Friday, January 8, 2010

I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?

okay my boyfriend and his friend (who is a girl) have been friends their whole life because their parents where friends before they were born. Well recently her boyfriend broke up with her and shes been all sad, so he has been talking to her a lot more. Well yesterday he was over and i was talking about something important and she called crying and so he answered the phone got up and walked out the house and was talking to her and walked down the street. So i walked out too. They talked for about 30 min, no lie. Then he walked back up to me and as he finished he told her he loved her. I know that they are friends and all and i get it. so i haven't talked to him all day, then i sent him a text to tell him something and he told me that his friend was still over and blew me off. I get that they are friends, but is it okay to be feeling a little confused or worried, stuff like that? Should i talk to him, or what should i do?I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?
It's only natural to feel this way when your boyfriend is focusing so much attention on another girl, and you catch him telling her he loves her. I wouldn't jump on that too fast, just because he could see her like a ';sister.'; But you do need to talk to him about how uncomfortable this makes you. Tell him you feel unimportant, and that you feel like he's gotten maybe a little too involved with his friend-- that it just doesn't feel right with your relationship... But make sure you make it clear that you understand they are friends, and you don't have a problem with that. But he needs to know he's really hurting you. (And it would hurt anyone). How would he feel? (If he truly wouldn't care, then maybe it's time to rethink your relationship).





Hope all goes well. Don't ever be afraid to stick up for yourself! Good luck!I need boyfriend advice. HELP. =[?
id talk to him about it.... trust me hes seen this girl his entire life.... its like him kissing his sister... dont worry itll be fine... try to distract him... lol
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