In need of some guy advice/help?

Im a gay guy and ive been talking to this guy mostly by phone/txt message...i told him i liked him a while ago but he basically said he wants me as a friend....he was going through a rough time w. another guy and kinda had me as someone to talk too...now we talk or txt like every day i feel attracted to him not only on a physical level but by his personality and stuff...hes told me tht he wnts to kiss me and cuddle with me and tht he thinks im cute sometimes hes said it when hes been drinking but other times hes also said it when he was sober sooo idk...yet he still refers to the word friend quite a bit...so i dnt know im like on a rollercoaster i wanna tell him tht i do like him and hope he likes me too i just dnt want to look like a dumba$$ saying it again..i just feel confused. anyone have any good advice to give me?...thnx.........................i accidently deleted this question srry.In need of some guy advice/help?
I suggest that you ask him out openly and risk your chances because i had this same problem and it ended up that after a while he tried to you me for sex, thinking i would always be there for him and you shouldn't do that to yourself.


I think that you just risk it all and make him answer yes or no.





I'm pretty sure if he thinks your cute, which you probably are that he WOULD go out with you, but if he doesn't your still cute anyways and will probably get nicer and better looking guys than him. :)In need of some guy advice/help?
I know I'm not a guy but, he is clearly confusing you... By saying that he only wants to be a friend and then to say he wants to kiss and cuddle you, that's mixed signals and it isn't fair on you. Sit him down, tell him how you feel and tell him to tell you straight if he likes you or not, and if he says not, then ask him why he has text you saying that he wants to kiss you. Don't feel like a dumbass, I'm sure he's a nice guy and I hope everything works out :) x
You simply tell him how you feel about him. He is gay, so he will probably have been through that with another guy in his past, or been in a similar situation. The best advice I could give is to talk to him when you feel the goods outweigh the bads, and that you love him, not the little fake teen love, but love him enough that it's actually worth getting into a relationship. Hope that helped!
you've already gotten the good advice from the others. sit him down and have a discussion about it.





If it were me, i'd say something like this.





';Ok Joey, we need to kinda clear the air and get both of us on the same page here. You know, in the past i've told you that i really liked you and would like to see you on an intimate level. Now when i told you that you said you were only interested in being friends and I'm cool with that, but lately you;ve been saying some things like you wanna kiss me or whatever. Here's the deal man, You're confusing the he!! outa me and i'd like to make sure i understand what our relationship is or isn't. Am i right, that you are still interested in only being friends? Or are you thinking maybe something more? I'm not pressing either way, I just wanna make sure i understand and that we don't let some confusion or anything else come up that would cause hard feelings between us.';





Thats just an idea of how a convo might go. The words and technique aren't important. What IS important is that you both know what to expect and not expect from the other.





Good luck