Tuesday, April 27, 2010

REALLY NEED ADVICE. help?

my man and I split up for 2 months, after being together 6 yrs...we were spending ALL our time togethere and not yet living together..we argued and he wanted a break.I admit i can be hard to live with/jealous etc...2 months later he came back as he missed me, we started dating 2 or 3 times a week and for first few weeks things were new and exciting.now it has been over a month and we are meeting up more and more.yesterday he has started to get 'crabby' and rude again with me, has started drinking and calling his drinking buddies again.why does he come back to me and settle then start this again?? the man is 28REALLY NEED ADVICE. help?
the chase is over so why keep trying .


did he miss you or did he miss the thort of you not being with you


sounds to me like he wants to be with you and his friends he has to decide what he wants moreREALLY NEED ADVICE. help?
If he isn't grown up by 28, he won't grow up... sorry. If you aren't happy with his behavior (and it hasn't changed after 6 years), then it's time to move on. And I say, good riddance to a guy that doesn't appreciate you.
He is acting like this because he can. He gets to go off and ';take a break'; (which is code for ';going out and seeing if he can find something better';), and when he comes back for some more free sex, you're ready and willing to give it to him. Ask yourself, if you were him, would you respect you?
a known devil is better than an unknown angel





He perhaps loves you the usual way, and wishes not to change





The saying goes like this ----


man marries a woman thinking that she wont change


and the woman marries a man that he will in due course





But nothing happens and hence the trouble.





Take people for what they are and you will enjoy your life.
He's stuck between being a boy and a man. His emotional intelligence is not yet developed. He loves the security of you and the freedom of being single.
Age doesn't matter, just so you know, it can happen to anyone. He may just be reacting to your ';jealousy'; or ';controlling'; ways. Chances are, if you are jealuos, you are controlling. Not always, but often. He may really like you, or it may just be about easy sex. Maybe if you can figure out if it's because you come off controlling or not you'll know what to do next...If you aren't, it may be that this one just isn't going to work out...
Know the situation myself. It's the easy sex. That is it. Cheers.
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