ok so i have a gf and im not bi or les or anything I mean she's the first girl i have ever dated (btw she looks exactly like a boy). We don't get to see each other cause we live in different states but we did get to see each other over summer.
I'm happy with her but a lot of the time im kinda mad and upset. She doesn't let me talk to guys (she absolutely hates guys with a passion) , she's always asking me what exactly am I doing, it makes me feel like i'm going to get in trouble for doing something, she gets mad when I don't txt her constantly or if I don't want to talk on the phone with her, she also gets mad when I stay the night at someones house because we don't get to sleep on the phone together. (ya we sleep on the phone together)
I don't know what to do?....
Help please!I need advice!! Help!!!?
';ok so i have a gf and im not bi or les or anything';
I hate to burst your bubble hunn, but if you go out with a girl (even if she looks like a guy) and you're a girl, you're BI. Sorry.I need advice!! Help!!!?
OMG this sould's like my ex bf todaly the same it's all cuz of trus she has no trust for you my ex keept lossing and lossing trust for me till one day i forgot to call him and later i had a nice facebook msg saying i'm sorry we done good luck
so what i'm saying is try to bilud up ur trust or u'll never be way happy and some1 will dump some1. so bilud up trus or dump her i'd say
Friday, January 8, 2010
High School advice!?! HELP!?!?
Okay I am a sophomore this year and i made the golf team last on a whim because nobody else tried out.. I was really bad the whole year (worst on team)
This year i practiced and practiced and got a !!TON!! of help from a friends and online and gradually got my score down to an average of 90 (18 holes *last year my average for 9 holes was 100*)
We had try outs today and I shot the best score of my life 84 ( 42 on front 9 42 on back 9) I really did shoot this but nobody on my golf team besides one guy (the guy I always golf with) beliefs me not even the coach
We have another round of 18 holes tomorrow and I don't know what to do nobody believes me and they will most likely put me with the most annoying people on our team bc the will monitor me very carefully but when I am being watched over for every shot I get shy and mis-hit of something
What should I do?!?!
any advice helps Thanks!High School advice!?! HELP!?!?
thats stupid without any proof that your score is false you should not be accused of that tell your coach you average at 90 and that was your best score ever and not to expect much the next day... dont worry about coaches they r most of the time not that smart... its like the easiest job there is all u need to do is stand there and know what golf isHigh School advice!?! HELP!?!?
Whenever we had qualifying for the high school or college teams there was always another player who qualified along side and kept and verified the score which was turned in . Just go out there and play your game.If the coach doesn't believe you he should be the one to keep and verify the score.
I assume you are an honorable person and are telling the truth about your score. You cannot be concerned about what other people do on the golf course because that will take focus off of what you need to do. Just play golf and take it one shot at a time. Commit to every shot then you won't be thinking about those who are watching you.
Do you not swap cards so someone marks your score in try outs?
If not who signs as marker? You should definitely do this next time.
As for the pressure, just get used to it and adapt to it. The better and more serious you get the higher the pressure will be. Instead of fearing it, get used to it and channel the nervous energy into something more useful than shyness and fear.
So, your coach is accusing you of cheating without any proof? Sure sounds like it to me. If this were a jury trial I'd rule in your favor.
If you are cheating with your score then the person you golfed with has every reason to call you out. The fact this person won't call you out to your face and give you the chance to come clean puts you in a better light.
your coach should be more Professional thy that 2 weeks I shot 77 and 3 days later I shot 101 don't get stress out and just play your game
As a HS Coach, it certainly does seem odd to put you out in 2somes for tryouts. Tell the coach before you tee off tomorrow that you have been averaging about 90, so don't expect another career day out of you.
Now, when you are playing tomorrow, be as smart as possible, don't take unnecessary risks, but definitely play with a chip on your shoulder. Take a screw them approach and you will be fine. In fact make a point to beat whoever you are paired with, especially if it is someone already on the team. That will show them!
Since you are in tryouts, it is only natural to move the better scores up each day. So the freshman who were too busy with their own messes to have any idea what you were doing will get someone of their own caliber tomorrow and you get to play with the better scores. That is something to aim for and be proud of, not something to shrink from.
This year i practiced and practiced and got a !!TON!! of help from a friends and online and gradually got my score down to an average of 90 (18 holes *last year my average for 9 holes was 100*)
We had try outs today and I shot the best score of my life 84 ( 42 on front 9 42 on back 9) I really did shoot this but nobody on my golf team besides one guy (the guy I always golf with) beliefs me not even the coach
We have another round of 18 holes tomorrow and I don't know what to do nobody believes me and they will most likely put me with the most annoying people on our team bc the will monitor me very carefully but when I am being watched over for every shot I get shy and mis-hit of something
What should I do?!?!
any advice helps Thanks!High School advice!?! HELP!?!?
thats stupid without any proof that your score is false you should not be accused of that tell your coach you average at 90 and that was your best score ever and not to expect much the next day... dont worry about coaches they r most of the time not that smart... its like the easiest job there is all u need to do is stand there and know what golf isHigh School advice!?! HELP!?!?
Whenever we had qualifying for the high school or college teams there was always another player who qualified along side and kept and verified the score which was turned in . Just go out there and play your game.If the coach doesn't believe you he should be the one to keep and verify the score.
I assume you are an honorable person and are telling the truth about your score. You cannot be concerned about what other people do on the golf course because that will take focus off of what you need to do. Just play golf and take it one shot at a time. Commit to every shot then you won't be thinking about those who are watching you.
Do you not swap cards so someone marks your score in try outs?
If not who signs as marker? You should definitely do this next time.
As for the pressure, just get used to it and adapt to it. The better and more serious you get the higher the pressure will be. Instead of fearing it, get used to it and channel the nervous energy into something more useful than shyness and fear.
So, your coach is accusing you of cheating without any proof? Sure sounds like it to me. If this were a jury trial I'd rule in your favor.
If you are cheating with your score then the person you golfed with has every reason to call you out. The fact this person won't call you out to your face and give you the chance to come clean puts you in a better light.
your coach should be more Professional thy that 2 weeks I shot 77 and 3 days later I shot 101 don't get stress out and just play your game
As a HS Coach, it certainly does seem odd to put you out in 2somes for tryouts. Tell the coach before you tee off tomorrow that you have been averaging about 90, so don't expect another career day out of you.
Now, when you are playing tomorrow, be as smart as possible, don't take unnecessary risks, but definitely play with a chip on your shoulder. Take a screw them approach and you will be fine. In fact make a point to beat whoever you are paired with, especially if it is someone already on the team. That will show them!
Since you are in tryouts, it is only natural to move the better scores up each day. So the freshman who were too busy with their own messes to have any idea what you were doing will get someone of their own caliber tomorrow and you get to play with the better scores. That is something to aim for and be proud of, not something to shrink from.
Overweight need advice/help! please!?
ok i am 178lbs and 5'2'; and a female
i find it very hard to diet and work out i lose my breath all too quickly and it ends up with me getting frustrated and eating more than i started off!
I'm pretty well educated with fitness and dieting (go figure!) except i can NEVER follow what i've learned.
ugh can someone recommend a diet that has WORKED for them?
i have tried EVERYTHING under the sun and most things will simply not work for me! its so discouraging to say the very least.
can someone recommend a diet and exercise program that has helped them and one that wont be like throwing me to the sharks?
i love yoga of that helps except i haven't done it in a VERY long while so i have lost most of my flexibility.
any advice is greatly GREATLY GREATLY appreciated.
p.s---i dislike most veggies and cant stand the feeling or taste of salad in my mouth it makes me cringe and go nuts.
p.p.s---i used to love exercise so anything fun and upbeat but not too upbeat will be great!Overweight need advice/help! please!?
I've lost a hundred pounds in the past 16 months. The biggest key for me has been to remember that it took me many years to put the weight on, it will take years to take it off. Permanent weight loss is not something that happens quickly. You can't ';diet';, you have to make a lifestyle change.
For me, my goal at first has Not been to put on muscle so I didn't exercise. I just dieted. I did a variation of the Atkins, Low Carb, Diet. I called it The Cave Man Diet. If a cave man couldn't have had it, then you don't eat it. The only exceptions have been some condiments, sugar substitutes and cheese. After a month of living on 22 carbs a day, I started to give myself a little more room but I try to stay under 40 carbs a day. Also I allow myself 1 cheat meal a week, but I don't go overboard.
Now I find bread to be tasteless and pasta too. If I eat a hamburger, I take the bread off first.
Now that I'm down in my weight, I have started to exercise a little. I take Karate and I'm a green belt. The classes are a half hour at a time, 2-3 times a week.
Good luck.Overweight need advice/help! please!?
Discipline yourself especially in your diet. Eat more in the morning and eat less in the evening. Avoid salty, sweet, and fatty foods. Exercise regularly.
Don't eat junk food, and drink water instead of soda...I lost 30 pounds doing that...
Try eating some Quaker oats for breakfast. 2/3 cup of oats, sprinkle on a little cinnamon. Shake the bowl a little to mix up the oats and cinnamon, add (2) 2/3 cup of water and microwave for 2 minutes. You will start loosing weight (use unsweetened oats) Try this for a few days and see how much weight you loose. I am diabetic and I started doing this and my sugar has went down. I also lost 5 lbs. I am a male.(I have been up as high as 275lbs. I have gotten down to 240 and evened out. I started with the oats and am staying around 235) and as long as I stay away from ice cream I think I can loose more weight.
i am 190 and 5 2 i was 210 when i moved in with my bf and 220 when i went to college all u have to do is remove the temptation when i was at home my parents had tons of junk food around when i went to college they still bought it for me but when i was out i was out and when i moved out totally i quit buying it and went health food my bf wont eat fruits or veggies so i try to get the fat and grease out of the food and i watch what i eat and like i said remove temptation if there is a snack food u really like and u always turn to dont buy it like if u want a brownie go to a gas station and buy just one if u like candy bars instead of buying the 6 pack of them just by 1 or 2 for the week i only buy like 1 bag of chips a month and my bf has them gone in 3 days as far as work outs go on a walk or go to the store and buy magaziens that have work outs in them and do those at home in spair time
Exercise: I lost 10 lbs in 4 months when I was signed up for self defence classes and I was not overweight at the time (5'5'; and 130 at start, 5'5'; and 120 at end of 4 months) I had classes 3 times a week for an hour or so. It helped me increase my flexibility. It was fun and besides getting in shape I learned how to defend myself if attacked.
Diet: Switch soda to water or juice and make sure you have a salad/veggies you like for a meal maybe once or twice a week, when you eat meals, don't feel guilty if you can't eat everything on your plate and take less food than you think will sedate your hunger. if you still feel hungry afterwards, then only give yourself a little bit more. Also have a very small snack between meals, this will help get your metabolism up with will help when losing weight. Under this diet, I lost another 5 pounds (from 5'5'; and 120 to 5'5'; and 115)
It may be a good idea to try these together and I hope this helps you lose weight the way it helped me.
i find it very hard to diet and work out i lose my breath all too quickly and it ends up with me getting frustrated and eating more than i started off!
I'm pretty well educated with fitness and dieting (go figure!) except i can NEVER follow what i've learned.
ugh can someone recommend a diet that has WORKED for them?
i have tried EVERYTHING under the sun and most things will simply not work for me! its so discouraging to say the very least.
can someone recommend a diet and exercise program that has helped them and one that wont be like throwing me to the sharks?
i love yoga of that helps except i haven't done it in a VERY long while so i have lost most of my flexibility.
any advice is greatly GREATLY GREATLY appreciated.
p.s---i dislike most veggies and cant stand the feeling or taste of salad in my mouth it makes me cringe and go nuts.
p.p.s---i used to love exercise so anything fun and upbeat but not too upbeat will be great!Overweight need advice/help! please!?
I've lost a hundred pounds in the past 16 months. The biggest key for me has been to remember that it took me many years to put the weight on, it will take years to take it off. Permanent weight loss is not something that happens quickly. You can't ';diet';, you have to make a lifestyle change.
For me, my goal at first has Not been to put on muscle so I didn't exercise. I just dieted. I did a variation of the Atkins, Low Carb, Diet. I called it The Cave Man Diet. If a cave man couldn't have had it, then you don't eat it. The only exceptions have been some condiments, sugar substitutes and cheese. After a month of living on 22 carbs a day, I started to give myself a little more room but I try to stay under 40 carbs a day. Also I allow myself 1 cheat meal a week, but I don't go overboard.
Now I find bread to be tasteless and pasta too. If I eat a hamburger, I take the bread off first.
Now that I'm down in my weight, I have started to exercise a little. I take Karate and I'm a green belt. The classes are a half hour at a time, 2-3 times a week.
Good luck.Overweight need advice/help! please!?
Discipline yourself especially in your diet. Eat more in the morning and eat less in the evening. Avoid salty, sweet, and fatty foods. Exercise regularly.
Don't eat junk food, and drink water instead of soda...I lost 30 pounds doing that...
Try eating some Quaker oats for breakfast. 2/3 cup of oats, sprinkle on a little cinnamon. Shake the bowl a little to mix up the oats and cinnamon, add (2) 2/3 cup of water and microwave for 2 minutes. You will start loosing weight (use unsweetened oats) Try this for a few days and see how much weight you loose. I am diabetic and I started doing this and my sugar has went down. I also lost 5 lbs. I am a male.(I have been up as high as 275lbs. I have gotten down to 240 and evened out. I started with the oats and am staying around 235) and as long as I stay away from ice cream I think I can loose more weight.
i am 190 and 5 2 i was 210 when i moved in with my bf and 220 when i went to college all u have to do is remove the temptation when i was at home my parents had tons of junk food around when i went to college they still bought it for me but when i was out i was out and when i moved out totally i quit buying it and went health food my bf wont eat fruits or veggies so i try to get the fat and grease out of the food and i watch what i eat and like i said remove temptation if there is a snack food u really like and u always turn to dont buy it like if u want a brownie go to a gas station and buy just one if u like candy bars instead of buying the 6 pack of them just by 1 or 2 for the week i only buy like 1 bag of chips a month and my bf has them gone in 3 days as far as work outs go on a walk or go to the store and buy magaziens that have work outs in them and do those at home in spair time
Exercise: I lost 10 lbs in 4 months when I was signed up for self defence classes and I was not overweight at the time (5'5'; and 130 at start, 5'5'; and 120 at end of 4 months) I had classes 3 times a week for an hour or so. It helped me increase my flexibility. It was fun and besides getting in shape I learned how to defend myself if attacked.
Diet: Switch soda to water or juice and make sure you have a salad/veggies you like for a meal maybe once or twice a week, when you eat meals, don't feel guilty if you can't eat everything on your plate and take less food than you think will sedate your hunger. if you still feel hungry afterwards, then only give yourself a little bit more. Also have a very small snack between meals, this will help get your metabolism up with will help when losing weight. Under this diet, I lost another 5 pounds (from 5'5'; and 120 to 5'5'; and 115)
It may be a good idea to try these together and I hope this helps you lose weight the way it helped me.
=--=--=NEED TEEN GUY ADVICE!!! help me out PLEASE!!=--=--=?
Okay so their is this guy i like named Dylan, he goes to my school but he is an 8th grader and im a 7th. i really like him and i dont know if he likes me but he is a real cool kid i love to talk to, my 8th grade buddy =). he says hi to me and he trys to make me laugh a lot. also when i walk over to get my binder he always makes a wierd random sound, i dont know why but it gets my attention haha =). when ever i am near him he always says somthing to me, or atleast adnowledges me in someway. does he like me or is he just being friendly? oh and by the way i have only know him for 2 or 3 months =). happy answering. and rember the best answer usally goes to the person who is the KINDEST but also TRUTHFULL. okay bye =) right one last thing, i think we are both 13 though =)
no wait ok this IS THE LAST THING (maybe) just to let you know its not social suicide at my school to talk to/date/or be friends with a 7th or 8th grader. tons of 8th grade guys have crushes on 7th graders.i need advice 2=--=--=NEED TEEN GUY ADVICE!!! help me out PLEASE!!=--=--=?
well, im not a teen - im 22 - so i have een through your situation...what i can tell you is that when guy tries to get your attention that much that often it definately sounds like he likes you based on what you have said. So if he is always acknowledging you, id say he likes you. but you dont know if he is jsut being friendly - look for signs...does he speak to you more than most others, does he speak to you over his guy friends, does he go out of his way to speak to you or sit next to you or close to you, does he stare at you? etc... look for those signs and you will be more sure. good luck=--=--=NEED TEEN GUY ADVICE!!! help me out PLEASE!!=--=--=?
It sounds like he has a crush on u and making a girl laugh feels great if u like her which is prolly y he acts funny around u.(this question caught my eye bcuz my names dylan and im in 8th)
Yes, girlie he definitely likes you ;)
Him going out of his way to acknowledge you is a clear sign that he likes you. Especially if he is teasing you! That is a sign that he wants your attention. Even though he may call another girl hot, that is just him being a guy..trust me all guys do that.
Good luck!!!makeup ideas
no wait ok this IS THE LAST THING (maybe) just to let you know its not social suicide at my school to talk to/date/or be friends with a 7th or 8th grader. tons of 8th grade guys have crushes on 7th graders.i need advice 2=--=--=NEED TEEN GUY ADVICE!!! help me out PLEASE!!=--=--=?
well, im not a teen - im 22 - so i have een through your situation...what i can tell you is that when guy tries to get your attention that much that often it definately sounds like he likes you based on what you have said. So if he is always acknowledging you, id say he likes you. but you dont know if he is jsut being friendly - look for signs...does he speak to you more than most others, does he speak to you over his guy friends, does he go out of his way to speak to you or sit next to you or close to you, does he stare at you? etc... look for those signs and you will be more sure. good luck=--=--=NEED TEEN GUY ADVICE!!! help me out PLEASE!!=--=--=?
It sounds like he has a crush on u and making a girl laugh feels great if u like her which is prolly y he acts funny around u.(this question caught my eye bcuz my names dylan and im in 8th)
Yes, girlie he definitely likes you ;)
Him going out of his way to acknowledge you is a clear sign that he likes you. Especially if he is teasing you! That is a sign that he wants your attention. Even though he may call another girl hot, that is just him being a guy..trust me all guys do that.
Good luck!!!
New puppy need advice/help?
okay i already have a tiny 3month old puppy.
and just got a new 5 month old puppy shes a shephard lab mix.
but when i got her i noticed she had some sort of soar on her mouth not sure what it is and if its contagious.....
so in the beginning i let the puppies play but seperated them within
an hour or so just in case.
i was wondering if a vet or someone whose has this problem with their dog know what it is and some advice....
i just got her tonight and was gonna take her to the vet tomorrow but not sure if theyre open since its a holiday so i have to wait a whole day...till she gets checked out
so for now im asking on here....
what would you do? and if it is something bad or contagious would you call the owner to return her even if she was a free dog cuz shes not healthy like they said? i really dont wanna risk my 3 month old getting sick.
heres a pic of the soar:
http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn69/鈥?/a>
and her other side thats normal:
http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn69/鈥?/a>
thanks so much for advice and help in advance!!!!!!!!New puppy need advice/help?
I would definitely keep the dogs separated for the meantime. It may just be dermatitis but can't be sure until you get a skin scraping done at the vet. And in regards to returning her, it is totally up to you whether you want the extra expense or not. Whether the previous owner said she was healthy or not....she was free for a reason. Good luck!New puppy need advice/help?
Why not phone the previous owner and ask them if they know what's wrong with her mouth. I doubt it's contagious.
See a vet, dont worry too much though.
Cute dog :D
My dog had something kinda like that. She had sores all over her chin. So I took her to the vet and he said it was a staph infection, and he put her on antibiotics and it cleared up and never came back. Also I read somewhere dogs get them kinda sores if they eat out of plastic bowls because the plastic holds bacterica. So I switched to the metal ones and that made a huge difference. I would take your dog the the vet but it does not look contagious.
Go to a vet. You're wasting time.
i really don't think its contagious, i think she may have an infection therefore she will get antibiotics to take from the vet, looks like she has bitten something or got is caught. but i wouldn't worry just get her checked out
yes as soon as the infection has cleared and the swelling goes down it will look normal (not over night) she just needs some tablets to kill the infection.
she could ave been bitten by an insect or something
and just got a new 5 month old puppy shes a shephard lab mix.
but when i got her i noticed she had some sort of soar on her mouth not sure what it is and if its contagious.....
so in the beginning i let the puppies play but seperated them within
an hour or so just in case.
i was wondering if a vet or someone whose has this problem with their dog know what it is and some advice....
i just got her tonight and was gonna take her to the vet tomorrow but not sure if theyre open since its a holiday so i have to wait a whole day...till she gets checked out
so for now im asking on here....
what would you do? and if it is something bad or contagious would you call the owner to return her even if she was a free dog cuz shes not healthy like they said? i really dont wanna risk my 3 month old getting sick.
heres a pic of the soar:
http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn69/鈥?/a>
and her other side thats normal:
http://i301.photobucket.com/albums/nn69/鈥?/a>
thanks so much for advice and help in advance!!!!!!!!New puppy need advice/help?
I would definitely keep the dogs separated for the meantime. It may just be dermatitis but can't be sure until you get a skin scraping done at the vet. And in regards to returning her, it is totally up to you whether you want the extra expense or not. Whether the previous owner said she was healthy or not....she was free for a reason. Good luck!New puppy need advice/help?
Why not phone the previous owner and ask them if they know what's wrong with her mouth. I doubt it's contagious.
See a vet, dont worry too much though.
Cute dog :D
My dog had something kinda like that. She had sores all over her chin. So I took her to the vet and he said it was a staph infection, and he put her on antibiotics and it cleared up and never came back. Also I read somewhere dogs get them kinda sores if they eat out of plastic bowls because the plastic holds bacterica. So I switched to the metal ones and that made a huge difference. I would take your dog the the vet but it does not look contagious.
Go to a vet. You're wasting time.
i really don't think its contagious, i think she may have an infection therefore she will get antibiotics to take from the vet, looks like she has bitten something or got is caught. but i wouldn't worry just get her checked out
yes as soon as the infection has cleared and the swelling goes down it will look normal (not over night) she just needs some tablets to kill the infection.
she could ave been bitten by an insect or something
I need some advice/help..?
okay first of all i am a girl and a guy asked me out two days ago.. and i said yes so i guess we're together now.
before he asked me out, we were just friends. i always felt so comfortable talking to him, but after we admitted that we liked eachother.. it feels so awkward. i cant even look him in the eye..
and i cant talk to him like i used to. i feel so nervous...
i kinda liked it better back when we were just friends
what should i do?I need some advice/help..?
Normal.. It happens.. I also dated my BF a year back.. and we are still together.. Time will make you two come closer.. now you share different relation so its normal to have such feelings.. You'll be frank and open with him in few days..
Just be original.. Don't try to act someone you can't be.. If you are shy, let him know you are, if your feeling uneasy, let him know that.. if he loves you he'll know and make you feel comfortable.. Have a great time with him..I need some advice/help..?
Well just act like you did before around him when you were just mates and i dunno just kinda forget that your going out with him so you can be yourself around him. Or if you leave it a few days and see what happens if you still feel the same just tell him that feel awkward when your around him or just tell him you'd rather be mates. x
The best thing to do in this situation is to build up the courage and just joke with him like you used to. Because what your doing is instead of being you your actually thinking about what you do before you just do it. I guarantee if you just act like everything is fine he will start to like you alot more because he will see that things can be normal, because if your feeling the awkwardness I'm sure he is to. Let me know what happens if you decide to try it. Good luck :)
you should tell him how you feel, he might be bummed and upset, but the truth is always the best. tell him that you felt more comfortable talking to him as a friend and not more then that and that maybe in the future you could try again.
good luck.
You don't ask us this question. Ask your new boyfriend. Make it clear between you. He knows the dynamic between you guys has changed, but he's not sure how to act. Nor are you. Just figure it out over the phone in five minutes.
well first i would just wait it out.
when you first admit to liking each other things are always going to be a little awkward.
if things don't get better then maybe talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
Www, tough 1 ! just tell him how you feel .or try and make it work just try and talk to him and get over the nerves . Not much advicee but good luck
don't jump into anything you're not ready for. you're not committed. be yourself.
if thats what u believe then tell him that u prefer to be friends with him and nothing more
Wo..................STOP STOP STOP STOP.BEfore u go anywhere crazy doing thigns u dun wanna do..............GET YOURSELF clear.I mean crystal CLEAR. Do u like him n the first place? N do u knw whr you're heading................? ANd, look him in the eye......mayb you're just nervous.....u have to take sometime to accept your own feelings , you must b one of that type.SO if u knw u need some time to accept your own feelings, then, just learn to accept it. Tell him u need sometime alone for a while or something.
Otherwise, the only thing would be to tell him about it and see whether he can pull some magic and make u feel better. If the 2nd thing worked, it would really change things cause I guess u 2 would love each other by then......cause things would seem so perfect.But nobody knows what would happen until u tried.
Hey u came here, by your own intention, u can't deny that u did like him, otherwise u won't accept him/go out with him. SO, just relax, enjoy the fun.Mayb you're not used to it.....tell him, about how you're feeling. NOT directly, that will HURT him...just like how a guy saying, '; I feel weird/awkhard with u'; would hurt u.....ASk him things like, theres something I am not sure about.....can u help me, figure things out..? ANd stuff like that. Don't worry, honey, things will be fine. Trust me, trust yourself, trust your instincts, trust your feelings.Think with the mind, move with your heart.
Answer mine??
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before he asked me out, we were just friends. i always felt so comfortable talking to him, but after we admitted that we liked eachother.. it feels so awkward. i cant even look him in the eye..
and i cant talk to him like i used to. i feel so nervous...
i kinda liked it better back when we were just friends
what should i do?I need some advice/help..?
Normal.. It happens.. I also dated my BF a year back.. and we are still together.. Time will make you two come closer.. now you share different relation so its normal to have such feelings.. You'll be frank and open with him in few days..
Just be original.. Don't try to act someone you can't be.. If you are shy, let him know you are, if your feeling uneasy, let him know that.. if he loves you he'll know and make you feel comfortable.. Have a great time with him..I need some advice/help..?
Well just act like you did before around him when you were just mates and i dunno just kinda forget that your going out with him so you can be yourself around him. Or if you leave it a few days and see what happens if you still feel the same just tell him that feel awkward when your around him or just tell him you'd rather be mates. x
The best thing to do in this situation is to build up the courage and just joke with him like you used to. Because what your doing is instead of being you your actually thinking about what you do before you just do it. I guarantee if you just act like everything is fine he will start to like you alot more because he will see that things can be normal, because if your feeling the awkwardness I'm sure he is to. Let me know what happens if you decide to try it. Good luck :)
you should tell him how you feel, he might be bummed and upset, but the truth is always the best. tell him that you felt more comfortable talking to him as a friend and not more then that and that maybe in the future you could try again.
good luck.
You don't ask us this question. Ask your new boyfriend. Make it clear between you. He knows the dynamic between you guys has changed, but he's not sure how to act. Nor are you. Just figure it out over the phone in five minutes.
well first i would just wait it out.
when you first admit to liking each other things are always going to be a little awkward.
if things don't get better then maybe talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
Www, tough 1 ! just tell him how you feel .or try and make it work just try and talk to him and get over the nerves . Not much advicee but good luck
don't jump into anything you're not ready for. you're not committed. be yourself.
if thats what u believe then tell him that u prefer to be friends with him and nothing more
Wo..................STOP STOP STOP STOP.BEfore u go anywhere crazy doing thigns u dun wanna do..............GET YOURSELF clear.I mean crystal CLEAR. Do u like him n the first place? N do u knw whr you're heading................? ANd, look him in the eye......mayb you're just nervous.....u have to take sometime to accept your own feelings , you must b one of that type.SO if u knw u need some time to accept your own feelings, then, just learn to accept it. Tell him u need sometime alone for a while or something.
Otherwise, the only thing would be to tell him about it and see whether he can pull some magic and make u feel better. If the 2nd thing worked, it would really change things cause I guess u 2 would love each other by then......cause things would seem so perfect.But nobody knows what would happen until u tried.
Hey u came here, by your own intention, u can't deny that u did like him, otherwise u won't accept him/go out with him. SO, just relax, enjoy the fun.Mayb you're not used to it.....tell him, about how you're feeling. NOT directly, that will HURT him...just like how a guy saying, '; I feel weird/awkhard with u'; would hurt u.....ASk him things like, theres something I am not sure about.....can u help me, figure things out..? ANd stuff like that. Don't worry, honey, things will be fine. Trust me, trust yourself, trust your instincts, trust your feelings.Think with the mind, move with your heart.
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In-Laws! Need advice, Help?
I have been married to my husband for 14 years. When I first met his family, they were not welcoming at all. Nothing has changed. He has one sister who was friendly to me only when she was going though her divorce, because she didn't want her cousins and aunts to know what was really happening. My mother-in-law is now ill. They have been attacking me that I don't do enough. I have an elderly father who is losing his sight, a brother who is getting over a serious illness and my own problems. I help when I can and It's never enough. My husband's cousins don't even visit my mother-in-law! My husband has had enough, and tells me to ignore them, but I hate that they are talking trash about me and are so mean.Please, any advice?In-Laws! Need advice, Help?
It is wonderful that your husband supports you. Keep doing what you are doing. Your plate is full. Hold your head up and be firm. One thing I have learned is that you cannot change other people's behavior and it is important to ignore them when they talk about you like that. As long as you know you are doing what you can and your husband supports you, that is all you need. Bless you.In-Laws! Need advice, Help?
Why did it take you 14 years to complain? Your husband tells you to ignore them because he doesn't have the balls to confront them and tell them to knock it off. You married a weenie.
This issue is completely not your problem, it is THEIRS. If your in-laws have yet to welcome you into the family after 14, they are the ones that are missing out. You have your husband's support which is the most important thing, and it sounds as though he understand how inconsiderate and cruel his family is behaving. You are, and have been a part of their family, whether they like it or not, and they need to realize that they need to change their petty behavior or risk dividing their family.
It is not your responsibility to take care of your mother-in-law. You have enough on your plate, and to be honest, she does not sound like the type of woman that deserves your care. Additionally, it is not your responsibility to make them like you. You are not a 16 year old girl that their son/brother is bringing home to ';meet the family';, you are his wife and his family, and there is no need to ';pass the test'; or convince them to like you. Has you husband tried talking to them to explain how they are making you feel? Has he let them know this is unacceptable?
Keep your head up and continue to be the bigger person! Shame on them! If you want some more feedback, check out Leftos.com (I sometimes post here and get good responses) or YourTango.com.
It is wonderful that your husband supports you. Keep doing what you are doing. Your plate is full. Hold your head up and be firm. One thing I have learned is that you cannot change other people's behavior and it is important to ignore them when they talk about you like that. As long as you know you are doing what you can and your husband supports you, that is all you need. Bless you.In-Laws! Need advice, Help?
Why did it take you 14 years to complain? Your husband tells you to ignore them because he doesn't have the balls to confront them and tell them to knock it off. You married a weenie.
This issue is completely not your problem, it is THEIRS. If your in-laws have yet to welcome you into the family after 14, they are the ones that are missing out. You have your husband's support which is the most important thing, and it sounds as though he understand how inconsiderate and cruel his family is behaving. You are, and have been a part of their family, whether they like it or not, and they need to realize that they need to change their petty behavior or risk dividing their family.
It is not your responsibility to take care of your mother-in-law. You have enough on your plate, and to be honest, she does not sound like the type of woman that deserves your care. Additionally, it is not your responsibility to make them like you. You are not a 16 year old girl that their son/brother is bringing home to ';meet the family';, you are his wife and his family, and there is no need to ';pass the test'; or convince them to like you. Has you husband tried talking to them to explain how they are making you feel? Has he let them know this is unacceptable?
Keep your head up and continue to be the bigger person! Shame on them! If you want some more feedback, check out Leftos.com (I sometimes post here and get good responses) or YourTango.com.
Earlobe stretching care & advice help please?
I've been reading people real life stories on the internet about their personal earlobe-stretching experiences. %26amp; i've been getting creeped out.
So yesterday i inserted a 10g in both my earlobes after having a 14g in them for a little over a week. It hurt like hell (as did the 14g) so i thought it was normal since the 14g had healed very healthy.
When i woke up this morning the pain had gone away so i thought it was okay to take them out. I took out the right 10g and it felt slightly bruised while taking the gauge out. It looked completely fine until i looked in the hole and saw something in it. i got a q-tip and placed it over the hole. when i took the q-tip out, there was a yellow-ish fluid and some blood.
When i had done the 14g there was yellow fluid and i cleaned it with alcohol on a q-tip a couple times a week and it was fine after. But there was never any blood.
I placed the 10g back in the right ear and it didn't hurt at all.
**all of the gauges i had used were all from hot topic**
What should i use to clean it, how often do i clean it, %26amp; what are some tips on how to stretch earlobes properly.
(I want to do an 8g after the 10g heals)
%26amp; any other advice ?
Please and thank you.Earlobe stretching care %26amp; advice help please?
Once you gauge your ears, you should NOT take the gauge out right away. Give it a few weeks to heal. You shouldn't gauge them too fast.
For one, it hurts too much, and for two, you can get it really infected.
Also, don't skip sizes, that could permanently damage your ears.
The blood was because you were tearing the tissue in your ear, you don't want to do that.
Use peroxide to heal it, that works the best.
So yesterday i inserted a 10g in both my earlobes after having a 14g in them for a little over a week. It hurt like hell (as did the 14g) so i thought it was normal since the 14g had healed very healthy.
When i woke up this morning the pain had gone away so i thought it was okay to take them out. I took out the right 10g and it felt slightly bruised while taking the gauge out. It looked completely fine until i looked in the hole and saw something in it. i got a q-tip and placed it over the hole. when i took the q-tip out, there was a yellow-ish fluid and some blood.
When i had done the 14g there was yellow fluid and i cleaned it with alcohol on a q-tip a couple times a week and it was fine after. But there was never any blood.
I placed the 10g back in the right ear and it didn't hurt at all.
**all of the gauges i had used were all from hot topic**
What should i use to clean it, how often do i clean it, %26amp; what are some tips on how to stretch earlobes properly.
(I want to do an 8g after the 10g heals)
%26amp; any other advice ?
Please and thank you.Earlobe stretching care %26amp; advice help please?
Once you gauge your ears, you should NOT take the gauge out right away. Give it a few weeks to heal. You shouldn't gauge them too fast.
For one, it hurts too much, and for two, you can get it really infected.
Also, don't skip sizes, that could permanently damage your ears.
The blood was because you were tearing the tissue in your ear, you don't want to do that.
Use peroxide to heal it, that works the best.
I need serious advice... HELP!?
So I dated this guy (Chance) for 2 years... throughout the relationship I was really bad towards him. I was very insecure so I was unhappy, and never trusted him with anything. He never did anything to make me not trust him...I was just always worried that he would cheat on me. He was so good to me, but finally he got sick of me being unhappy and accusing all the time and he left.
Well, we broke up over a year ago, but about a month ago we started talking again...it started out through text messaging, led to phone calls, and eventually we hung out. The first time we hung out all we did was talk about everything...and he just basically told me that he still has feelings for me, but I totally pushed him away. The 2nd time that we hung out at his place all day and eventually had sex... we talk almost everyday, and he gets jealous when I talk about other guys and of course I get jealous when he talks about other girls. Him %26amp; my brother are close and my brother has been telling him that we need to get back together, and all Chance does is say ';maybe with time';.
Today was the 3rd time we hung out...he came over to my house and we layed in my bed and talked for about 2 hours...and he finally admitted how much he missed me. We had sex again, but this time he didn't wear a condom %26amp; when he was about to finish he said he was going to go inside of me (sorry for the details), I didn't stop him, but I thought that was kind of weird because he knows I'm NOT on any type of birth control. Well, after that we went to the mall he kept pointing out baby stuff and saying ';we should start shopping early'; and just joking comments about how I could have possibly gotten pregnant, like he kind of wanted it to happen. I bought him lunch, a shirt %26amp; a hat because I told him I was going to try to make it up for all the crap that happened in the past.
I'm 23, I go out and have my fun, so I know there are plenty of other guys out there, but I love Chance a lot, and I am so comfortable around him...now that he is back in my life I don't know how I could see him out of it.
Do you think we will ever get back together or does it sound like he is just using me??? He won't tell me that he loves me or nothing, but he makes jokes about having a baby with me?? Ugh, I'm so frusterated! Someone PLEASE give me some advice!I need serious advice... HELP!?
Run to the pharmacy and get the ';day after pill'; and take it!
Neither one of you are mature enough to bring a new life into this world!
The very last thing you need for your relationship is a baby!I need serious advice... HELP!?
Honey, he comes over, you have sex. That's a ';booty call';, not a relationship. Cut him off, and stay away from him.
And pray you didn't get pregnant, that's ALL you need.
He's using you and you're going to end up a single mother raising a baby alone if you don't wise up.
Tell him about your feelings. - Then he has to decide.
So I dated this guy (Chance) for 2 years... throughout the relationship I was really bad towards him. I was very insecure so I was unhappy, and never trusted him with anything. He never did anything to make me not trust him...I was just always worried that he would cheat on me. He was so good to me, but finally he got sick of me being unhappy and accusing all the time and he left.
Well, we broke up over a year ago, but about a month ago we started talking again...it started out through text messaging, led to phone calls, and eventually we hung out. The first time we hung out all we did was talk about everything...and he just basically told me that he still has feelings for me, but I totally pushed him away. The 2nd time that we hung out at his place all day and eventually had sex... we talk almost everyday, and he gets jealous when I talk about other guys and of course I get jealous when he talks about other girls. Him %26amp; my brother are close and my brother has been telling him that we need to get back together, and all Chance does is say ';maybe with time';.
Today was the 3rd time we hung out...he came over to my house and we layed in my bed and talked for about 2 hours...and he finally admitted how much he missed me. We had sex again, but this time he didn't wear a condom %26amp; when he was about to finish he said he was going to go inside of me (sorry for the details), I didn't stop him, but I thought that was kind of weird because he knows I'm NOT on any type of birth control. Well, after that we went to the mall he kept pointing out baby stuff and saying ';we should start shopping early'; and just joking comments about how I could have possibly gotten pregnant, like he kind of wanted it to happen. I bought him lunch, a shirt %26amp; a hat because I told him I was going to try to make it up for all the crap that happened in the past.
I'm 23, I go out and have my fun, so I know there are plenty of other guys out there, but I love Chance a lot, and I am so comfortable around him...now that he is back in my life I don't know how I could see him out of it.
Do you think we will ever get back together or does it sound like he is just using me??? He won't tell me that he loves me or nothing, but he makes jokes about having a baby with me?? Ugh, I'm so frusterated! Someone PLEASE give me some advice!
OK, advice it is.......You realize I m going to bring up the unprotected sex first, right? Be responsible, make a baby when you are actually trying to, when you have a lifestyle that affords having one. Not to mention the STD aspect....OK.
Now you contradicted yourself, you said he told you his feelings the first time you hung out, and you pushed him away.....but yet at the end you say you love him. It sounds like you have been pushing him away a lot. And that's fine, but don't expect him to answer with anything other than ';maybe with time'; when asked if you two would get back together. And if you two are not sure on your relationship status, how are you possibly going to bring a child into the mix?? My thoughts are that you two have some issues to be worked on first, trust, etc. before you bring a child into this dynamic. If he wont even tell you he loves you, how can you possibly have unprotected sex with him? Take time for yourselves, to heal all the hurt and trust issues from before, and if it is meant to be, it will happen.
wow thats really hard umm...
if you really do love him talk to him i know its hard but if you tell em how you feel he might tell you how he feels.if he wants to have a child with you it could be a good thing he could be using you but whyy would he chose you and not another girl he must like you or have really strong feelings for you.i think its possible that you guys will get back together
HOPE THIS HELPED
good luck
I can't say for sure, only you would know that, its funny were life takes us though, and if you can get him to admit that he still loves you, then maybe it was meant to be, be cautious though, I would not have slept with him so soon, if he really still cared for you he would have waited as long as it takes. You should try cutting sex out for now and re-develop your relationship, if he gets angry that you don't want to right now, then you know he is only using you. I must also say that sometime's things ARE NOT meant to be, but maybe you have resolved your trust issue's in the past year, sometimes in life all we need is to figure things out and try again, that times apart may actually make your relationship stronger, best of luck to you
It seems to me like he really cares for you and he was trying to get your pregnant so you have to be in his life. I had a guy do that to me. I was awful to him because I didn't really care for him that much but he tried to get me pregnant and then started talking about how if I was, we had to get married. In my opinion, I think he really wants to be with you and he thinks you will feel the same if you get pregnant. Talk to him, be honest with him. I hope it works out!
Well, we broke up over a year ago, but about a month ago we started talking again...it started out through text messaging, led to phone calls, and eventually we hung out. The first time we hung out all we did was talk about everything...and he just basically told me that he still has feelings for me, but I totally pushed him away. The 2nd time that we hung out at his place all day and eventually had sex... we talk almost everyday, and he gets jealous when I talk about other guys and of course I get jealous when he talks about other girls. Him %26amp; my brother are close and my brother has been telling him that we need to get back together, and all Chance does is say ';maybe with time';.
Today was the 3rd time we hung out...he came over to my house and we layed in my bed and talked for about 2 hours...and he finally admitted how much he missed me. We had sex again, but this time he didn't wear a condom %26amp; when he was about to finish he said he was going to go inside of me (sorry for the details), I didn't stop him, but I thought that was kind of weird because he knows I'm NOT on any type of birth control. Well, after that we went to the mall he kept pointing out baby stuff and saying ';we should start shopping early'; and just joking comments about how I could have possibly gotten pregnant, like he kind of wanted it to happen. I bought him lunch, a shirt %26amp; a hat because I told him I was going to try to make it up for all the crap that happened in the past.
I'm 23, I go out and have my fun, so I know there are plenty of other guys out there, but I love Chance a lot, and I am so comfortable around him...now that he is back in my life I don't know how I could see him out of it.
Do you think we will ever get back together or does it sound like he is just using me??? He won't tell me that he loves me or nothing, but he makes jokes about having a baby with me?? Ugh, I'm so frusterated! Someone PLEASE give me some advice!I need serious advice... HELP!?
Run to the pharmacy and get the ';day after pill'; and take it!
Neither one of you are mature enough to bring a new life into this world!
The very last thing you need for your relationship is a baby!I need serious advice... HELP!?
Honey, he comes over, you have sex. That's a ';booty call';, not a relationship. Cut him off, and stay away from him.
And pray you didn't get pregnant, that's ALL you need.
He's using you and you're going to end up a single mother raising a baby alone if you don't wise up.
Tell him about your feelings. - Then he has to decide.
So I dated this guy (Chance) for 2 years... throughout the relationship I was really bad towards him. I was very insecure so I was unhappy, and never trusted him with anything. He never did anything to make me not trust him...I was just always worried that he would cheat on me. He was so good to me, but finally he got sick of me being unhappy and accusing all the time and he left.
Well, we broke up over a year ago, but about a month ago we started talking again...it started out through text messaging, led to phone calls, and eventually we hung out. The first time we hung out all we did was talk about everything...and he just basically told me that he still has feelings for me, but I totally pushed him away. The 2nd time that we hung out at his place all day and eventually had sex... we talk almost everyday, and he gets jealous when I talk about other guys and of course I get jealous when he talks about other girls. Him %26amp; my brother are close and my brother has been telling him that we need to get back together, and all Chance does is say ';maybe with time';.
Today was the 3rd time we hung out...he came over to my house and we layed in my bed and talked for about 2 hours...and he finally admitted how much he missed me. We had sex again, but this time he didn't wear a condom %26amp; when he was about to finish he said he was going to go inside of me (sorry for the details), I didn't stop him, but I thought that was kind of weird because he knows I'm NOT on any type of birth control. Well, after that we went to the mall he kept pointing out baby stuff and saying ';we should start shopping early'; and just joking comments about how I could have possibly gotten pregnant, like he kind of wanted it to happen. I bought him lunch, a shirt %26amp; a hat because I told him I was going to try to make it up for all the crap that happened in the past.
I'm 23, I go out and have my fun, so I know there are plenty of other guys out there, but I love Chance a lot, and I am so comfortable around him...now that he is back in my life I don't know how I could see him out of it.
Do you think we will ever get back together or does it sound like he is just using me??? He won't tell me that he loves me or nothing, but he makes jokes about having a baby with me?? Ugh, I'm so frusterated! Someone PLEASE give me some advice!
OK, advice it is.......You realize I m going to bring up the unprotected sex first, right? Be responsible, make a baby when you are actually trying to, when you have a lifestyle that affords having one. Not to mention the STD aspect....OK.
Now you contradicted yourself, you said he told you his feelings the first time you hung out, and you pushed him away.....but yet at the end you say you love him. It sounds like you have been pushing him away a lot. And that's fine, but don't expect him to answer with anything other than ';maybe with time'; when asked if you two would get back together. And if you two are not sure on your relationship status, how are you possibly going to bring a child into the mix?? My thoughts are that you two have some issues to be worked on first, trust, etc. before you bring a child into this dynamic. If he wont even tell you he loves you, how can you possibly have unprotected sex with him? Take time for yourselves, to heal all the hurt and trust issues from before, and if it is meant to be, it will happen.
wow thats really hard umm...
if you really do love him talk to him i know its hard but if you tell em how you feel he might tell you how he feels.if he wants to have a child with you it could be a good thing he could be using you but whyy would he chose you and not another girl he must like you or have really strong feelings for you.i think its possible that you guys will get back together
HOPE THIS HELPED
good luck
I can't say for sure, only you would know that, its funny were life takes us though, and if you can get him to admit that he still loves you, then maybe it was meant to be, be cautious though, I would not have slept with him so soon, if he really still cared for you he would have waited as long as it takes. You should try cutting sex out for now and re-develop your relationship, if he gets angry that you don't want to right now, then you know he is only using you. I must also say that sometime's things ARE NOT meant to be, but maybe you have resolved your trust issue's in the past year, sometimes in life all we need is to figure things out and try again, that times apart may actually make your relationship stronger, best of luck to you
It seems to me like he really cares for you and he was trying to get your pregnant so you have to be in his life. I had a guy do that to me. I was awful to him because I didn't really care for him that much but he tried to get me pregnant and then started talking about how if I was, we had to get married. In my opinion, I think he really wants to be with you and he thinks you will feel the same if you get pregnant. Talk to him, be honest with him. I hope it works out!
I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?
okay my boyfriend and his friend (who is a girl) have been friends their whole life because their parents where friends before they were born. Well recently her boyfriend broke up with her and shes been all sad, so he has been talking to her a lot more. Well yesterday he was over and i was talking about something important and she called crying and so he answered the phone got up and walked out the house and was talking to her and walked down the street. So i walked out too. They talked for about 30 min, no lie. Then he walked back up to me and as he finished he told her he loved her. I know that they are friends and all and i get it. so i haven't talked to him all day, then i sent him a text to tell him something and he told me that his friend was still over and blew me off. I get that they are friends, but is it okay to be feeling a little confused or worried, stuff like that? Should i talk to him, or what should i do?I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?
It's only natural to feel this way when your boyfriend is focusing so much attention on another girl, and you catch him telling her he loves her. I wouldn't jump on that too fast, just because he could see her like a ';sister.'; But you do need to talk to him about how uncomfortable this makes you. Tell him you feel unimportant, and that you feel like he's gotten maybe a little too involved with his friend-- that it just doesn't feel right with your relationship... But make sure you make it clear that you understand they are friends, and you don't have a problem with that. But he needs to know he's really hurting you. (And it would hurt anyone). How would he feel? (If he truly wouldn't care, then maybe it's time to rethink your relationship).
Hope all goes well. Don't ever be afraid to stick up for yourself! Good luck!I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?
id talk to him about it.... trust me hes seen this girl his entire life.... its like him kissing his sister... dont worry itll be fine... try to distract him... lolmakeup ideas
It's only natural to feel this way when your boyfriend is focusing so much attention on another girl, and you catch him telling her he loves her. I wouldn't jump on that too fast, just because he could see her like a ';sister.'; But you do need to talk to him about how uncomfortable this makes you. Tell him you feel unimportant, and that you feel like he's gotten maybe a little too involved with his friend-- that it just doesn't feel right with your relationship... But make sure you make it clear that you understand they are friends, and you don't have a problem with that. But he needs to know he's really hurting you. (And it would hurt anyone). How would he feel? (If he truly wouldn't care, then maybe it's time to rethink your relationship).
Hope all goes well. Don't ever be afraid to stick up for yourself! Good luck!I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?
id talk to him about it.... trust me hes seen this girl his entire life.... its like him kissing his sister... dont worry itll be fine... try to distract him... lol
I need some advice.. help please?
i've noticed something about me and its an on going habit.. i really like this girl and we've been on and off with a unnamed relationship (i know.. very unhealthy), and its been going back and forth with little 'games' like getting each other jealous. the thing is that i fell hard for her now because i don't think we'll be 'seeing' each other anymore. in other words, i blew it and its over. but the question i'm asking is what the *bleep* is wrong with me? i had her, didn't value it. now don't have her, and dread it. why do i do this? i don't know why folks, can you please help a gorilla out?
i'm 21 years old.I need some advice.. help please?
Because we only realize the importance of one person when she is gone out of our life.
Your dreading maybe for you missed her company. If shes still available, you can win her back and put importance to the relationship so as you'll not end up dreading.Good LuckI need some advice.. help please?
Maybe doing some soul searching first and thing will be out in an opening understanding of yourself. What do want in the future?
Happiness then go after and stop questioning.
i'm 21 years old.I need some advice.. help please?
Because we only realize the importance of one person when she is gone out of our life.
Your dreading maybe for you missed her company. If shes still available, you can win her back and put importance to the relationship so as you'll not end up dreading.Good LuckI need some advice.. help please?
Maybe doing some soul searching first and thing will be out in an opening understanding of yourself. What do want in the future?
Happiness then go after and stop questioning.
Need relationship/communication advice? help?
Ok, my fiance and I are expecting our first baby in June. Don't get me wrong, we love each other to death, and know that we want to be together. But we have some serious communication issues, we realize this. But instead of taking the steps to fix it, we always just ignore the issues and nothing ever gets better.
I need some tips on how to communicate better with each other. We are both very stubborn. And we both have a tendency of taking a little fight and blowing it out of proportion by dragging in other un-resolved issues.
I want us to be able to be happy, and communicate. And I would really like to achieve this before the baby gets here. I know what we need to do, I just don't know how to go about it, thats where we need help.
We both also have major trust issues that need to be resolved, I think part of this with me is because I'm pregnant, so I'm afraid that he is going to leave me. I also HATE everyone he wants to be around, as far as guy friends go. contd---%26gt;Need relationship/communication advice? help?
Seems that you have issues that go deeper than just ';communication';. You may need to invest in 2 or 3 marriage counseling sessions. Every married couple should go at least once during their marriage. They usually cost about 30.00 for a 45 minute visit and they will be EXTREMELY beneficial. Much more helpful than you researching ways to communicate and then trying to ';get'; your husband to be up to speed with you. Good Luck!Need relationship/communication advice? help?
My thought is, your adults, it's close to impossible to change personality traits (stubbornness) - as they say a leopard can't change its spots - If working on communications together is not working amongst yourselves PLUS there's trust issues to boot, maybe seeking professional help is the answer... Adding a kid to the mix MAKES IT WORSE - trust me. Your focus is squarely on the newborn and you lose touch with each other...
Best of luck to both of you and congrats on the little bundle of joy coming soon
The most important step is one both of you seem to have taken - you both realize that you have a problem communicating with each other. That's great because it's not until both parties realize there is a problem that you can even start to work on fixing your problem. It really helps to have outside help of some sort - a professional counselor/therapist, priest, mediator. This person will serve as the mediator between the two of you and give both of you the opportunity to speak what is on your mind without being ridiculed or belittled by your partner. What's really important to both of you is that you lay your anxieties, fears %26amp; concerns out on the table and discuss them together.
If you can't afford a counselor or you want to try %26amp; work on this with your partner first, then sit down with him and have a heart to heart. Make sure that you have your thoughts in order before you start so that you don't leave anything out. But keep your mind open to what your partner is going to be saying also. Make sure that both of you allow the other to speak, and when the other person is speaking, listen to what is being said and don't start thinking of your response in your mind. Your first response should be to repeat whatever it was that he said so that you show him that you understand his concern. (And vice versa)
If you don't think that you can get thru this without professional help, then go find someone who has experience in couples therapy or marital counseling. IF you think you can handle it on your own, then try what I suggested above and have a heart to heart with him. If trying things on your own doesn't work then seek professional help. You are in a good place right now because both of you see a problem %26amp; realize that you want to fix things for the sake of your family, so don't give up on that.
try writing him a letter and make sure you put in it that you both have issues you need to talk about. You feel like you don't know how to say it out loud and you need to talk to him about things that are bothering you.And tell him you are not blaming him for anything ... hormones can a get the best of you. Also Tell him this is away that he can read a little at a time if he is feeling over whelmed. Make sure he knows that you understand his stress but that it is not healthy for your baby. And ALL SO TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LOVE HIM ALOT!!
reading your post was like looking back on the past year of my life!! my fiance and i got pregnant 11 months before our baby was due...we both had major communication skills and were fightinhg all the time, same as you, we both loved eachother and knew we wanted to be together, but we also knew it wouldnt work with these problems, we also had trust/jealousy issues with eachother and didnt know what to do ... we decided ot go to a pastor who was alos a marriage counselor (not like the counselors you see in movies) he basically took us through this 4 week course in which we had to come up with topics that ALWAYS caused us to fight, nad hten we had to take steps to learn how to work through them, it was not only helpful, but fun! the trust thing is something i struggle with a bit, but it ahs really gotten much better. we got married and 3 mnths later had our first son who means teh world to us. marriage is a heck of a lot of work, but being a family is amazing! i hope everything works for you !! good luck and congrats :)
the both of you are havig a baby soon trust issues should be the least of your problems. There is no point being in a relationship and you dont trust the other person. Having a baby is a beautiful thing and im sure hes happy that your having his baby theres no sense to cheat. Dont stress yourself out think positive. As far as you not liking his friends although you may think you come before them as much as he believes that as well hes probably trying to get as much ';chill '; time as he possibly can till the baby. Remember never leave a problem unresolved because it will come back up at another time into the relationship. find a new method of solving it though. when you feel urself getting mad walk away and when ur in more of a good mood talk it out. Remember even if you guys dont stay together hes going to be in your life forever because of the baby honestly try talking it out.'; you never know what will be your very last words to him so make it something good'; good luck
WOW your situation is exactly like mine. and i fee the samee way!! but sorry i have no advice for it. Im in the same thing though. Just hold on things will get better
I need some tips on how to communicate better with each other. We are both very stubborn. And we both have a tendency of taking a little fight and blowing it out of proportion by dragging in other un-resolved issues.
I want us to be able to be happy, and communicate. And I would really like to achieve this before the baby gets here. I know what we need to do, I just don't know how to go about it, thats where we need help.
We both also have major trust issues that need to be resolved, I think part of this with me is because I'm pregnant, so I'm afraid that he is going to leave me. I also HATE everyone he wants to be around, as far as guy friends go. contd---%26gt;Need relationship/communication advice? help?
Seems that you have issues that go deeper than just ';communication';. You may need to invest in 2 or 3 marriage counseling sessions. Every married couple should go at least once during their marriage. They usually cost about 30.00 for a 45 minute visit and they will be EXTREMELY beneficial. Much more helpful than you researching ways to communicate and then trying to ';get'; your husband to be up to speed with you. Good Luck!Need relationship/communication advice? help?
My thought is, your adults, it's close to impossible to change personality traits (stubbornness) - as they say a leopard can't change its spots - If working on communications together is not working amongst yourselves PLUS there's trust issues to boot, maybe seeking professional help is the answer... Adding a kid to the mix MAKES IT WORSE - trust me. Your focus is squarely on the newborn and you lose touch with each other...
Best of luck to both of you and congrats on the little bundle of joy coming soon
The most important step is one both of you seem to have taken - you both realize that you have a problem communicating with each other. That's great because it's not until both parties realize there is a problem that you can even start to work on fixing your problem. It really helps to have outside help of some sort - a professional counselor/therapist, priest, mediator. This person will serve as the mediator between the two of you and give both of you the opportunity to speak what is on your mind without being ridiculed or belittled by your partner. What's really important to both of you is that you lay your anxieties, fears %26amp; concerns out on the table and discuss them together.
If you can't afford a counselor or you want to try %26amp; work on this with your partner first, then sit down with him and have a heart to heart. Make sure that you have your thoughts in order before you start so that you don't leave anything out. But keep your mind open to what your partner is going to be saying also. Make sure that both of you allow the other to speak, and when the other person is speaking, listen to what is being said and don't start thinking of your response in your mind. Your first response should be to repeat whatever it was that he said so that you show him that you understand his concern. (And vice versa)
If you don't think that you can get thru this without professional help, then go find someone who has experience in couples therapy or marital counseling. IF you think you can handle it on your own, then try what I suggested above and have a heart to heart with him. If trying things on your own doesn't work then seek professional help. You are in a good place right now because both of you see a problem %26amp; realize that you want to fix things for the sake of your family, so don't give up on that.
try writing him a letter and make sure you put in it that you both have issues you need to talk about. You feel like you don't know how to say it out loud and you need to talk to him about things that are bothering you.And tell him you are not blaming him for anything ... hormones can a get the best of you. Also Tell him this is away that he can read a little at a time if he is feeling over whelmed. Make sure he knows that you understand his stress but that it is not healthy for your baby. And ALL SO TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LOVE HIM ALOT!!
reading your post was like looking back on the past year of my life!! my fiance and i got pregnant 11 months before our baby was due...we both had major communication skills and were fightinhg all the time, same as you, we both loved eachother and knew we wanted to be together, but we also knew it wouldnt work with these problems, we also had trust/jealousy issues with eachother and didnt know what to do ... we decided ot go to a pastor who was alos a marriage counselor (not like the counselors you see in movies) he basically took us through this 4 week course in which we had to come up with topics that ALWAYS caused us to fight, nad hten we had to take steps to learn how to work through them, it was not only helpful, but fun! the trust thing is something i struggle with a bit, but it ahs really gotten much better. we got married and 3 mnths later had our first son who means teh world to us. marriage is a heck of a lot of work, but being a family is amazing! i hope everything works for you !! good luck and congrats :)
the both of you are havig a baby soon trust issues should be the least of your problems. There is no point being in a relationship and you dont trust the other person. Having a baby is a beautiful thing and im sure hes happy that your having his baby theres no sense to cheat. Dont stress yourself out think positive. As far as you not liking his friends although you may think you come before them as much as he believes that as well hes probably trying to get as much ';chill '; time as he possibly can till the baby. Remember never leave a problem unresolved because it will come back up at another time into the relationship. find a new method of solving it though. when you feel urself getting mad walk away and when ur in more of a good mood talk it out. Remember even if you guys dont stay together hes going to be in your life forever because of the baby honestly try talking it out.'; you never know what will be your very last words to him so make it something good'; good luck
WOW your situation is exactly like mine. and i fee the samee way!! but sorry i have no advice for it. Im in the same thing though. Just hold on things will get better
I need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
Ok heres the deal. I started skateboarding in 6th grade (about three years ago). I never really thought about doing tricks so I just went down hills and around town. Well, I want to learn ho to Ollie now. I've been trying since 7th grade, and I'm not getting anywhere. I just moved, and the town I live in is brand new. As in, we only have one neighbor, and they are older, much older. I have nobody to teach me how to now. I'm not giving up. But is there anyway someone can give me advice, websites, videos an all those on how to do an Ollie. I wan to do an ollie, so I can progress in my skating. Thank you!
-OliviaI need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
the problem most people have is that people try to explain it in like 4 steps when there really needs to be alot more so
In as much detail as I can possibly explain it in
1. Stand on your skateboard natural stance
2. Move you front foot behind the front bolts (farther back the higher potential of the ollie but will be harder it is to control.)
3. Point your front foot forward slightly so its in a comfortable position
4. Your back foot should be on the tip of the tail also in a comfortable position. The edge of your shoe should be rite at the edge of the tail, try to line your foot up with the curve of the tail.
5. Shift most of your weight to your back foot while keeping the board completely stable
6. Now bend down for a bit, and then jump up, mainly off your back foot. As you jump, your back foot should push the tail down hard.
7. The tail should hit the ground hard causing it to bounce back up (this is called a pop) make the pop strong, hard, and fast. Done correctly the board will already be in the air. if its not then nothing else matters
8. Your feet should be in the air over the board. With the board at a 65-85掳 angle to the ground and now about a 1/2-1in. in the air from the pop alone
9. Now to get height, roll your front foot onto its side a bit so that the side of the sole of your shoe (not the whole side of your shoe just the sole) is in contact with the grip tape and slide it forward to the front bolts (this will add height and even out the board at the same time).
10. Keeping your shoulders and your body straight while still in the air, bring both your knees up preferable all the way up to your chest (but that will take practice). This will give the board room to get higher.
11. Lean forward just a bit throughout the Ollie to keep from landing in a manual.
12. After the skateboard reaches its peak height, Start to straighten your legs abit to bring the board down
13.Bend your knees once more to absorb the impact of the landing as soon as the wheel touch the ground.
Skating is all about practice, dedication, and commitment. It鈥檒l take time u wont land it rite away
The key is to take all these steps and combined them into almost one smooth motion.
Also you should search youtube for aronl how to ollie a video would be able to explain it better than just a bunch of words. Make sure its by aronl, hes a great teacher and will show u some examples in slow-mo.
I hope this helps you. Feel free to email me if you have any questions or comments.I need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
look on you tube they have a bunch of really good videos that can teach you.
-OliviaI need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
the problem most people have is that people try to explain it in like 4 steps when there really needs to be alot more so
In as much detail as I can possibly explain it in
1. Stand on your skateboard natural stance
2. Move you front foot behind the front bolts (farther back the higher potential of the ollie but will be harder it is to control.)
3. Point your front foot forward slightly so its in a comfortable position
4. Your back foot should be on the tip of the tail also in a comfortable position. The edge of your shoe should be rite at the edge of the tail, try to line your foot up with the curve of the tail.
5. Shift most of your weight to your back foot while keeping the board completely stable
6. Now bend down for a bit, and then jump up, mainly off your back foot. As you jump, your back foot should push the tail down hard.
7. The tail should hit the ground hard causing it to bounce back up (this is called a pop) make the pop strong, hard, and fast. Done correctly the board will already be in the air. if its not then nothing else matters
8. Your feet should be in the air over the board. With the board at a 65-85掳 angle to the ground and now about a 1/2-1in. in the air from the pop alone
9. Now to get height, roll your front foot onto its side a bit so that the side of the sole of your shoe (not the whole side of your shoe just the sole) is in contact with the grip tape and slide it forward to the front bolts (this will add height and even out the board at the same time).
10. Keeping your shoulders and your body straight while still in the air, bring both your knees up preferable all the way up to your chest (but that will take practice). This will give the board room to get higher.
11. Lean forward just a bit throughout the Ollie to keep from landing in a manual.
12. After the skateboard reaches its peak height, Start to straighten your legs abit to bring the board down
13.Bend your knees once more to absorb the impact of the landing as soon as the wheel touch the ground.
Skating is all about practice, dedication, and commitment. It鈥檒l take time u wont land it rite away
The key is to take all these steps and combined them into almost one smooth motion.
Also you should search youtube for aronl how to ollie a video would be able to explain it better than just a bunch of words. Make sure its by aronl, hes a great teacher and will show u some examples in slow-mo.
I hope this helps you. Feel free to email me if you have any questions or comments.I need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
look on you tube they have a bunch of really good videos that can teach you.
I need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
Ok heres the deal. I started skateboarding in 6th grade (about three years ago). I never really thought about doing tricks so I just went down hills and around town. Well, I want to learn ho to Ollie now. I've been trying since 7th grade, and I'm not getting anywhere. I just moved, and the town I live in is brand new. As in, we only have one neighbor, and they are older, much older. I have nobody to teach me how to now. I'm not giving up. But is there anyway someone can give me advice, websites, videos an all those on how to do an Ollie. I wan to do an ollie, so I can progress in my skating. Thank you!
-OliviaI need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
the problem most people have is that people try to explain it in like 4 steps when there really needs to be alot more so
In as much detail as I can possibly explain it in
1. Stand on your skateboard natural stance
2. Move you front foot behind the front bolts (farther back the higher potential of the ollie but will be harder it is to control.)
3. Point your front foot forward slightly so its in a comfortable position
4. Your back foot should be on the tip of the tail also in a comfortable position. The edge of your shoe should be rite at the edge of the tail, try to line your foot up with the curve of the tail.
5. Shift most of your weight to your back foot while keeping the board completely stable
6. Now bend down for a bit, and then jump up, mainly off your back foot. As you jump, your back foot should push the tail down hard.
7. The tail should hit the ground hard causing it to bounce back up (this is called a pop) make the pop strong, hard, and fast. Done correctly the board will already be in the air. if its not then nothing else matters
8. Your feet should be in the air over the board. With the board at a 65-85掳 angle to the ground and now about a 1/2-1in. in the air from the pop alone
9. Now to get height, roll your front foot onto its side a bit so that the side of the sole of your shoe (not the whole side of your shoe just the sole) is in contact with the grip tape and slide it forward to the front bolts (this will add height and even out the board at the same time).
10. Keeping your shoulders and your body straight while still in the air, bring both your knees up preferable all the way up to your chest (but that will take practice). This will give the board room to get higher.
11. Lean forward just a bit throughout the Ollie to keep from landing in a manual.
12. After the skateboard reaches its peak height, Start to straighten your legs abit to bring the board down
13.Bend your knees once more to absorb the impact of the landing as soon as the wheel touch the ground.
Skating is all about practice, dedication, and commitment. It鈥檒l take time u wont land it rite away
The key is to take all these steps and combined them into almost one smooth motion.
Also you should search youtube for aronl how to ollie a video would be able to explain it better than just a bunch of words. Make sure its by aronl, hes a great teacher and will show u some examples in slow-mo.
I hope this helps you. Feel free to email me if you have any questions or comments.I need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
look on you tube they have a bunch of really good videos that can teach you.
-OliviaI need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
the problem most people have is that people try to explain it in like 4 steps when there really needs to be alot more so
In as much detail as I can possibly explain it in
1. Stand on your skateboard natural stance
2. Move you front foot behind the front bolts (farther back the higher potential of the ollie but will be harder it is to control.)
3. Point your front foot forward slightly so its in a comfortable position
4. Your back foot should be on the tip of the tail also in a comfortable position. The edge of your shoe should be rite at the edge of the tail, try to line your foot up with the curve of the tail.
5. Shift most of your weight to your back foot while keeping the board completely stable
6. Now bend down for a bit, and then jump up, mainly off your back foot. As you jump, your back foot should push the tail down hard.
7. The tail should hit the ground hard causing it to bounce back up (this is called a pop) make the pop strong, hard, and fast. Done correctly the board will already be in the air. if its not then nothing else matters
8. Your feet should be in the air over the board. With the board at a 65-85掳 angle to the ground and now about a 1/2-1in. in the air from the pop alone
9. Now to get height, roll your front foot onto its side a bit so that the side of the sole of your shoe (not the whole side of your shoe just the sole) is in contact with the grip tape and slide it forward to the front bolts (this will add height and even out the board at the same time).
10. Keeping your shoulders and your body straight while still in the air, bring both your knees up preferable all the way up to your chest (but that will take practice). This will give the board room to get higher.
11. Lean forward just a bit throughout the Ollie to keep from landing in a manual.
12. After the skateboard reaches its peak height, Start to straighten your legs abit to bring the board down
13.Bend your knees once more to absorb the impact of the landing as soon as the wheel touch the ground.
Skating is all about practice, dedication, and commitment. It鈥檒l take time u wont land it rite away
The key is to take all these steps and combined them into almost one smooth motion.
Also you should search youtube for aronl how to ollie a video would be able to explain it better than just a bunch of words. Make sure its by aronl, hes a great teacher and will show u some examples in slow-mo.
I hope this helps you. Feel free to email me if you have any questions or comments.I need some advice/help with skateboarding.?
look on you tube they have a bunch of really good videos that can teach you.
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im in college and not in highschool....i like this girl in my class and i sit right in front of her...i talk to her but just about school and stuff..ok so she hasnt given me any real signs of her liking me so probably she doenst like me huh??
another question...if a girls likes u...she will probably give u some hints of her liking u right?? and this girls isnt shy so that cant be a answer..lol===%26gt; Girls n GUYs Advice%26lt;==== help!!!?
Ya, girls always give hints. Sorry to break it to you, but she probably thinks of you as a friend.===%26gt; Girls n GUYs Advice%26lt;==== help!!!?
The truth hurts
another question...if a girls likes u...she will probably give u some hints of her liking u right?? and this girls isnt shy so that cant be a answer..lol===%26gt; Girls n GUYs Advice%26lt;==== help!!!?
Ya, girls always give hints. Sorry to break it to you, but she probably thinks of you as a friend.===%26gt; Girls n GUYs Advice%26lt;==== help!!!?
The truth hurts
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I really need advice. help plz?
ok so my best friend(lets call her C) and my other best friend(lets call her D) they don't get along. they basically hate each other. i know school is over but C said that she cant be my friend if im friends with D. i talked to them yesterday and they started cursing at each other. look i really want to be C friend. i really like her. but i don't know what to do. and plz dont tell me shes not a true friend blah blah blah. i just want somebody to tell me how to solve this problem plz. i alreday try to make them friends again and it didnt work. plz help me i really need adviceI really need advice. help plz?
well first off.. they shouldnt even be putting you in a position like that, but try to talk to them i know that you have proberly already tried doing that but if you tell them how you feel more and try to stick to your guns and say look if you two cant get along and make me choose between you then i wont be friends with iether of you... leave it for them to make their desicion trust me iv had this problem too, i know you said that you really want to be friends with c but how do you think that d will feeel?
not very good i dont think, i dont think its fair picking one over the otherI really need advice. help plz?
try ur best to sort it out with all of them together..be patient enuf to hear from both sides...if nothng happens thn choose between them cos u cnt have everything!hope things get better for u!makeup ideas
well first off.. they shouldnt even be putting you in a position like that, but try to talk to them i know that you have proberly already tried doing that but if you tell them how you feel more and try to stick to your guns and say look if you two cant get along and make me choose between you then i wont be friends with iether of you... leave it for them to make their desicion trust me iv had this problem too, i know you said that you really want to be friends with c but how do you think that d will feeel?
not very good i dont think, i dont think its fair picking one over the otherI really need advice. help plz?
try ur best to sort it out with all of them together..be patient enuf to hear from both sides...if nothng happens thn choose between them cos u cnt have everything!hope things get better for u!
I need some advice, help, anything really.?
ok so ill start off by saying im 18 years old. i've never been on a date with a girl, never kissed, never had a girlfriend. I'm really not a shy person. im nice, funny, for the most part outgoing. but there seems to be a reoccuring problem. anytime i meet a girl, or attempt to get close to a girl (to eventually ask out on a date or something), i get nothing. i get shot down, lied to, ignored, or stood up. for a while, it never really bothered me. i kept my head up and moved on. but lately, ive been slipping into a sort of depression. im getting these strong feelings of loneliness. i know i shouldnt rely on a girl for my own happiness, but like, when you like a girl (or guy for girls reading this), you know you get a happy, warm feeling, and its great, you dont want it to go away. but when it does cause your shot down or ignored, it hurts and your happiness fades. thats what been happening to me. i ran into this new girl and we talked for a while, got to know each other, things were good. i got her contact information and a week later i asked her on a date. she hasnt gotten back to me for a while, and she ignores any wall comments on facebook. like, why am i having such bad luck. im just sick of being alone, sick of the heart aches, i dont want to fall into a deep depression. and my friends just tell me ';oh dont worry, you'll find the right girl... or youre time will come... or when you least expect it, you'll find someone'; easy for them to say when they've all had a gf or have one. just idk... i guess this is more of a vent really.I need some advice, help, anything really.?
Hi Dear
Be yourself and you will find one soonI need some advice, help, anything really.?
honestly it doesnt sound like a girlfriend is nessicarily what you need... more like a best friend thats a girl because then you can have a playful flirty thing which gives you that same kind of feeling you described and also having a friend thats a girl could help you get a girlfriend because girls read other girls better then any guy can...
and if you do need to talk anymore about this kind of thing you can email me. i'd be happy to help more (:
you kow hun i woul date you but i most likly live in another city, i also am taken/ madly in love and im 15 i think they call that Jail bait?
do not rush it you will find the right person in do time and you will be surprise she will be the love of your life don't rush it just think god is the person that you need to talk to cause it takes a full year for god to prepare the right person for you so you need start preparing your self for that person
you need to stop looking.. get that self esteem back! like YOU said.. you cant be happy until you are happy w/ yourself! not every one is cute and super hot but everyone ends up w/ someone.. are you trying to get girls out of your league? work on yourself.. learn to love yourself i'm doing it now and its hard! i really need a guy to tell me i am sexy etc.. to feel good but learning i dont need that to feel good. and i'm just figuring this out @ midlife sweetie! xo
Your friends are right though it doesn't seem to help you. Just keep putting yourself out there. Don't give up on this, next time you meet a girl, make plans as well as getting her contact info. Be confident and maybe a little mysterious, make them wonder what will be next. Good Luck!
aww i'm so sorry that keeps happening to you. but if i were you in that situation i would go with what your friends are telling you, it might be hard but it's still good to kno you have people there to support you. Remember just because a girl hurts you does not mean you should tell yourself that you aren't good for anyone. There is more than just one girl in this world.
well if you want to me to be completely honest..
do you think you are attractive? i know it shouldn't matter, but it does. and you seem like your personality and you are awesome.. so i don't know what else could be the problem! but yes your time will come don't worry.. look at all the beautiful girls that are single, you are single too. i am single. being single is better than being in a relationship that has problems and cheating. right? cheer up :)
I know exactly how you feel. I didn't have my first real love till I was 18/19. He was my first for EVERYTHING.
I think you need to be more confident. Women can SMELL confidence from a mile away and they will Swarm at it. I'm not joking. I can pick up women at straight bars, when I'm looking for men... When I feel just right about myself. (I'm a chick)
When you get a girls digits, act cool. Say ';Thanks, I'll be callin.'; and walk away, don't attempt an OMG she is interested in me- converstion those usually ruin the deal.
And I don't know what your hygeine and looks are like but, shower. daily. Take a trip to Hollister, or if you like the grunge look The Buckle/Zumies. Get some New threads. (Just a word to the wise, no matter how retro or cool star wars or lord of the rings Tshirts and the movies sound... they aren't. )
Do you have a uni-brow? Do you wear deoderant? Do you brush your teeth daily? (I'm in SD and a lot of people here (Farmers) don't.) Do you stand up straight ? (Try it if you don't, big difference)
Try going tanning at a tanning bar, color does everyone some good.
Crest White strips work wonders. (Make sure your teeth aren't stained from juices or coffee.. yah know?)
Trim up the eye brows, make sure you don't have nose hair sticking out. Get some hair gel and make sure you know how to use it. Get contacts if you wear glasses (Just for a 'new you' look)
and smile.
Cleaning yourself up and knowing that a bunch of hawt @ss chicks are checkin you out is going to help with the confidence.
I know it all seems superficial, but It doesn't sound to me like you have come out of your shell at all. You still the same guy you were back in 10th grade. Break that mold babe. Changing how you look and feel about yourself is going to change other peoples perspectives of you.
Personally, I went through all of that change and more, and it helped me find out that I think looking good is key to success both professionally and personally... It also helped me be more confident in asking guys out and made me happier to know I was desirable.
I know now, that if guy gets my number he might call a week later, or that same day.. What do I care, I have a life. If he doesn't call... its not the end of the world, I have Sh!t to do and I'll live. There are always more people out there.
Take a different approach to how you are doing things... I guess thats what I am trying to say, figure out a new way into the dating scene.
And the girls that don't give you the time of day, give em' hell about it.
Or give me their names and I'll do it ;)
Chicks are NOTHING to get depressed about, we aren't that special anyway. We are emotionally unstable, dependant, narsassitic, half wits, and half of us don't know a good thing even when it hits us square in the face.
HTH
XO~
ok this is a great question for me to answer, not about never having a girlfriend, but getting over the depression regarding relationships. Me and the love of my life broke up about a year ago and me being depressed was an understatement. I actually caught myself with a gun in my hand about to commit suicide! I wanted her SOOOOOOOOO bad, you really have NO IDEA. I lost all intrest in things i normally would kill to do, i didnt eat, i couldnt sleep, all the worst things happened to me. Then out of the blue i snapped out of it, i started going out again with friends and my life is great now, and i look back and say i cannot believe i was like that. So hang in there, you have probably heard this a million times, and dont worry cause there was NO ONE that was more skeptical about that than me, but you will be happy again, guaranteed! just give it time. and remember this is coming from someone that more depressed than any human on the planet!!
Hi Dear
Be yourself and you will find one soonI need some advice, help, anything really.?
honestly it doesnt sound like a girlfriend is nessicarily what you need... more like a best friend thats a girl because then you can have a playful flirty thing which gives you that same kind of feeling you described and also having a friend thats a girl could help you get a girlfriend because girls read other girls better then any guy can...
and if you do need to talk anymore about this kind of thing you can email me. i'd be happy to help more (:
you kow hun i woul date you but i most likly live in another city, i also am taken/ madly in love and im 15 i think they call that Jail bait?
do not rush it you will find the right person in do time and you will be surprise she will be the love of your life don't rush it just think god is the person that you need to talk to cause it takes a full year for god to prepare the right person for you so you need start preparing your self for that person
you need to stop looking.. get that self esteem back! like YOU said.. you cant be happy until you are happy w/ yourself! not every one is cute and super hot but everyone ends up w/ someone.. are you trying to get girls out of your league? work on yourself.. learn to love yourself i'm doing it now and its hard! i really need a guy to tell me i am sexy etc.. to feel good but learning i dont need that to feel good. and i'm just figuring this out @ midlife sweetie! xo
Your friends are right though it doesn't seem to help you. Just keep putting yourself out there. Don't give up on this, next time you meet a girl, make plans as well as getting her contact info. Be confident and maybe a little mysterious, make them wonder what will be next. Good Luck!
aww i'm so sorry that keeps happening to you. but if i were you in that situation i would go with what your friends are telling you, it might be hard but it's still good to kno you have people there to support you. Remember just because a girl hurts you does not mean you should tell yourself that you aren't good for anyone. There is more than just one girl in this world.
well if you want to me to be completely honest..
do you think you are attractive? i know it shouldn't matter, but it does. and you seem like your personality and you are awesome.. so i don't know what else could be the problem! but yes your time will come don't worry.. look at all the beautiful girls that are single, you are single too. i am single. being single is better than being in a relationship that has problems and cheating. right? cheer up :)
I know exactly how you feel. I didn't have my first real love till I was 18/19. He was my first for EVERYTHING.
I think you need to be more confident. Women can SMELL confidence from a mile away and they will Swarm at it. I'm not joking. I can pick up women at straight bars, when I'm looking for men... When I feel just right about myself. (I'm a chick)
When you get a girls digits, act cool. Say ';Thanks, I'll be callin.'; and walk away, don't attempt an OMG she is interested in me- converstion those usually ruin the deal.
And I don't know what your hygeine and looks are like but, shower. daily. Take a trip to Hollister, or if you like the grunge look The Buckle/Zumies. Get some New threads. (Just a word to the wise, no matter how retro or cool star wars or lord of the rings Tshirts and the movies sound... they aren't. )
Do you have a uni-brow? Do you wear deoderant? Do you brush your teeth daily? (I'm in SD and a lot of people here (Farmers) don't.) Do you stand up straight ? (Try it if you don't, big difference)
Try going tanning at a tanning bar, color does everyone some good.
Crest White strips work wonders. (Make sure your teeth aren't stained from juices or coffee.. yah know?)
Trim up the eye brows, make sure you don't have nose hair sticking out. Get some hair gel and make sure you know how to use it. Get contacts if you wear glasses (Just for a 'new you' look)
and smile.
Cleaning yourself up and knowing that a bunch of hawt @ss chicks are checkin you out is going to help with the confidence.
I know it all seems superficial, but It doesn't sound to me like you have come out of your shell at all. You still the same guy you were back in 10th grade. Break that mold babe. Changing how you look and feel about yourself is going to change other peoples perspectives of you.
Personally, I went through all of that change and more, and it helped me find out that I think looking good is key to success both professionally and personally... It also helped me be more confident in asking guys out and made me happier to know I was desirable.
I know now, that if guy gets my number he might call a week later, or that same day.. What do I care, I have a life. If he doesn't call... its not the end of the world, I have Sh!t to do and I'll live. There are always more people out there.
Take a different approach to how you are doing things... I guess thats what I am trying to say, figure out a new way into the dating scene.
And the girls that don't give you the time of day, give em' hell about it.
Or give me their names and I'll do it ;)
Chicks are NOTHING to get depressed about, we aren't that special anyway. We are emotionally unstable, dependant, narsassitic, half wits, and half of us don't know a good thing even when it hits us square in the face.
HTH
XO~
ok this is a great question for me to answer, not about never having a girlfriend, but getting over the depression regarding relationships. Me and the love of my life broke up about a year ago and me being depressed was an understatement. I actually caught myself with a gun in my hand about to commit suicide! I wanted her SOOOOOOOOO bad, you really have NO IDEA. I lost all intrest in things i normally would kill to do, i didnt eat, i couldnt sleep, all the worst things happened to me. Then out of the blue i snapped out of it, i started going out again with friends and my life is great now, and i look back and say i cannot believe i was like that. So hang in there, you have probably heard this a million times, and dont worry cause there was NO ONE that was more skeptical about that than me, but you will be happy again, guaranteed! just give it time. and remember this is coming from someone that more depressed than any human on the planet!!
I need boy advice !!! help please??!!?
ok so i havent had a boyfriend since 6th grade and i am now a freshmen in highschool. im pretty social but i just cant find a boyfriend! i think im ugly and thats the reason but people tell me all the time that guys think i am good looking. i really want a boyfriend and need one cause i need to be in a relationship, someone that i know for sure likes me for who i am, i am just desperate and feeling that there is no one out there for me. also it would be nice to have a nice make out partner. ughhhh no boys would ever like me ever!!!! help??? pleaseI need boy advice !!! help please??!!?
start dressing cuter and flirt more... you'll get a bf!I need boy advice !!! help please??!!?
ok it pissez me off wen ppl like u complain about ur love life like dat !
look at me, im 16 %26amp; ive NVR hada boyfriend b4 in ma life !!
i used to want one, but i got over it, cuz guyz at dat age r retarded dey only think about sex okay?
ur not gna find a guy out der who will like u for u in ur freshman yr of high skool, no matter wat, ur relationship will end in 2 months..8 months tops
u sound rly desperate %26amp; it prolly showz in ur personality which is a huge turn-off so jus chill, stop lookin for a boyfriend, %26amp; wait for him to find u
Ah honey, your so young. Trust me, there is going to be a guy out there that's going to like you even when you look your WORST. your young, now is the time to enjoy your life. And make-out buddy just leads to things that you shouldn't be doing. :/
What i try to do is when I was your age, and i wanted a boyfriend, when i least expect it, he showed up. :) Don't rush it.
And you are good enough, the right guy just hasnt noticed it yet. You're going to find someone. Good luck to you, and be safe!
here's my advice: get a life. you don't need to be in a relationship. you're fourteen years old. (or fifteen)
Ok listen, I'm a boy but i still think you will find my advice use full... Also of these ppl are right, and being desperate can show in your personality. But don't try going for the mellow personality (guys don't go for the quiet girls, unless they aren't any other girls to hit on). And I have many girls that like me, (it just that none of them are the girl i want) And i kinda just gave up on finding that ';perfect girl'; and yes im desperate i guess you could say... but i don't show it at all, even to my friends. So i plan on just waiting and hoping that she shows up one day... Try watching the movie ';The Secret'; try that for getting the perfect bf
Wow, that took me back. When I was your age I felt just like you and spent most of my time in high school desiring that very thing and by the end of it all I realized just how much I had missed out on due to my obsession with finding a guy. My advise is to relax and just enjoy school. Find a group of girls to hang out with if you don't already have a circle of friends and just enjoy the ride. Guys can tell when a girl is desperate for a guy and they usually run from the girl (and the bad one's just get together with you to try to have sex). Stop looking and being desperate and one will eventually come to you and if not, just have fun growing up.
start dressing cuter and flirt more... you'll get a bf!I need boy advice !!! help please??!!?
ok it pissez me off wen ppl like u complain about ur love life like dat !
look at me, im 16 %26amp; ive NVR hada boyfriend b4 in ma life !!
i used to want one, but i got over it, cuz guyz at dat age r retarded dey only think about sex okay?
ur not gna find a guy out der who will like u for u in ur freshman yr of high skool, no matter wat, ur relationship will end in 2 months..8 months tops
u sound rly desperate %26amp; it prolly showz in ur personality which is a huge turn-off so jus chill, stop lookin for a boyfriend, %26amp; wait for him to find u
Ah honey, your so young. Trust me, there is going to be a guy out there that's going to like you even when you look your WORST. your young, now is the time to enjoy your life. And make-out buddy just leads to things that you shouldn't be doing. :/
What i try to do is when I was your age, and i wanted a boyfriend, when i least expect it, he showed up. :) Don't rush it.
And you are good enough, the right guy just hasnt noticed it yet. You're going to find someone. Good luck to you, and be safe!
here's my advice: get a life. you don't need to be in a relationship. you're fourteen years old. (or fifteen)
Ok listen, I'm a boy but i still think you will find my advice use full... Also of these ppl are right, and being desperate can show in your personality. But don't try going for the mellow personality (guys don't go for the quiet girls, unless they aren't any other girls to hit on). And I have many girls that like me, (it just that none of them are the girl i want) And i kinda just gave up on finding that ';perfect girl'; and yes im desperate i guess you could say... but i don't show it at all, even to my friends. So i plan on just waiting and hoping that she shows up one day... Try watching the movie ';The Secret'; try that for getting the perfect bf
Wow, that took me back. When I was your age I felt just like you and spent most of my time in high school desiring that very thing and by the end of it all I realized just how much I had missed out on due to my obsession with finding a guy. My advise is to relax and just enjoy school. Find a group of girls to hang out with if you don't already have a circle of friends and just enjoy the ride. Guys can tell when a girl is desperate for a guy and they usually run from the girl (and the bad one's just get together with you to try to have sex). Stop looking and being desperate and one will eventually come to you and if not, just have fun growing up.
In need of advice/help ASAP please.?
Okay, I've been feeling really sick lately and there's a possibility that i could be pregnant. However, I have had some vaginal bleeding, but lasted longer than my period usually does. ( lasted for eight days - period lasts for 5 ) I have been vomiting and feeling very nauseated. I have also been feeling very light headed and dizzy. Just recently My body has been aching from my ribs down and my hips hurt really bad when i try and walk.
I HAVE spoken to an advice nurse to see what i should do and he says that I should come into the emergency room. However, I've tried telling my parents that I have to go in there cause something is going on and I would really like to know. They're not taking me at all and seem very careless about the situation.
If you could please tell me what you think is going on and what you think I should do, It would be very much appreciated.
Thank you in advanced,
Liz.In need of advice/help ASAP please.?
Did you tell them that you think you might be or had been pregnant? If they won't take you to the ER - make a Dr. appointment for Monday.
I HAVE spoken to an advice nurse to see what i should do and he says that I should come into the emergency room. However, I've tried telling my parents that I have to go in there cause something is going on and I would really like to know. They're not taking me at all and seem very careless about the situation.
If you could please tell me what you think is going on and what you think I should do, It would be very much appreciated.
Thank you in advanced,
Liz.In need of advice/help ASAP please.?
Did you tell them that you think you might be or had been pregnant? If they won't take you to the ER - make a Dr. appointment for Monday.
I need hairstyling advice;; HELP!?
i want to change my hairstyle up %26amp; go more ';scene'; then i am now.
plus i have a large forehead and need to cover that up.
here's what you need to know about me;;
i have very thin, long, straight hair.
i have a long forehead so i need to cover that up.
i like bright colors, preferably underneath or in streaks but not all over.
and pictures would be very helpful cause i need something to show my hairdresser.
thanks :)I need hairstyling advice;; HELP!?
http://i287.photobucket.com/albums/ll148鈥?/a>
You can't really see the hair style but it's layered on top and you can spike it how ever you want.
Also I would say bleach it blond then put in black and pink streaks.
Or...
http://www.scene-hairstyles.com/images/d鈥?/a>
You can get layers on top and have it puff out like this. And get the color streaks:) Just a suggestion here's the website if you want to look at more...
http://www.scene-hairstyles.com/scene-ha鈥?/a>I need hairstyling advice;; HELP!?
http://pic.photobucket.com/spacer.gif
Maybe something like this? Cute bangs that are sort of to the side but also take a good part of your forehead. Since you have thin hair stress that you don't want many layers but maybe a very small part be significantly shorter so you can style it, and ask that they point cut the ends.
And for color I think it looks best with just streaks under the short layer, sort of like the pink in this.
http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/60/m_b8a4d17d1a35449fa009c63657abec19.jpg
oo when i came across your q i was so happy coz i used to have hair like yours so i sugest layers side finge but rasor the ends of the hair so it looks thick to thin also you could backcomb it wich is like brushing it backwards and teasing it
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MgMewE6vztY/Sk鈥?/a>
then you can have more or less layers and perhaps put some coulor in it at da bottom
Because you don't want all over color, you should color your hair with lots of highlights of platinum blonde and some purple. You could also go through all of the hairfiles albums and see what you like, because they have many 'scene' hair styles, just remember though, if you call yourself scene, you will be considered a poser, I hope your hair comes out very beautiful and perfect (: http://s3.photobucket.com/albums/y67/hairfiles7/?action=view%26amp;current=hairfiles.gif
heyyyy good luck im trying to find a better haircut at the moment aswell . i hope you like these pictures.
http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs557/hji/medium/2006-long-blonde.jpg
http://www.scene-hair.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/long-scene-hair-330x440.jpg
the second one im thinking of gettiing
katie x
plus i have a large forehead and need to cover that up.
here's what you need to know about me;;
i have very thin, long, straight hair.
i have a long forehead so i need to cover that up.
i like bright colors, preferably underneath or in streaks but not all over.
and pictures would be very helpful cause i need something to show my hairdresser.
thanks :)I need hairstyling advice;; HELP!?
http://i287.photobucket.com/albums/ll148鈥?/a>
You can't really see the hair style but it's layered on top and you can spike it how ever you want.
Also I would say bleach it blond then put in black and pink streaks.
Or...
http://www.scene-hairstyles.com/images/d鈥?/a>
You can get layers on top and have it puff out like this. And get the color streaks:) Just a suggestion here's the website if you want to look at more...
http://www.scene-hairstyles.com/scene-ha鈥?/a>I need hairstyling advice;; HELP!?
http://pic.photobucket.com/spacer.gif
Maybe something like this? Cute bangs that are sort of to the side but also take a good part of your forehead. Since you have thin hair stress that you don't want many layers but maybe a very small part be significantly shorter so you can style it, and ask that they point cut the ends.
And for color I think it looks best with just streaks under the short layer, sort of like the pink in this.
http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/60/m_b8a4d17d1a35449fa009c63657abec19.jpg
oo when i came across your q i was so happy coz i used to have hair like yours so i sugest layers side finge but rasor the ends of the hair so it looks thick to thin also you could backcomb it wich is like brushing it backwards and teasing it
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MgMewE6vztY/Sk鈥?/a>
then you can have more or less layers and perhaps put some coulor in it at da bottom
Because you don't want all over color, you should color your hair with lots of highlights of platinum blonde and some purple. You could also go through all of the hairfiles albums and see what you like, because they have many 'scene' hair styles, just remember though, if you call yourself scene, you will be considered a poser, I hope your hair comes out very beautiful and perfect (: http://s3.photobucket.com/albums/y67/hairfiles7/?action=view%26amp;current=hairfiles.gif
heyyyy good luck im trying to find a better haircut at the moment aswell . i hope you like these pictures.
http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs557/hji/medium/2006-long-blonde.jpg
http://www.scene-hair.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/long-scene-hair-330x440.jpg
the second one im thinking of gettiing
katie x
Need car financing advice. HELP!?
Im trying to buy a new car Im upside down 5K on my car have a 3K down payment %26amp; 645 credit score what price car can I get? I would be able to make payments of up to $420.00 a month. What are the chances of getting a loan without a co-signer?Need car financing advice. HELP!?
Assuming you paid well on your current loan and you make a decent income, you should be able to get financing without a co-pilot.
Get financing BEFORE you go to the dealership. Talk to your bank or credit union.
Using an estimate of 9% APR for 60 mo. you can buy a car for around $17500 and stay at your $420 a month. You could go up to $20k if you stretch the payments to 72 mo. but I would not recommend that.
You should seriously consider buying a used car to avoid the negative equity situation next time around. Also, you can't get much of a new car for $17k these days.
If you must have a new car, consider a lease.
(Who's giving me a thumbs down for this? Of course in a perfect world she should pay off the loan and drive the car for 10 more years, but that's not what she asked, is it? She's a grown up and can make her own desisions.)Need car financing advice. HELP!?
Let's see now.
You are 5k upside down in the note on your current car.
If you buy a new car you instantly go about 10k upside down plus the 5k already hanging over your head.....
If you take this route you are never going to be able to get out of bondage to the finance company.
Keep the car you have - make double payments (or what ever amount you possibly can above the standard monthly payment ) until this car is paid off. When the car is paid off keep it, and put the money which was making payments into a savings account until you can pay cash for your next vehicle.
Keep your money - quit supporting greedy moneylenders.
A car is not what you are.
A car is transportation.
Transportation is a utility expense.
Slash unnecessary utility expenses - save and build wealth.
What's wrong with the car you have now? Is there a reason you are looking at getting a new one. I piece of sound financial advice would be to pay down your current car, or even pay it off before looking at trading. Then in the trade you will have 100% equity and be able to score better financing, a better deal etc.
The higher your down payments are and because your monthly payments are you should have no problem getting one... Go to a couple car dealerships see whats out there you shouldnt have a problem at all
Crazybob makes sense.
Assuming you paid well on your current loan and you make a decent income, you should be able to get financing without a co-pilot.
Get financing BEFORE you go to the dealership. Talk to your bank or credit union.
Using an estimate of 9% APR for 60 mo. you can buy a car for around $17500 and stay at your $420 a month. You could go up to $20k if you stretch the payments to 72 mo. but I would not recommend that.
You should seriously consider buying a used car to avoid the negative equity situation next time around. Also, you can't get much of a new car for $17k these days.
If you must have a new car, consider a lease.
(Who's giving me a thumbs down for this? Of course in a perfect world she should pay off the loan and drive the car for 10 more years, but that's not what she asked, is it? She's a grown up and can make her own desisions.)Need car financing advice. HELP!?
Let's see now.
You are 5k upside down in the note on your current car.
If you buy a new car you instantly go about 10k upside down plus the 5k already hanging over your head.....
If you take this route you are never going to be able to get out of bondage to the finance company.
Keep the car you have - make double payments (or what ever amount you possibly can above the standard monthly payment ) until this car is paid off. When the car is paid off keep it, and put the money which was making payments into a savings account until you can pay cash for your next vehicle.
Keep your money - quit supporting greedy moneylenders.
A car is not what you are.
A car is transportation.
Transportation is a utility expense.
Slash unnecessary utility expenses - save and build wealth.
What's wrong with the car you have now? Is there a reason you are looking at getting a new one. I piece of sound financial advice would be to pay down your current car, or even pay it off before looking at trading. Then in the trade you will have 100% equity and be able to score better financing, a better deal etc.
The higher your down payments are and because your monthly payments are you should have no problem getting one... Go to a couple car dealerships see whats out there you shouldnt have a problem at all
Crazybob makes sense.
GCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
In English, our homework is to describe the person that our teacher puts us with...
And basically, well firstly, is it good? and what can be improved? and secondly, i need to add a bit more, but i have no idea about what to describe.
By the way...its only about his appearance and personaility, nothing to do with hobbies, or where he works, or lives etc etc etc.
Heres what ive done so far, im sorry if its not flowing, its because i need to improve it..:
';A laid-back looking figure places himself on an overused, wooden chair. He鈥檚 that one person that makes himself stand out from the crowd with his overall bubbly and mischievous character . However, a more humorous perspective is present, from the sarcastically arched and raised eyebrows that are stitched across his forehead.
Sage green and mysterious, his slightly beady eyes could easily dart across the room and stare at anything that moves.
However, his skin is clear, similar to a summer sky. There is no obvious freckle, dimple or spot eager to be shown insight. However, a natural blush rapidly seeps through and contrasts his flawless skin, as the moon contradicts the dark of the night.
Lying on the top of his oval skull, lies a bed of pale toffee hair, mixed in with beige highlights, which is cut to right above his obscured ears and tamed with the excessive use of gel.
He usually styles laid-back casual clothes which dangle heavily from his perpendicular shoulders, as a mysterious cracked smile creeps out and stretches from one end of his face to another. His posture, relaxed and rather slouched, suggests he has a calm and informal nature.';
Thanks ALOT!!!
Love Lucy XDGCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
Thats pretty impressive, I think thats a difficult task because if you get paired with someone ugly you have still got to try and write something good in order to not offend them! I think your doing pretty well at the moment, as for advice, I hated english with a passion so Ive not got much there apart from keep up the good work!GCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
You are very descriptive and thats awesome, I think its great
its the best answer...you don't need any more of it....
other wise u know wat will happen????????????
that guy will sit on your head!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you have an amazing way with words, this is excellentmakeup ideas
And basically, well firstly, is it good? and what can be improved? and secondly, i need to add a bit more, but i have no idea about what to describe.
By the way...its only about his appearance and personaility, nothing to do with hobbies, or where he works, or lives etc etc etc.
Heres what ive done so far, im sorry if its not flowing, its because i need to improve it..:
';A laid-back looking figure places himself on an overused, wooden chair. He鈥檚 that one person that makes himself stand out from the crowd with his overall bubbly and mischievous character . However, a more humorous perspective is present, from the sarcastically arched and raised eyebrows that are stitched across his forehead.
Sage green and mysterious, his slightly beady eyes could easily dart across the room and stare at anything that moves.
However, his skin is clear, similar to a summer sky. There is no obvious freckle, dimple or spot eager to be shown insight. However, a natural blush rapidly seeps through and contrasts his flawless skin, as the moon contradicts the dark of the night.
Lying on the top of his oval skull, lies a bed of pale toffee hair, mixed in with beige highlights, which is cut to right above his obscured ears and tamed with the excessive use of gel.
He usually styles laid-back casual clothes which dangle heavily from his perpendicular shoulders, as a mysterious cracked smile creeps out and stretches from one end of his face to another. His posture, relaxed and rather slouched, suggests he has a calm and informal nature.';
Thanks ALOT!!!
Love Lucy XDGCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
Thats pretty impressive, I think thats a difficult task because if you get paired with someone ugly you have still got to try and write something good in order to not offend them! I think your doing pretty well at the moment, as for advice, I hated english with a passion so Ive not got much there apart from keep up the good work!GCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
You are very descriptive and thats awesome, I think its great
its the best answer...you don't need any more of it....
other wise u know wat will happen????????????
that guy will sit on your head!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you have an amazing way with words, this is excellent
GCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
In English, our homework is to describe the person that our teacher puts us with...
And basically, well firstly, is it good? and what can be improved? and secondly, i need to add a bit more, but i have no idea about what to describe.
By the way...its only about his appearance and personaility, nothing to do with hobbies, or where he works, or lives etc etc etc.
Heres what ive done so far, im sorry if its not flowing, its because i need to improve it..:
';A laid-back looking figure places himself on an overused, wooden chair. He鈥檚 that one person that makes himself stand out from the crowd with his overall bubbly and mischievous character . However, a more humorous perspective is present, from the sarcastically arched and raised eyebrows that are stitched across his forehead.
Sage green and mysterious, his slightly beady eyes could easily dart across the room and stare at anything that moves.
However, his skin is clear, similar to a summer sky. There is no obvious freckle, dimple or spot eager to be shown insight. However, a natural blush rapidly seeps through and contrasts his flawless skin, as the moon contradicts the dark of the night.
Lying on the top of his oval skull, lies a bed of pale toffee hair, mixed in with beige highlights, which is cut to right above his obscured ears and tamed with the excessive use of gel.
He usually styles laid-back casual clothes which dangle heavily from his perpendicular shoulders, as a mysterious cracked smile creeps out and stretches from one end of his face to another. His posture, relaxed and rather slouched, suggests he has a calm and informal nature.';
Thanks ALOT!!!
Love Lucy XDGCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
Thats pretty impressive, I think thats a difficult task because if you get paired with someone ugly you have still got to try and write something good in order to not offend them! I think your doing pretty well at the moment, as for advice, I hated english with a passion so Ive not got much there apart from keep up the good work!GCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
You are very descriptive and thats awesome, I think its great
its the best answer...you don't need any more of it....
other wise u know wat will happen????????????
that guy will sit on your head!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you have an amazing way with words, this is excellent
And basically, well firstly, is it good? and what can be improved? and secondly, i need to add a bit more, but i have no idea about what to describe.
By the way...its only about his appearance and personaility, nothing to do with hobbies, or where he works, or lives etc etc etc.
Heres what ive done so far, im sorry if its not flowing, its because i need to improve it..:
';A laid-back looking figure places himself on an overused, wooden chair. He鈥檚 that one person that makes himself stand out from the crowd with his overall bubbly and mischievous character . However, a more humorous perspective is present, from the sarcastically arched and raised eyebrows that are stitched across his forehead.
Sage green and mysterious, his slightly beady eyes could easily dart across the room and stare at anything that moves.
However, his skin is clear, similar to a summer sky. There is no obvious freckle, dimple or spot eager to be shown insight. However, a natural blush rapidly seeps through and contrasts his flawless skin, as the moon contradicts the dark of the night.
Lying on the top of his oval skull, lies a bed of pale toffee hair, mixed in with beige highlights, which is cut to right above his obscured ears and tamed with the excessive use of gel.
He usually styles laid-back casual clothes which dangle heavily from his perpendicular shoulders, as a mysterious cracked smile creeps out and stretches from one end of his face to another. His posture, relaxed and rather slouched, suggests he has a calm and informal nature.';
Thanks ALOT!!!
Love Lucy XDGCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
Thats pretty impressive, I think thats a difficult task because if you get paired with someone ugly you have still got to try and write something good in order to not offend them! I think your doing pretty well at the moment, as for advice, I hated english with a passion so Ive not got much there apart from keep up the good work!GCSE ENglish Homework Advice/Help?
You are very descriptive and thats awesome, I think its great
its the best answer...you don't need any more of it....
other wise u know wat will happen????????????
that guy will sit on your head!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you have an amazing way with words, this is excellent
I need some advice, help, anything really.?
ok so ill start off by saying im 18 years old. i've never been on a date with a girl, never kissed, never had a girlfriend. I'm really not a shy person. im nice, funny, for the most part outgoing. but there seems to be a reoccuring problem. anytime i meet a girl, or attempt to get close to a girl (to eventually ask out on a date or something), i get nothing. i get shot down, lied to, ignored, or stood up. for a while, it never really bothered me. i kept my head up and moved on. but lately, ive been slipping into a sort of depression. im getting these strong feelings of loneliness. i know i shouldnt rely on a girl for my own happiness, but like, when you like a girl (or guy for girls reading this), you know you get a happy, warm feeling, and its great, you dont want it to go away. but when it does cause your shot down or ignored, it hurts and your happiness fades. thats what been happening to me. i ran into this new girl and we talked for a while, got to know each other, things were good. i got her contact information and a week later i asked her on a date. she hasnt gotten back to me for a while, and she ignores any wall comments on facebook. like, why am i having such bad luck. im just sick of being alone, sick of the heart aches, i dont want to fall into a deep depression. and my friends just tell me ';oh dont worry, you'll find the right girl... or youre time will come... or when you least expect it, you'll find someone'; easy for them to say when they've all had a gf or have one. just idk... i guess this is more of a vent really.I need some advice, help, anything really.?
well if you want to me to be completely honest..
do you think you are attractive? i know it shouldn't matter, but it does. and you seem like your personality and you are awesome.. so i don't know what else could be the problem! but yes your time will come don't worry.. look at all the beautiful girls that are single, you are single too. i am single. being single is better than being in a relationship that has problems and cheating. right? cheer up :)I need some advice, help, anything really.?
ok this is a great question for me to answer, not about never having a girlfriend, but getting over the depression regarding relationships. Me and the love of my life broke up about a year ago and me being depressed was an understatement. I actually caught myself with a gun in my hand about to commit suicide! I wanted her SOOOOOOOOO bad, you really have NO IDEA. I lost all intrest in things i normally would kill to do, i didnt eat, i couldnt sleep, all the worst things happened to me. Then out of the blue i snapped out of it, i started going out again with friends and my life is great now, and i look back and say i cannot believe i was like that. So hang in there, you have probably heard this a million times, and dont worry cause there was NO ONE that was more skeptical about that than me, but you will be happy again, guaranteed! just give it time. and remember this is coming from someone that more depressed than any human on the planet!!
do not rush it you will find the right person in do time and you will be surprise she will be the love of your life don't rush it just think god is the person that you need to talk to cause it takes a full year for god to prepare the right person for you so you need start preparing your self for that person
I know exactly how you feel. I didn't have my first real love till I was 18/19. He was my first for EVERYTHING.
I think you need to be more confident. Women can SMELL confidence from a mile away and they will Swarm at it. I'm not joking. I can pick up women at straight bars, when I'm looking for men... When I feel just right about myself. (I'm a chick)
When you get a girls digits, act cool. Say ';Thanks, I'll be callin.'; and walk away, don't attempt an OMG she is interested in me- converstion those usually ruin the deal.
And I don't know what your hygeine and looks are like but, shower. daily. Take a trip to Hollister, or if you like the grunge look The Buckle/Zumies. Get some New threads. (Just a word to the wise, no matter how retro or cool star wars or lord of the rings Tshirts and the movies sound... they aren't. )
Do you have a uni-brow? Do you wear deoderant? Do you brush your teeth daily? (I'm in SD and a lot of people here (Farmers) don't.) Do you stand up straight ? (Try it if you don't, big difference)
Try going tanning at a tanning bar, color does everyone some good.
Crest White strips work wonders. (Make sure your teeth aren't stained from juices or coffee.. yah know?)
Trim up the eye brows, make sure you don't have nose hair sticking out. Get some hair gel and make sure you know how to use it. Get contacts if you wear glasses (Just for a 'new you' look)
and smile.
Cleaning yourself up and knowing that a bunch of hawt @ss chicks are checkin you out is going to help with the confidence.
I know it all seems superficial, but It doesn't sound to me like you have come out of your shell at all. You still the same guy you were back in 10th grade. Break that mold babe. Changing how you look and feel about yourself is going to change other peoples perspectives of you.
Personally, I went through all of that change and more, and it helped me find out that I think looking good is key to success both professionally and personally... It also helped me be more confident in asking guys out and made me happier to know I was desirable.
I know now, that if guy gets my number he might call a week later, or that same day.. What do I care, I have a life. If he doesn't call... its not the end of the world, I have Sh!t to do and I'll live. There are always more people out there.
Take a different approach to how you are doing things... I guess thats what I am trying to say, figure out a new way into the dating scene.
And the girls that don't give you the time of day, give em' hell about it.
Or give me their names and I'll do it ;)
Chicks are NOTHING to get depressed about, we aren't that special anyway. We are emotionally unstable, dependant, narsassitic, half wits, and half of us don't know a good thing even when it hits us square in the face.
HTH
XO~
aww i'm so sorry that keeps happening to you. but if i were you in that situation i would go with what your friends are telling you, it might be hard but it's still good to kno you have people there to support you. Remember just because a girl hurts you does not mean you should tell yourself that you aren't good for anyone. There is more than just one girl in this world.
Hi Dear
Be yourself and you will find one soon
you kow hun i woul date you but i most likly live in another city, i also am taken/ madly in love and im 15 i think they call that Jail bait?
you need to stop looking.. get that self esteem back! like YOU said.. you cant be happy until you are happy w/ yourself! not every one is cute and super hot but everyone ends up w/ someone.. are you trying to get girls out of your league? work on yourself.. learn to love yourself i'm doing it now and its hard! i really need a guy to tell me i am sexy etc.. to feel good but learning i dont need that to feel good. and i'm just figuring this out @ midlife sweetie! xo
honestly it doesnt sound like a girlfriend is nessicarily what you need... more like a best friend thats a girl because then you can have a playful flirty thing which gives you that same kind of feeling you described and also having a friend thats a girl could help you get a girlfriend because girls read other girls better then any guy can...
and if you do need to talk anymore about this kind of thing you can email me. i'd be happy to help more (:
Your friends are right though it doesn't seem to help you. Just keep putting yourself out there. Don't give up on this, next time you meet a girl, make plans as well as getting her contact info. Be confident and maybe a little mysterious, make them wonder what will be next. Good Luck!
well if you want to me to be completely honest..
do you think you are attractive? i know it shouldn't matter, but it does. and you seem like your personality and you are awesome.. so i don't know what else could be the problem! but yes your time will come don't worry.. look at all the beautiful girls that are single, you are single too. i am single. being single is better than being in a relationship that has problems and cheating. right? cheer up :)I need some advice, help, anything really.?
ok this is a great question for me to answer, not about never having a girlfriend, but getting over the depression regarding relationships. Me and the love of my life broke up about a year ago and me being depressed was an understatement. I actually caught myself with a gun in my hand about to commit suicide! I wanted her SOOOOOOOOO bad, you really have NO IDEA. I lost all intrest in things i normally would kill to do, i didnt eat, i couldnt sleep, all the worst things happened to me. Then out of the blue i snapped out of it, i started going out again with friends and my life is great now, and i look back and say i cannot believe i was like that. So hang in there, you have probably heard this a million times, and dont worry cause there was NO ONE that was more skeptical about that than me, but you will be happy again, guaranteed! just give it time. and remember this is coming from someone that more depressed than any human on the planet!!
do not rush it you will find the right person in do time and you will be surprise she will be the love of your life don't rush it just think god is the person that you need to talk to cause it takes a full year for god to prepare the right person for you so you need start preparing your self for that person
I know exactly how you feel. I didn't have my first real love till I was 18/19. He was my first for EVERYTHING.
I think you need to be more confident. Women can SMELL confidence from a mile away and they will Swarm at it. I'm not joking. I can pick up women at straight bars, when I'm looking for men... When I feel just right about myself. (I'm a chick)
When you get a girls digits, act cool. Say ';Thanks, I'll be callin.'; and walk away, don't attempt an OMG she is interested in me- converstion those usually ruin the deal.
And I don't know what your hygeine and looks are like but, shower. daily. Take a trip to Hollister, or if you like the grunge look The Buckle/Zumies. Get some New threads. (Just a word to the wise, no matter how retro or cool star wars or lord of the rings Tshirts and the movies sound... they aren't. )
Do you have a uni-brow? Do you wear deoderant? Do you brush your teeth daily? (I'm in SD and a lot of people here (Farmers) don't.) Do you stand up straight ? (Try it if you don't, big difference)
Try going tanning at a tanning bar, color does everyone some good.
Crest White strips work wonders. (Make sure your teeth aren't stained from juices or coffee.. yah know?)
Trim up the eye brows, make sure you don't have nose hair sticking out. Get some hair gel and make sure you know how to use it. Get contacts if you wear glasses (Just for a 'new you' look)
and smile.
Cleaning yourself up and knowing that a bunch of hawt @ss chicks are checkin you out is going to help with the confidence.
I know it all seems superficial, but It doesn't sound to me like you have come out of your shell at all. You still the same guy you were back in 10th grade. Break that mold babe. Changing how you look and feel about yourself is going to change other peoples perspectives of you.
Personally, I went through all of that change and more, and it helped me find out that I think looking good is key to success both professionally and personally... It also helped me be more confident in asking guys out and made me happier to know I was desirable.
I know now, that if guy gets my number he might call a week later, or that same day.. What do I care, I have a life. If he doesn't call... its not the end of the world, I have Sh!t to do and I'll live. There are always more people out there.
Take a different approach to how you are doing things... I guess thats what I am trying to say, figure out a new way into the dating scene.
And the girls that don't give you the time of day, give em' hell about it.
Or give me their names and I'll do it ;)
Chicks are NOTHING to get depressed about, we aren't that special anyway. We are emotionally unstable, dependant, narsassitic, half wits, and half of us don't know a good thing even when it hits us square in the face.
HTH
XO~
aww i'm so sorry that keeps happening to you. but if i were you in that situation i would go with what your friends are telling you, it might be hard but it's still good to kno you have people there to support you. Remember just because a girl hurts you does not mean you should tell yourself that you aren't good for anyone. There is more than just one girl in this world.
Hi Dear
Be yourself and you will find one soon
you kow hun i woul date you but i most likly live in another city, i also am taken/ madly in love and im 15 i think they call that Jail bait?
you need to stop looking.. get that self esteem back! like YOU said.. you cant be happy until you are happy w/ yourself! not every one is cute and super hot but everyone ends up w/ someone.. are you trying to get girls out of your league? work on yourself.. learn to love yourself i'm doing it now and its hard! i really need a guy to tell me i am sexy etc.. to feel good but learning i dont need that to feel good. and i'm just figuring this out @ midlife sweetie! xo
honestly it doesnt sound like a girlfriend is nessicarily what you need... more like a best friend thats a girl because then you can have a playful flirty thing which gives you that same kind of feeling you described and also having a friend thats a girl could help you get a girlfriend because girls read other girls better then any guy can...
and if you do need to talk anymore about this kind of thing you can email me. i'd be happy to help more (:
Your friends are right though it doesn't seem to help you. Just keep putting yourself out there. Don't give up on this, next time you meet a girl, make plans as well as getting her contact info. Be confident and maybe a little mysterious, make them wonder what will be next. Good Luck!
I need some advice/help plz?
i just turned 15 i have been taken out of school when i was in first grade and i have been homeschooled ever since
i never ever leave the house unless i go grocery shopping with my grandma (i live with her) and i dont have any friends and im not allowed to go off on my own in the store and i cant leave the house unless someone is with me and that means i never get out because no one ever wants to go anywhere with me and there is no money :(i met this boy on the internet and they dont know yet but i asked could have a friend/boyfriend and they said no my dad is a selfish drug addict who only cares for himself and my mom is careless but not as bad as my dad he is always putting me down and calling me a whore and i feel like dying should i just stay locked in my bedroom untill im 18 or what? do you think what they are doing is fair? my grandma is my only friend the only one i really realy care for but shes in a bad marrige and shes always depressed and that makes me sad what should i do?I need some advice/help plz?
People have given you good advice here. About being careful who you meet on the internet. It really is dangerous to go off alone to meet a guy. He could be 40 years old and really hurt you. Also it seems good advice to tell a social worker, teacher, police officer or someone you can trust about your dad being a drug addict and you situation. You are not getting enough socialization I think and that can cause you to make some mistakes like meeting a person you think you know over the internet. good luckI need some advice/help plz?
Sit down and talk to your grandma.
1. The situation is not tolerable on a social level... you are missing out on a lot of inter-social education that only comes from associating with groups of kids your own age. This is the ultimate laboratory for learning social skills.
You need to go to a regular school... you might as well because your parents are already paying the taxes that pay for the local schools.
2. Ask about getting a job during the summer and after school. This will enable you to save some money and gain some real world job skills. See if your grandma will take you to a bank and help you open a savings account.
3. See if there is a nice church near you. The youth group can provide social interaction, and the youth minister can provide counseling services to help you through these rough spots.
4. Don't listen to your dad. He has no self-esteem and doesn't want you to have any. You only have 3 more years before you are 18 and can walk away from there. You might as well start a real plan to make your escape.
You will need money for a deposit on a place to live and probably utilities... even if it is a small garage apartment.
A job history will help you float a loan on a little used car AND float any college loans you may need if you can't get any grants or scholarships.
You should find a Big Brother Big Sister thing in your town. You sound like you really need more adults in your life. Good adults. Always remember - public school is free. I hate to say this - and I know it would be very hard to do because of your grandmother, but you should consider calling social services yourself. No one should live in the enviroment you live in. I think it would be WAY better for you in the long run, because your grandma can't help you until she can help herself. Same goes for you parents. There are TONS of parents who would totally appreciate you and spoil you. %26amp; just because you don't live with you grandma doesnt mean you cant see or talk to her often.
DAMN! that must suck! Well I'm glad you at least have the Internet! what the heck would we do without it!!!
I think you be careful talking to the guy on the Internet because it could be an old creep!! Tell you grandma you need more freedom...you need to socialize with teens your own age!!
Good luck!! wish u all the best!
I'm so sorry.
Honey you are being abused...this shouln't be happening to you. You need to tell the police so the can call chil welfare and get you out of that house and away from the enviroment you are growing up in. They will also help grandma once you begin to tell your story.
you're asking the wrong people for help but you are asking, that's good.
don't run away unless you run to the cops and stay away from the internet dude, he could be a psycho
God keep you safe.
I'm sorry but you do have the chance to talk to people on the Internet. Do not think bad of your self and try to get your mom to get you into a youth counseling because it is apparent that you need it. They may talk to your mother and help he. Drug addiction is he** and to be child in it is worse. tell your mom you do not like being called unworthy name and for your self esteem that has been tore down would she please try to help you rebuild it before you go out into this world and you get yourself into a mess that can not be fixed. Like some of these guys on the Internet . A girl I know end up with a virgin hunter on myspace and he used her and I think in one year he had 6 I'm not sure , but it continued for a while and then he broke her heart and I hear that was one of the nice guys on myspace. So be careful. people will take advantage of you. Being in a abusive and controlled situation.
For starters, please dont look on the internet for a boyfriend. It is a scary place to look especially if your 15.
Talk to your grandma, and explain to her that you need a little freedom, and that you arent going to do anything wrong. Maybe start by asking to just go for a walk around the block, or something to build the trust.
i never ever leave the house unless i go grocery shopping with my grandma (i live with her) and i dont have any friends and im not allowed to go off on my own in the store and i cant leave the house unless someone is with me and that means i never get out because no one ever wants to go anywhere with me and there is no money :(i met this boy on the internet and they dont know yet but i asked could have a friend/boyfriend and they said no my dad is a selfish drug addict who only cares for himself and my mom is careless but not as bad as my dad he is always putting me down and calling me a whore and i feel like dying should i just stay locked in my bedroom untill im 18 or what? do you think what they are doing is fair? my grandma is my only friend the only one i really realy care for but shes in a bad marrige and shes always depressed and that makes me sad what should i do?I need some advice/help plz?
People have given you good advice here. About being careful who you meet on the internet. It really is dangerous to go off alone to meet a guy. He could be 40 years old and really hurt you. Also it seems good advice to tell a social worker, teacher, police officer or someone you can trust about your dad being a drug addict and you situation. You are not getting enough socialization I think and that can cause you to make some mistakes like meeting a person you think you know over the internet. good luckI need some advice/help plz?
Sit down and talk to your grandma.
1. The situation is not tolerable on a social level... you are missing out on a lot of inter-social education that only comes from associating with groups of kids your own age. This is the ultimate laboratory for learning social skills.
You need to go to a regular school... you might as well because your parents are already paying the taxes that pay for the local schools.
2. Ask about getting a job during the summer and after school. This will enable you to save some money and gain some real world job skills. See if your grandma will take you to a bank and help you open a savings account.
3. See if there is a nice church near you. The youth group can provide social interaction, and the youth minister can provide counseling services to help you through these rough spots.
4. Don't listen to your dad. He has no self-esteem and doesn't want you to have any. You only have 3 more years before you are 18 and can walk away from there. You might as well start a real plan to make your escape.
You will need money for a deposit on a place to live and probably utilities... even if it is a small garage apartment.
A job history will help you float a loan on a little used car AND float any college loans you may need if you can't get any grants or scholarships.
You should find a Big Brother Big Sister thing in your town. You sound like you really need more adults in your life. Good adults. Always remember - public school is free. I hate to say this - and I know it would be very hard to do because of your grandmother, but you should consider calling social services yourself. No one should live in the enviroment you live in. I think it would be WAY better for you in the long run, because your grandma can't help you until she can help herself. Same goes for you parents. There are TONS of parents who would totally appreciate you and spoil you. %26amp; just because you don't live with you grandma doesnt mean you cant see or talk to her often.
DAMN! that must suck! Well I'm glad you at least have the Internet! what the heck would we do without it!!!
I think you be careful talking to the guy on the Internet because it could be an old creep!! Tell you grandma you need more freedom...you need to socialize with teens your own age!!
Good luck!! wish u all the best!
I'm so sorry.
Honey you are being abused...this shouln't be happening to you. You need to tell the police so the can call chil welfare and get you out of that house and away from the enviroment you are growing up in. They will also help grandma once you begin to tell your story.
you're asking the wrong people for help but you are asking, that's good.
don't run away unless you run to the cops and stay away from the internet dude, he could be a psycho
God keep you safe.
I'm sorry but you do have the chance to talk to people on the Internet. Do not think bad of your self and try to get your mom to get you into a youth counseling because it is apparent that you need it. They may talk to your mother and help he. Drug addiction is he** and to be child in it is worse. tell your mom you do not like being called unworthy name and for your self esteem that has been tore down would she please try to help you rebuild it before you go out into this world and you get yourself into a mess that can not be fixed. Like some of these guys on the Internet . A girl I know end up with a virgin hunter on myspace and he used her and I think in one year he had 6 I'm not sure , but it continued for a while and then he broke her heart and I hear that was one of the nice guys on myspace. So be careful. people will take advantage of you. Being in a abusive and controlled situation.
For starters, please dont look on the internet for a boyfriend. It is a scary place to look especially if your 15.
Talk to your grandma, and explain to her that you need a little freedom, and that you arent going to do anything wrong. Maybe start by asking to just go for a walk around the block, or something to build the trust.
Bankruptcy question need advice?help please?
Im 19 been on my own for something like 4 or five years, I finally got a bank account and kept it in good standing, after I lost my job and apartment due to a messy split with my boyfriend, I moved outta town to stay with a friend i have no job so im going back to school part time to get my diploma, the thing is in december 08 I withdrew 60 dollars more than I had, this has happened before but this time i couldn't pay it back, so its been racking up im scared to even look. I talked breifly with the bank they said too much time has passed and I cant get the overdraft taken off.
My question is what where and how do i get this off my back, is bankruptcy the answer. I would like to be able to move back to town and get a new apartment but who would give me one when i owe tons of money to the bank...help pleaseBankruptcy question need advice?help please?
Wow, you've been through more than most your age.
Great to see you are trying to get things back on track and be responsible.
You can't file bankruptcy for overdraft/NSF bank fees.
Unfortunately all you can do is work with them to pay it.
First thing you need to do is find out what the balance owed is.
You will have the overdraft charge, the amount of the charge itself ($60 in this case) and perhaps other applicable fees depending on the bank.
Of course there is the snowball effect that for every transaction thereafter will also have the above applied.
For example;
$100 in bank.
Used card for $160.
-$60 balance
-$30 overdraft fee
Now -$90 balance
Used card for $10
-$100 balance
-$30 overdraft fee
Now -$130 balance
And so on...
So yes, you have no choice but to call and ask what you owe and see if they can mail you a print-out so you can make arrangements to pay it back in payments.
If you don't do this, they can and very well may take legal steps for the money owed and you would have a judgment on your credit. (very bad)
It isn't the end of the world. It's just a splinter. :)
You can only do what you are able, but that is better than ignoring it when you know it won't 'go away'.
Hope this helps and good luck!Bankruptcy question need advice?help please?
the simple thing would be get a part time job and make payment's. Do you really want on you life for 10 year's that you filled that for one silly bill. Also get the bank to close your account. They should have done that already with so much time passed.
two way's to make money. One sell some of you stuff you can buy it back, or just don't need it.
two is donate plasma. I do that and make 240 a month. It's the only job I need. Best of all it tax free.
but really don't do that it seems stuppied.
My question is what where and how do i get this off my back, is bankruptcy the answer. I would like to be able to move back to town and get a new apartment but who would give me one when i owe tons of money to the bank...help pleaseBankruptcy question need advice?help please?
Wow, you've been through more than most your age.
Great to see you are trying to get things back on track and be responsible.
You can't file bankruptcy for overdraft/NSF bank fees.
Unfortunately all you can do is work with them to pay it.
First thing you need to do is find out what the balance owed is.
You will have the overdraft charge, the amount of the charge itself ($60 in this case) and perhaps other applicable fees depending on the bank.
Of course there is the snowball effect that for every transaction thereafter will also have the above applied.
For example;
$100 in bank.
Used card for $160.
-$60 balance
-$30 overdraft fee
Now -$90 balance
Used card for $10
-$100 balance
-$30 overdraft fee
Now -$130 balance
And so on...
So yes, you have no choice but to call and ask what you owe and see if they can mail you a print-out so you can make arrangements to pay it back in payments.
If you don't do this, they can and very well may take legal steps for the money owed and you would have a judgment on your credit. (very bad)
It isn't the end of the world. It's just a splinter. :)
You can only do what you are able, but that is better than ignoring it when you know it won't 'go away'.
Hope this helps and good luck!Bankruptcy question need advice?help please?
the simple thing would be get a part time job and make payment's. Do you really want on you life for 10 year's that you filled that for one silly bill. Also get the bank to close your account. They should have done that already with so much time passed.
two way's to make money. One sell some of you stuff you can buy it back, or just don't need it.
two is donate plasma. I do that and make 240 a month. It's the only job I need. Best of all it tax free.
but really don't do that it seems stuppied.
I need some advice/help..?
okay first of all i am a girl and a guy asked me out two days ago.. and i said yes so i guess we're together now.
before he asked me out, we were just friends. i always felt so comfortable talking to him, but after we admitted that we liked eachother.. it feels so awkward. i cant even look him in the eye..
and i cant talk to him like i used to. i feel so nervous...
i kinda liked it better back when we were just friends
what should i do?I need some advice/help..?
Normal.. It happens.. I also dated my BF a year back.. and we are still together.. Time will make you two come closer.. now you share different relation so its normal to have such feelings.. You'll be frank and open with him in few days..
Just be original.. Don't try to act someone you can't be.. If you are shy, let him know you are, if your feeling uneasy, let him know that.. if he loves you he'll know and make you feel comfortable.. Have a great time with him..I need some advice/help..?
Well just act like you did before around him when you were just mates and i dunno just kinda forget that your going out with him so you can be yourself around him. Or if you leave it a few days and see what happens if you still feel the same just tell him that feel awkward when your around him or just tell him you'd rather be mates. x
The best thing to do in this situation is to build up the courage and just joke with him like you used to. Because what your doing is instead of being you your actually thinking about what you do before you just do it. I guarantee if you just act like everything is fine he will start to like you alot more because he will see that things can be normal, because if your feeling the awkwardness I'm sure he is to. Let me know what happens if you decide to try it. Good luck :)
you should tell him how you feel, he might be bummed and upset, but the truth is always the best. tell him that you felt more comfortable talking to him as a friend and not more then that and that maybe in the future you could try again.
good luck.
You don't ask us this question. Ask your new boyfriend. Make it clear between you. He knows the dynamic between you guys has changed, but he's not sure how to act. Nor are you. Just figure it out over the phone in five minutes.
well first i would just wait it out.
when you first admit to liking each other things are always going to be a little awkward.
if things don't get better then maybe talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
Www, tough 1 ! just tell him how you feel .or try and make it work just try and talk to him and get over the nerves . Not much advicee but good luck
don't jump into anything you're not ready for. you're not committed. be yourself.
if thats what u believe then tell him that u prefer to be friends with him and nothing more
Wo..................STOP STOP STOP STOP.BEfore u go anywhere crazy doing thigns u dun wanna do..............GET YOURSELF clear.I mean crystal CLEAR. Do u like him n the first place? N do u knw whr you're heading................? ANd, look him in the eye......mayb you're just nervous.....u have to take sometime to accept your own feelings , you must b one of that type.SO if u knw u need some time to accept your own feelings, then, just learn to accept it. Tell him u need sometime alone for a while or something.
Otherwise, the only thing would be to tell him about it and see whether he can pull some magic and make u feel better. If the 2nd thing worked, it would really change things cause I guess u 2 would love each other by then......cause things would seem so perfect.But nobody knows what would happen until u tried.
Hey u came here, by your own intention, u can't deny that u did like him, otherwise u won't accept him/go out with him. SO, just relax, enjoy the fun.Mayb you're not used to it.....tell him, about how you're feeling. NOT directly, that will HURT him...just like how a guy saying, '; I feel weird/awkhard with u'; would hurt u.....ASk him things like, theres something I am not sure about.....can u help me, figure things out..? ANd stuff like that. Don't worry, honey, things will be fine. Trust me, trust yourself, trust your instincts, trust your feelings.Think with the mind, move with your heart.
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before he asked me out, we were just friends. i always felt so comfortable talking to him, but after we admitted that we liked eachother.. it feels so awkward. i cant even look him in the eye..
and i cant talk to him like i used to. i feel so nervous...
i kinda liked it better back when we were just friends
what should i do?I need some advice/help..?
Normal.. It happens.. I also dated my BF a year back.. and we are still together.. Time will make you two come closer.. now you share different relation so its normal to have such feelings.. You'll be frank and open with him in few days..
Just be original.. Don't try to act someone you can't be.. If you are shy, let him know you are, if your feeling uneasy, let him know that.. if he loves you he'll know and make you feel comfortable.. Have a great time with him..I need some advice/help..?
Well just act like you did before around him when you were just mates and i dunno just kinda forget that your going out with him so you can be yourself around him. Or if you leave it a few days and see what happens if you still feel the same just tell him that feel awkward when your around him or just tell him you'd rather be mates. x
The best thing to do in this situation is to build up the courage and just joke with him like you used to. Because what your doing is instead of being you your actually thinking about what you do before you just do it. I guarantee if you just act like everything is fine he will start to like you alot more because he will see that things can be normal, because if your feeling the awkwardness I'm sure he is to. Let me know what happens if you decide to try it. Good luck :)
you should tell him how you feel, he might be bummed and upset, but the truth is always the best. tell him that you felt more comfortable talking to him as a friend and not more then that and that maybe in the future you could try again.
good luck.
You don't ask us this question. Ask your new boyfriend. Make it clear between you. He knows the dynamic between you guys has changed, but he's not sure how to act. Nor are you. Just figure it out over the phone in five minutes.
well first i would just wait it out.
when you first admit to liking each other things are always going to be a little awkward.
if things don't get better then maybe talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
Www, tough 1 ! just tell him how you feel .or try and make it work just try and talk to him and get over the nerves . Not much advicee but good luck
don't jump into anything you're not ready for. you're not committed. be yourself.
if thats what u believe then tell him that u prefer to be friends with him and nothing more
Wo..................STOP STOP STOP STOP.BEfore u go anywhere crazy doing thigns u dun wanna do..............GET YOURSELF clear.I mean crystal CLEAR. Do u like him n the first place? N do u knw whr you're heading................? ANd, look him in the eye......mayb you're just nervous.....u have to take sometime to accept your own feelings , you must b one of that type.SO if u knw u need some time to accept your own feelings, then, just learn to accept it. Tell him u need sometime alone for a while or something.
Otherwise, the only thing would be to tell him about it and see whether he can pull some magic and make u feel better. If the 2nd thing worked, it would really change things cause I guess u 2 would love each other by then......cause things would seem so perfect.But nobody knows what would happen until u tried.
Hey u came here, by your own intention, u can't deny that u did like him, otherwise u won't accept him/go out with him. SO, just relax, enjoy the fun.Mayb you're not used to it.....tell him, about how you're feeling. NOT directly, that will HURT him...just like how a guy saying, '; I feel weird/awkhard with u'; would hurt u.....ASk him things like, theres something I am not sure about.....can u help me, figure things out..? ANd stuff like that. Don't worry, honey, things will be fine. Trust me, trust yourself, trust your instincts, trust your feelings.Think with the mind, move with your heart.
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