Ok so here's the situation, I really like this guy I mean MAJOR crush but the thing is im a little bigger than the other girls in my class (im not fat im chubby) and ive had the biggest crush on him since forever. We occasionally talk and we laugh in gym and everything but we never actually had a conversation. I wanna show him that even tho im not '' skinny '' I still have a nice personality and im outgoing and I know how to have fun. I wanna impress him and I wanna know how I can catch his eye. I've had my heart broken WAYYYY too many times already so I wanna do it in a way that maybe spare the heartache. Even if it hurts a lil I wanna catch his attention. So any advice towards that would be great!In Need Of MAJOR Advice Help!?
Think as yourself as just another girl, not the ';chubby'; girl. What you think of yourself is be reflected on others. In Need Of MAJOR Advice Help!?
Your situation is very difficult.
This is because you don't want to seem needy or that you are head over heels over him either.
You can't rush love.
You can't change a guy's perspective if he's shallow, that's something he'll need to discover on himself.
I'm guessing that both of you are below of the age 30.
It is very rare for people below this age to see beyond physical attraction.
You can try to spend more time with him, but be prepared if he feels he needs to be distance from you, because of the extra new found time you spend with him. Try not to focus too much on any disappointments.
Hope this advice helps.
Just be yourself and flirting is a major key to having fun in any relationship it keeps things fun and playful ! And sometimes by flirting and being a little sarcastic to him and giving a guy a special smile when he passes by you is also something that really says allot to a guy! Guys in general love to show off and also love to be a woman's hero so sometimes that special smile to a guy can be the biggest reward he can get at times it flatters us and also gives us the message that you are interested in us! and depending his age this will also give him a little boost of confidence and possibly he may just be a little shy and by showing him a sexy special smile when you walk by him just might spark up something with in him! and if not then there's always another guy just around the corner that might even be better for you?
you can start by small talk, talk 2 him ever now n then, see where his mind is @! u need 2 make sure he is SINGLE! after that u should basically be able to see if he likes you!( he will go out his way to make a conversation with u, he might small @ you) regardless on what size you are he will like u 4 u!
Hoped I Helped
Good Luck ;-D
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
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