I'm having a hard time. advice help? please?

I'm only 11 weeks.


I'm 16.


Please no comments about that I'm doing what is right and taking responsibility.





ok so.


I feel like I'm ALWAYS stressed out about something.


#1 Making my boyfriend happy.


I only get to see him on the weekend while he's all the way at job corps and I only get to talk to him on the phone, I hate talking on the phone, I really do. And we fight constantly when we're not together, but when we are together we don't fight.





#2 Eating.


I can't help but to eat when I crave it. My parents give me **** about it ALL the god damn time. And I hate it. My mom keeps telling me I'm going to be a whale. I mean I'm not eating to unhealthy just a few bad things here and there.





#3 Parents/School


I have came up with the plan on how I want to finish school when my baby is here. There's this online school here in Washington I want to do that, then I'm finishing school and able to watch my kid and the only time I need to have a baby sitter is when I'm at work. But my parents HATE that Idea because they want me to go to Bates community college, there is daycare I think.. I'm not sure though. I would go there finish highschool and do a trade at the same time but I don't really want to do that cause after highschool I wanted to do ITT tech, another online school only it's college.





#4 Smoking.


I don't smoke but when I see one I want to lundge at it and It's soo hard not to. I mean I only smoked for 3 years but Sheesh I just want ONE lil drag :(





Any advice?I'm having a hard time. advice help? please?
Well if you thought life was going to be easy then you were wrong. You made a bad choice but kudos to you for doing the mature thing and dealing with it. When it comes to your eating everyone has cravings but make sure to watch what you eat. Your 16 and your body isn't exactly at its prime stage to produce a healthy baby, your diet will either help or harm your child keep it in mind. With school you might want to listen to your parents. Many people who take the online classes get bored and tend to not finish them, you also need to get into the habit of a daily routine and going to a school will help you to do that. As far as smoking realize what it will do you your child. Hopefully you will make better choices by realizing your child is going to be affected by each one you make.





Keep you head up.I'm having a hard time. advice help? please?
Okay I know how hard it is to not smoke, through my whole pregnancy I kept telling myself this is your last one and that never happened. I kept myself to like 2 cigarettes a day and some days none at all, my doctor assured me that those two were not hurting my baby. It was really hard though, I am not a heavy smoker but damn I felt like I had been lol. Now that I am not pregnant I still for some odd reason feel guilty about it, probably because I know I should quit. My daughter died at birth and I beat myself up thinking it was because of my smoking but my doctor and other doctors told me that had nothing to do with it, her cord either had a kink in it or because it was wrapped around her neck. We will never know what the cause was but they know not because I had a half of a cigarette.





Eating, eat what ever you want my god you're eating for two. They can't tell you what you can and cannot have.
My advice is just keep it up. Explore your options for continuing school and then choose what's right for you. No one else can tell you what will work best for yourself. Also, it's great that you don't smoke, and even though I never have, I'm sure it's very hard to stay away. Just think of your healthy baby when you say no, you wont smoke. It may be hard but you'll get through it. As for eating. It's good to give into your cravings, sometimes your body craves what you need. Just don't eat too much at one time and you'll be fine. You're going to gain weight no matter what, you might as well enjoy yourself, lol. And for your boyfriend, there's not much you can do. Just take things one day at a time. Best of luck with your pregnancy and your baby :)
Im sure its hard that you only get to see your boyfriend on the weekends i don't think i'd be able to do that especially now that im pregnant i feel like i need him even more. It might be hard for awhile and stressing but it will all work out. As for eating i didn't crave much when i was 11 weeks it started when i was about 14 weeks or so it seems like i can never get full you just have to know that the baby is real small right now so you don't have to over eat and eating a little junk every now and then is fine just don't gain a lot of weight at once you will hate that in the long run. You have plenty of time to figure out what you want to do for school just think about what you want to do and don't listen to your parents think about what you wanna do not what they want you to do. Eww smoking that is very nasty to me im just glad you quit just stay away from people who are smoking and think about that little baby inside of you..best of luck
I don't have any pregnancy advice for you really as it sounds like you are going through basically normal feelings and there isn't too much you can do to change them. But I work at a community college and maybe it's different here in California but to take classes at a CC here you have to either be 18 years old OR have graduated from high school or gotten your GED. So if CC standards are the same in Washington, your parents idea about you finishing high school at the comm. college isn't going to work out like they think it is. Look into it and if that's the case you can tell them that and it will at least end the stress of that particular disagreement.