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Friday, April 30, 2010
Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
I`ve been with my girlfriend over 2 years now, where both only 17 and only ever been with each other, we fell in love and everything was great, then after a couple of petty arguments she told me she no longer ';fancied me'; and that she liked another lad. She still claimed to love me so i`ve been with her ever since but its disturbing me of how she just came out and said it in the way she did, i need to know whether to just end it now or continue going out with her, hoping that she actually finds me attractive again...since she told me she didnt fancy me anymore, she says she does now and its proper confusing :s any advice/ solutions to all of this.Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
shes playin you, just leave herAny relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
shes playin you, just leave herAny relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
I need female advice. Help?
Ok, theres this girl, I'll call her Jane. (Were in High School)
Well, Jane and I have been up and down the last couple of months. Its started with her saying she liked me, I told her I liked her too, but were weren't/aren't going out. Then a few weeks later I invited her to a pool ';get-together';. She cancled on me, the the next day she started ignoring me. (Its summer so we don't see each other)
She woundn't reply to text's or answer phone calls. I wasn't bugging her at all. Just every now and then I would text/call her, just to see what was up.
So, about 2 months later, she texted me one day and said ';Hey';. The we carried on a conversation like nothing had happend.
Jane said ';Man, I havn't talked to you in a long time';.
I said ';Yeah, I noticed. Why was that';?
Jane said ';I didn't want it to be wired, since I cancled on the pool thing';.
I said ';I don't think it would've been';.
Then we got on a different conversation, and I later asked her if she was sure the reason she quit talking to me was because of the pool thing. And she said yes.
Later, we were talking about when we said we liked each other. And she said she didn't know for sure if she still liked me. She said it was just somthing that time would have to tell. I still like her, and she know that. (I told her I did)
School starts next week, and I'm at a loss. I don't know if I should act like friends or more then friends. That, and I'm kinda confused. So any advice, comments, help, would be greatly appreciated.I need female advice. Help?
Well, nothings been finalized. Just be a good friend. Don't push things. Time will tell as she clearly states.. so why not let time work and see what happens next? Good luck!I need female advice. Help?
Just act like a flirty friend. If she ends up not liking you, then you can just blow it off like, ';I was just messing around. Hahaha.';
If she says that she likes you back, then flirt, but play a little hard to get. If you get too clingy, she'll push you around and use you for whatever she wants.
don't act like more than friends unless you're sure that she wants that.
it might creep her out.
act like nothings wrong, but only friends.
to be 100% honest with you, it doesn't seem like she likes you like that anymore.
I'm only saying that because i'm a girl and i act that way when i move on.
so like she said, time will tell. see what happens. and good luck!
Definitely just act normal because if you act like ';more than friends'; she might think you are clingy. Also it wasn't the pool thing. She was probably just didn't know what to say or needed to think things through first. Just let her come to you because she already knows how you feel.
Forget her! Find a girl who isn't going to be a flake and treat you like that. There are plenty of girls, who will be sweet and such. Your to good for her, promise.
Don't wait for her.
Sincerely,
Heather :D
since she knows you like her act like it. just dont go over board. and when you think she is definately liking you then ask her out. if it doesnt work out with Jane there are plenty of pretty... nice girls out there.
be Friends if she wants more, she will make it happen. U will notice.
The best thing I could say is talk as friends but tell her if she wants to be more than friends it's up to her and just tell her that you still like her (that's if you do).
Hope things work out.
Good luck x
Just act relaxed around her, deffinantly make the effort to go talk to her, act friendly and chilled out and even give her a casual hug when u see her..but dont take it much further than that till u get some vibes..=)
tlk to her as friends. dnt tlk as more than friend. she said she confused and if u tlk more than friends to her then u might scare her away and she not b interested at all.
You need to think if you guys we're together if she would make a good beau. If you think she will be more than friends. If you don't just act like nothing happened and still be friends
Sounds like a school game she playing you might want to explore your options.
act like just friends. wait to see her reaction... you don't wanna freak her out.
Well I think it is great that you were honest with her. That is good and now she knows. But I think you should play a little hard to get at this point. This way she will come to her senses and realize that she will miss you. Sure you can say hi adn give a smile in the hallway but try no tot txt or call her. Wait for her to come to you. And if she calls or texts then wait a couple times. I think that is what she was doing. It totally wasnt the pool thing. She was waiting for YOU to be nervous about HER. Hope I helped! And Good Luck!
now wen u get back to school act like friends (normal)
and talk to her now and then.
then after awhile wen things r good between u and her ask her to
hang out again.
if she cancels then that bascially means that she just wants to be friends.
Well, from what I have read, you stated that she doesn't know weather or not she likes you. The best thing to do is be her friend move up with her from there, get to know her weakness and greatness. You will also have a better chance of getting closer to her through friends, then hitting straight to the love stuff. Show her that you will be there for her know matter what even if she decides that she doesn't like you, but wants to come to you to ask you help about another guy. Be there; that will get you the farthest. :) I hoped I helped. If you ever need anything else, feel free to email me at miss_advice22@yahoo.com.
She is most likely feeling someone else and is confused as to whether or not she still likes you. You should give her time to decide after asking her if there is another guy that has caught her eye. If there is, then all you can really do is try your best to be there for her to prove to her that she should pick you and after she does, then continue being there for her so that you can prove that you WANT to be there for her.
Well, Jane and I have been up and down the last couple of months. Its started with her saying she liked me, I told her I liked her too, but were weren't/aren't going out. Then a few weeks later I invited her to a pool ';get-together';. She cancled on me, the the next day she started ignoring me. (Its summer so we don't see each other)
She woundn't reply to text's or answer phone calls. I wasn't bugging her at all. Just every now and then I would text/call her, just to see what was up.
So, about 2 months later, she texted me one day and said ';Hey';. The we carried on a conversation like nothing had happend.
Jane said ';Man, I havn't talked to you in a long time';.
I said ';Yeah, I noticed. Why was that';?
Jane said ';I didn't want it to be wired, since I cancled on the pool thing';.
I said ';I don't think it would've been';.
Then we got on a different conversation, and I later asked her if she was sure the reason she quit talking to me was because of the pool thing. And she said yes.
Later, we were talking about when we said we liked each other. And she said she didn't know for sure if she still liked me. She said it was just somthing that time would have to tell. I still like her, and she know that. (I told her I did)
School starts next week, and I'm at a loss. I don't know if I should act like friends or more then friends. That, and I'm kinda confused. So any advice, comments, help, would be greatly appreciated.I need female advice. Help?
Well, nothings been finalized. Just be a good friend. Don't push things. Time will tell as she clearly states.. so why not let time work and see what happens next? Good luck!I need female advice. Help?
Just act like a flirty friend. If she ends up not liking you, then you can just blow it off like, ';I was just messing around. Hahaha.';
If she says that she likes you back, then flirt, but play a little hard to get. If you get too clingy, she'll push you around and use you for whatever she wants.
don't act like more than friends unless you're sure that she wants that.
it might creep her out.
act like nothings wrong, but only friends.
to be 100% honest with you, it doesn't seem like she likes you like that anymore.
I'm only saying that because i'm a girl and i act that way when i move on.
so like she said, time will tell. see what happens. and good luck!
Definitely just act normal because if you act like ';more than friends'; she might think you are clingy. Also it wasn't the pool thing. She was probably just didn't know what to say or needed to think things through first. Just let her come to you because she already knows how you feel.
Forget her! Find a girl who isn't going to be a flake and treat you like that. There are plenty of girls, who will be sweet and such. Your to good for her, promise.
Don't wait for her.
Sincerely,
Heather :D
since she knows you like her act like it. just dont go over board. and when you think she is definately liking you then ask her out. if it doesnt work out with Jane there are plenty of pretty... nice girls out there.
be Friends if she wants more, she will make it happen. U will notice.
The best thing I could say is talk as friends but tell her if she wants to be more than friends it's up to her and just tell her that you still like her (that's if you do).
Hope things work out.
Good luck x
Just act relaxed around her, deffinantly make the effort to go talk to her, act friendly and chilled out and even give her a casual hug when u see her..but dont take it much further than that till u get some vibes..=)
tlk to her as friends. dnt tlk as more than friend. she said she confused and if u tlk more than friends to her then u might scare her away and she not b interested at all.
You need to think if you guys we're together if she would make a good beau. If you think she will be more than friends. If you don't just act like nothing happened and still be friends
Sounds like a school game she playing you might want to explore your options.
act like just friends. wait to see her reaction... you don't wanna freak her out.
Well I think it is great that you were honest with her. That is good and now she knows. But I think you should play a little hard to get at this point. This way she will come to her senses and realize that she will miss you. Sure you can say hi adn give a smile in the hallway but try no tot txt or call her. Wait for her to come to you. And if she calls or texts then wait a couple times. I think that is what she was doing. It totally wasnt the pool thing. She was waiting for YOU to be nervous about HER. Hope I helped! And Good Luck!
now wen u get back to school act like friends (normal)
and talk to her now and then.
then after awhile wen things r good between u and her ask her to
hang out again.
if she cancels then that bascially means that she just wants to be friends.
Well, from what I have read, you stated that she doesn't know weather or not she likes you. The best thing to do is be her friend move up with her from there, get to know her weakness and greatness. You will also have a better chance of getting closer to her through friends, then hitting straight to the love stuff. Show her that you will be there for her know matter what even if she decides that she doesn't like you, but wants to come to you to ask you help about another guy. Be there; that will get you the farthest. :) I hoped I helped. If you ever need anything else, feel free to email me at miss_advice22@yahoo.com.
She is most likely feeling someone else and is confused as to whether or not she still likes you. You should give her time to decide after asking her if there is another guy that has caught her eye. If there is, then all you can really do is try your best to be there for her to prove to her that she should pick you and after she does, then continue being there for her so that you can prove that you WANT to be there for her.
I need some advice.. help!?
Ok so I am interested in this guy in one of my classes. I've spoken to him a few times, but nothing really beisdes school work. I can't really tell if he is interested or not (college class so we have to pay attentino to professor or speak about assignment), what should i do?
I'm a bit on the shy side, and I've thought about asking him about homework when we walk out to our cars cause we usually walk near each other, but I have friends in that class I sit next too so I don't know if that would be weird...
I need some advice.. help!?
';Just do it.'; It wouldn't be weird.I need some advice.. help!?
just ask, its not a big deal for men if a girl asks.make up
I'm a bit on the shy side, and I've thought about asking him about homework when we walk out to our cars cause we usually walk near each other, but I have friends in that class I sit next too so I don't know if that would be weird...
I need some advice.. help!?
';Just do it.'; It wouldn't be weird.I need some advice.. help!?
just ask, its not a big deal for men if a girl asks.
Really need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
Hi girls..
Okay, So my MIL has been diagnosed with swine flu, and Ive been around her all week. I'm starting to feel how she did a few days ago, really shitty and a bit chesty. Ive called my doctor who is going to give me a call back..Do you think i will get proscribed with Rolenza, seeing as ive been around the virus and starting to feel ill.
Have you taken or been prescribed relenza whilst pregnant?
I'm pretty scared now xReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
I agree with Simply Me. I also heard that is what pregnant women should take. Call your doctor to double check and see what he has to say about u having it. Good luck! My mom is a teacher and has a student with swine flu so I am totally avoiding her! lolReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
Hun, i recently read this article that says that if a pregnant woman suspects that she may be caring the swine flu virus, the best thing she can do is start taking Termaflu..(i know i'm saying the name wrong but it's very similar...look it up). And this medication is safe for pregnant women to take, and it is sold over the counter. If i were you, i'd buy it immediately and start taking it...
Consult a doctor immediately
Okay, So my MIL has been diagnosed with swine flu, and Ive been around her all week. I'm starting to feel how she did a few days ago, really shitty and a bit chesty. Ive called my doctor who is going to give me a call back..Do you think i will get proscribed with Rolenza, seeing as ive been around the virus and starting to feel ill.
Have you taken or been prescribed relenza whilst pregnant?
I'm pretty scared now xReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
I agree with Simply Me. I also heard that is what pregnant women should take. Call your doctor to double check and see what he has to say about u having it. Good luck! My mom is a teacher and has a student with swine flu so I am totally avoiding her! lolReally need your advice/help..I'm 30 weeks pregnant x?
Hun, i recently read this article that says that if a pregnant woman suspects that she may be caring the swine flu virus, the best thing she can do is start taking Termaflu..(i know i'm saying the name wrong but it's very similar...look it up). And this medication is safe for pregnant women to take, and it is sold over the counter. If i were you, i'd buy it immediately and start taking it...
Consult a doctor immediately
I love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
She always calls and she started to ask for money and he felt bad and almost gave in to her help I鈥檓 new at this. I hate her with a passion for all the wrong she did to him and I鈥檓 not good with expressing myself when it comes to this subject with himI love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
Don't forget who you are.....and who she is....she's his ex....what ever happened in THEIR past is long gone, so don't dwell on something that used to be, it's over.....he has to toughen up and tell her NO and to tell her to stop bumming money and get her own, she should be in the past now, just see it like this...he's yours not hers, but do tell him that this money lending has to stop...he is not supposed to be supporting her any more, let her do it herself...be firm with him, you have to speak up, just tell him how you feel and to stop getting involved with her, she's an ex for a reason....your the lucky one, you still got himI love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
see.....it all works out good in the end....now relax and enjoy your valentines day with YOUR husband.....be happy x
you have to nip this in the bud, if he has almost folded over this ,it means he has buttons she can still press tell him to cut her off !or its over trust me ,if he doesnt you have a lot of hassle ahead.... good luck
When I married my Ex he had been married 2 times before. His second Ex left him 11 months into the marriage without an explanation or reason (to him anyway) and moved from WV to FL. In our 4th year together I found phone bills and pictures of her and a little boy. I asked him if he had talked to her and he said ';No'; not in years. I was holding in my hand the phone bill, of hers mind you with our home number as well as his work number on it, and the pictures. I was dismayed, to say the least, hurt and angry that he lied to me when I thought our relationship was better than that. I just laid everything out on the table, packed a bag and the girls and I left, for 2 weeks the only person that knew where we were was my Grandparents and I'd told them just so no one would worry. When we talked (him %26amp; I) I found out that she had adopted the child right after she moved to FL and she wanted to move back to WV but needed money and he offered to pay all her bills for her but he would not give her any cash. He said through the phone calls and mail was the only contact he had with her and if it weren't for the child he wouldn't even have done that much. I took into consideration the type of person he was and could almost imagine what was said, but it still didn't ease my mind on the fact he lied to me about it when I had asked him outright. He thought I received a call from her that day I asked and claimed that was why he never admitted to any of the others. I try to tell everyone that just because you get away with something today doesn't mean you are off scott-free for life, it will come back to haunt you when you least expect it to. She did call a few years later, wanting more money and this time he told me when she called and why and he told her he was finished helping her.
OJ took care of his exwife, maybe you could call him and ask for a copy of the book they didnt print.
Do they have children? He could pay child support. If they do not have children he has no business talking to her in the first place and you should in fact change your phone number to prevent the calls. If she comes over get a restraining order. It's your husband who is responsible for this intrusion and he should be the one to resolve the issue and tell her to but out she had her chance and blew it.
If they do not have minor children he shouldnt be talkin to her at all! If you want to be heard YOU Have to express yourself.
Just remind him that it's you that will always be there for him and that she is playing him for a sucker. She wasn't happy before and he surely can't make her happy now.
only if they have children does he need to give any money at all to her... your husband needs to make it perfectly clear to her that she is no longer welcome in his life and to stop calling him, she is not his responsibility any more, she is prolly jealous and knows it would cause problems for you if she carries on with this behaviour...
No matter what, take the high-road when talking about her or interacting with her. If you don't, it only makes you look like you can't handle her. Whether or not you can is beside the point.
Then, you need to grab your hubby and firmly tell him to deal with this woman. Tell him that you love and support him in anything he does, but that you don't want her intruding on your life together. Make him realize that HE is the only one who can resolve this issue with her. If he is ordered to pay her alimony, then he has to. If he was feeling sorry for her and she needs the money, then do it right and make a promissory note that is dated and notarized.
The ex probably has some issues that are making it hard for her to let go. Try to understand, but don't enable. When you pick a fight with her directly, or with your hubby indirectly, that will not solve anything. Maybe you get to vent a little, but you need a resolution. Your hubby has to close that door with her before he can open one with you.
Good luck!
Tell him that if he keeps feeling for her, that he needs to go back to her.
Don't forget who you are.....and who she is....she's his ex....what ever happened in THEIR past is long gone, so don't dwell on something that used to be, it's over.....he has to toughen up and tell her NO and to tell her to stop bumming money and get her own, she should be in the past now, just see it like this...he's yours not hers, but do tell him that this money lending has to stop...he is not supposed to be supporting her any more, let her do it herself...be firm with him, you have to speak up, just tell him how you feel and to stop getting involved with her, she's an ex for a reason....your the lucky one, you still got himI love my husband more than anything but he has an Ex-wife who makes it hard on us any advice help?
see.....it all works out good in the end....now relax and enjoy your valentines day with YOUR husband.....be happy x
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you have to nip this in the bud, if he has almost folded over this ,it means he has buttons she can still press tell him to cut her off !or its over trust me ,if he doesnt you have a lot of hassle ahead.... good luck
When I married my Ex he had been married 2 times before. His second Ex left him 11 months into the marriage without an explanation or reason (to him anyway) and moved from WV to FL. In our 4th year together I found phone bills and pictures of her and a little boy. I asked him if he had talked to her and he said ';No'; not in years. I was holding in my hand the phone bill, of hers mind you with our home number as well as his work number on it, and the pictures. I was dismayed, to say the least, hurt and angry that he lied to me when I thought our relationship was better than that. I just laid everything out on the table, packed a bag and the girls and I left, for 2 weeks the only person that knew where we were was my Grandparents and I'd told them just so no one would worry. When we talked (him %26amp; I) I found out that she had adopted the child right after she moved to FL and she wanted to move back to WV but needed money and he offered to pay all her bills for her but he would not give her any cash. He said through the phone calls and mail was the only contact he had with her and if it weren't for the child he wouldn't even have done that much. I took into consideration the type of person he was and could almost imagine what was said, but it still didn't ease my mind on the fact he lied to me about it when I had asked him outright. He thought I received a call from her that day I asked and claimed that was why he never admitted to any of the others. I try to tell everyone that just because you get away with something today doesn't mean you are off scott-free for life, it will come back to haunt you when you least expect it to. She did call a few years later, wanting more money and this time he told me when she called and why and he told her he was finished helping her.
OJ took care of his exwife, maybe you could call him and ask for a copy of the book they didnt print.
Do they have children? He could pay child support. If they do not have children he has no business talking to her in the first place and you should in fact change your phone number to prevent the calls. If she comes over get a restraining order. It's your husband who is responsible for this intrusion and he should be the one to resolve the issue and tell her to but out she had her chance and blew it.
If they do not have minor children he shouldnt be talkin to her at all! If you want to be heard YOU Have to express yourself.
Just remind him that it's you that will always be there for him and that she is playing him for a sucker. She wasn't happy before and he surely can't make her happy now.
only if they have children does he need to give any money at all to her... your husband needs to make it perfectly clear to her that she is no longer welcome in his life and to stop calling him, she is not his responsibility any more, she is prolly jealous and knows it would cause problems for you if she carries on with this behaviour...
No matter what, take the high-road when talking about her or interacting with her. If you don't, it only makes you look like you can't handle her. Whether or not you can is beside the point.
Then, you need to grab your hubby and firmly tell him to deal with this woman. Tell him that you love and support him in anything he does, but that you don't want her intruding on your life together. Make him realize that HE is the only one who can resolve this issue with her. If he is ordered to pay her alimony, then he has to. If he was feeling sorry for her and she needs the money, then do it right and make a promissory note that is dated and notarized.
The ex probably has some issues that are making it hard for her to let go. Try to understand, but don't enable. When you pick a fight with her directly, or with your hubby indirectly, that will not solve anything. Maybe you get to vent a little, but you need a resolution. Your hubby has to close that door with her before he can open one with you.
Good luck!
Tell him that if he keeps feeling for her, that he needs to go back to her.
Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
I`ve been with my girlfriend over 2 years now, where both only 17 and only ever been with each other, we fell in love and everything was great, then after a couple of petty arguments she told me she no longer ';fancied me'; and that she liked another lad. She still claimed to love me so i`ve been with her ever since but its disturbing me of how she just came out and said it in the way she did, i need to know whether to just end it now or continue going out with her, hoping that she actually finds me attractive again...since she told me she didnt fancy me anymore, she says she does now and its proper confusing :s any advice/ solutions to all of this.Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
shes playin you, just leave her
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
shes playin you, just leave her
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
Military wives: need advice/help for my first military ball?
I am going to my first military ball in October. This is for the Military Police Corps birthday. How would this type of ball be different from any other type, for example for the branch's (Army) birthday or one after homecoming?
I've never been to one before and don't know what to expect. I have heard a lot of different things from different people. Is there anything where I would have to stand, etc?
My husband is a Cpl and will be wearing his class A's. Who specifically has to stand in the ';receiving line';? Would we be included or not?
Is getting a long dress (ankle to floor length) the best bet for dressing appropriately? Should I try to select a color that won't clash with his Class A's?
Sorry if the questions sound kind of stupid, I just have no idea.
Military guys are welcome to answer too as long as they are helpful.Military wives: need advice/help for my first military ball?
Usually officers stand in t he receiving line and if you go to the drinks ahead of the dinner then you will be standing around solicilizing with drink in hand. Going thru the receiving line, shakign hands, then yes you will be standing the whole time you are shaking hands wilth the officers and their spouces.Military wives: need advice/help for my first military ball?
Woman tend to over dress at these event. If you are going to wear a long dress make sure you can sit in it and that you can walk and dance in it. i seen dresses where chee-chees are having out and slits so high that you can easily see butt tissue. Then,again I have seen who wear a fancy blouse,skirt and high heels. The majority of the dresses are prom like dresses. Just be sure you will be happy with the dress,be comfortable.be absolutely stunning and most of all don't spent a fortune for one evening.
I've never been to one before and don't know what to expect. I have heard a lot of different things from different people. Is there anything where I would have to stand, etc?
My husband is a Cpl and will be wearing his class A's. Who specifically has to stand in the ';receiving line';? Would we be included or not?
Is getting a long dress (ankle to floor length) the best bet for dressing appropriately? Should I try to select a color that won't clash with his Class A's?
Sorry if the questions sound kind of stupid, I just have no idea.
Military guys are welcome to answer too as long as they are helpful.Military wives: need advice/help for my first military ball?
Usually officers stand in t he receiving line and if you go to the drinks ahead of the dinner then you will be standing around solicilizing with drink in hand. Going thru the receiving line, shakign hands, then yes you will be standing the whole time you are shaking hands wilth the officers and their spouces.Military wives: need advice/help for my first military ball?
Woman tend to over dress at these event. If you are going to wear a long dress make sure you can sit in it and that you can walk and dance in it. i seen dresses where chee-chees are having out and slits so high that you can easily see butt tissue. Then,again I have seen who wear a fancy blouse,skirt and high heels. The majority of the dresses are prom like dresses. Just be sure you will be happy with the dress,be comfortable.be absolutely stunning and most of all don't spent a fortune for one evening.
Lez problems?? need advice!! help!?
my gf lives with her psychotic roomate which was a friend of hers since like 1st grade.. they hate eachother now... cant stand dealing with eachother, they sometimes get along only on the psycho good days.. like all type ofstuff.. but thats besides the point, they used to go out.. when they were younger like tenth grade to 11th. The psycho is soo attached to my gf because my gf is the only friend she has and like im tired of competing like.. when i want to be with her shes busy hanging with her to keep her happy so she wont complain about how all her free time goes to me i kno somewhere n that psychos mind that she still has feeling but claims she doesnt they are just friends and only friendship feelings.. like im stuck in between what to do about this i love my gf and everyone makes sacrifices in relationships but should i? like any help please.. thanksLez problems?? need advice!! help!?
I think all three of you would be happier if you quit being lesbians and got a man.Lez problems?? need advice!! help!?
well maybe U shud tok with sycho and Ur gf and see if Ur gf will help solve the problems btween the love trangle ........I'm not doctor phil but thats seams 2 work for me
Have you ever thought about going a step further and maybe you and your girlfriend get a place together? Then she would be spending time with you. Talk to her about what your feeling its better to get it out then keep it bottled up inside. Good luck!
tell your GF what you are thinking maybe she will realize what its doing to you
I think all three of you would be happier if you quit being lesbians and got a man.Lez problems?? need advice!! help!?
well maybe U shud tok with sycho and Ur gf and see if Ur gf will help solve the problems btween the love trangle ........I'm not doctor phil but thats seams 2 work for me
Have you ever thought about going a step further and maybe you and your girlfriend get a place together? Then she would be spending time with you. Talk to her about what your feeling its better to get it out then keep it bottled up inside. Good luck!
tell your GF what you are thinking maybe she will realize what its doing to you
School? Possibly GED? Advice? Help?
Well Im 16 Years Old And Im A Junior In High School And Basically I Have Screwed Up So Far In High School And I Have Alot Of Absences, Alot Of Which Was Due To My Depression, To Where Im Scared I Might Not Be Abe To Graduate And My Dad Has Threatened To Kick Me Out Because Basically He Thiinks Im Gonna Be A High School Drop Out. My Family And I Have Been Under Alot Of Stress Lately With This Stupid Recession We Lost Our House And We Have To Find A Place To Live Now That Can House A Family Of Like 7 or 8 And Plus My Sisters Fiance Left Her And Now She Has To Raise Two Kids So Its Just Been A Really Hard Time... Should I Just Get My GED Since Im Gonna Have To Just Go To A Community College Anyways? Idk I Just Need Someone To Give Me Some Advice.School? Possibly GED? Advice? Help?
The rules for whether or not you can take the GED depend on your state. Most of them require that you be at least 18 and not have dropped out of high school recently - it's not meant for people who could still be in public school. Which you can. Some states won't let you take it if you just dropped out of school. Just stay in school - a diploma is worth more than a GED, and if you're not doing well in school chances are you might not pass the GED either. Plus, capitalizing every word makes that really hard to read.School? Possibly GED? Advice? Help?
a lot of teens regret not having the social interaction they would have got in high school but if you can do without it then a ged is a good way to get your high school diploma
IM JUST LIKE YOU true getting your high school diploma at home thats what im doing and then im going to school for 2 years to become a video game designer :)
Hey,
Im sorry about your situation. I have no idea what a GED is? ...Since I live in the USA. But I think you should just stay at high school and not waste the opportunity god has given you. Because there will be other people who are suffering worse eg. because of sickness, closing schools, no money at all to even afford school and having to drop out at an early age to support their entire family throughout the USA.
There will be other people at your school who are suffering like you. If you just add a tiny bit more study time into your spare time or ask teachers for a lunch/morning/after school tutorial in some subjects I think you will be able to get back on track. Ask your friends for notes from classes you missed and copy them into your notebooks so just read over them every now and then. Join a school sport or other extra cric activity to be more involved with the school to let the teachers know your still interested in school etc. and pay lots of attention in class this way the teachers will cater to your individual needs more.
If your struggling to pay for school or any other family issues try get an easy job afterschool like at McDz, babysitting, maybe even something like modelling? (which you can earn heaps of money off if your good) and help support your family by paying for some things yourself.
Im 16 yrs old, ask me any other questions through email on my page if you like. Hope that helps. =] Peeeacceeee.make up
The rules for whether or not you can take the GED depend on your state. Most of them require that you be at least 18 and not have dropped out of high school recently - it's not meant for people who could still be in public school. Which you can. Some states won't let you take it if you just dropped out of school. Just stay in school - a diploma is worth more than a GED, and if you're not doing well in school chances are you might not pass the GED either. Plus, capitalizing every word makes that really hard to read.School? Possibly GED? Advice? Help?
a lot of teens regret not having the social interaction they would have got in high school but if you can do without it then a ged is a good way to get your high school diploma
IM JUST LIKE YOU true getting your high school diploma at home thats what im doing and then im going to school for 2 years to become a video game designer :)
Hey,
Im sorry about your situation. I have no idea what a GED is? ...Since I live in the USA. But I think you should just stay at high school and not waste the opportunity god has given you. Because there will be other people who are suffering worse eg. because of sickness, closing schools, no money at all to even afford school and having to drop out at an early age to support their entire family throughout the USA.
There will be other people at your school who are suffering like you. If you just add a tiny bit more study time into your spare time or ask teachers for a lunch/morning/after school tutorial in some subjects I think you will be able to get back on track. Ask your friends for notes from classes you missed and copy them into your notebooks so just read over them every now and then. Join a school sport or other extra cric activity to be more involved with the school to let the teachers know your still interested in school etc. and pay lots of attention in class this way the teachers will cater to your individual needs more.
If your struggling to pay for school or any other family issues try get an easy job afterschool like at McDz, babysitting, maybe even something like modelling? (which you can earn heaps of money off if your good) and help support your family by paying for some things yourself.
Im 16 yrs old, ask me any other questions through email on my page if you like. Hope that helps. =] Peeeacceeee.
ANYBODY! i need advice! help me!!!! ?
okay so this is a little long sorry. but my friends boyfriend and i are bestfriends and umm we hang out and he like always wants to snuggle and he like always tickles me and flirts with me and stuff. hes really hard to read but he tells me everything. i just cant tell anymore. do u think he likes me? or do u think hes just being a guy.. or am i just tottaly horrible for hanging out with him cause hes dating my friend? HELP! oh and i might like him.. :/ANYBODY! i need advice! help me!!!! ?
he likes you, but don't ruin a friendship over it.ANYBODY! i need advice! help me!!!! ?
From reading your story, you do not want advice.
You already know what is right and wrong, but you just want to figure out a way to get things to happen for your benefit.
You friend would be horrified to find out that you are stalking her boyfriend. Remember, some woman might do this to you, sometime in the future.
It will matter to YOU, then.
wow . . . . . . . . he says '; lets snuggle and like snuggles up to u while ur like watching a movie?'; wow what a JERK!!!
Go ahead .
go out with him
go be a mean betch and make his gf cry
THATS WHAT YOU WANT
you know its wrong
you jsut want encouragement to make a girl cry.
you evil person
if you have true feelings for him then go for it but if you and ur friend are close then its not worth loosing a friend =) but really just listen to the voice in ur head!!!
He seems really flirty. Girl, stay away from him.
he likes you, but don't ruin a friendship over it.ANYBODY! i need advice! help me!!!! ?
From reading your story, you do not want advice.
You already know what is right and wrong, but you just want to figure out a way to get things to happen for your benefit.
You friend would be horrified to find out that you are stalking her boyfriend. Remember, some woman might do this to you, sometime in the future.
It will matter to YOU, then.
wow . . . . . . . . he says '; lets snuggle and like snuggles up to u while ur like watching a movie?'; wow what a JERK!!!
Go ahead .
go out with him
go be a mean betch and make his gf cry
THATS WHAT YOU WANT
you know its wrong
you jsut want encouragement to make a girl cry.
you evil person
if you have true feelings for him then go for it but if you and ur friend are close then its not worth loosing a friend =) but really just listen to the voice in ur head!!!
He seems really flirty. Girl, stay away from him.
I need relationship advice!!!! HELP!!!!! ?
So as a lot of you know, last night was halloween. I kissed my boyfriend Alex on the cheek on the way home from taking my sister trick-or-treating. Then all night until he went home, we took turns kissing each others cheeks. (Call us wimps, but hey, we're 13-14 and our first actual BF and GF). And ever since then, thats all we can think about and we want to kiss each other on the mouth tomorrow. Why is it the only thing we can think about? And another thing. If he comes over tomorrow, my parents are gonna be keepin an eye on us so we can't kiss. And if we go outside, my neighbors and my sister have ti follow us around. Should we kiss when my parents aren't looking in my basement? Or should we just ignore my sister and neighbors and kiss while we're out walking? I need help!!!! I need relationship advice!!!! HELP!!!!! ?
awww :] thats really cutee! and you guys haveee hormones, and they're raging, so duhh ur gonna think about kissing. i'm 14 and sometimes thats all i can think about with my boyfriend.
u guys should kiss in the basement cuz your parents will ground u from seeing him.
have funnn :]
awww :] thats really cutee! and you guys haveee hormones, and they're raging, so duhh ur gonna think about kissing. i'm 14 and sometimes thats all i can think about with my boyfriend.
u guys should kiss in the basement cuz your parents will ground u from seeing him.
have funnn :]
I need some advice? help?
My father and mother divorced when I was 12, since then he hasn't really been in touch with me until a few years ago. (i'm 21 now) He had another child 5 years ago and since they have split up. The mother of the child lost custody of him because she has a drug problem, now my dad and his new girlfriend has full custody of him. They live in a different state. My dad lets my little brother come in on weekends to stay with our grandmother, the baby has told me on several different occasions that the new girlfriend is mean to him, doesn't like and tells my dad this in front of him, and refuses to watch him. Since this all came out, my dad takes the baby to day care at 6am and leave him until 9pm and later, just whenever he gets off work. My dad stopped letting him come in when my grandmother let him to talk to his mom on the phone. He recently came in, this past weekend. The baby has lost around 6 pounds and he just looks terrible. When he is home, he has to stay in his room and play. And apparently the new girlfriend is mentally abusing him, i guess you could say. She talks about his mother, how mean he is. And honestly, he's the best kid ever.
I'm worried about him. I worry that she may be doing more to him than he's telling. He's very quiet and getting him to talk is like pulling teeth. I was wondering, since I am the only sister and I am of age. Is there anything that I could do legally? I live with my mother, we have a stable home, she does daycare, I have a good income, reliable transportation.. Is there anything, that I could do??? I need some advice.I need some advice? help?
Call the courts and they will give you all the advice you need..I need some advice? help?
get laid.
I'm worried about him. I worry that she may be doing more to him than he's telling. He's very quiet and getting him to talk is like pulling teeth. I was wondering, since I am the only sister and I am of age. Is there anything that I could do legally? I live with my mother, we have a stable home, she does daycare, I have a good income, reliable transportation.. Is there anything, that I could do??? I need some advice.I need some advice? help?
Call the courts and they will give you all the advice you need..I need some advice? help?
get laid.
I want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
My Daugther has been looking after me since she was 6,
( I have M.S) and with other things in her life like her farther leaving and trauma she has been though, it has left her with derpression and social phobia for the past 4 years.
she has seen many thearpist, been on many differnt kinds of medication, done hpynothearpy many self help books but not alot seems to work.
but i was talking to an old friend on how she got though her derpression, was by going away having a week to think to herself with out stuff like looking after me for example.
but she is very scared to be on my own, but i really think she needs it, where do you think she could go to be safe and to think?
Please help thank you xxxxI want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
I'm actually 18+ years old,which is similar to your daughter, and I'm also visiting a therapist now.I know Wat's the feeling of being depress.personally,I think traveling can help a lot, it can open your eyes,and heart.don't just stay in home,go out and let her know that this world is so beautiful,let her know that it's better spending time to do something meaningful rather than being sad.Cause time still go on,whether you are in good mood or bad. Recently,there was one Taiwanese actress died at the age of 28,which is a totally shock news for all the fans around Asia. After I got to know that, I've realized that life is really unpredictable,so why don't just spend times you have in happy mood? ask your daughter that. and tell her that you will be very regret for being sad always,if you get to know you'll going to leave this world tomorrow.
By the way,for therapy,personally, I think should just find a good one,and focus on it.I want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
Seriously, if she's ';seen many therapists, been on many different kinds of medication, done hypnotherapy %26amp; many self help books';...and nothing has helped, then I can't see how a few days away (particularly if she has a social phobia) is going to succeed. What this says to me (and you must surely have considered the possibility already) is that some ongoing stressful situation in her life is preventing her responding to treatment. If this is her caring for you, for example, then you might consider employing someone so she can have regular time off. You mentioned trauma she has been through and her father leaving, but unless these are still ongoing situations, they would not hold her back from recovery. I suspect something in her present daily life will have to definitely change before she can start to get well again.
As soon as she get's herself out from under the burden of caring for you. She will be fine...
That is, if... you spared her the manipulation and guilt that sick people often put others through out of sheer fear based desperation.
I suggest you make an honest attempt at sending her away for college so that she can have a life... Rent and watch the movie called Stella with Bette Midler...
Guilt and fear can really do a number on anyone of an otherwise sound nature. Loving her enough to let her go without guilt is the cure...
Have you considered a psychiatrist, instead of a therapist? It's possible that she has a physical cause to the behavior, and could be treated with a medication other than antidepressants or antianxiety drugs.
My experience is that treating mental illnesses is a matter of finding the right kind of treatment for the right kind of diagnosis. (My husband, who is bipolar, had seen every therapist and tried every antidepressant without success, When he finally saw the right doctor, he was diagnosed and treated- with results within months- using mood stabilizers that the therapists never considered.)
It's worth a try. I sure hope she gets better, as I know it must be hard for both of you. She needs to be on her own, and know she has value apart from being a caretaker, but the freedom probably makes her feel guilty and afraid. You want her to get better, but can't do it for her.
Good luck.
read overcoming depression by professor peter cooper robinson books www.constablerobinson.org its the best book ever written on depression its brilliant it will help you understand everything about depression
your daughter is so young yet she seems to have been through a lot you just need to be there for her and with professional help the both of you will be able to get through it if you are in the uk phone parent line plus or go to the web site just type in parentline plus and they will put you in touch with right people ! good luck xx
Put her on:
1. a psychotherapy waiting list
2. a plane to Lake Balaton in Hungary, and book her a cheap hotel.
No. 1 I cannot stress enough, I have suffered from depression since her age (14 years ago) and it still has not been treated. If I had gone on a waiting list then I might have been seen 10 years ago.
There is a support group for carers- I've seen adverts in my doctor's surgery...
Perhaps you could organise someone else to look after you, %26amp; arrange for your daughter to be taken on a holiday of a life-time via one of the childrens' charities?
Your daughter deserves recognition %26amp; a medal.
Sing her praises to the right people...
She doesn't need a psychiatrist- she is just lonely %26amp; lacking experience in a few social skills due to her isolation...
She needs some respite- some strain taking off her shoulders so she can just be a normal kid...
REWARD her! %26amp; she'll blossom
XX
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Rule number one:
Whether a plant, an animal or a person;
If it's alive it's much more likely to thrive
when you give it lots of loving attention.
Rule number two:
Isolation kills. You don't have to believe me or Deanna, just check the statistics on death rates of babies in orphanages versus in homes and the death rates of geriatric patients in nursing homes versus home health care. The numbers speak louder than words.
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This is something that I have a lot of personal experience with. I was 17 when i went into the absolute worst depression in the world. It crippled me for nearly 20 years. It took a lot of soul searching and the quiet support of my family and friends to help me through it. The best advice, just be there for her. The more you push her to talk the deeper the depression will go for her. I know it's hard, I am now a mother too, to sit by and watch your child suffer, but once she feels comfortable with you as a support and not a threat so to speak she will eventually open up to you. Just be patient and be her friend that she can trust right now. That's exactly what she needs more that anything right now. When the time is right your mother instincts will kick in. Believe me I wish my mother had done it this way. She died 2 years ago not knowing that I had beaten it. She couldn't get over being a mother instead of the best friend that I needed so much. Don't let this happen to you and your daughter. If it does you will never forgive yourself
i would say medication for the depression and CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) for the social phobia
as for going off by herself for a week, i guess everyone deals with depression in their own way.
the situation seems more complicated in that she is your primary carer - is there any way of you getting respite care for a weekend so she go and be a teenager without worrying about how you are?
i suggest you go to the GP and push for her to see a CPN and/or community mental health team.
that doesnt mean she is mad, just ill and needs a bit of help.
she is still young and deserves help.
http://www.cchr.org/index.cfm/8771
( I have M.S) and with other things in her life like her farther leaving and trauma she has been though, it has left her with derpression and social phobia for the past 4 years.
she has seen many thearpist, been on many differnt kinds of medication, done hpynothearpy many self help books but not alot seems to work.
but i was talking to an old friend on how she got though her derpression, was by going away having a week to think to herself with out stuff like looking after me for example.
but she is very scared to be on my own, but i really think she needs it, where do you think she could go to be safe and to think?
Please help thank you xxxxI want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
I'm actually 18+ years old,which is similar to your daughter, and I'm also visiting a therapist now.I know Wat's the feeling of being depress.personally,I think traveling can help a lot, it can open your eyes,and heart.don't just stay in home,go out and let her know that this world is so beautiful,let her know that it's better spending time to do something meaningful rather than being sad.Cause time still go on,whether you are in good mood or bad. Recently,there was one Taiwanese actress died at the age of 28,which is a totally shock news for all the fans around Asia. After I got to know that, I've realized that life is really unpredictable,so why don't just spend times you have in happy mood? ask your daughter that. and tell her that you will be very regret for being sad always,if you get to know you'll going to leave this world tomorrow.
By the way,for therapy,personally, I think should just find a good one,and focus on it.I want to help my Daughter Though her depression, but i really need some advice. Please help if you can?
Seriously, if she's ';seen many therapists, been on many different kinds of medication, done hypnotherapy %26amp; many self help books';...and nothing has helped, then I can't see how a few days away (particularly if she has a social phobia) is going to succeed. What this says to me (and you must surely have considered the possibility already) is that some ongoing stressful situation in her life is preventing her responding to treatment. If this is her caring for you, for example, then you might consider employing someone so she can have regular time off. You mentioned trauma she has been through and her father leaving, but unless these are still ongoing situations, they would not hold her back from recovery. I suspect something in her present daily life will have to definitely change before she can start to get well again.
As soon as she get's herself out from under the burden of caring for you. She will be fine...
That is, if... you spared her the manipulation and guilt that sick people often put others through out of sheer fear based desperation.
I suggest you make an honest attempt at sending her away for college so that she can have a life... Rent and watch the movie called Stella with Bette Midler...
Guilt and fear can really do a number on anyone of an otherwise sound nature. Loving her enough to let her go without guilt is the cure...
Have you considered a psychiatrist, instead of a therapist? It's possible that she has a physical cause to the behavior, and could be treated with a medication other than antidepressants or antianxiety drugs.
My experience is that treating mental illnesses is a matter of finding the right kind of treatment for the right kind of diagnosis. (My husband, who is bipolar, had seen every therapist and tried every antidepressant without success, When he finally saw the right doctor, he was diagnosed and treated- with results within months- using mood stabilizers that the therapists never considered.)
It's worth a try. I sure hope she gets better, as I know it must be hard for both of you. She needs to be on her own, and know she has value apart from being a caretaker, but the freedom probably makes her feel guilty and afraid. You want her to get better, but can't do it for her.
Good luck.
read overcoming depression by professor peter cooper robinson books www.constablerobinson.org its the best book ever written on depression its brilliant it will help you understand everything about depression
your daughter is so young yet she seems to have been through a lot you just need to be there for her and with professional help the both of you will be able to get through it if you are in the uk phone parent line plus or go to the web site just type in parentline plus and they will put you in touch with right people ! good luck xx
Put her on:
1. a psychotherapy waiting list
2. a plane to Lake Balaton in Hungary, and book her a cheap hotel.
No. 1 I cannot stress enough, I have suffered from depression since her age (14 years ago) and it still has not been treated. If I had gone on a waiting list then I might have been seen 10 years ago.
There is a support group for carers- I've seen adverts in my doctor's surgery...
Perhaps you could organise someone else to look after you, %26amp; arrange for your daughter to be taken on a holiday of a life-time via one of the childrens' charities?
Your daughter deserves recognition %26amp; a medal.
Sing her praises to the right people...
She doesn't need a psychiatrist- she is just lonely %26amp; lacking experience in a few social skills due to her isolation...
She needs some respite- some strain taking off her shoulders so she can just be a normal kid...
REWARD her! %26amp; she'll blossom
XX
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This is something that I have a lot of personal experience with. I was 17 when i went into the absolute worst depression in the world. It crippled me for nearly 20 years. It took a lot of soul searching and the quiet support of my family and friends to help me through it. The best advice, just be there for her. The more you push her to talk the deeper the depression will go for her. I know it's hard, I am now a mother too, to sit by and watch your child suffer, but once she feels comfortable with you as a support and not a threat so to speak she will eventually open up to you. Just be patient and be her friend that she can trust right now. That's exactly what she needs more that anything right now. When the time is right your mother instincts will kick in. Believe me I wish my mother had done it this way. She died 2 years ago not knowing that I had beaten it. She couldn't get over being a mother instead of the best friend that I needed so much. Don't let this happen to you and your daughter. If it does you will never forgive yourself
i would say medication for the depression and CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) for the social phobia
as for going off by herself for a week, i guess everyone deals with depression in their own way.
the situation seems more complicated in that she is your primary carer - is there any way of you getting respite care for a weekend so she go and be a teenager without worrying about how you are?
i suggest you go to the GP and push for her to see a CPN and/or community mental health team.
that doesnt mean she is mad, just ill and needs a bit of help.
she is still young and deserves help.
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Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
I have to get a laparoscopy (keyhole surgery through my belly button) done soon to see if I have endometrosis.
Just wondering if this surgery is painful? how long does it take to heal and if you are left with scarring?
Any personal experience stories will help also.
Thank you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
I don't know from experience, so I can't really help you.
But the whole idea of keyhole surgery is that it is a simple incision, which certainly limits any follow up discomfort and which should mean minimal if any scarring.
I found this information:
What is Laparoscopy?
It is an operation where a tiny telescope is inserted through a small incision in your naval to see the abdominal cavity and pelvis. More small incisions are necessary so that other instruments can be used to perform the procedure. The incisions are closed with a single stitch or closure tape.
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So I don't think you should worry Amanda. If the incisions are so small you shouldn't notice them afterwards. And of course your belly button is not entirely smooth anyway, so that would make it harder to se any tiny marks.
I wish you well and I'll be thinking flowers and chocolates for you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
had surgery thru the belly button for gall bladder removal. this is the most painful area to get an incision. i wasn,t able to put a seat belt on for a week. for such a tiny cut, it hurt! takes about two weeks to be forgotten.
i have had keyhole surgery in my knee 2 times and it was sore for about a week and it was fine then and i only had 3 stitches, you will be fine and you shouldnt have a scar afterwards good luck with the surgery.
If they are just going through your belly button it won't be as painful as if you got a c-section cut. They will put you under so when you wake up you will have some gas bubbles that will make you uncomfortable as they have to pump your belly full of gas to be able to see everything. Sometimes the gas bubbles travel to your neck so don't be alarmed.
I had a double surgery about 1 1/2 years ago. It was only supposed to be a laparoscopy to reverse a tubal ligation but when I woke up they told me that they found and removed a small amount of endometriosis. I was in the hospital for 2 days and on morphine which worked well while I was there but they sent me home with something that didn't work at all. I was fine when I was lying down but when I attempted to get up it was pretty uncomfortable. But again I had the c-section cut as well so I think that's why it was so bad. Luckily I had taken the week off from work as I really needed to rest after that and my kids where away so I didn't have to worry about getting up much. They say it takes about a week to fully recover. I just know that I felt like I got hit by a truck for a couple of days. As for the scarring, I can barely see mine. I have worn bathing suits since the surgery and can't even tell unless I look really close, it's basically one cut straight across the lower end of your belly button about an inch or so long.
You will feel crappy for a few days or so but it'll be worth it if they find and are able to remove the endometriosis and soon after you will feel so much better. Just remember to rest afterward, and no strenuous activity (they may even tell you not to have sex for a few weeks afterward). Good luck. And remember to ask your doctor any questions or concerns before you get it done and if you are unsure of how you are feeling afterward (they are here to help you).
Just wondering if this surgery is painful? how long does it take to heal and if you are left with scarring?
Any personal experience stories will help also.
Thank you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
I don't know from experience, so I can't really help you.
But the whole idea of keyhole surgery is that it is a simple incision, which certainly limits any follow up discomfort and which should mean minimal if any scarring.
I found this information:
What is Laparoscopy?
It is an operation where a tiny telescope is inserted through a small incision in your naval to see the abdominal cavity and pelvis. More small incisions are necessary so that other instruments can be used to perform the procedure. The incisions are closed with a single stitch or closure tape.
++++++++++++
So I don't think you should worry Amanda. If the incisions are so small you shouldn't notice them afterwards. And of course your belly button is not entirely smooth anyway, so that would make it harder to se any tiny marks.
I wish you well and I'll be thinking flowers and chocolates for you!Hi everyone, bit of help or advice please? Greatly appreciated.?
had surgery thru the belly button for gall bladder removal. this is the most painful area to get an incision. i wasn,t able to put a seat belt on for a week. for such a tiny cut, it hurt! takes about two weeks to be forgotten.
i have had keyhole surgery in my knee 2 times and it was sore for about a week and it was fine then and i only had 3 stitches, you will be fine and you shouldnt have a scar afterwards good luck with the surgery.
If they are just going through your belly button it won't be as painful as if you got a c-section cut. They will put you under so when you wake up you will have some gas bubbles that will make you uncomfortable as they have to pump your belly full of gas to be able to see everything. Sometimes the gas bubbles travel to your neck so don't be alarmed.
I had a double surgery about 1 1/2 years ago. It was only supposed to be a laparoscopy to reverse a tubal ligation but when I woke up they told me that they found and removed a small amount of endometriosis. I was in the hospital for 2 days and on morphine which worked well while I was there but they sent me home with something that didn't work at all. I was fine when I was lying down but when I attempted to get up it was pretty uncomfortable. But again I had the c-section cut as well so I think that's why it was so bad. Luckily I had taken the week off from work as I really needed to rest after that and my kids where away so I didn't have to worry about getting up much. They say it takes about a week to fully recover. I just know that I felt like I got hit by a truck for a couple of days. As for the scarring, I can barely see mine. I have worn bathing suits since the surgery and can't even tell unless I look really close, it's basically one cut straight across the lower end of your belly button about an inch or so long.
You will feel crappy for a few days or so but it'll be worth it if they find and are able to remove the endometriosis and soon after you will feel so much better. Just remember to rest afterward, and no strenuous activity (they may even tell you not to have sex for a few weeks afterward). Good luck. And remember to ask your doctor any questions or concerns before you get it done and if you are unsure of how you are feeling afterward (they are here to help you).
I am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
When i was in 7th grade my friends ditched me and i went into a depression, eventually also thinking of ending my life. But then once i made new friends half a year later i slowly went away. Now i'm having the same problem again and it's gotten so bad that i am having those 'thoughts' again. I really hope i'm not the only one out there and that you guys won't make fun of me.. It's just that i really need some help and i would love some advice. If there is anybody out there that could shed some light on my situation.. I know it sounds childish but i can't get through a day without crying. Thanks so much.I am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
Bro.
I'm fifteen and i've been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and depression.
It's not childish.
I've attempted suicide by drinking alcohol.
I know this is going to sound scary, but i want you to talk to your parents.
I want you to ask them to take you to the doctor, and ask your doctor about a medicine called Lexapro.
Tell him all the symptoms you're having.
You should tell him if you don't want your mom/dad to hear, than you can ask the doctor to speak to them privately.
The parent would HAVE to leave the room, because patient doctor privacy.
You're not alone, i'm here for ya bro (online, i don't quite know you in real life.)
Try writing music, sing in the shower.
if you need to talk, i'd prefer you message me on myspace.
myspace.com/ehwatchthebeatI am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
thanks %26lt;3
Sounds like me. I can't get through a day without crying. I cry myself right into a migraine. I am much older than you but my depression really didn't kick in until my late twenties. I have tried everything. You name it I tried it. There is no cure. All the people who tried to help me were being paid too and they failed but got their money. Friends abandoned me. I have just about given up. I don't know what to tell you except you are not alone. I have tried all antidepressants and they don't work.make up
Bro.
I'm fifteen and i've been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and depression.
It's not childish.
I've attempted suicide by drinking alcohol.
I know this is going to sound scary, but i want you to talk to your parents.
I want you to ask them to take you to the doctor, and ask your doctor about a medicine called Lexapro.
Tell him all the symptoms you're having.
You should tell him if you don't want your mom/dad to hear, than you can ask the doctor to speak to them privately.
The parent would HAVE to leave the room, because patient doctor privacy.
You're not alone, i'm here for ya bro (online, i don't quite know you in real life.)
Try writing music, sing in the shower.
if you need to talk, i'd prefer you message me on myspace.
myspace.com/ehwatchthebeatI am depressed but I had it before for 6 months and it went away. Anybody else have that and advice? HELP!?
thanks %26lt;3
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Sounds like me. I can't get through a day without crying. I cry myself right into a migraine. I am much older than you but my depression really didn't kick in until my late twenties. I have tried everything. You name it I tried it. There is no cure. All the people who tried to help me were being paid too and they failed but got their money. Friends abandoned me. I have just about given up. I don't know what to tell you except you are not alone. I have tried all antidepressants and they don't work.
Housing grant help advice?
My fianc茅 just literally got up and left our 2 yr old and me. I was a stay at home mother so I don't have any money saved up. Our lease is up in 4 months and idk how I am goi g to be able to find a place to live. I went to HUD and their program is full for the next 10 years. Does anyone know of any grants or have any suggestions? Were found to to from a very nice apartment to being homeless. I live in Chicagoland.Housing grant help advice?
Two words Government grants. With the economy being as weak as it is the government is pumping a lot of free grants in to the economy, free grants that you ill never have to pay back. The hardest thing is finding a reputable source here's a link to a article that gives great info on getting the free government grants out there.
Two words Government grants. With the economy being as weak as it is the government is pumping a lot of free grants in to the economy, free grants that you ill never have to pay back. The hardest thing is finding a reputable source here's a link to a article that gives great info on getting the free government grants out there.
Could someone please help or give me some advice?
I'm looking for sponsors to get me started on cartoon mural picture paintings for nurseries, hospitals, infant schools or chreshs in the UK. So far, I've put an article in the local newspaper of which I have received some positive response and have recently done some paintings for people at their request. I can do any cartoon picture that I'm shown for anybody and I take great pleasure in doing this. I don't expect payment from these people just payment for the materials. I love to paint and I am very proud of my work and take great pleasure in doing any paintings at any time for anybody.
Unfortunately, I no longer work and I have personal health problems but these do not affect my ability to paint and it is so difficult and very frustrating trying to get myself out there and noticed of my talent so this is why I am resorting to asking anybody on yahoo just by chance if they could maybe suggest any other steps I could take to result in me doing the paintings I love to do.Could someone please help or give me some advice?
Visit your local hospital. They usually have acres of blank wall spaces they need to cover, Offer to paint a mural at a very low rate (possibly free) and when its done include your name and contact details nearby. Take photographs of your previous work for the hospital administrators to see. Hopefully this advertising will bear fruit.Could someone please help or give me some advice?
i know you are late for this year but what about going to your local theatre, painting the back drops for panto and other shows. take along a portfolio of all the work you have done in the past to show them your talent. i dont know how it works , whether you are emplyed by the theatre or the production company but its a start especially now with so many xmas pantos on at the moment.
talk to the production team or the venue managers. good luck hope this has given you something to think about
yeah ummm i have know idea ... sorry, best of luck
Reading your ciscumstances, you need to do it as a business 1. Make yourselves fliers (could be starting with print out from computer) - with pictures of your works. Send your fliers to your local school, leisure centre, hotels, nursery, even pub which have kids play ground. 2. Check your local website as touch.co.uk or other local website and put your advert there - there is a free business ad section. Perhaps you can also ask your local council if any grant for you to start the business. 3. You might be able to get help from Princes Trust with your talent.
I totally agree with Barrowman, go to a hospital, the children's ward and rooms can always be re-done. Take a portfolio, hope you took pictures of your work, and also try educational toy stores, kindergartens and day care centers. You can make up fliers, put a popular carton on the flyer and distribute to new homes that have just been build. This way people might hire you to do the children's rooms and nurseries.
Good luck in your endeavor.
seeing where you are at i would have to agree make it a business there is more to get from it as a business and you should put you work in higher places not just in hospitals! move higher up on the chain business banks, or even book places go to higher art places too
try the local library, they usually have space for art shows...usually they decide once a year about the years use of space.....also try a local cafe....not the greasy spoon type....sometimes they will offer assistance in showng art as it gets bums on seats...
Unfortunately, I no longer work and I have personal health problems but these do not affect my ability to paint and it is so difficult and very frustrating trying to get myself out there and noticed of my talent so this is why I am resorting to asking anybody on yahoo just by chance if they could maybe suggest any other steps I could take to result in me doing the paintings I love to do.Could someone please help or give me some advice?
Visit your local hospital. They usually have acres of blank wall spaces they need to cover, Offer to paint a mural at a very low rate (possibly free) and when its done include your name and contact details nearby. Take photographs of your previous work for the hospital administrators to see. Hopefully this advertising will bear fruit.Could someone please help or give me some advice?
i know you are late for this year but what about going to your local theatre, painting the back drops for panto and other shows. take along a portfolio of all the work you have done in the past to show them your talent. i dont know how it works , whether you are emplyed by the theatre or the production company but its a start especially now with so many xmas pantos on at the moment.
talk to the production team or the venue managers. good luck hope this has given you something to think about
yeah ummm i have know idea ... sorry, best of luck
Reading your ciscumstances, you need to do it as a business 1. Make yourselves fliers (could be starting with print out from computer) - with pictures of your works. Send your fliers to your local school, leisure centre, hotels, nursery, even pub which have kids play ground. 2. Check your local website as touch.co.uk or other local website and put your advert there - there is a free business ad section. Perhaps you can also ask your local council if any grant for you to start the business. 3. You might be able to get help from Princes Trust with your talent.
I totally agree with Barrowman, go to a hospital, the children's ward and rooms can always be re-done. Take a portfolio, hope you took pictures of your work, and also try educational toy stores, kindergartens and day care centers. You can make up fliers, put a popular carton on the flyer and distribute to new homes that have just been build. This way people might hire you to do the children's rooms and nurseries.
Good luck in your endeavor.
seeing where you are at i would have to agree make it a business there is more to get from it as a business and you should put you work in higher places not just in hospitals! move higher up on the chain business banks, or even book places go to higher art places too
try the local library, they usually have space for art shows...usually they decide once a year about the years use of space.....also try a local cafe....not the greasy spoon type....sometimes they will offer assistance in showng art as it gets bums on seats...
Busness calculus help,,,advice on shortcuts?
what are some shortcuts I can use to get a good grade in Business Calculus...and what about calculatorsBusness calculus help,,,advice on shortcuts?
Shortcuts can only learned by your self by solving problems by your self and decide how to short answer.
I am really Sorry for this hard answer.
But you well find it useful in your business.
Shortcuts can only learned by your self by solving problems by your self and decide how to short answer.
I am really Sorry for this hard answer.
But you well find it useful in your business.
My friends mum is trying to od herself. plz help.. advice?
my friends mum gets everything she wants out of her son, he is possibly the nicest most sweet caring guy ever, twice he has found her at her mums grave, overdosed over 40 pills, im not sure what pills. but we are in the middle of VCE we are in our last few weeks and i dont want him to break down. help what do i say to keep him sane.My friends mum is trying to od herself. plz help.. advice?
Your friends mother needs to seek professional help before she actually commits suicide. This is a real problem. Two weeks prior to his death, my step-brother told me that if he ever decided to kill himself he would by hanging, I laughed it off not taking him seriously. Two weeks later, he was found dead by hanging. Had I took it seriously, he might still be alive today.( He could not get over the death of his sister who died in a car crash.) I believe since your friends mother didnt die , she is reaching out for someone to help her. Tell your friend to have her committed to a hospital for treatment before its too late. You dont mess around with someones life. Especially after they have already taken pills to try to kill theirself. Tell him to please dont take this lightly. I wish you all the best.My friends mum is trying to od herself. plz help.. advice?
sounds like his mother is depressed and crying out for help. She needs professional help. He may be to late to save her next time. Tell him to hang in there and get her some help or maybe look into having her committed for her own safety.
CALL THE POLICE AND TELL THEM
THEY WILL BAKERACT HER AND TAKE GER TO A 3-DAY EVELUATION AT A MENTEL HOSPITAL.
IV BEEN THERE
SHE WILL GET ALL THE HELP SHE NEEDS AND ITS PRETTY NICE
Your friends mother needs to seek professional help before she actually commits suicide. This is a real problem. Two weeks prior to his death, my step-brother told me that if he ever decided to kill himself he would by hanging, I laughed it off not taking him seriously. Two weeks later, he was found dead by hanging. Had I took it seriously, he might still be alive today.( He could not get over the death of his sister who died in a car crash.) I believe since your friends mother didnt die , she is reaching out for someone to help her. Tell your friend to have her committed to a hospital for treatment before its too late. You dont mess around with someones life. Especially after they have already taken pills to try to kill theirself. Tell him to please dont take this lightly. I wish you all the best.My friends mum is trying to od herself. plz help.. advice?
sounds like his mother is depressed and crying out for help. She needs professional help. He may be to late to save her next time. Tell him to hang in there and get her some help or maybe look into having her committed for her own safety.
CALL THE POLICE AND TELL THEM
THEY WILL BAKERACT HER AND TAKE GER TO A 3-DAY EVELUATION AT A MENTEL HOSPITAL.
IV BEEN THERE
SHE WILL GET ALL THE HELP SHE NEEDS AND ITS PRETTY NICE
Causes of Chest Pain? Test came back that heart and lungs are clear, what else could it be? any advice? Help!?
This is actually about my father. My father, 56, has had numerous test done lately by a few different Doctor's because of the pain he has in his chest. He has had this chest pain for about a month or so, he has had his lungs tested, heart tested, they checked his blood (small tube with camera inserted through a large vein in his lower abdomen to check his blood flow to his heart and other parts of his body) and a MRI of his chest and neck. His test he had for his lungs came back clear today, the test he had for his heart came back good (they saw a small heart mermir but he has had that for years, and they have said its not problem), they did notice a lump in his neck that is not visible on the outside and they checked it out, it came back that it is nothing bad, nothing to worry about. They said whatever that lump is it belongs there, its nothing that needs to be removed or operated on, and its not the cause of pain in his chest.
How is it that all his test came back ok but he still has really bad chest pain that it hurts to clear his throat? does all this make sense?
I am not a Doctor but I know that something is not right, pain is caused by something. Are the Doctor's missing something or is there really nothing seriously wrong? Could the chest pain be brought on by Stress? I am sure it can but having pain every day, all day for the past month and half, my father has a lot of stress on his shoulders but not to be causing pain everyday, there must be something wrong.
Not to mention that my dad is one who never gets sick, he might catch a cold once a year if that much, but it last for a day or two. Its amazing how healthy my dad is, even though he is a smoker. He is 56 but they told him he has the lungs of a 19 year old, how that is possible with him being a smoker I dont know. lol. It just doesn't sit right with me that my dad who never gets sick, never misses a day of work, is going through all this pain and they can not find anything wrong or anything that is causing the pain. I know my father, if he is in pain as he says he is and shows he is, that means the pain must be really really bad.
I need some help, some guidance, I want to speak with my father about this and hopefully have some helpful information to share with him. Help guide him in the right direction, I can't see anything happen to my father, I just lost my grandmother about 2 months ago and I can't sit here and see my dad go through all this pain.
If anybody has any helpful information, I would appreciate it, even if you point me in the right direction, any information would be helpful. I want to take in to get a second opinion but I want to have some documents to take with me to speak to the doctor about as possible causes of the pain.
Thanks for listening, thanks for reading, thanks for caring.
God Bless, and God Speed!!!Causes of Chest Pain? Test came back that heart and lungs are clear, what else could it be? any advice? Help!?
acid reflux? don't eat late.
How is it that all his test came back ok but he still has really bad chest pain that it hurts to clear his throat? does all this make sense?
I am not a Doctor but I know that something is not right, pain is caused by something. Are the Doctor's missing something or is there really nothing seriously wrong? Could the chest pain be brought on by Stress? I am sure it can but having pain every day, all day for the past month and half, my father has a lot of stress on his shoulders but not to be causing pain everyday, there must be something wrong.
Not to mention that my dad is one who never gets sick, he might catch a cold once a year if that much, but it last for a day or two. Its amazing how healthy my dad is, even though he is a smoker. He is 56 but they told him he has the lungs of a 19 year old, how that is possible with him being a smoker I dont know. lol. It just doesn't sit right with me that my dad who never gets sick, never misses a day of work, is going through all this pain and they can not find anything wrong or anything that is causing the pain. I know my father, if he is in pain as he says he is and shows he is, that means the pain must be really really bad.
I need some help, some guidance, I want to speak with my father about this and hopefully have some helpful information to share with him. Help guide him in the right direction, I can't see anything happen to my father, I just lost my grandmother about 2 months ago and I can't sit here and see my dad go through all this pain.
If anybody has any helpful information, I would appreciate it, even if you point me in the right direction, any information would be helpful. I want to take in to get a second opinion but I want to have some documents to take with me to speak to the doctor about as possible causes of the pain.
Thanks for listening, thanks for reading, thanks for caring.
God Bless, and God Speed!!!Causes of Chest Pain? Test came back that heart and lungs are clear, what else could it be? any advice? Help!?
acid reflux? don't eat late.
PLease help, I want to make my dad a chocolate pie and I need to step it up, and advice cause I am not a baker?
My dad is a simple guy. His favorite pie is a store bought graham cracker crust pie with chocolate pudding. He loves this. My dear departed mother made this for him for all the holidays.
Can you help me? With a crust, maybe make it more chocolately? And also, I want to do a real whip cream..
Thanks in advance, its his birthday and I want to do something special
Much lovePLease help, I want to make my dad a chocolate pie and I need to step it up, and advice cause I am not a baker?
Crust- you can make it yourself with cookies and butter. Smash the cookies add butter (more the better) and shape. Then add pudding.
Whipping Cream
1 cup heavy cream (very cold)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 1/2 tablespoons light corn syrup
Whipped cream:
1 Combine the cream and the vanilla and mix well with an electric mixer with a whisk attachment.
2 Start whipping the cream on medium speed.
3 Add the corn syrup slowly while beating.
4 Whip until the cream holds soft peaks.
5 Slather, drop and dollop onto whatever your heart desires.PLease help, I want to make my dad a chocolate pie and I need to step it up, and advice cause I am not a baker?
you could make your own crust with both regular and chocolate graham crackers to spice it up a little more. just put them in a food processor or blender with a tablespoon or two of melted butter. Just mix it until it just barely sticks together when you pack it. (think sandcastle packing consistency). then pack it thinly into a pie pan and pour in the pudding. for homemade whip cream, you'll definitely need an electric mixer with a whisk attachment. I'm not sure of the exact mixtures but any chef on food network makes whip cream at some point so their website should have that recipe.
you can buy pre-made chocolate graham cracker crusts. Then buy your chocolate pudding (instant is easy) make it and add the whipped topping and get a semi sweet chocolate bar or bakers chocolate and use a peeler to shave some of the semi sweet chocolate on top of the whipped topping (The chocolate you shave will most likely curl into a nice shape)
buy a graham cracker crust,cook %26amp; serve chc pudding, pint of whipping cream, powdered sugar and hersheys syrup. follow directions on pack for pie. let cool then whip whipping cream on high til stiff add syrup to alittle on side and powdered sugar til it tastes good then do the rest of whipcream. put on pie. if he likes extra chocolate grate dark chocolate over whipcream.hope he likes
just get the crust,mix up a chocolate pudding mix pour into crust grate some chocolate on top and there you are.If you like put whip topping on the pudding and grate chocolate on top of topping.make up
Can you help me? With a crust, maybe make it more chocolately? And also, I want to do a real whip cream..
Thanks in advance, its his birthday and I want to do something special
Much lovePLease help, I want to make my dad a chocolate pie and I need to step it up, and advice cause I am not a baker?
Crust- you can make it yourself with cookies and butter. Smash the cookies add butter (more the better) and shape. Then add pudding.
Whipping Cream
1 cup heavy cream (very cold)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 1/2 tablespoons light corn syrup
Whipped cream:
1 Combine the cream and the vanilla and mix well with an electric mixer with a whisk attachment.
2 Start whipping the cream on medium speed.
3 Add the corn syrup slowly while beating.
4 Whip until the cream holds soft peaks.
5 Slather, drop and dollop onto whatever your heart desires.PLease help, I want to make my dad a chocolate pie and I need to step it up, and advice cause I am not a baker?
you could make your own crust with both regular and chocolate graham crackers to spice it up a little more. just put them in a food processor or blender with a tablespoon or two of melted butter. Just mix it until it just barely sticks together when you pack it. (think sandcastle packing consistency). then pack it thinly into a pie pan and pour in the pudding. for homemade whip cream, you'll definitely need an electric mixer with a whisk attachment. I'm not sure of the exact mixtures but any chef on food network makes whip cream at some point so their website should have that recipe.
you can buy pre-made chocolate graham cracker crusts. Then buy your chocolate pudding (instant is easy) make it and add the whipped topping and get a semi sweet chocolate bar or bakers chocolate and use a peeler to shave some of the semi sweet chocolate on top of the whipped topping (The chocolate you shave will most likely curl into a nice shape)
buy a graham cracker crust,cook %26amp; serve chc pudding, pint of whipping cream, powdered sugar and hersheys syrup. follow directions on pack for pie. let cool then whip whipping cream on high til stiff add syrup to alittle on side and powdered sugar til it tastes good then do the rest of whipcream. put on pie. if he likes extra chocolate grate dark chocolate over whipcream.hope he likes
just get the crust,mix up a chocolate pudding mix pour into crust grate some chocolate on top and there you are.If you like put whip topping on the pudding and grate chocolate on top of topping.
Dont answer if 1 ur not a girls and 2 u dont have advice plz help ?
pointers on kissing plz its not my first time but i usuallly dont kiss girls so like any pointers for me plzDont answer if 1 ur not a girls and 2 u dont have advice plz help ?
Your not a girls?Dont answer if 1 ur not a girls and 2 u dont have advice plz help ?
just before i answer...you don't usually kiss girls?
are u gay/bi? No prejudice, just a question.
Something that is kinda cute is this lip nibbling thing...it sound weird, but it feels good if you can do it right.
And girls like to start a bit slower. And no extreme saliva either coz thats just kinda gross.
Hold back on the tounge for a little bit (too eager)
And...make her feel special...basically follow what you feel is good,.
Try to be natural usually works the best, no matter how much advice you gete!
GL!
Your not a girls?Dont answer if 1 ur not a girls and 2 u dont have advice plz help ?
just before i answer...you don't usually kiss girls?
are u gay/bi? No prejudice, just a question.
Something that is kinda cute is this lip nibbling thing...it sound weird, but it feels good if you can do it right.
And girls like to start a bit slower. And no extreme saliva either coz thats just kinda gross.
Hold back on the tounge for a little bit (too eager)
And...make her feel special...basically follow what you feel is good,.
Try to be natural usually works the best, no matter how much advice you gete!
GL!
I need advice! Help!?
I feel terrible need of sex at any time of the day and the night... I don't know what to do!
It happens to do it with whoever is near - collegues, friends, even strangers sometimes...
I work as a bartender and always, when a cool boy comes at the bar, I feel the need to ... you know... to have his dick in me... And when he gets comperetively drunk...I take him to the man's room and...
That's it! My boyfriend is a sweet guy, he loves me... but ... sex with only one man is too boring... I don't know
Sometimes I have decided to stop these things I do...but this never happens... my desire is stronger then me!
If you know what I can do about this, please tell me! I'll be very grateful!I need advice! Help!?
You have a problem, and at least now you realize that you have one. U replied to one of my questions and I can tell that you just can't fight it. As much as you don't want him to find out, u need to get help, if u truly love him..... U have an addiction to sex and you cant beat it all by yourself. I'm not sure the type of lifestyle you had growing up, but it may have some relation to the problem u have now. If you want to make it work you have to do something now, becuz he WILL find out what's going on at some point, if he doesnt suspect already, and it won't end well. Good luck, I wish you all the best!!I need advice! Help!?
you have a boyfriend
and you're cheating on him?
thats a big god damn NO right there
who runs you're life?
YOU DO
CONTROL YOURSELF
make you're sex more kinky
have sex as much as you want
with you're BOYFRIEND
or just finish it with him
spare his feelings insted of being selfish
and haveing sex with any aid infested boy going.
think about all the side effects?
std's
hurting you're boyfriend
but let me guess
you're one of those sick freaks who get off on it?
before you even try to control your life
find out what the hell you really want.
xxxx
You need a brazilian guy like me, i fell the same. I am a sexy adctive, please lets make sexy every time, just call me if you agree, i am tall and beautiful and i have a hard and big dick. I live in Brazil, but my origin is italian (white shyn, blonde hair, 1,86, stronge, brown eyes). I can go to USA, just ask baby.
Have a freezing cold shower, then when you get the urge think it will be like the shower so forget it. Seriously you are putting yourself and your boyfriend at risk, grow up,
I think it is best for you to be in either an open relationship or single.
Maybe you should go to a sex addicts meeting!! But it's not fair on your boyf, so maybe you should let him go!
u have sum serious issues, thats groosss....go to counseling....ur hurting ur bf...and its dangerous! ur sick minded!
You should get to know me then I will oblige
try and get ur bf to have a threesome? then ur not cheating and ur still getting other guys??
It happens to do it with whoever is near - collegues, friends, even strangers sometimes...
I work as a bartender and always, when a cool boy comes at the bar, I feel the need to ... you know... to have his dick in me... And when he gets comperetively drunk...I take him to the man's room and...
That's it! My boyfriend is a sweet guy, he loves me... but ... sex with only one man is too boring... I don't know
Sometimes I have decided to stop these things I do...but this never happens... my desire is stronger then me!
If you know what I can do about this, please tell me! I'll be very grateful!I need advice! Help!?
You have a problem, and at least now you realize that you have one. U replied to one of my questions and I can tell that you just can't fight it. As much as you don't want him to find out, u need to get help, if u truly love him..... U have an addiction to sex and you cant beat it all by yourself. I'm not sure the type of lifestyle you had growing up, but it may have some relation to the problem u have now. If you want to make it work you have to do something now, becuz he WILL find out what's going on at some point, if he doesnt suspect already, and it won't end well. Good luck, I wish you all the best!!I need advice! Help!?
you have a boyfriend
and you're cheating on him?
thats a big god damn NO right there
who runs you're life?
YOU DO
CONTROL YOURSELF
make you're sex more kinky
have sex as much as you want
with you're BOYFRIEND
or just finish it with him
spare his feelings insted of being selfish
and haveing sex with any aid infested boy going.
think about all the side effects?
std's
hurting you're boyfriend
but let me guess
you're one of those sick freaks who get off on it?
before you even try to control your life
find out what the hell you really want.
xxxx
You need a brazilian guy like me, i fell the same. I am a sexy adctive, please lets make sexy every time, just call me if you agree, i am tall and beautiful and i have a hard and big dick. I live in Brazil, but my origin is italian (white shyn, blonde hair, 1,86, stronge, brown eyes). I can go to USA, just ask baby.
Have a freezing cold shower, then when you get the urge think it will be like the shower so forget it. Seriously you are putting yourself and your boyfriend at risk, grow up,
I think it is best for you to be in either an open relationship or single.
Maybe you should go to a sex addicts meeting!! But it's not fair on your boyf, so maybe you should let him go!
u have sum serious issues, thats groosss....go to counseling....ur hurting ur bf...and its dangerous! ur sick minded!
You should get to know me then I will oblige
try and get ur bf to have a threesome? then ur not cheating and ur still getting other guys??
I need advice/help. My boyfriend and I been having unprotected sex ?
I need some advice ladies... My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and we have been trying to conceive. we had sex when i was ovulating 11.16.08 and i tested + for ovulation test. 9 days later i had very light pink color spotting with the following day of regular period with brownish but still not normal as I usually have. My period usually lasts 7 days but this was very very light and spotting and only lasted about 3- 4 days. This isn't normal but I am unsure what is going on. I have been feeling sick on and off during the day and very tired, but no other signs really...when is the soonest I can take a test and get the best result? should i wait to see if I miss my next period?I need advice/help. My boyfriend and I been having unprotected sex ?
u are pregnant if u go to google and type in signs of pregnancy and click the first one, all the things u just said are signs of pregnancy. if u want to know 100% then go to a dollar store or a longs or something and buy a pregnancy test. I need advice/help. My boyfriend and I been having unprotected sex ?
do a hpt
Sex simply cannot be good unless it has a perfect combination of foreplay, stimulation and final intercourse. This entire factor should be completely synchronized in order to have better sex. Better sex is all about erotic enjoyment which arouses your partner into multiple orgasms. Read on to find out how you can have better sex too and achieve mind blowing results in bed.
Everybody dreams about having and giving the best sex sessions ever. Sex can be a major problem for many people, and not because they aren't getting any, but because they don't perform very well.
Here are some excellent tips for Better Sex:
鈥?Learn as many positions, techniques and sex tricks as possible.
鈥?You need to find out what your partner likes and more importantly what she doesn鈥檛! Communicate all the time, not only will it lead to better sex it will show you care as well.
鈥?A Major mistake many men make is making sexual positions to complicated, thinking they will lead to better sex.
鈥?Show your partner respect. Let her know how much you enjoyed it, how much you care, this makes your partner feel wanted and that鈥檚 very important for better sex in a relationship.
鈥?Be present when she needs you, explore her fantasies.
鈥?Breathing correctly is a great way to connect ourselves with our bodies and to relax and achieve connection between mind, body and soul and you should use it to.
鈥?Oral sex can be an incredibly exciting experience for both and a great way to excitement things up tremendously.
Sexual satisfaction and better sex are emotions that your partner feels after sexual intercourse. They have nothing to do with your sexual positions. Sex is one of the great gifts to you and everyone and should be enjoyed.
Further, If you want to know more about Better Sex tips just log on to the below link:
http://www.zoren.com
u are pregnant if u go to google and type in signs of pregnancy and click the first one, all the things u just said are signs of pregnancy. if u want to know 100% then go to a dollar store or a longs or something and buy a pregnancy test. I need advice/help. My boyfriend and I been having unprotected sex ?
do a hpt
Sex simply cannot be good unless it has a perfect combination of foreplay, stimulation and final intercourse. This entire factor should be completely synchronized in order to have better sex. Better sex is all about erotic enjoyment which arouses your partner into multiple orgasms. Read on to find out how you can have better sex too and achieve mind blowing results in bed.
Everybody dreams about having and giving the best sex sessions ever. Sex can be a major problem for many people, and not because they aren't getting any, but because they don't perform very well.
Here are some excellent tips for Better Sex:
鈥?Learn as many positions, techniques and sex tricks as possible.
鈥?You need to find out what your partner likes and more importantly what she doesn鈥檛! Communicate all the time, not only will it lead to better sex it will show you care as well.
鈥?A Major mistake many men make is making sexual positions to complicated, thinking they will lead to better sex.
鈥?Show your partner respect. Let her know how much you enjoyed it, how much you care, this makes your partner feel wanted and that鈥檚 very important for better sex in a relationship.
鈥?Be present when she needs you, explore her fantasies.
鈥?Breathing correctly is a great way to connect ourselves with our bodies and to relax and achieve connection between mind, body and soul and you should use it to.
鈥?Oral sex can be an incredibly exciting experience for both and a great way to excitement things up tremendously.
Sexual satisfaction and better sex are emotions that your partner feels after sexual intercourse. They have nothing to do with your sexual positions. Sex is one of the great gifts to you and everyone and should be enjoyed.
Further, If you want to know more about Better Sex tips just log on to the below link:
http://www.zoren.com
Desperately need advice/help?
I am 23 years old. I just graduated from college in May. After I graduated I moved home because I couldn't find a job in this market. I made some very good friends in college, but they have moved on back to where they grew up hours from where I live. I am living with my parents while I try to find a job, but every one I have applied for I get rejected. All my friends growing up have moved far away, and all my friends from college live far away. I am feeling very hopeless and lonely. I have nobody my own age to be around, no job prospects, and to top it all off, the girl I had a thing with in college now has a new boyfriend. I feel like I really have nothing to live for anymore.Desperately need advice/help?
I think it is better you contact to an expert freelancer in this field
from website like
http://www.livefreelancer.net/Desperately need advice/help?
How depressing, sounds like a lot of self pity and feeling sorry for yourself. Try getting out and get to know new people. Im sure that when you went to college that all your so called friends were your friend before. Get out have fun even by yourself. Get some self confidence. No one wants to see some guy act like a girl sitting at home eating ice cream and cookie dough cuz no one will be his friend.
Oh and as for the job. Keep looking. be persistant and don't stop till you get hired. At this point it really sounds like you need or really just want to be on your own. good luck.
Despite how you may feel, know this......
You have EVERYTHING to live for!!
Two Very Important things you mentioned.......
~Family
~College Education
Not everybody can say they have even 1 of those things, much less Both! You are VERY fortunate! Count your Blessings, which I am sure you do. Sometimes it is hard to see the forrest for the trees. Keep your chin up, things will work themselves out, they always do. Take full advantage of this time, soul search. You may be surprised at what you find! Good Luck :) :)
Well it will all get better...Don't give up
go out tonight to a club and just cut loose or something to get your mind off of everything
I think it is better you contact to an expert freelancer in this field
from website like
http://www.livefreelancer.net/Desperately need advice/help?
How depressing, sounds like a lot of self pity and feeling sorry for yourself. Try getting out and get to know new people. Im sure that when you went to college that all your so called friends were your friend before. Get out have fun even by yourself. Get some self confidence. No one wants to see some guy act like a girl sitting at home eating ice cream and cookie dough cuz no one will be his friend.
Oh and as for the job. Keep looking. be persistant and don't stop till you get hired. At this point it really sounds like you need or really just want to be on your own. good luck.
Despite how you may feel, know this......
You have EVERYTHING to live for!!
Two Very Important things you mentioned.......
~Family
~College Education
Not everybody can say they have even 1 of those things, much less Both! You are VERY fortunate! Count your Blessings, which I am sure you do. Sometimes it is hard to see the forrest for the trees. Keep your chin up, things will work themselves out, they always do. Take full advantage of this time, soul search. You may be surprised at what you find! Good Luck :) :)
Well it will all get better...Don't give up
go out tonight to a club and just cut loose or something to get your mind off of everything
Weight Loss Advice... Help????
okay im 18 and i weigh 208lbs. i dont look like i weigh this much. the doctor i went to said if he saw me on the street or in a store he would never guess thats my weigh. id say i look about 150. i did gymnastics for years as well as volleyball, so im guessing i have a lot of muscle. i was to lose 50 pounds by december; so in about 4 months. my apartment has a gym and ive been going but it doesnt seem to be working to me. my question is: what can i do in 4 months to reach my goal?
This is me at 190lbs.
http://tinypic.com/view.php?
pic=2yo4uht%26amp;s=4
Thanks to anyone that can help.Weight Loss Advice... Help????
Well in 4 months you could change quite considerably. You maybe able to lose around about 40-50 pounds in 4 months maybe a little bit longer.
Well considering you have a gym you should perform these exercises:
Shoulders: Military Press, Hang Clean and Press, Arnold Press
Arms: Close-Grip Chin-Up (w/palms facing toward your face), Dips, Close-Grip Pushup, Twisting Dumbbell Curl
Legs: Barbell Squat, Deadlift, Lunges
Back: Chin-Up, Pull-Down, Deadlift, Row
Chest: Push-Up, Dips, Bench Press
Start off with 4 sets of 12 reps for the first 2 weeks then do 3 sets of 10 reps for the next 2 months and then do 2 sets of 8 reps for 1 month after that. This is known as periodization. Make sure that the weight is heavy enough to strain you by the last rep. Best to do this 3 days a week (Monday, Wednesday and Friday) for no more than an hour.
With cardio many people recommend you to do LONG slow cardio. Don't waste your time on that I suggest you do HIIT (High Intensity Interval Training) where you're alternating between increasing and decreasing your heart rate to increase your resting metabolic rate. For example you start off with 2 minutes of walking followed by 30 seconds of all out sprinting, this becomes 1 cycle. Complete 4 cycles lasting 10 minutes. Every other week increase by 1 cycle to a total of 8 cycles lasting 20 minutes. Once reached, remain with it. Do HIIT training on the days you don't do weight-training.
With respect to diet I suggest you eat smaller meals 4-6 times a day rather than 3 large ones. Overall you'll eat more but your concentration and metabolism would've increased. Make sure to drink plenty of water and get plenty of rest, 8 hours at least.
I know this is a lot but it has pretty much everything you need to know. Email me on skilled_methodz@hotmail.com on your progress.
I hope this helps :)Weight Loss Advice... Help????
well I suggest cutting out everything except for protein and vegetables, forget breads and sugars... just protein and vegetables and work out not too much though. Because when you eat your body will take all the energy from the food instead of from the fat already in your body, remember to eat before exercising and only eat about 2-3 after exercising, drink only water, and don't eat 2-3 before sleeping, also remember the 10 hour trick, eat all you want the first 10 hours since you woke up but after that don't eat anything. For example since your still in school you may wake up around 6 am.. eat all you want between 6 am and 3 pm but after 3 pm don't eat anything because your body breaks down foods and burns fat best the first 10 hours.
Well I'm sure you know that muscle weighs a lot more than fat, so you have to know that you might be losing fat but gaining muscle, and thereby maintaining your weight! You really should aim for losing 1-2 pounds per week, which puts you at about 30 pounds or so by December. Sometimes it's ok to lose more but that should be your goal (it is healthiest).
If your body isn't changing at all, then maybe try to increase cardiovascular exercises like running. Drink a lot of water; drink it before you get thirsty (being thirsty is your body's way of telling you you're already dehydrated). Eat fruit in the morning and before you work out. Try to eat a lot of vegetables daily (preferably green) but also make sure you get enough protein. DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! That will actually slow your metabolism down, so that when you do eat a normal meal you'll gain weight. I have a very fast metabolism and I eat something every 1-2 hours. I know it seems contradictory, but if you eat smaller, more frequent meals, it will really help. You should keep your heart rate around 140-160 for 30 minutes each time you work out. It will usually go up to 170 or 180 if you run for a really long time. That's ok but it's really the bpm range for athletic conditioning. Good luck!
This is me at 190lbs.
http://tinypic.com/view.php?
pic=2yo4uht%26amp;s=4
Thanks to anyone that can help.Weight Loss Advice... Help????
Well in 4 months you could change quite considerably. You maybe able to lose around about 40-50 pounds in 4 months maybe a little bit longer.
Well considering you have a gym you should perform these exercises:
Shoulders: Military Press, Hang Clean and Press, Arnold Press
Arms: Close-Grip Chin-Up (w/palms facing toward your face), Dips, Close-Grip Pushup, Twisting Dumbbell Curl
Legs: Barbell Squat, Deadlift, Lunges
Back: Chin-Up, Pull-Down, Deadlift, Row
Chest: Push-Up, Dips, Bench Press
Start off with 4 sets of 12 reps for the first 2 weeks then do 3 sets of 10 reps for the next 2 months and then do 2 sets of 8 reps for 1 month after that. This is known as periodization. Make sure that the weight is heavy enough to strain you by the last rep. Best to do this 3 days a week (Monday, Wednesday and Friday) for no more than an hour.
With cardio many people recommend you to do LONG slow cardio. Don't waste your time on that I suggest you do HIIT (High Intensity Interval Training) where you're alternating between increasing and decreasing your heart rate to increase your resting metabolic rate. For example you start off with 2 minutes of walking followed by 30 seconds of all out sprinting, this becomes 1 cycle. Complete 4 cycles lasting 10 minutes. Every other week increase by 1 cycle to a total of 8 cycles lasting 20 minutes. Once reached, remain with it. Do HIIT training on the days you don't do weight-training.
With respect to diet I suggest you eat smaller meals 4-6 times a day rather than 3 large ones. Overall you'll eat more but your concentration and metabolism would've increased. Make sure to drink plenty of water and get plenty of rest, 8 hours at least.
I know this is a lot but it has pretty much everything you need to know. Email me on skilled_methodz@hotmail.com on your progress.
I hope this helps :)Weight Loss Advice... Help????
well I suggest cutting out everything except for protein and vegetables, forget breads and sugars... just protein and vegetables and work out not too much though. Because when you eat your body will take all the energy from the food instead of from the fat already in your body, remember to eat before exercising and only eat about 2-3 after exercising, drink only water, and don't eat 2-3 before sleeping, also remember the 10 hour trick, eat all you want the first 10 hours since you woke up but after that don't eat anything. For example since your still in school you may wake up around 6 am.. eat all you want between 6 am and 3 pm but after 3 pm don't eat anything because your body breaks down foods and burns fat best the first 10 hours.
Well I'm sure you know that muscle weighs a lot more than fat, so you have to know that you might be losing fat but gaining muscle, and thereby maintaining your weight! You really should aim for losing 1-2 pounds per week, which puts you at about 30 pounds or so by December. Sometimes it's ok to lose more but that should be your goal (it is healthiest).
If your body isn't changing at all, then maybe try to increase cardiovascular exercises like running. Drink a lot of water; drink it before you get thirsty (being thirsty is your body's way of telling you you're already dehydrated). Eat fruit in the morning and before you work out. Try to eat a lot of vegetables daily (preferably green) but also make sure you get enough protein. DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! That will actually slow your metabolism down, so that when you do eat a normal meal you'll gain weight. I have a very fast metabolism and I eat something every 1-2 hours. I know it seems contradictory, but if you eat smaller, more frequent meals, it will really help. You should keep your heart rate around 140-160 for 30 minutes each time you work out. It will usually go up to 170 or 180 if you run for a really long time. That's ok but it's really the bpm range for athletic conditioning. Good luck!
High school advice Help Me !?
Im starting high school next week and im stiil with all thee same people from middle school. i want to be more notice this year and there are these 4 wanna be cool girls and i use to be BESFRIENDS with them ive done alot of bad things this year wa should i do how should i wear make up houw should i do my hair the first day what should i wear and im a preppy kinda girl i like to wear skinny jeans and hollister and flats %26amp; what boys should i go after ?
HELP MEHigh school advice Help Me !?
well honestly.
the worst thing you can do is change yourself for people.
high school isnt about getting noticed.
its about getting an education..My first day was today.
Im not geeky nor popular. And im just fine the way i am.
i have a big support group that helps me through just about everything.High school advice Help Me !?
Don't wear too much hollister, it screams freshie.
As for makeup, don't wear too much eyeliner, or don't wear a line under your eye. Look up some cute makeup ways and practice them.
%26amp; don't refer to yourself as ';preppy'; in high school. Trust me, nobody uses those middle school labels in HS.
You shouldn't have to question people who are your ';best friends';. If they're doing really bad things, then get away, it can only escalate in high school, and there are so many new people in high school. Don't be closed on who you want to be friends with be open!!!!!
i might sound harsh, but it's all so you can have a good high school experience!
hair; leave it wavy or straighten it up
don't put it back the first day
make up; don't wear too much
it'll be bad..
just a light color of eyeshadow and some eyeliner
but not too much. you don't want to look like a tramp :)
for the first day i'd wear some cute shorts maybe some with holes
not really short shorts though because
all of the girls will talk about you
and maybe a flannel shirt or
just some layers or a cute hollister shirt :)
as in boys. high school boys are so immature
but i'd go for the soccer boys! football boys aren't really that hot
just any boy that appeals to you
don't go for like 5
because that's not cool either
you sound a little snobbish.....sorry.....
I'm sorry hon, I know that you want to make a good impression and what not in high school. But you really shouldn't be asking strangers on personal growth help when we don't know you. So what, everyone might say this but: be yourself. If you dress, look, and act how you want to present yourself boys and friends will follow. People can tell if you're trying to hard, so act natural and like yourself.
go skater get some skinny jeans. thts all hve fun
grow up get a life ya sound snobby
high school aint bad just act normle ffs
im in yr 10 n dunt gi a *** wot ppl fink ifthey se awt they onli get belted
Nobody likes stuck up beezies.make up
HELP MEHigh school advice Help Me !?
well honestly.
the worst thing you can do is change yourself for people.
high school isnt about getting noticed.
its about getting an education..My first day was today.
Im not geeky nor popular. And im just fine the way i am.
i have a big support group that helps me through just about everything.High school advice Help Me !?
Don't wear too much hollister, it screams freshie.
As for makeup, don't wear too much eyeliner, or don't wear a line under your eye. Look up some cute makeup ways and practice them.
%26amp; don't refer to yourself as ';preppy'; in high school. Trust me, nobody uses those middle school labels in HS.
You shouldn't have to question people who are your ';best friends';. If they're doing really bad things, then get away, it can only escalate in high school, and there are so many new people in high school. Don't be closed on who you want to be friends with be open!!!!!
i might sound harsh, but it's all so you can have a good high school experience!
hair; leave it wavy or straighten it up
don't put it back the first day
make up; don't wear too much
it'll be bad..
just a light color of eyeshadow and some eyeliner
but not too much. you don't want to look like a tramp :)
for the first day i'd wear some cute shorts maybe some with holes
not really short shorts though because
all of the girls will talk about you
and maybe a flannel shirt or
just some layers or a cute hollister shirt :)
as in boys. high school boys are so immature
but i'd go for the soccer boys! football boys aren't really that hot
just any boy that appeals to you
don't go for like 5
because that's not cool either
you sound a little snobbish.....sorry.....
I'm sorry hon, I know that you want to make a good impression and what not in high school. But you really shouldn't be asking strangers on personal growth help when we don't know you. So what, everyone might say this but: be yourself. If you dress, look, and act how you want to present yourself boys and friends will follow. People can tell if you're trying to hard, so act natural and like yourself.
go skater get some skinny jeans. thts all hve fun
grow up get a life ya sound snobby
high school aint bad just act normle ffs
im in yr 10 n dunt gi a *** wot ppl fink ifthey se awt they onli get belted
Nobody likes stuck up beezies.
Need serious advice! help!?
ok, i asked this previously: so there's this guy.. (hmm, the story of my life.) and he's not exactly the most attractive guy out there, actually kinda unattractive, and i never ever thought of him as more than a friend (actually, he was more the friend of a friend.) until he asked me out a couple weeks ago. but i don't know if he really liked me or if it was just a fling type of thing. so now i catch myself thinking about him! where did this come from?! i kinda enjoy flirting with him, but i hardly ever talk to him, so it's not obsessive. but, i think i might like him?! i can't believe i'm even saying that. he happens to be my ex's best friend, not that it matters. anywho, he's kinda quiet and shy but he seems nice and funny. but how do i get to know him better so i can figure out if i do like him? have any of you went through this type of thing? do you think i like him? WHAT DO I DO?!?
and here's the new details:
conversation between me and a mutual friend:
friend: ';so would you ever go out with _____?';
me: ';oh geez. i don't even know him, so no, not right now.';
friend: ';_____ told me he likes you. i asked him if he did and he said yes i do. seriously. not lieing.';
me: ';umm ok.';
friend: ';will you go out with him then?';
me: ';no. i already told you that.';
friend: ';but the only way ur gonna get to know him is if you talk or date'; (ya, she has a weird view on this.)
me: ';i'd rather talk to him before i date him. if i date him. if he wants to talk to me, he can talk to me.';
well then he texted me for like 3 minutes. very awkward. what should i do?!Need serious advice! help!?
Hmm...Interesting, very interesting in deed, LOLL...If you want to try to get to know him, try talking to him, you know and if you feel like your not ready for a date, just hang out or go to the cinema or watch a movie!!!, Besides, who knows...you might even be considering going out with him - and maybe you'll like him!!!, But thats just my opinion ;)...I hope everything works out, Good luck and I hoped I helped :)!!!Need serious advice! help!?
You answered your own question in your little convo! You should talk to him and get to know him before you jump into a relationship with him. Not to mention you started this off by saying he is not attractive and then you said he is your ex's best friend and I personally would say that right there is off limits. Just my opinion on this matter.
You should try and get to know him more, maybe hang out with him more and try to get to know him, then decide.
I think the reason you think you like him is because you know he likes you, trust me I do it all the time.
Hell go for if that what you wanna do don't let anyone elses views about him change how you feel... I think your self conscious about what other people may think cause he's not cute... But do what your heart tells you to... its better than anything i could ever say =)
oh man! I definatly feel the same about this other guy, except he didnt ask me out.. :/
lucky you ;)
why not try!
Better to have loved and lost then never loved at all :)
mine?
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Talking can never hurt anyone! Just approach him at the right time, not around friends. Make sure that you are prepared... Flirt, get to know him! He likes you and you like him. dont make this hard! i hope that i helped=] good luck
I only read the top half. It seems you dont like his LOOKS too much, but perhaps like his personality. Just talk to him, see what he drives or what he does, and ask him about that stuff, goodluck
just talk to him
ahah introduce yourself in person and if he asks you out quickly then his not really interested in you, his just desperate. or it could be opposite. idk really.
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get talking. if you like him then you go ahead.
(oh yeah and tbh, you're friend is a bit of a nob)
My Personal Advice: STAY THE F*** away from ';Nice';, ';Quiet';, and ';Shy'; ones!!!
if u think you like him, then give him a chance, go out with him...if not, then just talk to him whenever you happen to see him next
Just go on a date with him. Seriously it's not a big deal and if u don't like him after that let him know. Or just stop talking to him all together LOL.
I think you should just approach him %26amp; talk to him. Get to know him better. And you can also talk with his friends %26amp; find out his personality %26amp; stuff like that. Good luck (:
Give him a chance. Set up a date with him and go on from there.
throw the dog a bone, he'll probably appreciate you more than anyone else ever has
You should go out with him!
do him
just go out wit him!
just talk to him
i think u did ur part wit the friend thing.........u told her.she doesnt seem interested.......an i think he may like u........so jus go hang out wit him.........give it a chance
Yes i know how you feel and this is what you do.
Tell him your not sure if you want to date him. That you want to get to know him first before you two get together.
Well if you think about maybe your just a little lonely and considering something you don't want and you know you don't want it. It may not be this but i've been through it. If you stay lonely for too long you start to grab whatever you can get.
So no you don't like him but it depends.
ok, chill out! there is a difference between ';dating'; and ';going on a date';... dating is exclusive, and means you wouldn't see anybody else while you guys are dating... going on dates implies just hanging out, with romantic intentions implied... first, i would give this guy a chance, you may be surprised... for almost any guy who asks me out, i give him one date... the most you lose is an evening out, and who knows what you will gain... texting is a great way to get to know someone as well... after you go on your first date, reevaluate and see if you still like him... if so, great, just keep it moving from there... if not, let him down gently, and both of you can move on... good luck!
let him call you and talk to you. If you don't like him there is nothing that says you have to date him. Just specify that you aren't sure about him because you don't know him very well and if you really need an excuse just say it is awkward because he is your ex's friend.
slowly try and get to know each other. your not gonna know each other over night its going to take some time. see where it goes from there and whether you really do like him. sometimes the last person that would come to mind turns out to be the one who grows on us and be the person you fall for. give it time and see where the future takes you.
and here's the new details:
conversation between me and a mutual friend:
friend: ';so would you ever go out with _____?';
me: ';oh geez. i don't even know him, so no, not right now.';
friend: ';_____ told me he likes you. i asked him if he did and he said yes i do. seriously. not lieing.';
me: ';umm ok.';
friend: ';will you go out with him then?';
me: ';no. i already told you that.';
friend: ';but the only way ur gonna get to know him is if you talk or date'; (ya, she has a weird view on this.)
me: ';i'd rather talk to him before i date him. if i date him. if he wants to talk to me, he can talk to me.';
well then he texted me for like 3 minutes. very awkward. what should i do?!Need serious advice! help!?
Hmm...Interesting, very interesting in deed, LOLL...If you want to try to get to know him, try talking to him, you know and if you feel like your not ready for a date, just hang out or go to the cinema or watch a movie!!!, Besides, who knows...you might even be considering going out with him - and maybe you'll like him!!!, But thats just my opinion ;)...I hope everything works out, Good luck and I hoped I helped :)!!!Need serious advice! help!?
You answered your own question in your little convo! You should talk to him and get to know him before you jump into a relationship with him. Not to mention you started this off by saying he is not attractive and then you said he is your ex's best friend and I personally would say that right there is off limits. Just my opinion on this matter.
You should try and get to know him more, maybe hang out with him more and try to get to know him, then decide.
I think the reason you think you like him is because you know he likes you, trust me I do it all the time.
Hell go for if that what you wanna do don't let anyone elses views about him change how you feel... I think your self conscious about what other people may think cause he's not cute... But do what your heart tells you to... its better than anything i could ever say =)
oh man! I definatly feel the same about this other guy, except he didnt ask me out.. :/
lucky you ;)
why not try!
Better to have loved and lost then never loved at all :)
mine?
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Talking can never hurt anyone! Just approach him at the right time, not around friends. Make sure that you are prepared... Flirt, get to know him! He likes you and you like him. dont make this hard! i hope that i helped=] good luck
I only read the top half. It seems you dont like his LOOKS too much, but perhaps like his personality. Just talk to him, see what he drives or what he does, and ask him about that stuff, goodluck
just talk to him
ahah introduce yourself in person and if he asks you out quickly then his not really interested in you, his just desperate. or it could be opposite. idk really.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ahi1SI1H57ioP54ofShksKzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090413175146AAQsIif
get talking. if you like him then you go ahead.
(oh yeah and tbh, you're friend is a bit of a nob)
My Personal Advice: STAY THE F*** away from ';Nice';, ';Quiet';, and ';Shy'; ones!!!
if u think you like him, then give him a chance, go out with him...if not, then just talk to him whenever you happen to see him next
Just go on a date with him. Seriously it's not a big deal and if u don't like him after that let him know. Or just stop talking to him all together LOL.
I think you should just approach him %26amp; talk to him. Get to know him better. And you can also talk with his friends %26amp; find out his personality %26amp; stuff like that. Good luck (:
Give him a chance. Set up a date with him and go on from there.
throw the dog a bone, he'll probably appreciate you more than anyone else ever has
You should go out with him!
do him
just go out wit him!
just talk to him
i think u did ur part wit the friend thing.........u told her.she doesnt seem interested.......an i think he may like u........so jus go hang out wit him.........give it a chance
Yes i know how you feel and this is what you do.
Tell him your not sure if you want to date him. That you want to get to know him first before you two get together.
Well if you think about maybe your just a little lonely and considering something you don't want and you know you don't want it. It may not be this but i've been through it. If you stay lonely for too long you start to grab whatever you can get.
So no you don't like him but it depends.
ok, chill out! there is a difference between ';dating'; and ';going on a date';... dating is exclusive, and means you wouldn't see anybody else while you guys are dating... going on dates implies just hanging out, with romantic intentions implied... first, i would give this guy a chance, you may be surprised... for almost any guy who asks me out, i give him one date... the most you lose is an evening out, and who knows what you will gain... texting is a great way to get to know someone as well... after you go on your first date, reevaluate and see if you still like him... if so, great, just keep it moving from there... if not, let him down gently, and both of you can move on... good luck!
let him call you and talk to you. If you don't like him there is nothing that says you have to date him. Just specify that you aren't sure about him because you don't know him very well and if you really need an excuse just say it is awkward because he is your ex's friend.
slowly try and get to know each other. your not gonna know each other over night its going to take some time. see where it goes from there and whether you really do like him. sometimes the last person that would come to mind turns out to be the one who grows on us and be the person you fall for. give it time and see where the future takes you.
Break up advice help!~?
Alright. This is short of a long story. My ex-girlfriend and I got back together on Friday. We went out on a date. We kissed a couple times.
Yesterday she was in the hospital. (she got really sick) and I cried and cried. And was very uset becasue no one knew what happened. She's still in the hospital. But I was on my phone and I got a message from her. I asked if she was okay and wanted to make sure she was. she said she just had a headahce. But then she broke up with me for some other guy. she said that she still liked me but she seemed to like this other guy more. I really did like her and I want to move on. One of my best friends was going to set me up with her sister. but idk. I think she just played me. but idk help please!Break up advice help!~?
Well from what little info you have provided I'm not sure if she played you or she just found someone else to date.
Either way, she's just not that into you.
Take it as a learning experience and move on.
Yesterday she was in the hospital. (she got really sick) and I cried and cried. And was very uset becasue no one knew what happened. She's still in the hospital. But I was on my phone and I got a message from her. I asked if she was okay and wanted to make sure she was. she said she just had a headahce. But then she broke up with me for some other guy. she said that she still liked me but she seemed to like this other guy more. I really did like her and I want to move on. One of my best friends was going to set me up with her sister. but idk. I think she just played me. but idk help please!Break up advice help!~?
Well from what little info you have provided I'm not sure if she played you or she just found someone else to date.
Either way, she's just not that into you.
Take it as a learning experience and move on.
I need advice, help please!?
I know that nobody will know the answer to this for sure, but I'm hoping maybe someone can give me a little advice or something. The last time I had sex was March 14 and it was unprotected, I got my period on March 16 and again on April 16. The past two weeks I have been experiencing alot of cramping, not quite like menstral cramps, but cramps in the same area. My stomach has also been feeling quite tight (like hard) lately, almost as if I was flexing it, yet I can still flex it and it gets even tighter. My bladded has been really active lately, meaning I seem to be peeing alot more than usual. Also, last week I was experiencing some pinkish brown discharge, not enough to wear a pantyliner or anything, just enough that I noticed it when I wiped. Am I just freaking myself out, or what could this be? Advice and everything is greatly appreciated.I need advice, help please!?
all described symptoms could be signals for UTI (see below) - brown discharge (see below)I need advice, help please!?
i don't know what to advise u but u r not pregnant, but maybe because u r scared to be pregnant u now start to notice ur body well and it is also because of the stress(am sure u r).
about the discharges ask a doctor.
You can still get your period if you are pregnant..
You should probably get checked out..
Just in case..
Hope everything is ok :)
x
you could be pregnant!
but it also could be mental, meaning you could just be thinking all this is happening because you think it could be happening.
hope i helped!!! :)
You could be pregnant take a pregnancy test then you will know for sure good luck =) x
I'd take a pregnancy test!
all described symptoms could be signals for UTI (see below) - brown discharge (see below)I need advice, help please!?
i don't know what to advise u but u r not pregnant, but maybe because u r scared to be pregnant u now start to notice ur body well and it is also because of the stress(am sure u r).
about the discharges ask a doctor.
You can still get your period if you are pregnant..
You should probably get checked out..
Just in case..
Hope everything is ok :)
x
you could be pregnant!
but it also could be mental, meaning you could just be thinking all this is happening because you think it could be happening.
hope i helped!!! :)
You could be pregnant take a pregnancy test then you will know for sure good luck =) x
I'd take a pregnancy test!
I Need Advice / Help Please !!!!!!?
I am a stay at home mom... I have a 3 year old boy and a 2 year old girl and iam 4 months pregnant with our 3rd child....
Where I need my advice is.... I am so tired i don't feel like cooking maybe once a week now i will cook dinner. I don't feel like doing the dishes and I don't feel like doing the Landry... Everything is so backed up and its getting depressing... iam just so tired and i have my daughter therapy 3 times a week at my house and i keep the family room clean almost all the time for that reason.!
Well my husband and I argue all the time over the house work when he gets home... I know some of it is my fault for being lazy! But my back hurts sooo bad... (I am a Bigger woman) so its even hard going up and down the stairs!
Anyways am I just being lazy and need to suck it up... or is there any advice you can give me to try and keep my house clean! also note my husband is like a 3rd child.. i am always picking up after him too. and i have pretty much raised my white flag now!I Need Advice / Help Please !!!!!!?
Hi Anna:
I would suggest going for a walk after lunch AND after dinner.
If he doesn't like the idea after dinner, suggest he stay home and do his own laundry, do the dishes, clean up the tv room or whatever.
Going for a walk, even a short one at first, gets you outside, gets you exercise and will strengthen your back, legs, knees etc. It will get you breathing... get you going. If you dont do something, all of the above could just get worse.
Make a ';to do'; list and show it to him. Have a plan for every day of the week. If you can, assign a few of the jobs to him. That way you will feel more in control of things, more organized and he will get an idea of all the things you do every day. Plan your meals. Cook doubles and freeze the 2nd part for later in the month. Use a slow cooker. Easy recipes are everywhere. Keep in mind, as a Mom to be, you don't need any extra stress from your ';3rd child.'; Tell him to cook, barbecue or take you out once in a while. Eating out = no dishes!!! Yeah!!!
Turn the computer and tv off. Go for that after lunch walk even if it's only for 2 minutes out and two minutes back. Tomorrow make it 3.
You will feel better. When your little ones have a nap, have one too even if only for five minutes. ';Quiet time.'; No stress. Don't worry. It will all work out. I hope this helps you. I gotta go for my walk now:)I Need Advice / Help Please !!!!!!?
Only thing i can think of is get a maid.. Or sometimes in the newspaper here there are teens that will babysit and clean house for very reasonable prices, i dont know if you have those types of ads in your newspaper, but you should looks
I can understand why you feel overwhelmed! It's perfectly normal. I was really stressed when I had to watch two kids and clean up after them. But one thing I learned to do when I try not to feel overwhelmed is to maybe ask your husband to do maybe two or three things of housework. Such as vacuum, dust/clean windows or even tidy up once a week. It would be light housework for him to do and it won't take that long. That right there would be a big help for you. And maybe give yourself 20-30 minutes every other day to do work around the house. You'd be so surprised by how much you can do. If you still can't do it, why don't you try hiring someone independent to do the housework once a week. Usually the girls that are independent are way cheaper then maid services and they actually do a better job. Some charge by the hour and some charge by the job.
If your back hurts that bad why don't you try taking medicine or use a heat pad and rest up when you are on break. You are not being lazy, your husband needs to help around the house. You have two kids and your pregnant! There is only so much you can do. Good luck!
Where I need my advice is.... I am so tired i don't feel like cooking maybe once a week now i will cook dinner. I don't feel like doing the dishes and I don't feel like doing the Landry... Everything is so backed up and its getting depressing... iam just so tired and i have my daughter therapy 3 times a week at my house and i keep the family room clean almost all the time for that reason.!
Well my husband and I argue all the time over the house work when he gets home... I know some of it is my fault for being lazy! But my back hurts sooo bad... (I am a Bigger woman) so its even hard going up and down the stairs!
Anyways am I just being lazy and need to suck it up... or is there any advice you can give me to try and keep my house clean! also note my husband is like a 3rd child.. i am always picking up after him too. and i have pretty much raised my white flag now!I Need Advice / Help Please !!!!!!?
Hi Anna:
I would suggest going for a walk after lunch AND after dinner.
If he doesn't like the idea after dinner, suggest he stay home and do his own laundry, do the dishes, clean up the tv room or whatever.
Going for a walk, even a short one at first, gets you outside, gets you exercise and will strengthen your back, legs, knees etc. It will get you breathing... get you going. If you dont do something, all of the above could just get worse.
Make a ';to do'; list and show it to him. Have a plan for every day of the week. If you can, assign a few of the jobs to him. That way you will feel more in control of things, more organized and he will get an idea of all the things you do every day. Plan your meals. Cook doubles and freeze the 2nd part for later in the month. Use a slow cooker. Easy recipes are everywhere. Keep in mind, as a Mom to be, you don't need any extra stress from your ';3rd child.'; Tell him to cook, barbecue or take you out once in a while. Eating out = no dishes!!! Yeah!!!
Turn the computer and tv off. Go for that after lunch walk even if it's only for 2 minutes out and two minutes back. Tomorrow make it 3.
You will feel better. When your little ones have a nap, have one too even if only for five minutes. ';Quiet time.'; No stress. Don't worry. It will all work out. I hope this helps you. I gotta go for my walk now:)I Need Advice / Help Please !!!!!!?
Only thing i can think of is get a maid.. Or sometimes in the newspaper here there are teens that will babysit and clean house for very reasonable prices, i dont know if you have those types of ads in your newspaper, but you should looks
I can understand why you feel overwhelmed! It's perfectly normal. I was really stressed when I had to watch two kids and clean up after them. But one thing I learned to do when I try not to feel overwhelmed is to maybe ask your husband to do maybe two or three things of housework. Such as vacuum, dust/clean windows or even tidy up once a week. It would be light housework for him to do and it won't take that long. That right there would be a big help for you. And maybe give yourself 20-30 minutes every other day to do work around the house. You'd be so surprised by how much you can do. If you still can't do it, why don't you try hiring someone independent to do the housework once a week. Usually the girls that are independent are way cheaper then maid services and they actually do a better job. Some charge by the hour and some charge by the job.
If your back hurts that bad why don't you try taking medicine or use a heat pad and rest up when you are on break. You are not being lazy, your husband needs to help around the house. You have two kids and your pregnant! There is only so much you can do. Good luck!
Hair color advice ( Help! i'm very confused)?
okay sooo, i look alot like Mischa Barton (i'm not kidding i look like her clone lol we have the same skin color and look exactly the same in he face) and i was born with brown hair, and then i got my hair coloed like a strawberry blonde and i hate it!!!
i wanna get like a blonde color, but not bright blonde. A meduim golden blonde color. like Lauren Conrads hair. a beachy color. Anyway what do you think? will i look good with this color? do you have any brands of hair coloring you suggest?
i hate my hair and i'm ready for some change!!
thanks!Hair color advice ( Help! i'm very confused)?
A solid colour is always fairly easy to maintain, not to mention the fact that you only have to lift your colour a few shades. You might as well try it if you hate your current colour and you won't cause too much damage by doing it.
Out of department store colour brands, I find that Garnier 100% Colour or Clairol Hydrience have the nicest colours. However, these two brands in particular are so harmful to hair. I find that Natural Instincts is very very gentle on hair and still gives good results. I would definitely recommend trying Medium Neutral Blonde by Natural Instincts.Hair color advice ( Help! i'm very confused)?
Go see a colorist at a salon. They can help you better than anyone on here.
Go to a salon. They will use the best products, and if they mess it up, they can fix it. Your stylist should be able to help you choose the correct color for your skin tone. I get lots of business from home tragedies, and it is harder to fix something that is screwed up. A suggestion is to foil some blonds into your strawberry blond. That might really look nice. You can also add some low-lights so that as the brown starts growing out, it won't be so noticeable.
I think Lauren's hair in this picture will be perfect for you!
http://www.buddytv.com/articles/Image/la鈥?/a>
And if you're doing a home hair dye use this brand
http://mybeautyberry.com/images/uploads/鈥?/a>
It's not the right color, but it's what the box looks like. Make sure if you have long or thick hair to buy two boxes.
i wanna get like a blonde color, but not bright blonde. A meduim golden blonde color. like Lauren Conrads hair. a beachy color. Anyway what do you think? will i look good with this color? do you have any brands of hair coloring you suggest?
i hate my hair and i'm ready for some change!!
thanks!Hair color advice ( Help! i'm very confused)?
A solid colour is always fairly easy to maintain, not to mention the fact that you only have to lift your colour a few shades. You might as well try it if you hate your current colour and you won't cause too much damage by doing it.
Out of department store colour brands, I find that Garnier 100% Colour or Clairol Hydrience have the nicest colours. However, these two brands in particular are so harmful to hair. I find that Natural Instincts is very very gentle on hair and still gives good results. I would definitely recommend trying Medium Neutral Blonde by Natural Instincts.Hair color advice ( Help! i'm very confused)?
Go see a colorist at a salon. They can help you better than anyone on here.
Go to a salon. They will use the best products, and if they mess it up, they can fix it. Your stylist should be able to help you choose the correct color for your skin tone. I get lots of business from home tragedies, and it is harder to fix something that is screwed up. A suggestion is to foil some blonds into your strawberry blond. That might really look nice. You can also add some low-lights so that as the brown starts growing out, it won't be so noticeable.
I think Lauren's hair in this picture will be perfect for you!
http://www.buddytv.com/articles/Image/la鈥?/a>
And if you're doing a home hair dye use this brand
http://mybeautyberry.com/images/uploads/鈥?/a>
It's not the right color, but it's what the box looks like. Make sure if you have long or thick hair to buy two boxes.
My parents getting back together, complicated? opinions, advice, help?
okay so about three years ago my parents decided to seperate, so my dad left and got his own house. but they didn't divorce, they were just seperated. then my dad started spending the night and they got back together. i did not want him to move back because i told him i was scared that he would leave me again, and he said i promise i'll never leave again. he lived with us for about a year and then they decided to seperate again. this time they actually moved on with the divorce. they were half way through the divorce and now he's living here again. he was only staying here because his power was out, but i think that was just an excuse. my mom says that they might get back together and me and my two brothers don't want them to. we keep telling my mom this but she won't listen to us. my dad isn't dangerous or anything, we just don't want them married, and we don't want his living here. my mom won't listen, what should i do?????My parents getting back together, complicated? opinions, advice, help?
Ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!
My parents have been divorced for nearly ten years after a messy break up when I was 13. I can't IMAGINE how awkward it would be if they hooked up again. Ugh, I'm getting queasy. I totally feel you and your siblings on this, you poor things. And with the added trust issue, I can see that you have a real pickle here.
Divorce is a horrible process, especially when it doesn't end. It's a nightmare and I can see why you just want it to stay over.
I think you should tell your parents that their co-dependant indecision is bringing you and your siblings real stress. Say something like, ';It's your lives, but this is also our lives, and you are putting us through hell every time this changes. So be sure of your choice this time, because we are sick of the back-and-forth and not being able to trust our parents. Tell them if they get back together to keep you guys out of the marriage and swear to you that they are sure.'; I would write them a letter about this.
In the meantime, get some audiobooks on itunes to tune your life out until you're 18. I know from experience that you have zero control in this situation. You are going to have to learn how to detach for now, but don't lose your ability to get emotionally involved with people (like I did, haha). You can have your say, and hopefully your mom will consider it, but in the end, they are going to do what they want to do. Adults in love are selfish, and they are going to put you guys second in this, fair or not. They still love you, but they just aren't going to be rational.
Good luck.My parents getting back together, complicated? opinions, advice, help?
You really have no say in this
If your Dad posses zero threat of abuse then I'm sorry stay out of itmake up
Ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!
My parents have been divorced for nearly ten years after a messy break up when I was 13. I can't IMAGINE how awkward it would be if they hooked up again. Ugh, I'm getting queasy. I totally feel you and your siblings on this, you poor things. And with the added trust issue, I can see that you have a real pickle here.
Divorce is a horrible process, especially when it doesn't end. It's a nightmare and I can see why you just want it to stay over.
I think you should tell your parents that their co-dependant indecision is bringing you and your siblings real stress. Say something like, ';It's your lives, but this is also our lives, and you are putting us through hell every time this changes. So be sure of your choice this time, because we are sick of the back-and-forth and not being able to trust our parents. Tell them if they get back together to keep you guys out of the marriage and swear to you that they are sure.'; I would write them a letter about this.
In the meantime, get some audiobooks on itunes to tune your life out until you're 18. I know from experience that you have zero control in this situation. You are going to have to learn how to detach for now, but don't lose your ability to get emotionally involved with people (like I did, haha). You can have your say, and hopefully your mom will consider it, but in the end, they are going to do what they want to do. Adults in love are selfish, and they are going to put you guys second in this, fair or not. They still love you, but they just aren't going to be rational.
Good luck.My parents getting back together, complicated? opinions, advice, help?
You really have no say in this
If your Dad posses zero threat of abuse then I'm sorry stay out of it
I'm 17. I Need some family advice. Help please?
I'm 17 and my parents are divorced. I will be a senior this coming school year and planned on graduating in half a year. I also have played football all through high school, but I decided that I did not want to play my senior year because I do not really enjoy it like I used to. I told this to my mom and she said that I do not know what I am talking about and she said that she would not let me graduate early if I did not play. I feel that I should be able to make my own decisions. I need some adult advice please.I'm 17. I Need some family advice. Help please?
Call her bluff, if you are willing to own your decision and all possible results. You should be able to make your own decisions, and she cannot force you to play. In the meantime, you should be speaking with your school counselor in the fall about your academic schedule and your post-graduation plans. She may change her mind if she sees that she cannot control you, but if she doesn't change her mind, then stick to your plan anyway. Maybe you can take some Advanced Placement classes and earn college credit, if you need to stay in school.I'm 17. I Need some family advice. Help please?
ask her *why* she wants you to play; she obviously has a reason. it could be that she's just worried that you want to stop because you're depressed (or something like that) and she's pushing you to play because she thinks that will help you feel better. at any rate, if you find out why she's pushing this point, at least you have something that you can discuss.
do what you want, she can not make you graduate at the time of her choosing. its all on your shoulders buddy. if you don't want to play she cant force you too. or just tell her i shall not allow you to come to your graduation she if makes you. just flip the tables on her
Is your mother generally a good parent?because I would think that she would like the idea of you wanting to graduate early,is your father not involved in your life?ask him for his permission if he is involved in your life...
Talk to your counselor at school about your dilemma. Maybe they can help with your mom.
thats so stupid. you should be able to decide what sports you want to play. tell your mom that youwill play another sport if you can graduate early
You should just play... you caould get a really great scholarship for college. It would be worth the free education.
Hey. I guess you could consider me an ';adult'; because i'm not a teenager anymore. But look, your mom wants what's best for you, and that seems clear to me. It might seem irrational to you (after all, you don't enjoy football, so why play it?'; But I said the same exact thing about playing the piano when I was younger. Now that I'm older, I see so many people who can make beautiful music and express themselves in such a unique way, and I can't because I ';got sick of it'; in elementary school even though my mom told me to stick it out.
Now, the things that I DID follow thru on (softball and tennis) to senior year, are things that I value so much because they taught me discipline and team work. I hate to break it to you, but there is something fundamentally wrong with American youths these days: a lack of discipline. I've met kids from Asia and Africa who are just appalled that Americans give up so easily, that they quit, or get divorced, or move or change their habits. It's those who are disciplined and stick things out even when we don't ';enjoy'; them that really succeed in life and find out what true, hard-earned happiness means.
You could really get something rewarding out of football this year, even if it's just a proud look from your mom for obeying her. In my experience, it's always better to go with the wisdom of your parents, particularly when you think they're full of ****.
Just my thoughts.
Wow this is a tough one. I am a mom and my son just graduated high school a year ago. He also played football through high school, but he enjoyed it. He did not graduate early, because he wanted to spend the rest of his time at school with his friends. I believe that maybe you should talk to your mom. Maybe it is an organized activity that she is more interested maybe to keep you active and focused. I always believed that a busy kid is bound to find something else to do than to get into trouble. I am not saying that you are not a good kid, sounds good to me that you are asking for advice on a serious matter. I personally think that I could not force my teen to do anything they didn't honestly want to do, but I would surely stress that they do something organized. Good luck with your mom. I am sure she means well. It is not easy being a single mother. Enjoy your senior year.
Call her bluff, if you are willing to own your decision and all possible results. You should be able to make your own decisions, and she cannot force you to play. In the meantime, you should be speaking with your school counselor in the fall about your academic schedule and your post-graduation plans. She may change her mind if she sees that she cannot control you, but if she doesn't change her mind, then stick to your plan anyway. Maybe you can take some Advanced Placement classes and earn college credit, if you need to stay in school.I'm 17. I Need some family advice. Help please?
ask her *why* she wants you to play; she obviously has a reason. it could be that she's just worried that you want to stop because you're depressed (or something like that) and she's pushing you to play because she thinks that will help you feel better. at any rate, if you find out why she's pushing this point, at least you have something that you can discuss.
do what you want, she can not make you graduate at the time of her choosing. its all on your shoulders buddy. if you don't want to play she cant force you too. or just tell her i shall not allow you to come to your graduation she if makes you. just flip the tables on her
Is your mother generally a good parent?because I would think that she would like the idea of you wanting to graduate early,is your father not involved in your life?ask him for his permission if he is involved in your life...
Talk to your counselor at school about your dilemma. Maybe they can help with your mom.
thats so stupid. you should be able to decide what sports you want to play. tell your mom that youwill play another sport if you can graduate early
You should just play... you caould get a really great scholarship for college. It would be worth the free education.
Hey. I guess you could consider me an ';adult'; because i'm not a teenager anymore. But look, your mom wants what's best for you, and that seems clear to me. It might seem irrational to you (after all, you don't enjoy football, so why play it?'; But I said the same exact thing about playing the piano when I was younger. Now that I'm older, I see so many people who can make beautiful music and express themselves in such a unique way, and I can't because I ';got sick of it'; in elementary school even though my mom told me to stick it out.
Now, the things that I DID follow thru on (softball and tennis) to senior year, are things that I value so much because they taught me discipline and team work. I hate to break it to you, but there is something fundamentally wrong with American youths these days: a lack of discipline. I've met kids from Asia and Africa who are just appalled that Americans give up so easily, that they quit, or get divorced, or move or change their habits. It's those who are disciplined and stick things out even when we don't ';enjoy'; them that really succeed in life and find out what true, hard-earned happiness means.
You could really get something rewarding out of football this year, even if it's just a proud look from your mom for obeying her. In my experience, it's always better to go with the wisdom of your parents, particularly when you think they're full of ****.
Just my thoughts.
Wow this is a tough one. I am a mom and my son just graduated high school a year ago. He also played football through high school, but he enjoyed it. He did not graduate early, because he wanted to spend the rest of his time at school with his friends. I believe that maybe you should talk to your mom. Maybe it is an organized activity that she is more interested maybe to keep you active and focused. I always believed that a busy kid is bound to find something else to do than to get into trouble. I am not saying that you are not a good kid, sounds good to me that you are asking for advice on a serious matter. I personally think that I could not force my teen to do anything they didn't honestly want to do, but I would surely stress that they do something organized. Good luck with your mom. I am sure she means well. It is not easy being a single mother. Enjoy your senior year.
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