Tuesday, April 27, 2010

10 points. Friend advice. Help? I'll answer your questions!?

Sorry, this is kinda lonnggg. Oh, well. Help me?





So, on Friday one of my friends had a party. (shes the type of friend that you hang out with at school and tell everything to but don't see outside of school) She had this party and at first it started out as a little gathering of like 6 people, but over the week she started to invite more and more people. By the end of school on friday she had 20 people coming. Guess what, I wasn't one of those 20.





Anyways, I was kind of mad about that but I went on with my life. Then Saturday I was texting one of the girls that went. I asked her, so how was the party? She said, a lot of drama! She then went on to tell me all the drama that went down.





She told me that somebody did something to one of my best guy friends and I was really concered about it. I told her that I wouldn't tell anybody that she was the one who had told me.





I then text the guy that got hurt and asked him if he was okay and he said not really. I said, well whatever it was, it wasn't your fault.





Next, on Monday everybody was saying that my guy friend had done something. I was concerned and asked him about it. He asked me who told me and I said that I couldn't tell him. (it was the girl who told me about what happened at the party) He kept bothering me about it so I told him because he was getting super annoying.





Once I told him who it was I asked him if he was mad at or the girl who told me and he said no. I asked him who he was mad at he said he was mad at the girl who threw that party.





I told him don't be.





He wouldn't listen.





Later the girl who told me texted me and said some stuff, then I told her I was sorry because I really was. We worked it out and we are friends now. However, the girl who threw the party is best friends with the girl who told me. Now party girl is super pissed at the girl who told me and the girl that told me is mad at party girl because of something else that happened at the party.





Party girl texted me and started attaking me about everything and she said that I went and told everybody and that he trusted her and now he hates her and all this stuff.





I told her that the only person I said stuff to was the guy (who is like one of my best friends) and that I never started to spread rumors. I told her that I wasn't mad at her and that I wasn't about to argue with her and talk sh** behind her back.





I am finished with that stupid middle school drama and I am not going to get involved anymore. When I say that I mean it.





I don't know what to do because she has burned me before and I forgave her and now she is getting mad at me and telling me that this would have never gotten out if I hadn't told anybody. I said to that I didn't anybody, just the one guy. I said sorry and told her I should have never opened my big a** mouth.





Now today she didn't talk to me and I'm not sure if I should talk to her or let her apologize to me. If I did tallk to her what would I say? I already apologized. And I am really not in the mood to fight or argue no matter what she says.





I mean, if I wanted to, I could pull together a pretty damn good agrument. However, I am just not going to be apart of that scene. What should I do? I mean she is the one who went behind the guy's back and told her best friend who told me.





Should I text her?





She is the only person mad at me.





I know why she is mad at me, but I don't get it. :/





What should I do???





Help PLEASE!





-thanks for reading%26lt;3


sorry it was so long:/


no stupid stuff, please10 points. Friend advice. Help? I'll answer your questions!?
if she doesnt want to talk to you, stop begging her to do so!


it seems like she just wants attention or something.. idk if i was you, since shes the only one whos mad at you and PLUSSS she DIDNT invite you to her party, then its you who shouldnt talk to her!


believe me, you shouldnt. maybe its going to be awkward or youll feel like you really need to talk to her, but eventually shell forget; and it is better if you just act normal and dont talk to her, unless she starts talking to you.


seriously, dont bother, you didnt do anything wrong and you know it!


dont let her manipulate you in any way or anything, just be yourself and be strong, even if its hard!

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