Confused and really in need of advice/help (10pts)!!!!?

I met this guy years ago from my cousin and we say hi to each other everytime we see each other. then he dropped out and goes to a course in another town. he comes back in the holidays and one night we snuck out and met up. that was the first time we ever met up purposely and then we went to his house (went through his window) we ended up lying in his bed. my cousin says he's a slut, he says he has long term relationships, well he keeps on saying how beautiful i am and randomly kissed me i didn't do anything. then we constantly txted each other even when he went back to his course. every few weeks he'd stop txting and he came back again and he'd lost his fone but he didn't try and find a way to contact me. then wen i found him we started talking to each other on msn but when he stops contacting me he doesn't tell me he's not going to, he's told me he likes me and he knows i like him(I've liked him for yrs) I've met his mum,sister and childhood best friend, we have alot in common and we kiss and stuff all the time when we see each other but its not often and I don't know what sort of relationship we're in, its been weeks since we met up and he hasn't asked me out again (by ask out i mean to his house, its the only place we go) and i have asked wat sort of relationship we're in but he didn't reply.


Am i in a bf/gf relationship or friends with benefits relationship?


bothering me for weeks HELP!Confused and really in need of advice/help (10pts)!!!!?
You are a friend with benefits. Dump him and trust your cousin, I think they would know better and tell you the truth so you wouldn't get hurt. Move on. He's a jerk face that want what you got not who you are. -- sorry the truth is so hard.