Fighting with my freind and need advice/help?

ok..my best freind has been acting really different but not in the greatest way and all my other freinds have noticed it to it isnt just me she is always tired and not her really funny self when we ask her a quetion she gives us a snotty answer and when class is over she just gets up and leaves without us. so at lunck me and my other freinds confronted her we said...u have been acting really different and we gave her examples like when we ask her something she gives us a snotty responce and stuff like that. after lunch i dont have classes with her but my toher freind does and after the classes my other freind said that she was really mad. in homeroom my teacher found a pic on the floor and ik it was my freinds so i give it to her and she says all snotty like thanks and i said jeeze and she was like jeeze is right and then she told the whole class that i called her a horible person and snotty and stuff like that and i told my side and she said that was a total lie and stuff then she called the whole class room immature and ik that i didnt say anything mean to her and now she is really mad at me and everyone even in that class sees that i didnt do anything wrong and she is the one being immature and now i dont know wat to doFighting with my freind and need advice/help?
i'm sorry this happened to you...your words obviously got twisted. i think you and your friends did the right thing in confronting her. you didn't do anything wrong. i would let things settle for a day or two and then confront your friend about why she lied. tell her it really hurt you.


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She may be depressed. that would lead her to isolate from friends, and to feel attacked all the time. Even if it didn't happen as she said, it may be real to her.





You need to try to talk to her again, on your own, don't include the other friends or it will seem like a show. Plan a time you can meet alone.





When you sit with her, tell her that first off you are sorry about what happened in class. Tell her that you didn't think you did or said those things, but you also know that she thinks you did, and it must be aweful for her. Tell her you are sorry it happened.





Tell her next that you are concerned she is depressed. Ask her why she is sarcastic. (not ';snotty';, but ';sarcastic'; would be better.) Ask if she still likes you, ask if she still likes the other friends. Don't be put off if she gives sarcastic remarks, she's probably just uncomfortable.





If she is depressed, encourage her to talk to her doctor about it. If she doesn't respond to you and continues to act weird, you might want to talk to her parents or another trusted adult to explain that she is acting out of character and that you are worried.





Good luck!