been telling you for days!! WHY can't you just accept that i'm always right! lol











P.s. Benji is upset about this too! =D
move on to a new group
move on
he isnt a real friend if he did that to you.


and i would of done the same thing revenge wise