hey just looking advice, my problem is that im 20 and still a virgin, im a very good looking guy, have an exxtremly athletic body, becoming quite well known/famous as a cage fighter, so i have pretty high value because of this and seeing how i receive soo much respect from people and will be fighting in front of crowds of thousands on tv etc.. but anyway i believe that i have the skills to get a girl, i am capable of getting numbers wen i go out the problem is i have turned down sex with a few girls in the past, girls that i havent been attracted to, girls that like me first, ive been drunk and thank god i am disciplined and strong minded enough to not have sex with them just because im horny, cos i knew i wud of regretted it. There is a few girls now that i know now who i beleive if i made the effort i cud have sex with, they are quite good looking and i wudnt hate myself for sleeping with them, but i just dont feel anythin for them... one girl invited me back to her house but i flaked on her, i dont know whether its because im scared/nervous or because deep down i know i shudnt sleep with her cos i dont have real strong feelings for her. bascially have u experienced anythin like this the first time u had sex, did u do it with someone u had feelings for? if i sleep with the girl, 1.) i will have the sexual confidence to get more girls and get one girl in particular who i want, but due to my lack of sexual experience dont think i can really get atm., 2). if i sleep with the girl it may create feelings for her.. but... i may regret it and just given my virginity to a girl who only wants me for my body/looks..
am i just making excuses for myself to cover up my anxiety of having sex? wud i be better off just doing it, i wud like a girlfriend but i think that once i get one and have sex i will prob feel like going out and getting other girls.. i feel like im missing out on alot of experience and fun, and i shud be enjoying myself whilst im still young..Girls sex advice!!! help?
Firstly dog you sound pretty stuck up. Who cares if you're a cage fighter, that has nothing to do with dating unless you're just picking up on hoodrats an sh*t like that. 2ndly dog, it's all about the approach. How you approach a woman, how you talk to them. If you're man enough to risk death in a cage, than you're man enough to talk to a girl, and make a move on her. Simple as that, you're making excuses big dog.
When you're next to a girl that likes you back, just put your arm around her shoulder, smile, look in her eyes and kiss her. She wont push you away, if she likes you.
And you're barely going to be able to have sex as it is, being a cage fighter. You better start having it now, or else remain a virgin for the rest of your life.
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