Okay so i asked this guy if he liked me and he said he likes me but hes got a gf and he doesn't go to the same school as me and i don't know when they'll break up i don't even know her name and i don't want to be pushy but i'm in love with him he's my bst friend and that's why it's not weird with us since i just came out and asked him if he liked me and he's constantly saying he loves me and misses me.......Ok so here's my ? Why won't he dump his f for me? I know it sounds conceded but i he likes me then why not??? OK thnks bunchesOkay need guy advice.........HELP!!!?
Sweetie, It sounds like he is very confused. First of all, He has a GF??
If you all are truly best friends, then you should be able to sit down and talk to him and ask him, why is it he tells you that he misses and loves you? But yet he has a GF.
The worst thing you can do is be pushy. Men tend to flip out, and when pushed , they will pull away.
You are very lucky to have this kind of relationship with someone, a true best friendship, they are very hard to come by.
And I speak from experience when I say that friendship is the best foundation for a truly wonderful relationship, although it may be a ways in the future.
With this one, I think the best advice is let nature take its course, everything happens for a reason, and if you all are meant to be together, then it will be. Patience is hard, I know.
My best friend is a guy and he has a GF... I care for him very much, and I just try to be here for him as much as I can. I do not put pressure on him, as I know that just makes his life more stressful. If one day we end up together, then that is what is meant to happen, If not then I will always have a truly wonderful friend that knows me better than anyone, accepts me for me, and having that kind of relationship with someone, is very rare anymore...
So count your Blessings as they are now.
And just keep a positive outlook on the future...
Blessed be,
Raven
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