I need boy advice, help!?

I really love him.


I broke up with him 3 times!


We're currently not together.


I feel like I don't want him when I have him.


And when I don't have him, I want him!





What is wrong with me?!I need boy advice, help!?
I think you need to evaluate what it is that you like as well as dislike about him, then determine which is more important to you. Once you decide your true feelings about him, then you have to either accept the bad with the good, or give up on the good because the bad is just too much.





The fact that you have broken up with him 3 times already doesnt bode well for this being a long term relationship. Only you can make this decision.I need boy advice, help!?
ok if you really love this guy than you do need to think about if you still want to be with him if you broke up with him 3 times already than who knows if he would want to get back with you he probably loves you to and you broke up with him. so what i suggest you do is get a pen and paper type it on microsoft word. and write down everything you like/love about him, and than write another list that says what you dont like and instead of keeping on breaking up with him talk to him about what you dont like because something has to happen if people dont want to be together anymore, and maybe that will make your life a little bit easier because you said your self your in love with him and if you are let him know instead of breaking his heart. And if you dont want him when you have him thats how every girl especially myself is because i just dont feel like being with that person or i feel like they dont want to be with me and it all turns out that i do want them at the end.
that is a tough one. if you broke up with him 3 times im guessing that you have been togather for a long time. usually in a relationship when people are togather for a long time it becomes like a Habit. he becomes you're everyday routine. when you're not with him you want him because you're routine has changed and you don't know were to start or what to do. my advice is be done with him for good if he is that bad, it is going to be hard. or really try to work it out. have a sit down with him and talk. talk about what needs to be done and what you want as well as what he wants. good luck on you're decision.
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mabye, when your together your happy but twhen you break up you need someone to be with. to support you, mabye you remember he used to and want to go to him for a way to deal with it. It may be difficult but you need to move on, your friends should help. Try seeing meeting people :)
even though they say third times the charm,,its not true the same thing happened to me maybe in your situation it just isn't meant to be there are a lot of fish in the water so be ready to dive in:) remember its just a boy,,go with your heart.
Well if he's a good bf then the problem is you and if you keep this up you will lose him. Trust me he is going to be like ***** it if you keep playing games...but if there were good reasons for you to break up with him then maybe he's not the one.
we always want what we can't have. it doesn't seem like you really care for him if you always want out of the relationship when you are together. it's best to just try and forget about him-think of his feelings- the poor guy's probably in pieces over this..
i have the same problem you fight alot?


what you have to do is find out what you always argue or fight about and then stop doin it i just did that with my X were not together but our relationship is much betr now and soon im sure well be together again
I think it might have a chance. its going to take a lot of communication, probation, and a whole lot of time. but if he is abusive, the right thing to do would be to cut off all contact from him so that you may have a chance to get over him.
nothing girl, you just need to experience some other guys. When you find a better one(since you broke up with him three time he can't be great), you will forget all about him. BTW, Benjamen is a TOTAL moron jerk off.
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Hey, you don't love him.


And you deff don't love him if you don't even want him when you have him.


Selfish idiot!
He might change when he's close to you and acts weird and it pisses you off. but when you are separate he acts like himself and you like that part of him??
you are a selfish twisted *****. that's what's wrong with you. why are there so many girls like that?
sorry but you sound very confussed about wat you want and wat you dont want!!! sorry but sort your life out and until then you should just leave him alone.
Figure out what you want and stick with it.. give it a little time when your with him. you cant keep playing with his emotions...
Your probably like 14, that's what's wrong with you. Grow up first, then date. This isn't neverland and your not tinkerbell.
Nothing is wrong, you just need to get your priorities straight. Good luck. :-)
nuffin wrong...yous normal like...
Your a bzzzz


Your not in love whateverrr don't use him like that


Your prob jusss jealous?
ur just another girl tht is confused
You're selfish


get over it.
People always want what they can't have...
your bloody slack that's whats wrong with you
let him go. that is very unhealthy.
it happens to alot of people.


dont worry about it


you are just not over him....


time will heal
Great question I have the exact problem ugh... I wish I had a answer for you hun I really wish I did??? :(
My advice...want him when you have him, if not you're wasting your time, but more importantly his.
it doesn't seem like you want him that bad then. move on.
yes listen to him!
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