Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I need advice/ help/ anything about this boy..?

well you might not think its a big deal, but it's a huge deal for me. so a friend of mine asked me out last night on the phone. and i was so shocked because i was sure he liked someone else. so it caught me off guard. but i've never had a boyfriend before so i basically have no idea what to do at this point. i don't know if i like him out of impulse because i'm so desperate and no ones ever even liked me or because i really do like him. ???? um..,so what should i tell him. we haven't known each other for very long. only about a couple months. i want to get to know him more, and i don't want to loose our friendship. but i think i would like to go out with him, just not right this second. what should i tell him. he's so cute. kinda nerd chic, really smart, plays computer games, and is sensitive. i don't know what to do. any help? :) thank you. I need advice/ help/ anything about this boy..?
I think you should take it slowly since you are not sure and be sensitive to his feelings since you are friends. At the same time, I wouldn't go out with him just because you think no one else will go out with you. Life is long and you will definitely find many, many people who love you and who you love back. Go out with this guy only because you actually like him. Maybe try to get to know him more on a friendship basis in order to see if you have feelings for you. Maybe you could go to the movies or just hang out together alone, but just as friends. Let him know how you feel, that you could see yourself going out with him, but at this point in time, you don't know him well enough to be able to commit to something right now. Tell him that you think you should both get to know each other better before you make any decisions.I need advice/ help/ anything about this boy..?
Ur definately acting on impulse you only like him coz u found out that he likes you. Think to yourself did u even like him in the first place or look at him in that way. Trust me ive acted on impulse and it never turns out the way i wanted it to

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