Getting fingered and giving a hand shop advice!! Help!?

My boyfriend and I are both 16 years old, and he wants to finger me. I am a little nervous because I think pubes are really gross, and he thinks so too, and I'm nervous he's going to be grossed out by that. I know I would be, but i would deal with it. What should I do? I really want to do it, but i'm scared he will be grossed out. I shave, but i shave downwards so there is still some there, upwards hurts and causes bumps and ichyness. I would like to give my boyfriend a hand job too, but I am nervous too. I don't really know what to do, and I don't want it to be awkward, and I don't know how to go about it. What do I do?? Please help me!





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okayy, for the shaving.


shave upwards but let the hair grow in a bit more.


never do it every day! only when you need to.





try using soap, shower gel, baby oil, or shaving cream.


it helps a ton. you may have to go over the area more than once.


sometimes it will get red and maybe bleed a few minutes after shaving.


its not too bad.


dont worry about it being slightly red down there, chances are he wont be stairing at your privates during it.


all of this can be scary, i know.


dont be to worried about the handjob, just dont be rough with him. hes a guy (they masturbate lol) he should move your hand or arm if he wants you to speed up or something. he knows what he wants. just hold your hand like you would if you were making an O with all your fingers. up and down. easy as that. you can even try asking him what he wants in text or something beforehand if it comes up. if it seems awkward, just try to make it sexy.. like Make sure you let me know how you want it so your a happy guy by the time im done. or something silly like that lol!





i hope i helped relieve some pressure.


email me for more info if youd like.


im open for answers lol





btw, im 16 too.Getting fingered and giving a hand shop advice!! Help!?
Well for the hand job part just ask him how he likes it done and in reality pubes are there for a reason as they trap pheromones that enhances sexual pleasure. No pubes would be like messing with an 8 year old and that's just nasty. Sure it looks nice but would be an odd feeling doing anything sexual.. Have you tried the hair removal products like for legs.