okay first of all i am a girl and a guy asked me out two days ago.. and i said yes so i guess we're together now.
before he asked me out, we were just friends. i always felt so comfortable talking to him, but after we admitted that we liked eachother.. it feels so awkward. i cant even look him in the eye..
and i cant talk to him like i used to. i feel so nervous...
i kinda liked it better back when we were just friends
what should i do?I need some advice/help..?
Normal.. It happens.. I also dated my BF a year back.. and we are still together.. Time will make you two come closer.. now you share different relation so its normal to have such feelings.. You'll be frank and open with him in few days..
Just be original.. Don't try to act someone you can't be.. If you are shy, let him know you are, if your feeling uneasy, let him know that.. if he loves you he'll know and make you feel comfortable.. Have a great time with him..I need some advice/help..?
Well just act like you did before around him when you were just mates and i dunno just kinda forget that your going out with him so you can be yourself around him. Or if you leave it a few days and see what happens if you still feel the same just tell him that feel awkward when your around him or just tell him you'd rather be mates. x
The best thing to do in this situation is to build up the courage and just joke with him like you used to. Because what your doing is instead of being you your actually thinking about what you do before you just do it. I guarantee if you just act like everything is fine he will start to like you alot more because he will see that things can be normal, because if your feeling the awkwardness I'm sure he is to. Let me know what happens if you decide to try it. Good luck :)
you should tell him how you feel, he might be bummed and upset, but the truth is always the best. tell him that you felt more comfortable talking to him as a friend and not more then that and that maybe in the future you could try again.
good luck.
You don't ask us this question. Ask your new boyfriend. Make it clear between you. He knows the dynamic between you guys has changed, but he's not sure how to act. Nor are you. Just figure it out over the phone in five minutes.
well first i would just wait it out.
when you first admit to liking each other things are always going to be a little awkward.
if things don't get better then maybe talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.
Www, tough 1 ! just tell him how you feel .or try and make it work just try and talk to him and get over the nerves . Not much advicee but good luck
don't jump into anything you're not ready for. you're not committed. be yourself.
if thats what u believe then tell him that u prefer to be friends with him and nothing more
Wo..................STOP STOP STOP STOP.BEfore u go anywhere crazy doing thigns u dun wanna do..............GET YOURSELF clear.I mean crystal CLEAR. Do u like him n the first place? N do u knw whr you're heading................? ANd, look him in the eye......mayb you're just nervous.....u have to take sometime to accept your own feelings , you must b one of that type.SO if u knw u need some time to accept your own feelings, then, just learn to accept it. Tell him u need sometime alone for a while or something.
Otherwise, the only thing would be to tell him about it and see whether he can pull some magic and make u feel better. If the 2nd thing worked, it would really change things cause I guess u 2 would love each other by then......cause things would seem so perfect.But nobody knows what would happen until u tried.
Hey u came here, by your own intention, u can't deny that u did like him, otherwise u won't accept him/go out with him. SO, just relax, enjoy the fun.Mayb you're not used to it.....tell him, about how you're feeling. NOT directly, that will HURT him...just like how a guy saying, '; I feel weird/awkhard with u'; would hurt u.....ASk him things like, theres something I am not sure about.....can u help me, figure things out..? ANd stuff like that. Don't worry, honey, things will be fine. Trust me, trust yourself, trust your instincts, trust your feelings.Think with the mind, move with your heart.
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