I still need advice/help on this subject... Tell me what you think!!!?

So I met this guy and we became really good friends. We texted each other all the time, all day everyday, since we met. We would joke around and say we missed each other and that we loved each other, you know, for fun. Once he got busy at work, and I played around with him and told him he just didn't want to talk to me. He told me that he got a little busy, but that he didn't stop thinking of me...:)





Let me tell you what kind of person he is first so you understand. When we first met he told me he hated drama, really. I got upset with him once because I told him I was going to call him and he said ok he'd wait. Then I tell him I'm going to call but for him to talk because I live with my bf and I didn't want to wake him up. He texted me back and said never mind he was going to go to sleep. I was like WTF? I got upset, and he was like ';Why are you mad, what did I do...?'; I admit I was stupid here and I told him, ';Forget it, I'm pissed at you..., I wouldn’t tell him why I was mad...'; So the next day I was mad at him, but I began to miss him so I texted him and I told him I was sorry. That whole day he ignored me. I called and texted and left voicemails. I know I came off desperate and pathetic. But I couldn't help it. He finally texted me and said, ';I told you when we first met I don't like drama, I asked you what I did, and you wouldn't tell me, wtf...?'; After that things kind of weren't the same. We would go long periods without texting me, and he didn't seem as interested as before. And then a girl came into the picture. Sometimes I noticed that he would try to make me jealous. I admit, I would do the since I actually have a bf. I know, I’m getting what I deserve right...





Anyway, so he told me that he was talking to this girl again that he had dated previously for three years. She broke up with him for someone else. It made sense until he told me she was 17; I'm 21, and he’s 22. So I had sent him a text and maybe an hour later he says sorry he was at HER house. Later that night we talk and he says they are going to go out on a date. That day comes and we didn't talk that night. The next day he doesn't text me at all and later on that night I find out he got in a fight with HER and he said he was too upset to talk to me or anyone. So he tells me he’s upset with her, and that to just forget about HER. He also tells me that she f**ked her ex after he had fought with her. So I call him the next night and we talk and he tells me he wants to call me back. He doesn't... instead I get a text saying he's going to HER house to work things out. I was like WTF?! It didn't make any sense to me!! I got really mad and I told him, ';Ugh F**k you! You know what? Why don't you forget my number!!?” He sent me a text back and said, ';Wow, thanx...” That was over a week ago, I'm really dumb. I tried to apologize and explain myself but he hasn't responded to any of my attempts. I also don’t understand how he can speak to his ex’s after what they did to him, and he won’t speak to me, I didn’t break his heart like they did!!!





Can someone give me a little insight on what’s going on? Will he ever speak to me again? I don't understand...I really miss him... a lot…But I don't think he even cares. I wake up ever morning and I think of him, every time my phone rings or a get a text, I hope that it’s him. But its not, and I don't think he will ever speak to me again. When I got mad at him the first time, I asked him if he missed me and he said, ';Of course, why wouldn't I?'; I then asked him how he could ignore me even though we were missing each other and he said, “When it comes to drama I've learned to block it out, even if I'm hurting someone in the process...'; Please help.I still need advice/help on this subject... Tell me what you think!!!?
wow.. did you read what you wrote? so why do you still have a boyfriend? if you like this guy and you want him to take your seriously and notice you how can you offer him your sloppy seconds, your boyfriend still holds at least the title. maybe your not ready for a serious relationship you just want a whole bunch of attention, why hurt guys on the way. you live and/or sleep with your boyfriend and you are texting this other guy all day, how are you not drama? how are you treating him (either one of them) better than those others girls?I still need advice/help on this subject... Tell me what you think!!!?
He said he doesn't like drama? Why would you want someone in your life like this? It sounds to me like you are a lot smarter more grown up than him you don't need this kind of crap.