I know people make mistakes and after it happened he called to confess and said he was sorry. So I need some serious advice.Need serious advice... help.?
from experience if you love him try to make it work and tell him if he wants to keep you cut her off completly and drinking can make you do some crazy things he cared enough to confess, forget what other people think or say its your life and your the only one that has to live with your decisions good luckNeed serious advice... help.?
alcohol is no excuse.how can he get an erection if he as been drinking.
i do not understand why you need advise. it seems to me you have already accepted his unfaithfulness.if he loved you he would not of done it, i know a standing willy as no conscience.but getting away with it once ,will he do it again. i also suggest you go to a clinic for a check up. you can not be too careful.forget him. there are plenty off pebbles on the beach.
good luck.
ps.if he was not bothered about her husbands feelings.does that not tell you how heartless he is. it is nice to have it off then appoligize. think very carefully once bitten twice shy.
Ok it probably was an accident or something but I think its just as fair too sleep with someone else or take a short break cuz it's just going too feel wierd for a long time un less you do something about it yes people make mistakes but people are smart enough too know not too do that I mean come on really....... and it also depends on how much you really feel about him....
**Dennise Diaz A.K.A D3zzT!n3Y**
Well if he called and confessed to you, then it means he really regrets it. And if its truly his first time doing something like this, well then u can forgive him after probably reprimanding him.
He needs to realize how angry you are but should also realize u are giving him another chance.
i say you and him have a good ol' talk and restate each others feeling for one another. ask him if you are in his future. he will probaly kiss your a** don't let him. alchohaul is no excuse at all. lisen to him and make him listen to u as well. you will understand each other.
May i call u as sister. OK, dear sister what are saying alcohol do any thing ah? And u use the word randomly wat it means!! Better you break up , but its all belonging to ur way of view.
i agree with sade..
it's your life!
people do make mistakes and deserve a second change.
at least you know it from him, not anyone else..
and tell her husband too.
If he was drunk, I'd forgive him but tell him if he does it again you're dumping his ***. If he wasn't drunk, and it was like ur BEST friend, dump his ***.
You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't listen dump him.
dont think about it too much.leave him.youll regret taking him back if you ever do.
Do the husband your even
Do the husband then your even:)
dump him. its not worth trying to save ur relationship unless ur absolutely in love with him. If u stay with him, u'll always b wondering if he's cheating. just break it up.
I've experienced something very similar to your situation before.
You may not have recognized it, but your boyfriend and your friend may have been giving each other subtle hints and googly eyes for a long time. Alcohol is prone to bring out the truth in people, and the truth may have been that they'd wanted each other for some time now. Committed boyfriends don't sleep with a married woman simply because they're drunk, unless the commitment was only a ruse until something better came along.
You have two choices:
1) Work it out. The fact that he fessed up to you could be evidence that he cares, while it may also be evidence that he knows he has almost no chance with this married woman, because she's married! He could be genuinely sorry, or he may simply be crawling back to you dejectedly.
2) Accept his apology, tell him you're very happy he's admitted it, and then leave him. If he's done it once, he'll do it again. Being close friends with this married woman will mean he'll remain close to her. If you'd like to take the risk of his infidelity happening again, good luck to you.
Keep in mind that should you choose to work it out with him, and you find yourself feeling bitter, or making snide remarks and double-edged comments, it may be wise to simply end the relationship. The inability to completely let an offense go takes a lot of courage and truck-tons of willpower that only some women can boast of.
Ultimately, the decision is up to you. Now is not a time for logic, although your mind may try to employ logic for the simple fact of trying to make the relationship work. Trust your feelings and your womanly intuition. Good luck, friend!
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