I`ve been with my girlfriend over 2 years now, where both only 17 and only ever been with each other, we fell in love and everything was great, then after a couple of petty arguments she told me she no longer ';fancied me'; and that she liked another lad. She still claimed to love me so i`ve been with her ever since but its disturbing me of how she just came out and said it in the way she did, i need to know whether to just end it now or continue going out with her, hoping that she actually finds me attractive again...since she told me she didnt fancy me anymore, she says she does now and its proper confusing :s any advice/ solutions to all of this.Any relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
shes playin you, just leave herAny relationship suggestions/advice? help?!?
Talk. To. Her.
Communicating will do you two the world of good. If she doesn't fancy you and if she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, she's being unfair on you and she needs to make the decision to stay or not. If she's willing to go the extra mile with you and work out what's best for both of you, then you two need to find a middleground that you both agree upon. You can do your part by finding out how to keep her interest with you and she needs to talk to you more often instead of bottling things up.
You two can then work from there.
It sounds like she don't know what she wants. You should give yourself some space from her and tell her to let you know when she is sure of what she wants.
I think that in the time you have been with her she has been slightly confused about whether she was 100% sure that she wanted to be with you. It's quite likely to happen as like you said she hasn't been with anyone else so she might have wanted to see what other relationships have been like.
But anyway you can love someone and not fancy them. Tbh me and my bf go through a lot of arguments and fall out all the time but we still love each other and wouldn't be able to live without each other (btw i'm 16 and he's 18)
If she said she fancies you again then trust her. You don't want to like start getting paranoid and think she might not because it could ruin your relationship tbh.
I'm sure you'll be fine and you sound like you have a nice normal open relationship which is good.
Give it time and you won't be as confused : )
Ive just read all your question yove ever asked..You need to end this relationship now! When i was in a 4 year relationship at 15 till 19..I would have done,and said n e thing to make my boyfriend finishe with me...i also know you know shes cheated..she dont want you hun she just aint got the guts to tell u. you argue,she lies,she has cheated n tells you she dont fancy you and she likes someone else!!! god b a man n dump her!!!!!! your better then that surely!!!!! x
she doesnt know what she wants, just give her a bit of time and space. Good luck (=
the thing is you are only 17
and im sure i fell in love many times and was 100% sure they were the one, but they where not
go out have fun and live a little how do you know this is love if you have never been given the chance too love another , if you and the girl are ment to be then im sure it will make you get back together.
Friday, April 30, 2010
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